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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello fellow fatties
I have had an interesting message this morning telling me that I should search for black men as I would get a lot of interest because they like larger women 
Girls, do you find you get more attention off black men?
Black men, what do you think?
Just intrigued to see what peoples experiences are. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get that much interest from any men. I do know black and white men who like fuller figures and those that like a more athletic look.
Generalisations are ever only that."
I was just taken aback, it hadn't been something I had ever thought about as I don't try to generalise too much.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dint know if we get more interest but do certainly get interesting messages. We have had the pleasure also and both gentlemen we have met were very courteous, funny and overwhelmingly great fun was had! They lived up to the stereotype too ?? However we have had fabulous meets with many differing people, white black male and female to be honest. I think as a stereotype larger ladies appeal to black guys but not all im sure! Personal preference is paramount. Have fun with whoever it is that mutually attracts! X   |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Hello fellow fatties
I have had an interesting message this morning telling me that I should search for black men as I would get a lot of interest because they like larger women
Girls, do you find you get more attention off black men?
Black men, what do you think?
Just intrigued to see what peoples experiences are."
I'm still plump but when i was heftier i used to get a lot of attention from black guys on my fat bird nights out.
We all have something that floats our boat.... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I don't get that much interest from any men. I do know black and white men who like fuller figures and those that like a more athletic look.
Generalisations are ever only that.
I was just taken aback, it hadn't been something I had ever thought about as I don't try to generalise too much.
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Quite a lot of all men seem to like big boobies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate myself for saying this but I have to agree when im at clubs I get far more attention from black guys, infact hardly any white guys talk to me in clubs
ive never given it a thought before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do get mail off black men but never thought anything more about it until now. 
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nor me
I always thought I got more attention from black guys in clubs because they was more forwards than white men |
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"I hate myself for saying this but I have to agree when im at clubs I get far more attention from black guys, infact hardly any white guys talk to me in clubs
ive never given it a thought before "
I'm 53 and only ever had one black partner: my husband. Then again I don't really come into contact with black men, mores the pity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not short of white fellas who like a fuller figure, but the few darker gentlemen I've met do really do seem to appreciate those more round areas. I quite like that too.  . It can't always be the case though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've heard this generalisation before.
Face to face I tend to turn a lot of black guys heads (white too but I think black men make it more obvious that they appreciate my looks).
On here I can count on one hand how many black men have been interested yet I'm a little overwhelmed by the amount of interest I've had from other races.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've never been with a black man so can't comment on how they react to my body in the bedroom I guess I didn't think there was a trend as such when it came to receiving messages on here
While living in Reading I do remember a couple of times where black men would approach me but being naive I thought they were just being friendly |
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"I'm not short of white fellas who like a fuller figure, but the few darker gentlemen I've met do really do seem to appreciate those more round areas. I quite like that too. . It can't always be the case though. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a crock
White men like larger women ... black men like larger women ... purple painted men like larger women
Same can be said for liking slim... ample ... skinny ... portly ( you get what I mean)
Each to their own and to their own each |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not short of white fellas who like a fuller figure, but the few darker gentlemen I've met do really do seem to appreciate those more round areas. I quite like that too. . It can't always be the case though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive met both black and white guys who like the fuller figure...i do think that if approached in a swing club....its a matter of confidence within the guy, on who makes his fancies known  not with colour of skin |
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I do get hit on majoritively by black men when out and about.
I don't know if it's neccessarily about black men liking larger ladies more than other ethnicities, I think they're maybe just more sexually confident?...
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do get hit on majoritively by black men when out and about.
I don't know if it's neccessarily about black men liking larger ladies more than other ethnicities, I think they're maybe just more sexually confident?...
- Amy. x"
I think that too
when I go clubs white guys always mail me the next day telling me they saw me but wasn't sure if they should say hi, where as black guys just come and talk, I just think black guys arnt as shy as coming forwards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a crock
White men like larger women ... black men like larger women ... purple painted men like larger women
Same can be said for liking slim... ample ... skinny ... portly ( you get what I mean)
Each to their own and to their own each "
i agree
for me personally its nothing to do with big small fat thin short tall its all about the person as everyone is different |
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By *ungle-FeverCouple (FF)
over a year ago
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"Ive met both black and white guys who like the fuller figure...i do think that if approached in a swing club....its a matter of confidence within the guy, on who makes his fancies known not with colour of skin "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people like what they like regardless of their race, skin colour etc it is all about preference as usual, I am a fuller figured lady I don't think I get more attention from black guys no more than I do white guys anyway. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Why would you change your preferences just to get more messages/meets? 
You like what you like and are how you are - nobody is worth changing yourself, unless it is what you wanted to do!
I'd rather have no meets at all than feel like I have to change to get anywhere on a swinging site (or any other site for that matter!) |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"This is some crazy shit!
Apparently skinny black women like fat white men and blue three-titted women like _unky monkeys as well. "
I told you about that third tit in confidence!!  |
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"Why would you change your preferences just to get more messages/meets?
You like what you like and are how you are - nobody is worth changing yourself, unless it is what you wanted to do!
I'd rather have no meets at all than feel like I have to change to get anywhere on a swinging site (or any other site for that matter!)"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I Do probably because i have pics and veri's with blk men,im going to a party fri with 60 bulls attending oooh lol
I like the sound of this!"
I know im so excited x never even been to a bmfc yet but am going 6th dec at eureka lol think this be gd practise |
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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago
oldham |
"As long as she swallows I'm bless! 
I bite.... "
LOL love it!
For some, size doesn't matter, but on a whole black guys do prefer a lady with something to grab, especially if they are not British born.
I have also played with a lot of white guys who say the like bbws, but don't feel my size puts many people off. I'm aware it could also be because a lot a white guys have never been with a black girl before. Even so, I've always felt my size isn't a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you change your preferences just to get more messages/meets?
You like what you like and are how you are - nobody is worth changing yourself, unless it is what you wanted to do!
I'd rather have no meets at all than feel like I have to change to get anywhere on a swinging site (or any other site for that matter!)"
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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago
Here, There & Everywhere |
"I Do probably because i have pics and veri's with blk men,im going to a party fri with 60 bulls attending oooh lol
I like the sound of this!
I know im so excited x never even been to a bmfc yet but am going 6th dec at eureka lol think this be gd practise "
Wooooaaaah - i NEVER quote such crazy figures!!
If you are attending one of my parties and expecting 60 Single Black Guys, then im afraid you will be VERY disappointed
I NEVER have that many Single Black Guys at ANY of my events (and ive bene organising parties for over 8 years) as that would mean the BMFC ratio would be skewed
Its paramount to me that you are FULLY aware of this so as to manage your expectations!! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
you have got to love generalisations.....
i know this is radical... I like people because they are people... not because they happen to fit some sort of "pigeon-hole" or "niche"..
heck.. I must be in the wrong place.... |
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"I Do probably because i have pics and veri's with blk men,im going to a party fri with 60 bulls attending oooh lol
I like the sound of this!
I know im so excited x never even been to a bmfc yet but am going 6th dec at eureka lol think this be gd practise
Wooooaaaah - i NEVER quote such crazy figures!!
If you are attending one of my parties and expecting 60 Single Black Guys, then im afraid you will be VERY disappointed
I NEVER have that many Single Black Guys at ANY of my events (and ive bene organising parties for over 8 years) as that would mean the BMFC ratio would be skewed
Its paramount to me that you are FULLY aware of this so as to manage your expectations!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well now we know.
that black lad that came onto V while we were out having a meal the one evening, wasnt being extremely rude, he was actually subtley telling her she was fat  |
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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago
oldham |
"you have got to love generalisations.....
i know this is radical... I like people because they are people... not because they happen to fit some sort of "pigeon-hole" or "niche"..
heck.. I must be in the wrong place...."
I understand what your saying, and I like people based on there personality foremost, but a lot of people do have a 'certain type' they prefer. Is it really a bad thing?
How many ladies only want men who are well endowed, or only want a guy over a certain height? It really doesn't bother me how big a cock is, or a mans height, but for some that's what they like, and I would expect the majority of people would like the person, and not just be attracted to the feature they like.
I prefer women who are a size 16 up, but I've also played with stick thin ladies, as there personality and the way we clicked is far more important to me. |
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"Ive had messages of black guys ... OMG he thinks im fat  "
Can always rely on you for the funnies
I never get mail from black guys , and i'm a petite lady so maybe they do go for the fuller figure? |
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"Ive had messages of black guys ... OMG he thinks im fat
Can always rely on you for the funnies
I never get mail from black guys , and i'm a petite lady so maybe they do go for the fuller figure?"
Oh maybe they like what they like. Sacre bleu. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why all the pigeon-holing? Skin, size... what does it bloody matter? What about the delights of the unexpected, the surprise? If you concentrate on one thing, you close yourself off for other possibilities.
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By *bw48Woman
over a year ago
warrington |
must say I don't have any problems whatever their colour on here but in real life iv been chatted up at Manchester Victoria waitin for a train a few yrs ago by a gorgeous black man n he kept tellin me how he loved my big curves esp my arse n we still in contact now n again x
don't normally get chatted up by white men wen im out x |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
Wish it was true. But it's not. But it would be interesting to know if anyone who has been to a bbw event if the ratio of black men to white men is higher that night than any other night.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say 40% of mail I receive is off black guys and I'm a petite lady
But that's because you are lovely. "
As you are too x but the point I was trying to make was I'm only little and so is a dear friend of ours and we get just as much attention as a gorgeous Voluptuous lady like you do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I Do probably because i have pics and veri's with blk men,im going to a party fri with 60 bulls attending oooh lol
I like the sound of this!
I know im so excited x never even been to a bmfc yet but am going 6th dec at eureka lol think this be gd practise
Wooooaaaah - i NEVER quote such crazy figures!!
If you are attending one of my parties and expecting 60 Single Black Guys, then im afraid you will be VERY disappointed
I NEVER have that many Single Black Guys at ANY of my events (and ive bene organising parties for over 8 years) as that would mean the BMFC ratio would be skewed
Its paramount to me that you are FULLY aware of this so as to manage your expectations!! "
I couldn't cope with 60 blackguys anyway there not all for me lol I not that greedy just 2 to 4 for me and I will be a happy girl, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I Do probably because i have pics and veri's with blk men,im going to a party fri with 60 bulls attending oooh lol
I like the sound of this!
I know im so excited x never even been to a bmfc yet but am going 6th dec at eureka lol think this be gd practise
Wooooaaaah - i NEVER quote such crazy figures!!
If you are attending one of my parties and expecting 60 Single Black Guys, then im afraid you will be VERY disappointed
I NEVER have that many Single Black Guys at ANY of my events (and ive bene organising parties for over 8 years) as that would mean the BMFC ratio would be skewed
Its paramount to me that you are FULLY aware of this so as to manage your expectations!!
I couldn't cope with 60 blackguys anyway there not all for me lol I not that greedy just 2 to 4 for me and I will be a happy girl, "
Omg 60 black guys, I better get some more condoms. |
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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago
oldham |
"you have got to love generalisations.....
i know this is radical... I like people because they are people... not because they happen to fit some sort of "pigeon-hole" or "niche"..
heck.. I must be in the wrong place....
I understand what your saying, and I like people based on there personality foremost, but a lot of people do have a 'certain type' they prefer. Is it really a bad thing?
How many ladies only want men who are well endowed, or only want a guy over a certain height? It really doesn't bother me how big a cock is, or a mans height, but for some that's what they like, and I would expect the majority of people would like the person, and not just be attracted to the feature they like.
I prefer women who are a size 16 up, but I've also played with stick thin ladies, as there personality and the way we clicked is far more important to me. "
I forgot which thread I was replying to, so take no notice of my post lol
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