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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So annoying when you read a status update,you know you can help that person but they have people of your kind blocked for messaging!I think that if you don't want messages from couples or single men/women gays or trannys you shouldn't be able to _iew that particular profile,would save a lot of time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So annoying when you read a status update,you know you can help that person but they have people of your kind blocked for messaging!I think that if you don't want messages from couples or single men/women gays or trannys you shouldn't be able to _iew that particular profile,would save a lot of time."
I know what you mean  |
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"Perhaps they're just venting and don't actually want/need any help?
I mean when that update indicates they need help,not venting."
If they really needed help would this be the first port of call?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, No, No
on these quiet winter nights, there is better drama played out via updates than there is on ITV and BBC combined."
And it works out cheaper than a licence fee  |
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"Perhaps they're just venting and don't actually want/need any help?
What I was thinking, if not they'd remove filters. "
Perhaps they already have friends who can help and will do so when they see the update.
I sometimes post in my updates if I'm looking for a meet and it's amazing how men who don't match what I'm looking for and are at the other end of the country get sulky when I point this out.
The person in question has deemed you outside of their preferences. So no matter how much you could assist it's time to accept and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps they're just venting and don't actually want/need any help?
What I was thinking, if not they'd remove filters.
Perhaps they already have friends who can help and will do so when they see the update.
I sometimes post in my updates if I'm looking for a meet and it's amazing how men who don't match what I'm looking for and are at the other end of the country get sulky when I point this out.
The person in question has deemed you outside of their preferences. So no matter how much you could assist it's time to accept and move on."
Nothing to do with meeting but thanks for your comment. |
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"Perhaps they're just venting and don't actually want/need any help?
What I was thinking, if not they'd remove filters.
Perhaps they already have friends who can help and will do so when they see the update.
I sometimes post in my updates if I'm looking for a meet and it's amazing how men who don't match what I'm looking for and are at the other end of the country get sulky when I point this out.
The person in question has deemed you outside of their preferences. So no matter how much you could assist it's time to accept and move on.
Nothing to do with meeting but thanks for your comment."
The meet comment was an illustration not a reference to you wanting to meet them. Try reading my post again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually u only post a loada twaddle on the updates or a couple lines from a song - most of them seem to say things like 'doing the ironing' bla bla.
I guess if people seriously need some assistance I would have thort it unlikely they'd do it via a post |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok some people clearly don't understand my original post.There was a status update question the other day about a car.I am a mechanic and had a simple answer to the question.I couldn't help because I couldn't message,so what was the point in seeing that status update in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps they're just venting and don't actually want/need any help?
I mean when that update indicates they need help,not venting.
If they really needed help would this be the first port of call?!!"
Yes for many!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok some people clearly don't understand my original post.There was a status update question the other day about a car.I am a mechanic and had a simple answer to the question.I couldn't help because I couldn't message,so what was the point in seeing that status update in the first place."
Are you wanting to offer help without motive though? Would you offer to help a single bloke who had put up the same status? |
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I think I see your point but filters can be set for all sorts of things such as age ranges sex etc that I figure it will be too complicated to remove them from appearing on search results as each profile will be different.
I'm sure they got their help from someone else so it's all good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok some people clearly don't understand my original post.There was a status update question the other day about a car.I am a mechanic and had a simple answer to the question.I couldn't help because I couldn't message,so what was the point in seeing that status update in the first
Are you wanting to offer help without motive though? Would you offer to help a single bloke who had put up the same status? "
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"I think what he's trying to say is if like us single men can't message you, then single men shouldn't be able to _iew your status or profile,
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But even though some profiles say 'not looking for single men' and have them filtered this'll because they want to do the looking and messaging. So if they then messaged you re a meet you wouldn't be able to see their profile to decide if you want to respond. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I understand what you are saying mate. It makes perfect sense. It could work the same way as the filters. You wouldn't be able to see the profile unless they messaged you first "
Spot on!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think what he's trying to say is if like us single men can't message you, then single men shouldn't be able to _iew your status or profile,
But even though some profiles say 'not looking for single men' and have them filtered this'll because they want to do the looking and messaging. So if they then messaged you re a meet you wouldn't be able to see their profile to decide if you want to respond. "
Sorry I don't understand that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your not desperate and crying into your pillow and gnawing at your knuckles in anguish or distress because you can't help are you? They've put filters up, they don't want you to contact.
It doesn't matter if you can see the status, one tap on the keyboard and you know you cant message. It shouldnt bother you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also wish that by blocking someone it would stop their pics showing on the most recently uploaded.
He uploads the same bareback arse fucking pics on a daily basis. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I also wish that by blocking someone it would stop their pics showing on the most recently uploaded.
He uploads the same bareback arse fucking pics on a daily basis."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your not desperate and crying into your pillow and gnawing at your knuckles in anguish or distress because you can't help are you? They've put filters up, they don't want you to contact.
It doesn't matter if you can see the status, one tap on the keyboard and you know you cant message. It shouldnt bother you "
I only said it was annoying calm down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am calm, it was you that felt strongly enough to start the thread and my post is a contribution to your thread - because I'm nice like that and I wanted to help |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am calm, it was you that felt strongly enough to start the thread and my post is a contribution to your thread - because I'm nice like that and I wanted to help "
Yes but if I had people in your category blocked you wouldn't be able to message me and help. |
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"I am calm, it was you that felt strongly enough to start the thread and my post is a contribution to your thread - because I'm nice like that and I wanted to help
Yes but if I had people in your category blocked you wouldn't be able to message me and help."
Yes she would.
Cos you posted this in open forum not on your status!  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I've come across a similar thing when someone has posted a topic in the forum asking for dogging locations, local to me. Ahem, as a girly who knows her way around the local woods, I can generally help out with these queries, but obviously not in the open forum. When they have a block on messages from Tv/CD etc, I find I can't drop them a line with a list of locations and the beginners guide to dogging....  |
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"I am calm, it was you that felt strongly enough to start the thread and my post is a contribution to your thread - because I'm nice like that and I wanted to help
Yes but if I had people in your category blocked you wouldn't be able to message me and help.
Yes she would.
Cos you posted this in open forum not on your status! "
Status updates. |
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"I've come across a similar thing when someone has posted a topic in the forum asking for dogging locations, local to me. Ahem, as a girly who knows her way around the local woods, I can generally help out with these queries, but obviously not in the open forum. When they have a block on messages from Tv/CD etc, I find I can't drop them a line with a list of locations and the beginners guide to dogging.... "
But if they've posted in a forum you can post on the thread saying you have lots of advice and suggestions and ask them to pm you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've come across a similar thing when someone has posted a topic in the forum asking for dogging locations, local to me. Ahem, as a girly who knows her way around the local woods, I can generally help out with these queries, but obviously not in the open forum. When they have a block on messages from Tv/CD etc, I find I can't drop them a line with a list of locations and the beginners guide to dogging....
But if they've posted in a forum you can post on the thread saying you have lots of advice and suggestions and ask them to pm you."
But we are talking about status updates not forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've come across a similar thing when someone has posted a topic in the forum asking for dogging locations, local to me. Ahem, as a girly who knows her way around the local woods, I can generally help out with these queries, but obviously not in the open forum. When they have a block on messages from Tv/CD etc, I find I can't drop them a line with a list of locations and the beginners guide to dogging.... "
Spot on Tina thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But if they've posted in a forum you can post on the thread saying you have lots of advice and suggestions and ask them to pm you."
I did that recently and got banned for 48 hours for trying to dodge the rules. |
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"I've come across a similar thing when someone has posted a topic in the forum asking for dogging locations, local to me. Ahem, as a girly who knows her way around the local woods, I can generally help out with these queries, but obviously not in the open forum. When they have a block on messages from Tv/CD etc, I find I can't drop them a line with a list of locations and the beginners guide to dogging....
But if they've posted in a forum you can post on the thread saying you have lots of advice and suggestions and ask them to pm you.
But we are talking about status updates not forums."
Tina was talking about replying to a forum post.
And we are discussing this in the forum, which is why so many have been able to offer you helpful advice notwithstanding their (and your) filters. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've come across a similar thing when someone has posted a topic in the forum asking for dogging locations, local to me. Ahem, as a girly who knows her way around the local woods, I can generally help out with these queries, but obviously not in the open forum. When they have a block on messages from Tv/CD etc, I find I can't drop them a line with a list of locations and the beginners guide to dogging....
But if they've posted in a forum you can post on the thread saying you have lots of advice and suggestions and ask them to pm you.
But we are talking about status updates not forums.
Tina was talking about replying to a forum post.
And we are discussing this in the forum, which is why so many have been able to offer you helpful advice notwithstanding their (and your) filters."
OOOPS yes she was!!but my point is about status updates. |
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"I've come across a similar thing when someone has posted a topic in the forum asking for dogging locations, local to me. Ahem, as a girly who knows her way around the local woods, I can generally help out with these queries, but obviously not in the open forum. When they have a block on messages from Tv/CD etc, I find I can't drop them a line with a list of locations and the beginners guide to dogging....
But if they've posted in a forum you can post on the thread saying you have lots of advice and suggestions and ask them to pm you.
But we are talking about status updates not forums.
Tina was talking about replying to a forum post.
And we are discussing this in the forum, which is why so many have been able to offer you helpful advice notwithstanding their (and your) filters.
OOOPS yes she was!!but my point is about status updates."
Oddly enough the title of the thread gave that away!
If you really want this then post in the fabswingers feedback forum.
Until admin make a decision you'll just have to live with the fact that pm's are for those we select to message us and if we want advice from all and sundry (with no control over what people choose to say or the direction it will go in) post it on the forums instead. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've come across a similar thing when someone has posted a topic in the forum asking for dogging locations, local to me. Ahem, as a girly who knows her way around the local woods, I can generally help out with these queries, but obviously not in the open forum. When they have a block on messages from Tv/CD etc, I find I can't drop them a line with a list of locations and the beginners guide to dogging....
But if they've posted in a forum you can post on the thread saying you have lots of advice and suggestions and ask them to pm you.
But we are talking about status updates not forums.
Tina was talking about replying to a forum post.
And we are discussing this in the forum, which is why so many have been able to offer you helpful advice notwithstanding their (and your) filters.
OOOPS yes she was!!but my point is about status updates.
Oddly enough the title of the thread gave that away!
If you really want this then post in the fabswingers feedback forum.
Until admin make a decision you'll just have to live with the fact that pm's are for those we select to message us and if we want advice from all and sundry (with no control over what people choose to say or the direction it will go in) post it on the forums instead."
I just said it was annoying please don't get so wound up about a forum post,I've had lots of replies from people who understand my post,hope you enjoy your night out in Birmingham its a good place to go. |
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