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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For most single females and male / female couples, getting a meet isnt that hard. It's the much maligned single guy that has the problem getting meets.
Now before anyone starts, im not ranting or moaning, i do ok on meets and cant complain.
Single guys out number females and couples by easily 10 to 1 its probably higher than that. So you are already at a disadvantage.
This is not instashag.com you are not guaranteed sex of any sort so deal with it.
You are going to have to work your knackers off to get noticed.
A couple of tips for you.
Get yourself a few reasonable photos, at least one clear face pic and a few varied body shots. DO NOT have cock shots or sex shots in public, save those for the friends gallery. A good Profile is key, think about how you want to present your self, state what your looking for, what you like and what you can do for them. Dont have to rewrite war & peace but more than a couple of lines, if you cant accommodate state why in the profile.
Read your prospective meets profile fully, DO NOT wink, unless they ask for it, it aint worth bothering, think of a good worded email message, again dont have to be a book chapter but dont just ask for a fuck, and include your face pic with every message you first send.
Dont expect a reply, most dont have the time to reply so if your message gets deleted, dont spaz out over it and dont be rude to the other person. If they send a reply, acknowledge it and thank them, even if its a rejection, because you never know, it could be you were turned down just for that particular meet but be rude and it will guarantee you dont ever get accepted.
And the biggest tip is patience, patience, patience. If you have a club close by, go one night, again dont expect anything to happen but if you are nice and courteous, you get remembered and maybe invited next time. The same with social meets and parties, just talk to people and get noticed. Thats how i did it |
