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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm ... I like to think I still have my morals , integrity and pride
Just because you like sex doesn't mean you should lose your moral standings "
Well said that woman! Morality is about how you live life not what you like to do in the bedroom or anywhere else for that matter |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner.
I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? "
yes when i went to a meet with a single female and she bought her 3 kids along
the bad is that she kept trying it on and wanted me to go back to hers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner.
I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use this site mainly for the forums as its very friendly and quick replies.
I met a girl yesterday, best experience I've ever had, not been able to stop thinking bout her.
shes away for a few days but i get the feeling it was just sex for her.
How do you do it? how do you turn that switch off in your head that makes you not care, its baffles me. I wanna be able to do that so i can stop hurting, why do i always have to get attached to someone who even kisses me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner.
I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world??
not yet, but I am living in hope 
tell ya never do a serious threads with you lot about... "
I am being serious  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"I use this site mainly for the forums as its very friendly and quick replies.
I met a girl yesterday, best experience I've ever had, not been able to stop thinking bout her.
shes away for a few days but i get the feeling it was just sex for her.
How do you do it? how do you turn that switch off in your head that makes you not care, its baffles me. I wanna be able to do that so i can stop hurting, why do i always have to get attached to someone who even kisses me."
its called self preversation... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm ... I like to think I still have my morals , integrity and pride
Just because you like sex doesn't mean you should lose your moral standings "
In fact, i think i have higher morals than some of the "vanillas" i know...when it comes to sex and conducting ones self out and about. |
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner.
I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw.
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Because of the last ten words the above would have been much better coming from a bloke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I have learnt that the swinging world is not somewhere that morals, integrity & honesty are as real as they are made out to be.
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Ive learned that morales and swinging dont always go.......I know accept it, have fun and not to look to deep! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner.
I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw.
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At my first ever social on entering the "swinging world" .
I met a nice cpl and we were chatting in a pub setting...over the course of the social ,she became more and more agitated and i asked her what was up /
Her partner was circulating....
She then tells me that she doesnt want to swing and had threatened to walk if she didnt give it a go... 
she loved him....so she went along with it ....hating every minute.
WTF .
i could never do that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I have learnt that the swinging world is not somewhere that morals, integrity & honesty are as real as they are made out to be.
Ive learned that morales and swinging dont always go.......I know accept it, have fun and not to look to deep!"
*now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner.
I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw.
At my first ever social on entering the "swinging world" .
I met a nice cpl and we were chatting in a pub setting...over the course of the social ,she became more and more agitated and i asked her what was up /
Her partner was circulating....
She then tells me that she doesnt want to swing and had threatened to walk if she didnt give it a go...
she loved him....so she went along with it ....hating every minute.
WTF .
i could never do that "
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? "
Yes.
I'm not sure 'and failed' would be the right words to add to that, but I have certainly stepped back to re-evaluate and adjust them....... I think for the better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? "
Morals are your own personal belief system, not those of someone else, either personal or organisational |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was advised by a couple of ladies when I first joined to be prepared to meet heart breakers , not too sure if they meant women that will just use you for their own gain and have no feelings one way or the other after you both get what you set out to ?
From what I can gather, I think you have to separate falling for someone on a swinging site to it just being sex? Don't get me wrong I have a shed load of feelings that I want to share with the right person but I can't see me meeting that person on a swingers site? I may be completely wrong but I'm not holding my breath. I hope it works out for you though ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The temptation is all too great,
To know it's gone and it's all too late,
I tried and I tried, I never applied,
Any of the morals that I wish I had.
Courteeners |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When ladies have fb that control everything and everyone they meet . Can never understand why a lady would let that happen when they have there choice of men on here . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let s face not many people are going to say
I'm a swinger and morally bankrupt because I swing.
Ask the same question on a christian or muslim forum and you'll get a completely different answer.
In the same way someone posted a thread about liking to partake in illegal substances when swinging and 9 out 10 cats called him a c##t. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
My morals are re-evaluated regularly. The core is always about integrity in all that I do and not assuming my integrity is one that others hold or even value. Yes, they have been tested but the final decision and eventual outcome come from the context of the information to hand, the gut feeling I have and whether that would drift away from honouring my integrity.
It's not perfect. Some think I am too much hard work for a shag but if I feel something is wrong having sex won't make it feel right.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Yes I now have none
Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!!
If it was a man I hope he's not that quick in bed lol"
Is there a plague or is the same person posting on the threads as a last hurrah? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I now have none
Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!!
Who was it?.,.
Bob ( said in black adder voice )
Not Baldrick?...  "
No black adder to the boy who was a girl fuck this is getting confusing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I now have none Hate it when people do that!
they usually message me a hello before buggering off. What's the point? "
Hello there - and no I'm not deleting my profile now |
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"Yes I now have none
Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!! "
With no morals the world is your oyster, so why stick around?
She probably having the time of her life mugging a pensioner as foreplay before sexually abusing Shetland pony with a Dyson DC01.
Tomorrow will be kick a cav in the cunt day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure, morals are about personal beliefs. I have some, have they been tested, no idea. They are certainly still present and not broken.
I think honesty, integrity, consideration for others are some that are core. Is swinging a breach of morals, I don't think so as long as honesty, integrity and consideration for others remains... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no, the morals we had when we started are still very much intact.
people have asked us to go against them, 1 has even tried to insist, but nope.
never been close to going against anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm ... I like to think I still have my morals , integrity and pride
Just because you like sex doesn't mean you should lose your moral standings "
Morals are no more than social programs study history of human civilization and you soon see a pattern of social programing dictating the morals of society .
We are born with out morals and learn from the society we are born into what is social acceptable and what is not and at the end of the day that's all morals are social programing mixed with the human need to fit in . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm ... I like to think I still have my morals , integrity and pride
Just because you like sex doesn't mean you should lose your moral standings
Morals are no more than social programs study history of human civilization and you soon see a pattern of social programing dictating the morals of society .
We are born with out morals and learn from the society we are born into what is social acceptable and what is not and at the end of the day that's all morals are social programing mixed with the human need to fit in . "
although, in essence, i agree, i have to stop you in a s much as, V was brought up in a staunch religious family, where sex was for marrige and blah blah and so, any hint of being involved in a swinging scene SHOULD HAVE gone against every moral she had, had they all been born out of environment, but it was she that suggested it, to a greater extent, so whilst i agree you get your start in life by the people around you, you have to develop your own moral code as you grow and engage with everyone you come into contact with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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some ppl have morals that others dont, , thats fair enough, but its the ppl who try and push there morals on others that does my head in, just because you believe in something doesnt mean others have to |
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner.
I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw.
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this, by and large..
most of our 'morals' re this aspect and other areas are usually generated by religion, the establishment and as said social programming then I take those with a pinch of salt..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm ... I like to think I still have my morals , integrity and pride
Just because you like sex doesn't mean you should lose your moral standings
Morals are no more than social programs study history of human civilization and you soon see a pattern of social programing dictating the morals of society .
We are born with out morals and learn from the society we are born into what is social acceptable and what is not and at the end of the day that's all morals are social programing mixed with the human need to fit in .
although, in essence, i agree, i have to stop you in a s much as, V was brought up in a staunch religious family, where sex was for marrige and blah blah and so, any hint of being involved in a swinging scene SHOULD HAVE gone against every moral she had, had they all been born out of environment, but it was she that suggested it, to a greater extent, so whilst i agree you get your start in life by the people around you, you have to develop your own moral code as you grow and engage with everyone you come into contact with"
Agree those who are inteligent and brave enough can over come moral programing but we are talking about a very small number on the whole the human need to fit it is to strong for most people to over come so although they secretly may wish for change they will never voice that opinion unless others do because of the need of human nature to fit in with the group .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im a catholic girl
I went to a convent
was taught by nuns..
evils fuckers some of them.."
Oh yes they bloody are! Funniest thing I have ever seen though, a nun skiing in full gear!! |
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"Im a catholic girl
I went to a convent
was taught by nuns..
evils fuckers some of them..
Oh yes they bloody are! Funniest thing I have ever seen though, a nun skiing in full gear!! "
deadly with the blackboard cleaner at 15 yards though..
and some positively relished using the cane..
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"Im a catholic girl
I went to a convent
was taught by nuns..
evils fuckers some of them..
Oh yes they bloody are! Funniest thing I have ever seen though, a nun skiing in full gear!!
deadly with the blackboard cleaner at 15 yards though..
and some positively relished using the cane..
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I managed to avoid that! They did try and convert me before I left but they stood no chance 
I later found out one of the worst ones got caught kissing a man - oh the shame lol |
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"Im a catholic girl
I went to a convent
was taught by nuns..
evils fuckers some of them..
Oh yes they bloody are! Funniest thing I have ever seen though, a nun skiing in full gear!!
deadly with the blackboard cleaner at 15 yards though..
and some positively relished using the cane..
I managed to avoid that! They did try and convert me before I left but they stood no chance
I later found out one of the worst ones got caught kissing a man - oh the shame lol "
good girl.. |
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"some ppl have morals that others dont, , thats fair enough, but its the ppl who try and push there morals on others that does my head in, just because you believe in something doesnt mean others have to "
likewise those with NO morals trying to justify it by saying its nothing but fun. |
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"some ppl have morals that others dont, , thats fair enough, but its the ppl who try and push there morals on others that does my head in, just because you believe in something doesnt mean others have to
likewise those with NO morals trying to justify it by saying its nothing but fun."
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"My morals are re-evaluated regularly. The core is always about integrity in all that I do and not assuming my integrity is one that others hold or even value. Yes, they have been tested but the final decision and eventual outcome come from the context of the information to hand, the gut feeling I have and whether that would drift away from honouring my integrity.
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