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Can you fall in love with somebody....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I used to use another site to chat but also the laughs that were to be had on there, I popped on tonight and noticed the same dramas unfolding.
Mainly involving people who had never met claiming undying love for a person they enjoy chatting to. I found myself wondering.... Can you fall in love with or develop feelings someone you haven't met before?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to use another site to chat but also the laughs that were to be had on there, I popped on tonight and noticed the same dramas unfolding.
Mainly involving people who had never met claiming undying love for a person they enjoy chatting to. I found myself wondering.... Can you fall in love with or develop feelings someone you haven't met before?
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I think you could =/ looks aren't everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to use another site to chat but also the laughs that were to be had on there, I popped on tonight and noticed the same dramas unfolding.
Mainly involving people who had never met claiming undying love for a person they enjoy chatting to. I found myself wondering.... Can you fall in love with or develop feelings someone you haven't met before?
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I think you can, if there is a connection there, with modern technology you can chat on the phone, skype etc but you will not know it is real the feeling are until you meet in person (just dont plan the wedding until you do meet lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you do fall in love do you really now who you are falling in love with as you only have a few written words and not someone's really personality to go on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think that strong emotions can develop from regular online contact but there is no way of knowing if it will transfer to the real thing when/if you meet."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think so. People can be themselves on the Internet, whereas they might be afraid in person! Just be careful it's really the person you think it is! Watch Catfish on MTV it real good!  |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"If you do fall in love do you really now who you are falling in love with as you only have a few written words and not someone's really personality to go on. "
agree there could be a false persona |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to use another site to chat but also the laughs that were to be had on there, I popped on tonight and noticed the same dramas unfolding.
Mainly involving people who had never met claiming undying love for a person they enjoy chatting to. I found myself wondering.... Can you fall in love with or develop feelings someone you haven't met before?
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I did with my little boys dad long story but he had me sunk before we even met lol we were together for 8 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes you can develop feelings, but I think for it to become love there has to be physical interaction. You can only think you are in love with some you haven't met. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think so. People can be themselves on the Internet, whereas they might be afraid in person! Just be careful it's really the person you think it is! Watch Catfish on MTV it real good! "
Love that show! Yes it's possible.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can grow an emotional attachment over time and it's solidified also by the fact that you have to do fuck all for them and they're more in the positive side of your imagination than the realistic side. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to use another site to chat but also the laughs that were to be had on there, I popped on tonight and noticed the same dramas unfolding.
Mainly involving people who had never met claiming undying love for a person they enjoy chatting to. I found myself wondering.... Can you fall in love with or develop feelings someone you haven't met before?
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I've seen it happen on here before - doesn't usually end well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner and I had never met in person..never seen each other on cam..saw a couple of photos..spoke on the phone a few times and instantly fell in love. He moved down from Scotland and 3 years later our love is just as strong. We work together, live together and are best friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My partner and I had never met in person..never seen each other on cam..saw a couple of photos..spoke on the phone a few times and instantly fell in love. He moved down from Scotland and 3 years later our love is just as strong. We work together, live together and are best friends. "
Nice to see it working out for some!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes, i met my ex online and developed feelings for him and he for me, we had 7 good years and 2 gorgeous children together before we split but the feelings carried through to meeting straight away, with Phil i met him online and cared for him as a friend we used to meet up for coffee and necking sessions and i started to care a lot more for him, not sure how it worked for him though because i never asked lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know at least 3 couples that met on the internet. One relationship lasted 10 years, the other 2 couples are still going strong 14 years on. It can happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My partner and I had never met in person..never seen each other on cam..saw a couple of photos..spoke on the phone a few times and instantly fell in love. He moved down from Scotland and 3 years later our love is just as strong. We work together, live together and are best friends.
Nice to see it working out for some! "
Funny thing was he was one of my 1000 odd friends on FB. Had never spoken just played games.. he saw my..at the time..single female profile photo pop up on Fab newest photos lol. He found my fb profile and sent a funny message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you have to smell the person and feel their arms around you before you really fall for someone. Words roll off people's tongues and they get carried away with the thought of a relationship. You can be carried away on a tide of emotions |
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"I used to use another site to chat but also the laughs that were to be had on there, I popped on tonight and noticed the same dramas unfolding.
Mainly involving people who had never met claiming undying love for a person they enjoy chatting to. I found myself wondering.... Can you fall in love with or develop feelings someone you haven't met before?
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yes it is possible to develop feelings for someone you havent met.Either by chatting or cam chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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got half way there online, and when we meet in person for the first time it was all the way.
shame it did not last really, still miss her sometimes.
its one of the reasons i am on fab, do not need that pain again for a while. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No because falling for the fantasy not the person is easy because we all hiding behind keyboards and i aint looking for relationship just sex but am.lucky to become good friends with those i have met.
Keep it real. |
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I think love is the wrong word ... a great respect for each other and a solid companionship is probably closer to anything I have experienced. there are a few guys I talk with regularly and I look forward to hearing from them as our banter is slightly askew but we all get it .. but love ... no ... I don't think that is possible !  |
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"I think you have to smell the person and feel their arms around you before you really fall for someone. Words roll off people's tongues and they get carried away with the thought of a relationship. You can be carried away on a tide of emotions "
Agree, ou may lust someone or like them online, but how can you feel love for someone you've never had a chat with and shared a cheeky grin, or heard them laugh for real without just an LOL written...you can try to get feelings online but you need a meet or those feelings to become reality |
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"I know at least 3 couples that met on the internet. One relationship lasted 10 years, the other 2 couples are still going strong 14 years on. It can happen. "
meeting on the internet is different to falling head over heels with someone before even meeting them or never meeting them ever though.
I am in love now but it took time together for that to develop from passion and lust. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ha ha was it ukshitterbox i once had someone tell me they loved me on there.
I think you can like someone or wgi they claim to be but its the net i think you have to spend time with someone to know them. |
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I think I can normally tell who I will or wont get on with from messages .. had a really disappointing experience when I agreed to meet a single guy off here when my guy was at work .. all was going great until I pointed out that my fella would be joining us in about 15 minutes and was looking forward to meeting the guy .. he nearly fell off his chair as he had assumed I hadn't told my fella I was meeting him and left ... shame really !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think love is the wrong word ... a great respect for each other and a solid companionship is probably closer to anything I have experienced. there are a few guys I talk with regularly and I look forward to hearing from them as our banter is slightly askew but we all get it .. but love ... no ... I don't think that is possible ! "
I want love, not a companion who is agreeable for a quiet life. With love comes arguments and heartache but I want it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If anybody watches 'catfish' the. Very often when they claim to love the person they are talking to, meet them and they look different as they faked a profile, the 'love' soon disappears! So I don't think u can have true love until u meet the person face to face x |
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"If anybody watches 'catfish' the. Very often when they claim to love the person they are talking to, meet them and they look different as they faked a profile, the 'love' soon disappears! So I don't think u can have true love until u meet the person face to face x"
what is catfish? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If anybody watches 'catfish' the. Very often when they claim to love the person they are talking to, meet them and they look different as they faked a profile, the 'love' soon disappears! So I don't think u can have true love until u meet the person face to face x
what is catfish?"
American tv show where people contact this guy and say something like 'I've been talking to this guy for two years over the net, we have never met, I have seen 3 pics of him, he looks like a model and I love him but he won't meet.' Then they meet and he's so fat guy or some fucked up bird....lol |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"They fall in love with people on death row...
So never say neverIs that cause the are dying though?"
Aye maybe... So they can grieve for them and be a widow/widower |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes you can but you have most likely built up a persona for this person and that is what you have fallen for.
Unless you are lucky, most times the ideals you have put to the persona fall woefully short when you do meet for real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to use another site to chat but also the laughs that were to be had on there, I popped on tonight and noticed the same dramas unfolding.
Mainly involving people who had never met claiming undying love for a person they enjoy chatting to. I found myself wondering.... Can you fall in love with or develop feelings someone you haven't met before?
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Simply put "Yes"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anybody watches 'catfish' the. Very often when they claim to love the person they are talking to, meet them and they look different as they faked a profile, the 'love' soon disappears! So I don't think u can have true love until u meet the person face to face x
what is catfish?
American tv show where people contact this guy and say something like 'I've been talking to this guy for two years over the net, we have never met, I have seen 3 pics of him, he looks like a model and I love him but he won't meet.' Then they meet and he's so fat guy or some fucked up bird....lol "
Catfish is the craziest show ever...I still don't understand how half the people really fall for that, but I can understand the attachment they say the develop talking or texting someone daily and them feeling like it develops into more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you can get more than half way there online if you really connect and enjoy each others company but you never really KNOW that it's love until you meet them...kiss them... talk and laugh and cry with them... kiss them again... make love with them and know then that you never ever want your life to be without them......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good morning and yes I do believe you can, I haven't "fallen in love" but have developed feelings for someone after exchanging emails for a while (as did the other person) and when we met the feelings had been justified, I think you can get a lot from someones message and email if they put themselves into them as opposed to just one sentence answers as that doesn't give you a feel for the person. |
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