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GOOD BYE FOR NOW

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

HI GUYS I HAVE TO LEAVE FAB FOR A WHILE PROBS AT HOME I NEED TO SORT....IM ONLY HIDING MY PROFILE AS IVE MADE SUM ACE FREINDS ON HERE AND DONT WANT TO LOSE EM...HAPPY FABBING EVRY1 TAKE CARE .....BACK SOON I HOPE XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

take care...hope you get it all sorted out xx

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By *mumaWoman over a year ago

Livingston

"HI GUYS I HAVE TO LEAVE FAB FOR A WHILE PROBS AT HOME I NEED TO SORT....IM ONLY HIDING MY PROFILE AS IVE MADE SUM ACE FREINDS ON HERE AND DONT WANT TO LOSE EM...HAPPY FABBING EVRY1 TAKE CARE .....BACK SOON I HOPE XXXX

Hope you get everything sorted Tracey. Take care xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck and take care

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take good care lovely and hope problems are soon sorted. Haste ye back xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no need to rush back, have a good break

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Do you have to be so bloody rude all the time? And you wonder why wars are started on threads.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Hope you sort whatever you need to sort and be back soon. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope to see you posting again real soon Lady Babe, and hoping you solve your problems. Xx

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I can only echo what everyone else has said.

Good luck and I hOpe everything sorts out OK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"no need to rush back, have a good break

thanx for evryones support ...and i think the above thread says it all about the above couple...

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

do what you have to do xxx sometimes real life gets in the way of fun....

god speed, look after yourself and don't be a stranger xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope everything works out for you hun and we see you back soon.

Love kat n kev x x x

PS..

Lets not turn this thread into a hate thread because of one little mans comments, rise above it, giving it a reaction is playing right into his hands.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take care and look after yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Put yourself first, hope you get everything sorted, come back even better and brighter than before

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Hope you get things sorted and look forward to you're early return x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shame the same wasn't said to the OP when she was rude to me in threads yesterday, threads which in the end were removed for thier personal attacks on people, mostly me.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"Shame the same wasn't said to the OP when she was rude to me in threads yesterday, threads which in the end were removed for thier personal attacks on people, mostly me."

And why I removed the threads when I managed to get on line inbetween work, sleep, shower, shopping. You were not innocent on those threads either.

Sorry that it wasn't as fast as you would have liked, but if a mod isn't on to sort it, hit the REPORT button from the side of the thread and it will be checked by Admin.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wasn't innocent, I simply said that I was blocking someone who admitted to being a timewaster, others said more but it was I that became the victim of bullying, abuse and vilification even cumulating in the opening of a further thread just to abuse me.

Many people have said they will block timewasters on here without such bullying tactics from a small minority who think they own the forums, can vilify anyone who disagree with thier opinions and who change thier minds on what is acceptable dependent on who says it, who post anything just to be accepted by a certain few.

Others said they were going to block the person but recieved no comments.

Some in that thread were far less sensative in what they wrote but did not recieve any comment, there are a few on here who will try to abuse anything I say and the more they do it the more I will post my own opinion.

If I announce I am leaving the forums for a while we can all imagine the comments they would make.

The bullies on here stop many people posting anything in fear of being bullied, I get many mails of support each day from such people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whilst I appreciate Jed's opinion here. Someone, sometime has to stand up and think (not say, jeez, imagine that) I am better than this, it's a ridiculous situation that got out of hand.

Tbh Jed, I think you should have passed the thread by, or seen past the little hiccup on the deleted thread and posted well wishes.

Posting what you did only takes you down to the level you mention is not nice that does go on in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Look Im not being funny but can we not just draw a line under yesterdays threads??

Yes people will not always agree with things posted but thats life not everyone will agree - hell hubby and I cant agree on what to have for lunch half the time!!!

Shona

x x x

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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I am not going to argue with you Jed.

If you have any complaints of favourtisim than you need to use the CONTACT button at the bottom of the page and make your feelings known there.

There is one thing I would say to anyone , people reap what they sow, so be careful what you sow.

Now as this thread has been yet again turned into a thread about something in the past I am going to shut it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Look Im not being funny but can we not just draw a line under yesterdays threads??

Yes people will not always agree with things posted but thats life not everyone will agree - hell hubby and I cant agree on what to have for lunch half the time!!!

Shona

x x x "

I disagree, I think you are being funny.

I'm joking.

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By *ickedWWoman over a year ago

Chester

All sounds a bit like the school yard,

"she said this and he said that"

This site is for adults so FFS start acting like one

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

"Wasn't innocent, I simply said that I was blocking someone who admitted to being a timewaster, others said more but it was I that became the victim of bullying, abuse and vilification even cumulating in the opening of a further thread just to abuse me.

Others said they were going to block the person but recieved no comments.

If I announce I am leaving the forums for a while we can all imagine the comments they would make.

The bullies on here stop many people posting anything in fear of being bullied, I get many mails of support each day from such people."

Forum - N, meeting or medium for open discussion or debate.

Discussion - N of discuss - consider (something) by talking it over.

Some people have strong opinions on certain subjects..... erm, scratch that.... MOST people have etc etc, its just some people are more likely to air them honestly in an open forum, sometimes without thinking about the impact that these opinions will have on others (guilty as charged on many occassions)..... hmmmm.... like including the word "honestly" in the sentence above, which might be taken by some people that I am inferring that others are not honest, which is not the case, but diferent people read things diferently.

I too have been attacked in the forums for things I have posted, and had the PM's of support from others too afraid to post openly for fear of the backlash.

I dont think it should be like this, but unfortunately thats life. I cant go around constantly apologising after every sentence I write in case there is something in it that might be misconstrued, and anyway, some people will go out of their way to get upset at the slightest whiff of controversy. (Damn, I almost got to the end of a post without being confrontational!!

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I could stop coming into the forums, but that wouldnt stop this sort of thing happening, because my place would be taken by someone else... and if truth be told, there is a tiny part of me who (childishly... yeah, so what?) gets a bit of a kick out of posting knowing that it might annoy one or two people. I post my opinions honestly, if people disagree thats ok, but is there any need to get personal?

(Oh boy, look out... the shits gunna hit the fan now)

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