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Whats the best way to pull in a club ?
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I want to make a porn movie but dont know where to start would you kno anyone that could point me in right direction.. Sorry for the misspell lol"
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
How do you "pull" anywhere?
Go along. Don't count on anything happening. Be friendly. See what happens. If you're not sure of anything, ask.
It's not rocket science.
Relax a bit and go to enjoy the night. There isn't a recipe you need to learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont use text speak never say bro ...dont look at women like there a mouse and your a boa constictor .Be engaging ...whisper in there ear that you dont want to offend but you are delicious and i would love to lick your pussy ...then walk away an d feign indifference x |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"...whisper in there ear that you dont want to offend but you are delicious and i would love to lick your pussy ...then walk away and feign indifference x"
That works for you? I'd laugh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...whisper in there ear that you dont want to offend but you are delicious and i would love to lick your pussy ...then walk away and feign indifference x
That works for you? I'd laugh! "
It works astonishingly well not all the time but women do laugh and are intrigued by such confidence and cheek x |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"...whisper in there ear that you dont want to offend but you are delicious and i would love to lick your pussy ...then walk away and feign indifference x
That works for you? I'd laugh! It works astonishingly well not all the time but women do laugh and are intrigued by such confidence and cheek x"
The walking away and feigning indifference bit would be the deal breaker for me. Flirting is one thing but I'm not into game playing.
I'd rather people were straight with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...whisper in there ear that you dont want to offend but you are delicious and i would love to lick your pussy ...then walk away and feign indifference x
That works for you? I'd laugh! It works astonishingly well not all the time but women do laugh and are intrigued by such confidence and cheek x
The walking away and feigning indifference bit would be the deal breaker for me. Flirting is one thing but I'm not into game playing.
I have a face like a plastereres radio but have astonishing success at this ...trust me i know what im doing
I'd rather people were straight with me."
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I have a face like a plastereres radio but have astonishing success at this ...trust me i know what im doing"
I don't doubt you but I'd still, personally, prefer people to be more direct.
lol @ plasterer's radio though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a face like a plastereres radio but have astonishing success at this ...trust me i know what im doing
I don't doubt you but I'd still, personally, prefer people to be more direct.
lol @ plasterer's radio though"
People seldom are ...most tell you what they expect you want to hearx |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Direct approach is good but sometimes it can still get you a slap  "
Depends how direct.
Hi, you're really pretty, would you like to have a drink with me?
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Hi, you have lovely eyes/legs/ankles/knees/ears/clavicles etc and I'd really like to play with you.
are one thing. "Hi. Do you take it up the bum?" can offend.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Direct approach is good but sometimes it can still get you a slap
Depends how direct.
Hi, you're really pretty, would you like to have a drink with me?
or
Hi, you have lovely eyes/legs/ankles/knees/ears/clavicles etc and I'd really like to play with you.
are one thing. "Hi. Do you take it up the bum?" can offend.
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I think I'd wait for the invite on the third one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Direct approach is good but sometimes it can still get you a slap "
Not been slapped yet ...been swinging for 7 years ...had multiple plays though adopting this approach ...having said that and hope i dont sound too up my own hole ..it needs a certain je ne se quo to pull it off |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Direct approach is good but sometimes it can still get you a slap Not been slapped yet ...been swinging for 7 years ...had multiple plays though adopting this approach ...having said that and hope i dont sound too up my own hole ..it needs a certain je ne se quo to pull it off "
Hey, if it works for you, I wouldn't dream of knocking it.
A "je ne se quo" huh? Well, you clearly must have one! |
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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago
oldham |
My advice to any single guy going to a club is -
Don't go expecting you will have sex, as it doesn't always happen. There is never a guarantee of sex in any club.
Try going with the intention of socializing and just enjoying the night out, and if sex happens it's a bonus.
A lot of people in clubs, like the social side as well as having fun, and when some people can sense you've only got sex on the brain, it can put them off.
I'm not saying everyone would be put off by not wanting to get stuck in, as I've seen lots of people who don't mind if there hasn't been any conversation, but I see the opposite so much more.
I myself have been put off when I see single guys, walking around from room to room highly frustrated, popping there head through the door and never saying a word to anyone. Give me a look as if to say, ' are you playing yet or what '. And then when I do go to play, I'm followed, and some will ask or just assume I want to play with them. I give them a polite no thanks.
The men who show themselves to be friendly, respectful and join in talking to couples and singles, do get asked a lot more to play. You must remember a swinging club is not a brothel, and any lady who is playing, does so by her own choice.
Always ask before you touch and respect people's wishes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice to any single guy going to a club is -
Don't go expecting you will have sex, as it doesn't always happen. There is never a guarantee of sex in any club.
Try going with the intention of socializing and just enjoying the night out, and if sex happens it's a bonus.
A lot of people in clubs, like the social side as well as having fun, and when some people can sense you've only got sex on the brain, it can put them off.
I'm not saying everyone would be put off by not wanting to get stuck in, as I've seen lots of people who don't mind if there hasn't been any conversation, but I see the opposite so much more.
I myself have been put off when I see single guys, walking around from room to room highly frustrated, popping there head through the door and never saying a word to anyone. Give me a look as if to say, ' are you playing yet or what '. And then when I do go to play, I'm followed, and some will ask or just assume I want to play with them. I give them a polite no thanks.
The men who show themselves to be friendly, respectful and join in talking to couples and singles, do get asked a lot more to play. You must remember a swinging club is not a brothel, and any lady who is playing, does so by her own choice.
Always ask before you touch and respect people's wishes.
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