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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago
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Right, this is not a moan or anything, it's intended to be a philosophical discussion (sort of...)
Some people believe that there are some arse kissers in here (not a jibe at anyone specific mind!). So, it made me think, how do you distinguish a nice person from an arse kisser? Like for example I like being nice to people and I want them to be nice to me...there have been times when I would have loved to give a piece of my mind but then I thought, it will only backfire so what's the point? So, am I just a nice person, in the genuine sense or am I an annoying do-gooder? Do you appreciate a nice person or do you like people who "say it like it is" (even if they are just being needlessly nasty?) Having said that, it's all in the eye of the beholder as well... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through."
And your problem is?  |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"When I help out a woman. They think that I am on the pull. No one believes me that I am a decent bloke who isn't afraid to help others  "
Damned if you do and damned if you don't. Personally if someone isnt grateful for the help i give i never bother helping again |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I like to think I am the same with male, female & couples, I say nice things when I think they are called for and I say it as I feel it when required which does not endear me.
but hey, it's life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there have been times when I would have loved to give a piece of my mind but then I thought, it will only backfire so what's the point? So, am I just a nice person, in the genuine sense or am I an annoying do-gooder?"
I'd say you're frustrated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I help out a woman. They think that I am on the pull. No one believes me that I am a decent bloke who isn't afraid to help others
Damned if you do and damned if you don't. Personally if someone isnt grateful for the help i give i never bother helping again "
Well the odd woman I think, think I am on the pull. 99.9% of the people who know I have helped out or offered to help accuse me of being a creep and all sort  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My biggest mistake and regret in life so far is seeking approval in others. Met enough arse kissers to know that if the world relied on it, the vertebrates would be outnumbered.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love people that try to like each other, not people that just try to get along or outright refuse to.
I'm not a bad person, not necessarily a good one either. But I'm motivated to the latter, only sparingly. I'm tired of people, as much as I try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through."
& not vise versa?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are times when it really is pointless giving someone a piece of your mind so its more about mature behaviour than genuine or do gooder. Yes it is really nice to give someone who deserves it a piece of your mind but knowing whether it is right or wrong is the far more sensible approach. And saying it how it is, is only okay if its constructive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right, this is not a moan or anything, it's intended to be a philosophical discussion (sort of...)
Some people believe that there are some arse kissers in here (not a jibe at anyone specific mind!). So, it made me think, how do you distinguish a nice person from an arse kisser? Like for example I like being nice to people and I want them to be nice to me...there have been times when I would have loved to give a piece of my mind but then I thought, it will only backfire so what's the point? So, am I just a nice person, in the genuine sense or am I an annoying do-gooder? Do you appreciate a nice person or do you like people who "say it like it is" (even if they are just being needlessly nasty?) Having said that, it's all in the eye of the beholder as well..."
Colour of their nose could be a give away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through."
what do u think this site is?? a dating site???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are times when it really is pointless giving someone a piece of your mind so its more about mature behaviour than genuine or do gooder. Yes it is really nice to give someone who deserves it a piece of your mind but knowing whether it is right or wrong is the far more sensible approach. And saying it how it is, is only okay if its constructive"
But you know, as much as I'd like to agree with you, when you know you're right about something and you're outnumbered, the rules will sometimes fly out the window.
It's easier when you got numbers that can support each other |
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There is a marked difference on the forums. There's one thing being supportive and "sticking up" for women but being a disingenuous arse licker is cringe worthy and vomit inducing.
For example if a woman is stood up, a good guy will say, "that wasn't nice, hope it doesn't put you off the site, there are plenty of goods guys around, good luck for next time".
Arse licking white knight: "what?!! The wanker stood YOU up?!! You're gorgeous, I'd crawl over broken glass to meet you. It makes me sick the other single blokes on here fucking it up for us genuine ones. Give me a crack, I'll never let you down like the other losers...
Spot the difference?!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a marked difference on the forums. There's one thing being supportive and "sticking up" for women but being a disingenuous arse licker is cringe worthy and vomit inducing.
For example if a woman is stood up, a good guy will say, "that wasn't nice, hope it doesn't put you off the site, there are plenty of goods guys around, good luck for next time".
Arse licking white knight: "what?!! The wanker stood YOU up?!! You're gorgeous, I'd crawl over broken glass to meet you. It makes me sick the other single blokes on here fucking it up for us genuine ones. Give me a crack, I'll never let you down like the other losers...
Spot the difference?!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a marked difference on the forums. There's one thing being supportive and "sticking up" for women but being a disingenuous arse licker is cringe worthy and vomit inducing.
For example if a woman is stood up, a good guy will say, "that wasn't nice, hope it doesn't put you off the site, there are plenty of goods guys around, good luck for next time".
Arse licking white knight: "what?!! The wanker stood YOU up?!! You're gorgeous, I'd crawl over broken glass to meet you. It makes me sick the other single blokes on here fucking it up for us genuine ones. Give me a crack, I'll never let you down like the other losers...
Spot the difference?!!
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I prefer the one that says 'stop fucking moaning'. |
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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago
Leeds. |
"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through.And your problem is? "
We did not say it was a problem. It's just an observation (which happens to be correct). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through.And your problem is?
We did not say it was a problem. It's just an observation (which happens to be correct)."
I disagree, so to me you are incorrect, and really are doing yourselves no favours now, are you not bored with single male bashing yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a marked difference on the forums. There's one thing being supportive and "sticking up" for women but being a disingenuous arse licker is cringe worthy and vomit inducing.
For example if a woman is stood up, a good guy will say, "that wasn't nice, hope it doesn't put you off the site, there are plenty of goods guys around, good luck for next time".
Arse licking white knight: "what?!! The wanker stood YOU up?!! You're gorgeous, I'd crawl over broken glass to meet you. It makes me sick the other single blokes on here fucking it up for us genuine ones. Give me a crack, I'll never let you down like the other losers...
Spot the difference?!!
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Don't suppose you've any wound dressings that I can borrow, Miss Tres? "Ö |
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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago
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"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through.
& not vise versa? "
Just an observation based on personal experience. We can't speak for others. Do our personal experiences have to include the opinions of others ? Do forgive us. |
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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago
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"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through.And your problem is?
We did not say it was a problem. It's just an observation (which happens to be correct).I disagree, so to me you are incorrect, and really are doing yourselves no favours now, are you not bored with single male bashing yet? "
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Or is telling the truth about ours not permitted ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through.And your problem is?
We did not say it was a problem. It's just an observation (which happens to be correct).I disagree, so to me you are incorrect, and really are doing yourselves no favours now, are you not bored with single male bashing yet?
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Or is telling the truth about ours not permitted ?"
Its permitted but boring now, to be honest you are not doing yourself any favours as I see it, Never mind more single guys for me. |
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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago
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"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through.And your problem is?
We did not say it was a problem. It's just an observation (which happens to be correct).I disagree, so to me you are incorrect, and really are doing yourselves no favours now, are you not bored with single male bashing yet?
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Or is telling the truth about ours not permitted ?Its permitted but boring now, to be honest you are not doing yourself any favours as I see it, Never mind more single guys for me. "
We're gutted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through.And your problem is?
We did not say it was a problem. It's just an observation (which happens to be correct).I disagree, so to me you are incorrect, and really are doing yourselves no favours now, are you not bored with single male bashing yet?
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Or is telling the truth about ours not permitted ?Its permitted but boring now, to be honest you are not doing yourself any favours as I see it, Never mind more single guys for me.
We're gutted."
So you should be  |
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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago
Leeds. |
"Some males on here are only nice because they hope to get their end away. Decline their offer and their true colours soon shine through.And your problem is?
We did not say it was a problem. It's just an observation (which happens to be correct).I disagree, so to me you are incorrect, and really are doing yourselves no favours now, are you not bored with single male bashing yet?
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Or is telling the truth about ours not permitted ?Its permitted but boring now, to be honest you are not doing yourself any favours as I see it, Never mind more single guys for me.
We're gutted.So you should be "
Sadly that was sarcasm, and we're not.
Note to self. Never tell the truth about personal experiences on the forum. Some don't like it. |
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"There is a marked difference on the forums. There's one thing being supportive and "sticking up" for women but being a disingenuous arse licker is cringe worthy and vomit inducing.
For example if a woman is stood up, a good guy will say, "that wasn't nice, hope it doesn't put you off the site, there are plenty of goods guys around, good luck for next time".
Arse licking white knight: "what?!! The wanker stood YOU up?!! You're gorgeous, I'd crawl over broken glass to meet you. It makes me sick the other single blokes on here fucking it up for us genuine ones. Give me a crack, I'll never let you down like the other losers...
Spot the difference?!!
Don't suppose you've any wound dressings that I can borrow, Miss Tres? "Ö"
Wound dressing? You big girl!   |
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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago
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"there have been times when I would have loved to give a piece of my mind but then I thought, it will only backfire so what's the point? So, am I just a nice person, in the genuine sense or am I an annoying do-gooder?
I'd say you're frustrated."
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"Right, this is not a moan or anything, it's intended to be a philosophical discussion (sort of...)
Some people believe that there are some arse kissers in here (not a jibe at anyone specific mind!). So, it made me think, how do you distinguish a nice person from an arse kisser? Like for example I like being nice to people and I want them to be nice to me...there have been times when I would have loved to give a piece of my mind but then I thought, it will only backfire so what's the point? So, am I just a nice person, in the genuine sense or am I an annoying do-gooder? Do you appreciate a nice person or do you like people who "say it like it is" (even if they are just being needlessly nasty?) Having said that, it's all in the eye of the beholder as well..."
Where's that quote again "It's so easy to laugh. It's so easy to hate. It takes strength to be gentle and kind."
You can speak the truth if necessary, but you can do it with kindness rather than acidity. |
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"Right, this is not a moan or anything, it's intended to be a philosophical discussion (sort of...)
Some people believe that there are some arse kissers in here (not a jibe at anyone specific mind!). So, it made me think, how do you distinguish a nice person from an arse kisser? Like for example I like being nice to people and I want them to be nice to me...there have been times when I would have loved to give a piece of my mind but then I thought, it will only backfire so what's the point? So, am I just a nice person, in the genuine sense or am I an annoying do-gooder? Do you appreciate a nice person or do you like people who "say it like it is" (even if they are just being needlessly nasty?) Having said that, it's all in the eye of the beholder as well...
Where's that quote again "It's so easy to laugh. It's so easy to hate. It takes strength to be gentle and kind."
You can speak the truth if necessary, but you can do it with kindness rather than acidity."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a marked difference on the forums. There's one thing being supportive and "sticking up" for women but being a disingenuous arse licker is cringe worthy and vomit inducing.
For example if a woman is stood up, a good guy will say, "that wasn't nice, hope it doesn't put you off the site, there are plenty of goods guys around, good luck for next time".
Arse licking white knight: "what?!! The wanker stood YOU up?!! You're gorgeous, I'd crawl over broken glass to meet you. It makes me sick the other single blokes on here fucking it up for us genuine ones. Give me a crack, I'll never let you down like the other losers...
Spot the difference?!!
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I think this answers the question perfectly lol |
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I like to think i straddle (oo-er) the line between both.
Everyone gets a fair shake of the stick with me (where i'm nice to them) until you prove yourself to be an idiot. And then i treat you as such. I can't tolerate certain behaviour and make that clear, on the internet and in real life. |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
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I have posted threads like this and been labelled and chastised accordingly. I don't cringe at the arse kissers nearly as much as I do the negative keyboard warriors waiting to pounce on posters and pick them apart but it seems a lot of regular forumites prefer the latter. |
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Simps and arse lickers
Constant woe is me types
Consistently negative people
Braggarts
All the above display traits that will annoy a variety of individuals from various walks of life. Some have more tolerance than others. |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
Rockford |
"Simps and arse lickers
Constant woe is me types
Consistently negative people
Braggarts
All the above display traits that will annoy a variety of individuals from various walks of life. Some have more tolerance than others."
Well we can't all be as zen as you Blackshadow |
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"Simps and arse lickers
Constant woe is me types
Consistently negative people
Braggarts
All the above display traits that will annoy a variety of individuals from various walks of life. Some have more tolerance than others.
Well we can't all be as zen as you Blackshadow "
I wish i was. I actually have a short fuse, lol. I think i'm getting better at walking away from things that annoy me (on here) |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
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"Simps and arse lickers
Constant woe is me types
Consistently negative people
Braggarts
All the above display traits that will annoy a variety of individuals from various walks of life. Some have more tolerance than others.
Well we can't all be as zen as you Blackshadow
I wish i was. I actually have a short fuse, lol. I think i'm getting better at walking away from things that annoy me (on here)"
I am trying valiantly. At the moment I am using all my will power bot to read and comment on the latest bbw thread |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
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"Simps and arse lickers
Constant woe is me types
Consistently negative people
Braggarts
All the above display traits that will annoy a variety of individuals from various walks of life. Some have more tolerance than others.
Well we can't all be as zen as you Blackshadow
I wish i was. I actually have a short fuse, lol. I think i'm getting better at walking away from things that annoy me (on here)
I am trying valiantly. At the moment I am using all my will power bot to read and comment on the latest bbw thread "
*not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are just a normal everyday nice couple.... We don't arse lick... If there is something we don't agree with, then we will say so!
There is a rumour that Lucy's right hand isn't very nice though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Simps and arse lickers
Constant woe is me types
Consistently negative people
Braggarts
All the above display traits that will annoy a variety of individuals from various walks of life. Some have more tolerance than others."
I have no tolerance for a lot of the above and I don't care if it means those people don't think im nice if I respond to them in a way they don't like,too many people want to be molly coddled,arselicked and made to feel as though they're wonderful and loved,if you need an forum on a sex site to provide you with that then you need to take a good look at yourself,pandering to the needy makes me lose my sense of humour sometimes |
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I had a situation at work last week. 2 women I work with, one had a issue with the other one and she was telling me and I didn't want to get involved as I hadn't heard what was said, so I made the appropriate comments and said she should speak to our boss. Anyway next day I'm called in office and asked for my input. I said what I'd been told etc, left office feeling upset as I'm a nice person and don't want to take sides. Hate atmosphere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Simps and arse lickers
Constant woe is me types
Consistently negative people
Braggarts
All the above display traits that will annoy a variety of individuals from various walks of life. Some have more tolerance than others."
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I am bewildered at times why the 'self professed' nice people keep having digs at the 'keyboard warriors' displaying the very behaviour they dislike. Sometimes the masks slip.
we ain't going to get on, agree and have the same tolerances. |
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"I am bewildered at times why the 'self professed' nice people keep having digs at the 'keyboard warriors' displaying the very behaviour they dislike. Sometimes the masks slip.
we ain't going to get on, agree and have the same tolerances. "
some people just love to play the victim but dig the boot in just as much,they just don't see that behaviour in themselves but I think we're all guilty of it at some point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Simps and arse lickers
Constant woe is me types
Consistently negative people
Braggarts
All the above display traits that will annoy a variety of individuals from various walks of life. Some have more tolerance than others.
Well we can't all be as zen as you Blackshadow
I wish i was. I actually have a short fuse, lol. I think i'm getting better at walking away from things that annoy me (on here)
I am trying valiantly. At the moment I am using all my will power bot to read and comment on the latest bbw thread
*not"
bot was quite a good typo given the 'arse kissing' subject matter!  |
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"Simps and arse lickers
Constant woe is me types
Consistently negative people
Braggarts
All the above display traits that will annoy a variety of individuals from various walks of life. Some have more tolerance than others.
I have no tolerance for a lot of the above and I don't care if it means those people don't think im nice if I respond to them in a way they don't like,too many people want to be molly coddled,arselicked and made to feel as though they're wonderful and loved,if you need an forum on a sex site to provide you with that then you need to take a good look at yourself,pandering to the needy makes me lose my sense of humour sometimes "
I really couldn't have put it better myself! |
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"I am bewildered at times why the 'self professed' nice people keep having digs at the 'keyboard warriors' displaying the very behaviour they dislike. Sometimes the masks slip.
we ain't going to get on, agree and have the same tolerances.
some people just love to play the victim but dig the boot in just as much,they just don't see that behaviour in themselves but I think we're all guilty of it at some point"
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"I am bewildered at times why the 'self professed' nice people keep having digs at the 'keyboard warriors' displaying the very behaviour they dislike. Sometimes the masks slip.
we ain't going to get on, agree and have the same tolerances.
some people just love to play the victim but dig the boot in just as much,they just don't see that behaviour in themselves but I think we're all guilty of it at some point"
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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago
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"I am bewildered at times why the 'self professed' nice people keep having digs at the 'keyboard warriors' displaying the very behaviour they dislike. Sometimes the masks slip.
we ain't going to get on, agree and have the same tolerances. "
Don't you think being nice with a certain limit of tolerance is different to just being obnoxious and full of bile though? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I am bewildered at times why the 'self professed' nice people keep having digs at the 'keyboard warriors' displaying the very behaviour they dislike. Sometimes the masks slip.
we ain't going to get on, agree and have the same tolerances.
Don't you think being nice with a certain limit of tolerance is different to just being obnoxious and full of bile though?"
both individual choice and open to intrepretation
I chose my actions, recognise them & am fully accountable for them.
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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago
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Lots of things in here are "open to interpretation" and "choice" but there's still a difference between trying to be as nice as you want other people to be towards you without being a puppy and being daftly annoyed at nice attitude or just plain bitchy |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Lots of things in here are "open to interpretation" and "choice" but there's still a difference between trying to be as nice as you want other people to be towards you without being a puppy and being daftly annoyed at nice attitude or just plain bitchy"
I want people to be real, authentic & straight to the point.
I will be me.
You be you... good luck n enjoy. |
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"Lots of things in here are "open to interpretation" and "choice" but there's still a difference between trying to be as nice as you want other people to be towards you without being a puppy and being daftly annoyed at nice attitude or just plain bitchy
I want people to be real, authentic & straight to the point.
I will be me.
You be you... good luck n enjoy."
Authentic - good word.
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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago
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"i think because other people on here say what they think, i do the same.
then the people who just agree with everyone else all the time are just boring."
I think this is one of the wisdoms of this website which is slowly sinking in...you'll never please everyone so don't try. Just be YOU and if people don't like it they can fack off. (oops...did I just drop my mask ) |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
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"I am bewildered at times why the 'self professed' nice people keep having digs at the 'keyboard warriors' displaying the very behaviour they dislike. Sometimes the masks slip.
we ain't going to get on, agree and have the same tolerances.
some people just love to play the victim but dig the boot in just as much,they just don't see that behaviour in themselves but I think we're all guilty of it at some point"
oh I give up..its all urine pee pee I am away. . Good luck forumites im off the chatrooms forever xx |
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"I am bewildered at times why the 'self professed' nice people keep having digs at the 'keyboard warriors' displaying the very behaviour they dislike. Sometimes the masks slip.
we ain't going to get on, agree and have the same tolerances. "
I always find this term amusing. Firstly because I earn much of my living from my keyboard and so I'd only see it as a term of complement..
But secondly because it implies people would never say what they type in person. Perhaps they wouldn't, but I'd love to know how many of the accusers would actually be able to handle it if those things were said to their face.
My experience is not many handle 'saying it to my face' very well. I'll take a keyboard warrior over a keyboard whiner anytime. |
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By *_Marius OP Man
over a year ago
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"I am bewildered at times why the 'self professed' nice people keep having digs at the 'keyboard warriors' displaying the very behaviour they dislike. Sometimes the masks slip.
we ain't going to get on, agree and have the same tolerances.
some people just love to play the victim but dig the boot in just as much,they just don't see that behaviour in themselves but I think we're all guilty of it at some point
oh I give up..its all urine pee pee I am away. . Good luck forumites im off the chatrooms forever xx "
Pleeease stay |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am bewildered at times why the 'self professed' nice people keep having digs at the 'keyboard warriors' displaying the very behaviour they dislike. Sometimes the masks slip.
we ain't going to get on, agree and have the same tolerances.
some people just love to play the victim but dig the boot in just as much,they just don't see that behaviour in themselves but I think we're all guilty of it at some point
oh I give up..its all urine pee pee I am away. . Good luck forumites im off the chatrooms forever xx "
Bye then |
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"There is a marked difference on the forums. There's one thing being supportive and "sticking up" for women but being a disingenuous arse licker is cringe worthy and vomit inducing.
For example if a woman is stood up, a good guy will say, "that wasn't nice, hope it doesn't put you off the site, there are plenty of goods guys around, good luck for next time".
Arse licking white knight: "what?!! The wanker stood YOU up?!! You're gorgeous, I'd crawl over broken glass to meet you. It makes me sick the other single blokes on here fucking it up for us genuine ones. Give me a crack, I'll never let you down like the other losers...
Spot the difference?!! "
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