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Arranging first gay meet -as a bi-curious guy..

By *olyGent OP Man over a year ago

Lincoln

Hi, firstly this question does not relate to the male half of this couple. I am asking for a gay curious friend of mine.

He would like to explore sex with guys, mostly kinky bdsm with guys but has no idea where to start.

Up to now he's been a straight Dom will plenty of hetero dom sub experience.

Do you have any advice on how he might seek out willing sub guys for Nsa fun and general naughty kink?

Thanks for your help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He needs to start at the bottom and work his way up

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By *hyllyphyllyMan over a year ago

Bradford

See if there's any saunas near him. A sauna is the gay equivalent of a swingers club.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He needs to start at the bottom and work his way up"

if he'd dom he's going to already be top

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get him to a gay nightclub if he's sociable enough, that's probably the best way for him to see what new friends he wants to make

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There is always dogging.

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By *anyoufeelmeMan over a year ago

near you

"He needs to start at the bottom and work his way up"

love it ..

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By *iPeopleMan over a year ago

London

I'd say watch and then play. Dont jump in

Dont know what the clubs are like in his part of the world but if he comes to London there are 1-2 specialist BDSM gay / bi clubs.

http://www.scotsgay.co.uk/listings/venues.html

Depending on how good a friend, you could find a dom bi guy and invite him over....could be fun!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"He needs to start at the bottom and work his way up"

Oh that's funny!!

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By *bacusMan over a year ago

Walton on Thames

So please its not the original poster. His other half is soooo hot! Would be just plain greedy... And stupid

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