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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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how do you use yours?
we very rarely block people, so if you find your way onto it you must have done something very henious lol.
we reserve it purely for those that are insulting or cant seem to take no for an answer.
how do you use it, and how many are on it?
is it a roll of honour, like ours, or is it very easy to find your way onto it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People I don't like, people that piss me off, people that I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire."
I block men that send me messages after I have said no thanks 3 or 4 times. Some men get blocked after sending a first really rude or sad message. I do have quite a few on my list now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try not to use mine if I can get away with it. Conflicts can usually be resolved with a little diplomacy and eloquence...
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Who am I kidding, I've blocked half the site!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only use it for people that send insulting messages. Got 4 people on mine, and all guys funnily enough! I see some people use the forums to block people that don't agree with their point of view though, which i don't see any point to whatsoever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We use it more and more now to simply prevent further inappropriate contact. Anyone outside our profile req's who winks, friends invites, messages gets blocked.
Why waste heartbeats  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"People I don't like, people that piss me off, people that I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire.
I block men that send me messages after I have said no thanks 3 or 4 times. Some men get blocked after sending a first really rude or sad message. I do have quite a few on my list now "
I only have 7 on my list, 3 of which are women/couples. I never get sad /abusive messages..tell a lie I have had about two that I can recall....I feel left out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All of the above, and more...
People who block me, as I've known people unblock, when they come down, off whatever they were elevated on. No changing your mind, in my bin.
Plus, I use it mainly in the chat room, for people, who well, I'd just walk away from, if I were to meet them in day to day life.
I so wish it was able to hold more than 500, I sometimes go in there, to delete people, who haven't been on for over 6 months or more. I've removed names, that haven't signed in for over 1 or 2 years, it would be good, if the site was able to delete members who aren't active, over a certain timescale. As its a right ball ache, also not the best for people who you have blocked, to then rock up talking to me, whilst on cam :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Femme and Ryan, Any chance I could rent space in your blocked bins?...let's say 10 people for boots or nectar points?....if I said cash, it may be misconstrued  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From the other side I've things, I've been blocked from a couple just by sending a respectful message. If people have said no, then I just leave it, don't send anything back being rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People I don't like, people that piss me off, people that I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire.
I block men that send me messages after I have said no thanks 3 or 4 times. Some men get blocked after sending a first really rude or sad message. I do have quite a few on my list now I only have 7 on my list, 3 of which are women/couples. I never get sad /abusive messages..tell a lie I have had about two that I can recall....I feel left out! "
I only had one man send something nasty and one m/f couple. Men tend to just send the lets fuck! stuff. I can't be arsed keep saying no thanks so I end up blocking. I tend to confuse people by changing my profile pic and they don't remember my name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how do you use yours?
we very rarely block people, so if you find your way onto it you must have done something very henious lol.
we reserve it purely for those that are insulting or cant seem to take no for an answer.
how do you use it, and how many are on it?
is it a roll of honour, like ours, or is it very easy to find your way onto it?"
One person on mine a gay man who kept pestering me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only block ( gay ) men & that's my privilege.
Has other not occurred to set your filters so men can't contact you?"
2 much hassle 2 f@rt around with filters? |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
You'd have to be pretty damn rude or annoying to provoke a block from me ... I much prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt if I can.
However, there are one or two things that really piss me off and will cause me to use the block button.
Gay men getting pushy will get blocked if they don't take the hint.
If a woman or couple deletes a message without even opening or reading it, after I've taken the time to think what to say and type it out, I definitely block them straight away - I can't be arsed with time wasters who invite people to contact them only to treat them with such offhand contempt.
Similarly, if I happen across a particularly arrogant or hateful profile, I'll block that too. I love the people with whom I share my life and I find happiness in letting them into my personal space - anyone with an arrogant profile will probably also be an arrogant person, and I don't want to pollute my life by letting them anywhere near me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how do you use yours?
we very rarely block people, so if you find your way onto it you must have done something very henious lol.
we reserve it purely for those that are insulting or cant seem to take no for an answer.
how do you use it, and how many are on it?
is it a roll of honour, like ours, or is it very easy to find your way onto it?One person on mine a gay man who kept pestering me."
You should have contacted Rentakil! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I only block ( gay ) men & that's my privilege.
Has other not occurred to set your filters so men can't contact you?
2 much hassle 2 f@rt around with filters? "
One setting to stop all of them vs. having to block each one individually. I know which sounds easier to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block folk in the main that for various reasons i would not meet and if someone says not onterested meeting me also block so as not to at a future date forget about them and remessage again. |
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"how do you use yours?
we very rarely block people, so if you find your way onto it you must have done something very henious lol.
we reserve it purely for those that are insulting or cant seem to take no for an answer.
piss us off any your members of ours straightaway lol
how do you use it, and how many are on it?
is it a roll of honour, like ours, or is it very easy to find your way onto it?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only block ( gay ) men & that's my privilege.
Has other not occurred to set your filters so men can't contact you?
2 much hassle 2 f@rt around with filters?
One setting to stop all of them vs. having to block each one individually. I know which sounds easier to me."
But then, where's the fun in not recieving any messages at all after that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Femme and Ryan, Any chance I could rent space in your blocked bins?...let's say 10 people for boots or nectar points?....if I said cash, it may be misconstrued
Sure help yourself I'll settle for a couple of Marylands  "
Fantastico!...I will find some with extra choc chips |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me - as well as a tool to block idiots, abusive twats and those that cause offence via messages, status updates or forum posts - it's just another filter!
So if someone contacts me and there's absolutely no chance of me ever being interested in meeting or chatting - I'll block them - if only to save them time should they try and get in touch again - and also to streamline any searches I undertake.
People get hung up about the block button - but you can use it however you see fit without having to justify it to others!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how do you use it, and how many are on it?
is it a roll of honour, like ours, or is it very easy to find your way onto it?"
Mostly people with photos that make me retch. And dimwits.
There's plenty of both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Persistance
Local men that constantly look but have no pics,no verifications and have been here forever
Women that are more than likely men
Idiotic messages
All of the above depends on my mood that day |
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"I've adjusted my ( filters ) now.
No ( gay ) men can contact me.
No ( TV's & TS's ) can contact me
& no " MM " can contact me.
Thank-u, 4 letting me no."
Your use of punctuation makes my teeth itch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've adjusted my ( filters ) now.
No ( gay ) men can contact me.
No ( TV's & TS's ) can contact me
& no " MM " can contact me.
Thank-u, 4 letting me no.
Your use of punctuation makes my teeth itch."
It just perplexes me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've adjusted my ( filters ) now.
No ( gay ) men can contact me.
No ( TV's & TS's ) can contact me
& no " MM " can contact me.
Thank-u, 4 letting me no.
Hey! What about bi guys? "
He's in two minds about that one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to get harassed on here by the guy who played Uncle Albert on Only Fools and Horses, and just didn't have a clue what to do, until I found a way, I finally found a way to block Buster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it when persistently message me without getting a reply and ignore the warning message they get, also when they turn abusive at being rejected.
Also block those who troll the forums making deliberately offensive posts about fat people/blacks/asians etc. |
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"I wish there was a block list for real life.  "
Im going to a social for another site this weekend and there's at least one attendee who is on my block list, for his constant moaning in the chat room about being 'too old' and that no one would meet him. Wish I could get a real life block on that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try not to use mine if I can get away with it. Conflicts can usually be resolved with a little diplomacy and eloquence...
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Who am I kidding, I've blocked half the site! "
Yep me too!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I use it mainly in the chatrooms. I block jumped up mouthy gobshites that love the sound of their own voice. People that moan and whinge and people that havent got a nice word to say about anyone.... Basically, half of chat!!!  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I always used to block those that didn't include a joke in their initial message but I'm getting soft in my old age and just deleting the message more times than not nowadays, there's about 3 people who arranged meets then dropped off the radar or didn't confirm and maybe 4 who've posted something I consider hugely offensive on the fora (and I'm pretty broad minded)...all in all I've about 300 on my block list I think - I won't fret over it or whether others prefer not to block, it's down to each individual to use site tools as they see fit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block guys who send messages to only me, as if Reggie didn't exist. I find it really rude and it winds me up a bit.
I also block guys who send us the same message again and again and again! |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
South London |
I really only block those who either get rude in messages, won't take no for an answer, or those that just keep on messaging to the point of being a nuisance. And a couple of people I really dislike for good measure. |
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I have two people on my block list. Both men who wouldn't take no for an answer when I politely declined their offers.
What amuses me is the people who say they use the blocking option on others because they don't like what they say in the forums. It's their conceited/presumptuous attitude that those they've blocked would have inevitably contacted them that puts a smile on my face.
There are very few regular posters' profiles I haven't looked at and have noticed I've been blocked by a couple of them. As I had previously been able to view those profiles and haven't messaged them I can only assume I've been blocked because they were so irresistible it was inevitable I would eventually contact them.
And yes, I fully expect to be on a few more blocked lists after this post  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What amuses me is the people who say they use the blocking option on others because they don't like what they say in the forums. It's their conceited/presumptuous attitude that those they've blocked would have inevitably contacted them that puts a smile on my face.
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None are regular posters but I'd just rather those who troll and are offensive didn't have the option to keep looking at me. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
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What amuses me is the people who say they use the blocking option on others because they don't like what they say in the forums. It's their conceited/presumptuous attitude that those they've blocked would have inevitably contacted them that puts a smile on my face.
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I don't presume that anyone off the forums that I block would contact me, I use the block feature as a reminder that I think they're an arsewipe
As I've already said, I don't fret as to what anyone thinks about how I use the site, if posters presume that I presume then fair dos, 'specially if the presumptuous poster then gets a smile on their face as having something to smile about in life is always a bonus |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
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What amuses me is the people who say they use the blocking option on others because they don't like what they say in the forums. It's their conceited/presumptuous attitude that those they've blocked would have inevitably contacted them that puts a smile on my face.
None are regular posters but I'd just rather those who troll and are offensive didn't have the option to keep looking at me."
Good call - I'm adding that to my reasoning! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"I block guys who send messages to only me, as if Reggie didn't exist. I find it really rude and it winds me up a bit.
I also block guys who send us the same message again and again and again!"
So Regina, nice tits, fancy a shag? |
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What amuses me is the people who say they use the blocking option on others because they don't like what they say in the forums. It's their conceited/presumptuous attitude that those they've blocked would have inevitably contacted them that puts a smile on my face.
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I don't presume that anyone off the forums that I block would contact me, I use the block feature as a reminder that I think they're an arsewipe
As I've already said, I don't fret as to what anyone thinks about how I use the site, if posters presume that I presume then fair dos, 'specially if the presumptuous poster then gets a smile on their face as having something to smile about in life is always a bonus"
As you've not blocked me I'm going to presume you don't yet think I'm an arsewipe |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
Retirement Village |
"To me - as well as a tool to block idiots, abusive twats and those that cause offence via messages, status updates or forum posts - it's just another filter!
So if someone contacts me and there's absolutely no chance of me ever being interested in meeting or chatting - I'll block them - if only to save them time should they try and get in touch again - and also to streamline any searches I undertake.
People get hung up about the block button - but you can use it however you see fit without having to justify it to others! "
This
It maybe frowned upon but i use my block list as described in the above post. Also use it to block 'colour coded' individuals but it is just another tool used to help me meet who i wish to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocking isn't rude or ignorant, it's a block and that's that. I find it astonishing how many people get upset about being blocked (would suggest to me the blocker made the right decision).
If you feel that me blocking you might cause you emotional turmoil, feel free to "pre" block me and save yourself the tears of sadness.
As a rule I block, people I have no interest in, people with views about race/cultures/nations/politics and life that I find incompatible with my own.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We use it more and more now to simply prevent further inappropriate contact. Anyone outside our profile req's who winks, friends invites, messages giets blocked.
Why waste heartbeats "
bi men also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What amuses me is the people who say they use the blocking option on others because they don't like what they say in the forums. It's their conceited/presumptuous attitude that those they've blocked would have inevitably contacted them that puts a smile on my face.
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I don't presume that anyone off the forums that I block would contact me, I use the block feature as a reminder that I think they're an arsewipe
As I've already said, I don't fret as to what anyone thinks about how I use the site, if posters presume that I presume then fair dos, 'specially if the presumptuous poster then gets a smile on their face as having something to smile about in life is always a bonus"
But what would we be without arse wipes? Very smelly me thinks |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
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What amuses me is the people who say they use the blocking option on others because they don't like what they say in the forums. It's their conceited/presumptuous attitude that those they've blocked would have inevitably contacted them that puts a smile on my face.
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I don't presume that anyone off the forums that I block would contact me, I use the block feature as a reminder that I think they're an arsewipe
As I've already said, I don't fret as to what anyone thinks about how I use the site, if posters presume that I presume then fair dos, 'specially if the presumptuous poster then gets a smile on their face as having something to smile about in life is always a bonus
As you've not blocked me I'm going to presume you don't yet think I'm an arsewipe"
The word arse does come to mind when I see your profile, but it's preceded by the word nice |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I block forany different reasons. They are rude. Not been honest on profile. Met them and disliked them. Horrible comments on forum threads. Abusive to friends of me so block to avoid them. My list is very long to be honest but it suits me the way I do it. I have been in the site for some years now though. |
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What amuses me is the people who say they use the blocking option on others because they don't like what they say in the forums. It's their conceited/presumptuous attitude that those they've blocked would have inevitably contacted them that puts a smile on my face.
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I don't presume that anyone off the forums that I block would contact me, I use the block feature as a reminder that I think they're an arsewipe
As I've already said, I don't fret as to what anyone thinks about how I use the site, if posters presume that I presume then fair dos, 'specially if the presumptuous poster then gets a smile on their face as having something to smile about in life is always a bonus
As you've not blocked me I'm going to presume you don't yet think I'm an arsewipe
The word arse does come to mind when I see your profile, but it's preceded by the word nice "
Lol well I'm... I'm... yeah...well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We use ours all the time, hate it when someone sends a message and it says on profile we messaged 6 months ago but dont know what was said!
So we block so we know either not to contact someone who wasnt interested in us or we wasnt interested in them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use the block button as I see fit, and do not believe I need to justify my action to anyone. "
My action involves a large slow rotation of the arm, lifting on to tip toes, a child like satanic laugh, and a strong push down on the mouse.
And then I sit and ponder as to how much it must not bother them very much. |
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"I've adjusted my ( filters ) now.
No ( gay ) men can contact me.
No ( TV's & TS's ) can contact me
& no " MM " can contact me.
Thank-u, 4 letting me no."
We are the opposite as we blocked straight males who contacted us. But then it got tedious do out came the filter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't use it why give people the satisfaction of knowing you have pissed them off lol. I just ignore people I am not interested in its pretty easy to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use it why give people the satisfaction of knowing you have pissed them off lol.
Should be "they".
Who are they are they the ruffians? "
Maha! They are vicious! They are them..yeah them...vicious!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use it why give people the satisfaction of knowing you have pissed them off lol.
Should be "they".
Who are they are they the ruffians?
Maha! They are vicious! They are them..yeah them...vicious! "
We get ruffians down the chip shop on bmx's after 10 so I get my chips by 9:30 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocked I guy I once met at a meet with another couple - I said innocently to say hi online - next few days he went through my friends list and verifications saying that I recommended him ! So I blocked the cheeky sod !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use it why give people the satisfaction of knowing you have pissed them off lol.
Should be "they".
Who are they are they the ruffians?
Maha! They are vicious! They are them..yeah them...vicious!
We get ruffians down the chip shop on bmx's after 10 so I get my chips by 9:30 "
The ones with the skateboards are the worst. .they are proper scary!
These days I don't go to those shops without a torch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use the block button as I see fit, and do not believe I need to justify my action to anyone.
My action involves a large slow rotation of the arm, lifting on to tip toes, a child like satanic laugh, and a strong push down on the mouse.
And then I sit and ponder as to how much it must not bother them very much."
That is brilliant. *wipes tears from eyes*
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't use it why give people the satisfaction of knowing you have pissed them off lol.
Should be "they".
Who are they are they the ruffians?
Maha! They are vicious! They are them..yeah them...vicious!
We get ruffians down the chip shop on bmx's after 10 so I get my chips by 9:30
The ones with the skateboards are the worst. .they are proper scary!
These days I don't go to those shops without a torch! "
I have one of those hear ones that point where you look they are awesome! |
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