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Do you take compliments with a pinch of salt?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?
I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i dont get that many  
i want men to meet me because they think we will have fun together, and i am a nice person, not because i look really good. if they are that bothered about looks then they arent really my type, obviously you have to be attracted to someone a bit though.
they usually say they like my hairy pussy and my pictures, and i cant disagree with them about that.
always say thanks, as its polite.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe men will tell you anything to get in your knickers. I'm a pessimist! "
Same applies to women it aint just males though that try flattery but as i am a slapper who cares  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a 3some with a bloke who was constantly complimenting Donna, and I mean over the top compliments, she got annoyed with it in the end and told him she doesnt want or need compliments she just wanted fcuking |
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By *GR2014Man
over a year ago
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"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?
I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters."
Believe a compliment after a man has made love to you only!!!! and I don't mean "fucked you" the saying goes women can live on compliments and water... Myself I can hold a conversation but many men need bullshit has I means to bed you so yes take it with a pinch of salt!!! Met many a pig on vanila sites with really shit attitudes because they think there beauty queens... All it tell a me is they've had allot of cocks and a sucker for a compliment.... Sorry this reply aint very tactical or very nice but its factual.. (In my opinion which we all deserve) |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I believe men will tell you anything to get in your knickers. I'm a pessimist!
Same applies to women it aint just males though that try flattery but as i am a slapper who cares "
Not in my case. I wouldn't give false compliments to get into a bloke's pants. Any compliment I give is genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?
I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters."
Yes same here unless I know the person well  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Compliments are nice but sadly too many don't mean them or try to make a girl feel like she is more special than the others. Just timewasters and game players. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?
I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters.
Believe a compliment after a man has made love to you only!!!! and I don't mean "fucked you" the saying goes women can live on compliments and water... Myself I can hold a conversation but many men need bullshit has I means to bed you so yes take it with a pinch of salt!!! Met many a pig on vanila sites with really shit attitudes because they think there beauty queens... All it tell a me is they've had allot of cocks and a sucker for a compliment.... Sorry this reply aint very tactical or very nice but its factual.. (In my opinion which we all deserve) "
Why were you meeting pigs? or chatting to them then. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?
I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters."
I am not very good at accepting compliments at all especially in person. I never quite know what to say or how to take them.
Most on here I take with a pinch of salt and ignore as they more than likely say the same things to everyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We had a 3some with a bloke who was constantly complimenting Donna, and I mean over the top compliments, she got annoyed with it in the end and told him she doesnt want or need compliments she just wanted fcuking "
In my opinion that is disrespectful to the husband or partner!!! There was two of you there after all. Did he cry in her arms afterwards too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never take compliments well, a girl said I was good looking an went bright red and didn't speak for a few minutes lol"
I do this lol but I am getting better at saying thank you instead of disagreeing with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We had a 3some with a bloke who was constantly complimenting Donna, and I mean over the top compliments, she got annoyed with it in the end and told him she doesnt want or need compliments she just wanted fcuking
In my opinion that is disrespectful to the husband or partner!!! There was two of you there after all. Did he cry in her arms
afterwards too? "
lol no there was no crying, I dont mind anybody complimenting Donna but it was just way over the top, I think if she had shit herself he would of said how wonderful her shit was  |
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By *GR2014Man
over a year ago
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"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?
I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters.
Believe a compliment after a man has made love to you only!!!! and I don't mean "fucked you" the saying goes women can live on compliments and water... Myself I can hold a conversation but many men need bullshit has I means to bed you so yes take it with a pinch of salt!!! Met many a pig on vanila sites with really shit attitudes because they think there beauty queens... All it tell a me is they've had allot of cocks and a sucker for a compliment.... Sorry this reply aint very tactical or very nice but its factual.. (In my opinion which we all deserve)
Why were you meeting pigs? or chatting to them then."
People sometimes not like there pics and I don't judge book by cover once there I'd prefur to read the pages and explore the content |
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By *GR2014Man
over a year ago
England |
"Compliments are nice but sadly too many don't mean them or try to make a girl feel like she is more special than the others. Just timewasters and game players."
Maybe a girl who feels cherished performs better between the sheets.. A thought not a statement !!! |
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By *GR2014Man
over a year ago
England |
"We had a 3some with a bloke who was constantly complimenting Donna, and I mean over the top compliments, she got annoyed with it in the end and told him she doesnt want or need compliments she just wanted fcuking
In my opinion that is disrespectful to the husband or partner!!! There was two of you there after all. Did he cry in her arms
afterwards too?
lol no there was no crying, I dont mind anybody complimenting Donna but it was just way over the top, I think if she had shit herself he would of said how wonderful her shit was "
Maybe it was first time the guy had done swinging? maybe next time he would be more reserved? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never take compliments well, a girl said I was good looking an went bright red and didn't speak for a few minutes lol"
You are hot
I am the same though. I normally think they are taking the mick or want something 
Sarah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would suggest that even if the complimentor is throwing out blarney like it was from a belt fed bullshit gun, if the intent is to make someone feel better about themselves, with or without the aim of relieving said person of their undercrackers, then the compliment should be taken as intended.
I personally love folk telling me how handsome, witty and well toned I am.
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"I would suggest that even if the complimentor is throwing out blarney like it was from a belt fed bullshit gun, if the intent is to make someone feel better about themselves, with or without the aim of relieving said person of their undercrackers, then the compliment should be taken as intended.
I personally love folk telling me how handsome, witty and well toned I am.
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 You are handsome, witty and well toned   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would give out compliments when chatting to someone on here (male and female), its all part of the banter, I wouldn't over do it, some might be back handed compliments as well but I wouldn't give out a false compliment ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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pinch of salt, i think most men just cut and paste the same message to every women on here in the hope that at least one will reply, i think if i sent a message back to say thank you they would have to re open my profile to see who i was, which is why i vary rarely reply to message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just because you compliment someone doesnt always mean you want to have sex with them, or mean that they are lying though. have you ever thought someone looked nice, then changed your mind, when sober i mean, i have.
sometimes you see their picture, then see a different one and they dont look so apealing. |
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"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?
I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters.
Believe a compliment after a man has made love to you only!!!! and I don't mean "fucked you" the saying goes women can live on compliments and water... Myself I can hold a conversation but many men need bullshit has I means to bed you so yes take it with a pinch of salt!!! Met many a pig on vanila sites with really shit attitudes because they think there beauty queens... All it tell a me is they've had allot of cocks and a sucker for a compliment.... Sorry this reply aint very tactical or very nice but its factual.. (In my opinion which we all deserve)
Why were you meeting pigs? or chatting to them then."
and how did said pigs use their trotters to type  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We British are are notorious for not accepting compliments and praise...i for one like to genuinely compliment people around me daily as it makes them smile and feel good...wouldn't the world be a better place if we all did?  |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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Always love when my partner pays me
a complament as i no it comes from the heart and he means it, as regards other we just take with a pinch of salt as guys often say mrs is stunning just from our profile pic never really no why they want face pics then lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yea I take compliments with a huge pinch of salt. Lots of men on here would fuck anything ( evident from their verifications) so I just don't take any notice unless it's a regular fuck buddy really x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?
I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters.
Believe a compliment after a man has made love to you only!!!! and I don't mean "fucked you" the saying goes women can live on compliments and water... Myself I can hold a conversation but many men need bullshit has I means to bed you so yes take it with a pinch of salt!!! Met many a pig on vanila sites with really shit attitudes because they think there beauty queens... All it tell a me is they've had allot of cocks and a sucker for a compliment.... Sorry this reply aint very tactical or very nice but its factual.. (In my opinion which we all deserve)
Why were you meeting pigs? or chatting to them then.
and how did said pigs use their trotters to type "
Sorry, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you'd have to be a fool to believe every kind word uttered on here... I see in chat all the time guys telling women on cam that they're stunning, most amazing looking woman on here etc then not even 5 mins later the same patter is transferred to the next lady... I'm appreciative of any nice comments received but as per most of the ladies above I take them with a massive pinch of salt! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"Im just greatful there are guys desperate enough to fuck fat whale types... lol  "
Surely you mean lovely curvy girls with great eyes?
I take it with a ginormous pinch of salt when some guy sends me a message saying, 'you look wonderful. Better than many real girls. Fancy a fuck?'  |
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"I tend to take life with a pinch of salt, its too short to take everything seriously!"
But the genuine compliments from friends who respect you and those whom we respect are welcomed and said with a warm heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes a compliment is just that, a compliment, and dont all have an ulterior motive.
If i think a woman is beautiful or has a lovely figure or some other asset i will compliment her on it.
Its the way i was brought up, i still hold a door open and offer a chair, let the lady walk first.
Its being a gentleman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe men will tell you anything to get in your knickers. I'm a pessimist!
Same applies to women it aint just males though that try flattery but as i am a slapper who cares
Not in my case. I wouldn't give false compliments to get into a bloke's pants. Any compliment I give is genuine. "
This
I have a very good intuition also and can tell when someone is bullshitting! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
Depending on context, if it's not too OTT it's nice to receive a compliment or forty-seven but I don't let it go to my head seeing as I already know I am the most stunning woman on this site and even Holly Willobooby would take one look at me and get a bag for her head
Serf, pass me another peeled grape immediately |
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