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By *bacus OP Man
over a year ago
Walton on Thames |
It's so so hard (and not in a good way) for single blokes to get to meet women and couples on here.
I guess its just down to numbers. Thousands of horny blokes and very few sexy ladies (alone or part of a couple) or is it because ladies and couples prefer to meet other couples so single men are not needed. Redundant!
I'm hoping that other guys are having more luck than i'm having and mine is just bad luck that will improve (soon I hope) so what does it take to get noticed?
Please someone tell me!!  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"It's so so hard (and not in a good way) for single blokes to get to meet women and couples on here.
I guess its just down to numbers. Thousands of horny blokes and very few sexy ladies (alone or part of a couple) or is it because ladies and couples prefer to meet other couples so single men are not needed. Redundant!
I'm hoping that other guys are having more luck than i'm having and mine is just bad luck that will improve (soon I hope) so what does it take to get noticed?
Please someone tell me!! "
Have a bit of flanter in the forums, lots of single guys meets ratio went up after posting a bit...maybe get to an organisised social? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be patient.
Better to be just friendly than just another thrusting dick. Talk to the person not the body and see what happens. You will feel misunderstood but I've clicked twice with women and they are still close friends and playmates. Got to know both with just some chat that stood out on the day and led to us getting to know each other.
Don't be rude, pushy or ignorant.
Just my experience and some will shoot you down for just posting its hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i will shag you
Me too
Aw thanks but one of you is 200 miles away snd the other says "hidden profile"! Should I take offence at diamond Smiles? Lol"
You never heard of trains  |
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By *bacus OP Man
over a year ago
Walton on Thames |
"Be patient.
Better to be just friendly than just another thrusting dick. Talk to the person not the body and see what happens. You will feel misunderstood but I've clicked twice with women and they are still close friends and playmates. Got to know both with just some chat that stood out on the day and led to us getting to know each other.
Don't be rude, pushy or ignorant.
Just my experience and some will shoot you down for just posting its hard. "
I'd like to think i'm never rude pushy or ignorant. Hopefully its just time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hey buddy, I feel your pain, unfortunately I too have found it difficult as a single guy on here, it really is a numbers game and the ladies have full control 
I have made a good lady friend on here and have spoke to her about this very subject matter, she told me the amount of messages she gets on a daily basis, and you and I both know that SOME blokes will try to fuck anything that moves whereas a woman can afford to be as choosy as she wishes..so all I can say is, hang on in there your time will certainly come (no pun intended  ) and in 20 minutes you have had two offers already hahaha it's all good brother  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Delete the half of your profile that is totally pointless and fill it with a bit more about you. Try and make it personal.  "
That's the biggest legal notice I've seen for a while. Completely pointless. |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
essex chelmsford |
1 loose all the bullshit disclaimers
2 more cock pics
3 sky remote and lynx can pics to veri size
4 when messaging, use one liners such as "fancy a fuck", or "ride this baby" i find work well
hope this helps it should have the women queing up and good luck. |
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"Delete the half of your profile that is totally pointless and fill it with a bit more about you. Try and make it personal. "
Hey dude, lose the legal notice bit as the site guidelines state they are a waste of time and server space. Use those lines to add more in about yourself and what you can offer.
Do some flantering.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1 loose all the bullshit disclaimers
2 more cock pics
3 sky remote and lynx can pics to veri size
4 when messaging, use one liners such as "fancy a fuck", or "ride this baby" i find work well
hope this helps it should have the women queing up and good luck."
Are be like the other 96,000 "single" blokes on FAB just man up and get on with it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i will shag you
Me too
What about me
Maybe and me??? I know all about trains!!!
You a trainspotter c Yes the Alderley Edge to Stockport line!!
Hehe "
I have spotted you? |
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"It's so so hard (and not in a good way) for single blokes to get to meet women and couples on here.
I guess its just down to numbers. Thousands of horny blokes and very few sexy ladies (alone or part of a couple) or is it because ladies and couples prefer to meet other couples so single men are not needed. Redundant!
I'm hoping that other guys are having more luck than i'm having and mine is just bad luck that will improve (soon I hope) so what does it take to get noticed?
Please someone tell me!! "
Was talking to a young guy on here this afternoon who got verified by meet within a couple of hours of joining, no risque pics or anything. It's just a honing of the technique required I guess...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i will shag you
Me too
What about me
Maybe
Oh your such a flirt lol x 
Moi flirt never
I love a good flirt x
Really "
Yeah you want to find out how much |
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By *bacus OP Man
over a year ago
Walton on Thames |
"YOu think it's hard for the guys? Bloody hell, I haven't had a shag for 3 weeks! At least I think it's 3 weeks... been so long I've forgotten.  "
Perhaps I could help you out with that problem x |
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By *bacus OP Man
over a year ago
Walton on Thames |
"Agree, get shot of all the legal crap, it really is utterly pointless, and sell yourself, why should the ladies choose you fella?"
Ok so a re write of my profile is needed along with deleting that legal notice and getting more photos? Not entirely sure lots of cock photos will do it and I get photos of me with women rejected by the moderators. I hoped that a face / body photo and genuine non time waster was what people wanted but heres to a new me |
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"Agree, get shot of all the legal crap, it really is utterly pointless, and sell yourself, why should the ladies choose you fella?
Ok so a re write of my profile is needed along with deleting that legal notice and getting more photos? Not entirely sure lots of cock photos will do it and I get photos of me with women rejected by the moderators. I hoped that a face / body photo and genuine non time waster was what people wanted but heres to a new me "
Pics will be rejected if they have someone elses face on them. From what's been said on the forum recently, women like bums, torsos and just the one dick pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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from the profiles that I have read, women are sick and tired (their words) of cock shots and prefer a message with a face pic, mind you I guess it's horses for courses?? |
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By *bacus OP Man
over a year ago
Walton on Thames |
"from the profiles that I have read, women are sick and tired (their words) of cock shots and prefer a message with a face pic, mind you I guess it's horses for courses??"
Or hung like a horse? |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
South London |
"YOu think it's hard for the guys? Bloody hell, I haven't had a shag for 3 weeks! At least I think it's 3 weeks... been so long I've forgotten.
Can I help?? "
Your name should be MissHottieFlirty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree, get shot of all the legal crap, it really is utterly pointless, and sell yourself, why should the ladies choose you fella?
Ok so a re write of my profile is needed along with deleting that legal notice and getting more photos? Not entirely sure lots of cock photos will do it and I get photos of me with women rejected by the moderators. I hoped that a face / body photo and genuine non time waster was what people wanted but heres to a new me
Pics will be rejected if they have someone elses face on them. From what's been said on the forum recently, women like bums, torsos and just the one dick pic."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree, get shot of all the legal crap, it really is utterly pointless, and sell yourself, why should the ladies choose you fella?
Ok so a re write of my profile is needed along with deleting that legal notice and getting more photos? Not entirely sure lots of cock photos will do it and I get photos of me with women rejected by the moderators. I hoped that a face / body photo and genuine non time waster was what people wanted but heres to a new me "
me personally, I don't want to see pics of guys with other women really but each to their own it's your profile |
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"YOu think it's hard for the guys? Bloody hell, I haven't had a shag for 3 weeks! At least I think it's 3 weeks... been so long I've forgotten.
Can I help??
Your name should be MissHottieFlirty "
Doesn't have quite the same ring to it but I like it... |
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"YOu think it's hard for the guys? Bloody hell, I haven't had a shag for 3 weeks! At least I think it's 3 weeks... been so long I've forgotten.
Can I help??
Your name should be MissHottieFlirty
Doesn't have quite the same ring to it but I like it... "
Missflirtyhottiebottie sounds better to me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's so so hard (and not in a good way) for single blokes to get to meet women and couples on here.
I guess its just down to numbers. Thousands of horny blokes and very few sexy ladies (alone or part of a couple) or is it because ladies and couples prefer to meet other couples so single men are not needed. Redundant!5
I'm hoping that other guys are having more luck than i'm having and mine is just bad luck that will improve (soon I hope) so what does it take to get noticed?
Please someone tell me!! "
Tell me about it buddy, I always make sure I read through the profile and pick something out that lets them know I've read it when messaging and not just another guy after a shag. Saying that though we are the minority and it is all down to perseverance, if we keep trying we'll get there eventually
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone pass me a tissue
As long as its kleenex x
only the best for me
With aloe vera?
yes has the soothing affect "
Quilted too......sorry that's the other end |
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"It's so so hard (and not in a good way) for single blokes to get to meet women and couples on here.
I guess its just down to numbers. Thousands of horny blokes and very few sexy ladies (alone or part of a couple) or is it because ladies and couples prefer to meet other couples so single men are not needed. Redundant!5
I'm hoping that other guys are having more luck than i'm having and mine is just bad luck that will improve (soon I hope) so what does it take to get noticed?
Please someone tell me!!
Tell me about it buddy, I always make sure I read through the profile and pick something out that lets them know I've read it when messaging and not just another guy after a shag. Saying that though we are the minority and it is all down to perseverance, if we keep trying we'll get there eventually
Good luck!"
well I happen to think you are rather yummy and i'd invite you for a leg over if you were closer, so why the struggle to meet the ladies fella? |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
hertfordshire |
"from the profiles that I have read, women are sick and tired (their words) of cock shots and prefer a message with a face pic, mind you I guess it's horses for courses??
Or hung like a horse? "
shag if that's true lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"from the profiles that I have read, women are sick and tired (their words) of cock shots and prefer a message with a face pic, mind you I guess it's horses for courses??
Or hung like a horse?
shag if that's true lol"
Certainly not hung like a horse but never send a cock pic unless asked! |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
You say you ve left behind the contacts you had inyYorkshire,
my suggestion, whatever you did to create the interest from the good people of Yorkshire , apply the same to the good folks of the south,, people may speak in a different accent however we are all the same
Have fun,,
My tuppence on your profile,, its doing you no favours, the legal bit is most of it,, |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
no offence.... but all of your warning notices (of which they are absolute rubbish and dont mean a thing) are actually longer than what you bother to write about yourself......
hand on heart are you putting "your best foot forward" so to speak???? |
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