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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who logs on and is relieved to see no new messages, no new winks and no new friend requests?
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If you are not happy with receiving messages winks etc then use your filters to cut them down or hide your profile. I really don't see why someone who has put a profile up would not want messages. The ones you don't like the look of just delete I do 30 messages sorted and gone in 10 mins. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who logs on and is relieved to see no new messages, no new winks and no new friend requests?
If you are not happy with receiving messages winks etc then use your filters to cut them down or hide your profile. I really don't see why someone who has put a profile up would not want messages. The ones you don't like the look of just delete I do 30 messages sorted and gone in 10 mins. "
I have my filters on and that's why I'm happy of late to not have to bother with other people.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep..me too. I looked at my winks the other week and had 101!! Shows how often I pay attention to them lol"
That was me with messages within 3 days of joining and discovering filters.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's more that lately I come on fab to see what's going on in the forums. Things are getting serious with my f.w.b thinking about asking him to swing with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, I dont get that many and I'm happy with that situation. I'd rather have a few choice emails than a thousand idiotic ones. Maybe no one finds me attractive? Face...bothered?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm alone then  "
I don't really understand why you'd bother logging on if you didn't want anyone to contact you.... I'm struggling with this. Surely just don't log on?! Problem solved. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm alone then
I don't really understand why you'd bother logging on if you didn't want anyone to contact you.... I'm struggling with this. Surely just don't log on?! Problem solved. "
Fab is my new Facebook. I can't stay away!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm alone then
I don't really understand why you'd bother logging on if you didn't want anyone to contact you.... I'm struggling with this. Surely just don't log on?! Problem solved.
Fab is my new Facebook. I can't stay away! "
Confused. Com |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm alone then
I don't really understand why you'd bother logging on if you didn't want anyone to contact you.... I'm struggling with this. Surely just don't log on?! Problem solved.
Fab is my new Facebook. I can't stay away!
Confused. Com"
Why confused? I log on here more than I do Facebook. I wasn't whining just saying I was relieved.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love your tattoo, hate your attitude, I get excited if one person looks at my profile in a single 24hr period and to hear someone complain that people actually WANT to contact them almost breaks my heart. If you don't like it set your filters to prevent people messaging you, otherwise stop moaning. Thinly veiled "look at me thread". Get a grip. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confused. Com
Believe it or not....
It is actually nice now and then to log on and not have to deal with messages..
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But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would think my profile had been hidden and panic I'm missing out on some great sex. Only 7 messages in the last hour has given my typing finger a rest though |
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"Well I love receiving winks, messages etc. ..... Otherwise I'd hide my profile and filter so that people can't contact me.
That sort of pro active attitude has absolutely no place on here, so be off with you non conformer 
Pmsl "
Surely that is pro INactive lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love your tattoo, hate your attitude, I get excited if one person looks at my profile in a single 24hr period and to hear someone complain that people actually WANT to contact them almost breaks my heart. If you don't like it set your filters to prevent people messaging you, otherwise stop moaning. Thinly veiled "look at me thread". Get a grip. "
Really! I actually haven't got an attitude. I don't need a 'look at me thread' hence the thread. |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. "
Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc....
Bit of banter in the forums/chat..
Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out.
Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc....
Bit of banter in the forums/chat..
Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests..."
Only apparently banter in the forums is now a thinly veiled look at me thread
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out.
Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc....
Bit of banter in the forums/chat..
Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests..."
I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out.
Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc....
Bit of banter in the forums/chat..
Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests...
I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter? "
I didn't realise you could hide it and still participate in the forums. |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
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I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter? "
OP never said she didnt want people messaging her, she only said it was a relief to come on and not have any...
Bit of a calm before the storm kinda thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. -
Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc....
Bit of banter in the forums/chat..
Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests...
I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter?
I didn't realise you could hide it and still participate in the forums."
Who would have thought the forums could be educational?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. -
Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc....
Bit of banter in the forums/chat..
Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests...
I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter?
I didn't realise you could hide it and still participate in the forums.
Who would have thought the forums could be educational?! "
I really am looking forward to your future ventures into the plethora of 'The Sisterhood is Annoyed' threads, brilliant contribution tonight which throws huge doubt on some of the oft trotted out myths  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also....
The OP has been here a whole 2 weeks...
Can imagine the mail she has been getting....
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100's a day x 14 = in excess of 1400 and counting
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If you believe that old tosh that is |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
"Also....
The OP has been here a whole 2 weeks...
Can imagine the mail she has been getting....
100's a day x 14 = in excess of 1400 and counting
If you believe that old tosh that is "
Obviously with you being a single male you couldnt possibly imagine it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also....
The OP has been here a whole 2 weeks...
Can imagine the mail she has been getting....
100's a day x 14 = in excess of 1400 and counting
If you believe that old tosh that is
Obviously with you being a single male you couldnt possibly imagine it! "
Erm - read the gent's profile please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also....
The OP has been here a whole 2 weeks...
Can imagine the mail she has been getting....
100's a day x 14 = in excess of 1400 and counting
If you believe that old tosh that is
Obviously with you being a single male you couldnt possibly imagine it!
Erm - read the gent's profile please"
Thank you for taking the time to research |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone's so pleasant tonight. Is that funny water going around again "
I haven't said 1 unpleasant word tonight. In fact, not even the whole day.
Been sipping elderflower cordial. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Erm - read the gent's profile please
Il rephrase (without reading it)
He is not a single female "
Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Everyone's so pleasant tonight. Is that funny water going around again I have ice in mine and its brown.
Mine is kinda weak piss coloured "
I don't want to even consider what you two are drinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now
Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point "
The point 'I' make is after many many years on here seeing some of the regular 'contradictions' 'I' take a lot of the '100's a day' BS with a large tub of Saxa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now
Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point "
Are you a single female |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
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Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now
Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point
Are you a single female "
Nope
But im sure you are aware of the many on here that cant/dont read profile before messaging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now
Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point
Are you a single female
Nope
But im sure you are aware of the many on here that cant/dont read profile before messaging "
So am 'I' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out.
Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc....
Bit of banter in the forums/chat..
Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests..."
some log in to see which single man she might pick from many to fuck this week/day/month  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
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some log in to see which single man she might pick from many to fuck this week/day/month "
And its great when you are the one doing the "window shopping" before checking to see if you are willing to spend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just create a single male profile... You will get nothing!
Actually I tell I lie you will get men offering to suck you (if this is what I get, then I shudder think what women get). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope
But im sure you are aware of the many on here that cant/dont read profile before messaging
So am 'I'
They see "new" and "female" and their poor keyboard takes a battering "
Tonite, like many nites on here seems to put realistic context on 'keyboard battering' |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
It's normal for me now I've deleted my preferences so I don't show in searches. I get a few random messages but most are from friends and people I have messaged about potential meets. I get some winks and random friends requests but not many.
It's great! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now
Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point
The point 'I' make is after many many years on here seeing some of the regular 'contradictions' 'I' take a lot of the '100's a day' BS with a large tub of Saxa "
19 messages today so far |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now
Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point
The point 'I' make is after many many years on here seeing some of the regular 'contradictions' 'I' take a lot of the '100's a day' BS with a large tub of Saxa "
I get a lot when I show my boobs in my photos, have certain interests ticked and/or mentioned on my profile and appear in searches. If my avatar shows my boobs I get more. Usually 50+ per day though some days are quieter. A lot of them just say some variation of 'nice tits' though. Those are quick and easy to deal with!
I get more when I am logged in here a lot or when I leave myself logged in on my phone because guys trawl the who is online now looking for instant gratification (a spontaneous instant meet, phone sex, camming, dirty chat, cybersex or whatever).
I believe some women and couples - especially those who appear in the hot photos section - get 100+ messages a day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now
Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point
The point 'I' make is after many many years on here seeing some of the regular 'contradictions' 'I' take a lot of the '100's a day' BS with a large tub of Saxa
I get a lot when I show my boobs in my photos, have certain interests ticked and/or mentioned on my profile and appear in searches. If my avatar shows my boobs I get more. Usually 50+ per day though some days are quieter. A lot of them just say some variation of 'nice tits' though. Those are quick and easy to deal with!
I get more when I am logged in here a lot or when I leave myself logged in on my phone because guys trawl the who is online now looking for instant gratification (a spontaneous instant meet, phone sex, camming, dirty chat, cybersex or whatever).
I believe some women and couples - especially those who appear in the hot photos section - get 100+ messages a day."
I find that if I sign out on my phone I get less but as soon as I sign back in they come in quite fast. New users get pages, as I found out. Different pics attract different men of course. If I show a bare boob pic I'll expect lots of nice tits comments lol |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I ve the best filter to stop mail, winks, fab's in fact any interest really, it works better than hiding your profile,,( I think you can still be messsaged,,)
Single male,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that's why my profile is hidden and like the village of Brigadoon I only appear for a short time then disappear again"
lol I loved that film
53 messages, every one answered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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78, 5 from someone who deleted his account while I was out and 1 hello sexy who deleted before I answered. 15 unanswered from 11 people but am working on them |
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