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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

With out depressing others ????

Who to tell or talk to ????

friends are busy and you dont wanna bother them etc.

Its the ONLY time i wished i didnt live alone ...

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

We all here for you hun, whats up? Just PM any of us and we'll be gald to listen to your woes, anytime xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks hun

xxxx

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By *aughty_kittyWoman over a year ago

finger licking good

ring childline

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By *aughty_kittyWoman over a year ago

finger licking good

nope i ment samartians lol i ring them now and again for a chat, i swear they hate me tho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We all here for you hun, whats up? Just PM any of us and we'll be gald to listen to your woes, anytime xx"

ditto

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"nope i ment samartians lol i ring them now and again for a chat, i swear they hate me tho

LOL Bless xx

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By *exeteraWoman over a year ago

Bridgend

You can always have a rant with one of us peaches hun xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks all.

its gonna be a tuff few myhs and im sat here with tears running down my face and hard to see me keyboard .

But gonna keep smiling as much as i can.

Im a tuff old bird...

No way am i gonna be depressing.

If i am.beat me up ok.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman over a year ago

finger licking good

peaches i cant mail ya, u blocked me ya bugger lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

call us hun if itll help you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

peaches if ya need a chat you know where i am

sending you lots hugs

((((((hugs))))))

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you all so much.

im off to wipe the tears away...

Nearly wrote rears then

i do appreciate all the offers and advice...i really do.

xxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let it out sweetie. I know it can feel like the World is about to end sometimes but releasing it is often quite cathartic.

Always here if you need an impartial chat. I do hugs too xXx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank you all so much.

im off to wipe the tears away...

Nearly wrote rears then

i do appreciate all the offers and advice...i really do.

xxxxxxxxxx"

you can wipe my rear if it makes you feel better tho

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"With out depressing others ????

Who to tell or talk to ????

friends are busy and you dont wanna bother them etc.

Its the ONLY time i wished i didnt live alone ...

I guess Independance does have a downside..

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

Things happen in life that we have no control over, and even if we have dozens of family and friends around us we still find it hard to cope. But we do cope without even realising it, take one day at a time and take comfort from those who love you and care about you and will always be there for you. xx

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By *ebzStarWoman over a year ago

Notting

Oh peaches - i hope that you are ok hunny!!!!

I know how it feels when you dont wanna burden your friends - but they would be MORE upset that you didnt talk to them!!!

MY mate knows when i am not ok cos i go quiet and stay away - and thats when she makes more effort to keep in touch with me.

Even if its just to rant or cry - those feelings need to be shared hun.

After all - friends arent just there for the good times - you would support them through the bad so why not let them support you.

Pick up the phone darlin and give em a ring xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Hey Peaches, hope you are ok

I know we havent met but have chatted a bit on here so sorry to hear you are feeling down

i am sure you have lots of people offering to lend a sympathetic ear and if you feel that down then you should take them up on it. It does no good to keep it all bottled up.

no matter how silly you feel the reason is everyone will be there to support you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Right Peaches listen carefully . . .

GIVE ME A SHOUT.

I have told loads of people to shout if they need and ear and I do mean it.

I have no objection to being phoned at stupid o'clock.

I have no objection to listening while someone rants in my ear or on my lappy screen.

THATS WHAT FRIENDS ARE FOR.

Sometimes a problem vocalised makes it easier to see the solution.

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know exactly how you feel Peaches, I'm single and sometimes you just need someone to bounce things off and have a jolly good moan with.

I know we've never met, but if you ever want to natter then please feel free to get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

let it out!! you know here there are people who will listen who dont know you and who wont judge and even if its just gettin it all out it can make you feel a helluva load better!! xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right Peaches listen carefully . . .

GIVE ME A SHOUT.

I have told loads of people to shout if they need and ear and I do mean it.

I have no objection to being phoned at stupid o'clock.

I have no objection to listening while someone rants in my ear or on my lappy screen.

THATS WHAT FRIENDS ARE FOR.

Sometimes a problem vocalised makes it easier to see the solution.

Shona

x x x "

How glad was I for your ear at stupid o' clock with a recent health issue I had hun? mwaaahhh xxx

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By *lay69withusCouple over a year ago

herefordshire

i had the worst year of my life last year, very very bad.

got loads of help off the doctors, they were great listeners and put me in touch with people who could help.

my best advice? take these kind people up on their offers of help. just talking about my problems helped loads.

good luck hun, all the best xx

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By *mumaWoman over a year ago

Livingston

Peachy one, feel free to rant to me, I have broad shoulders and don't mind them getting soggy for you.

Big booby hugs babe.

-Wendy xx

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