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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How long have they given for you to decide if you want to or not?
Is it just you or both of you as a couple? If just you then have a serious chat with the other half before making any hurried decisions. xx |
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"yes it was my thread but no-one was offering anything for sale and still arent, it was just a question x"
What is the question though? Do it or not? I would say don't do it but I'm not you, the only person who can make the decision is you really. It is prostitution basically though unless the person just wants you to do their ironing or appear in their arm at a function or something. |
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If you would do it for free, then yes. If you wouldn't consider it, then no... The money could add a buzz... and pay for a holiday etc...
If you are only thinking about it because of the money. Think long and hard about how you would feel after.... The safety aspect also needs to be considered... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sounds nice, but depends who it is and how they treat you and what they expect from you.
i would like to stay in nice hotel, but i prefer to meet men at my house who havnt traveled to far so i can ask them to leave when i want them to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In fantasy world we might play this scenario but a real offer is a different thing. Not sure how we would feel after and as we are into swinging just for fun would that be ruined too? I would question the motives of the guy, hidden cameras maybe for posting the event on the net or serious terminal sexual disease he wants to pass on? On balance we would steer clear but would never judge someone for taking up the offer as it does have a certain erotic feel to it x |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"errmmm... i think he wants me to read him bedtime stories.. sing lullabies to him... what do u think he wants lol x"
Unless you know, hey go to a hotel room, take 2000 and do everything he wants for his money
Seems fair |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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my hubby said no f*****g way are u doing that..... for anything less than £5000 lol im not doing it, i was just wondering what others would suggest i do x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x"
This sounds oddly familiar.....does he want you to wear a blond wig take you shopping and let you drive his lotus? |
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By *heffmMan
over a year ago
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"recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x
Oops forgot to ask,
Direct debit or standing order. " tesco club points. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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no certainly not, my hubby put that on the status, he likes used knickers lol the last post was not about prostitution either im sorry you took it that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x"
How badly do you need the cash?
Alternatively, how hot is he? |
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whatever its called its not what we believe this aspect is about..
seems to be far too much blurring of the lines for some folk recently..
surely anyone with that sort of money to spend would use an escort agency where they would be guaranteed to have what they want..? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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as i said earlier i would never dream of doing it, it was other peoples thoughts and what theyd do that i wasinterested in hearing, he was ok looking x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would not do it. I am not for sale. I wouldn't be comfortable and I would be ashamed of it. I am not in such a dire financial situation that I would have to.
I don't agree with making any kind of profit from swinging, be that taking money, asking and receiving gifts or selling used knickers etc. Swinging is a hobby to me, one that I'm in control of and I do what I please. Accepting some kind of payment for it would make me feel cheap and it would become a transaction. |
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"recently i recieved an indecent proposal... one night at a top hotel and £2000... i was a bit taken aback lol x advice plz x"
My last post was prob a bit negative, can see the erotic side of this scenario and if it came about what the hell, but think it only works if you both get a kick out of it, the sum of money iS, to my mind, irrelevant x |
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