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should i lose weight?

By *ig cock and big tits OP Couple over a year ago

Barnstaple

I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as you feel comfortable in your own skin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this a wind up??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yeah get on a diet you fat bugger

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

why would it stop you from having fun??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs."

Only if you let it stop you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this a wind up??"

yessss read her pervious posts on other threads

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't become bitter and twisted now you are putting on weight though....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't become bitter and twisted now you are putting on weight though....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this a wind up??

yessss read her pervious posts on other threads

Oh dear oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this a wind up??

yessss read her pervious posts on other threads

Oh dear oh dear"

I think its called attention seeking

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By *Ryan-Man over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Don't become bitter and twisted now you are putting on weight though....

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs."

Just stand next to me, you'll be fine ...lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Omg your a size 10-12?? Definitely lose weight if you ever want to have sex again!!

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By *.nottsbloke..Man over a year ago

the vale

i should not think so i have seen plenty of size 22+ women have lots of fun at parties and events

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ha ha ha

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By *herry and DennisCouple over a year ago

exeter

Size 10-12 is the perfect size for a pretty lady.

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By *ohn_1983Man over a year ago

South of Norwich

I love a woman with a body.

Stick thin and boney isn't attractive.

Enjoy your body as you can't swap it for anyone else's. If you want to get fitter and healthier do it by adding pleasure to your life and avoid harsh painful diets.

I recently went from non runner to my first 1/2 marathon in 6 months. I loved the experience and doing it with friends has made it even better.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Is this a wind up??"

More a look at me and tell me I'm hot...but I could be wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this a wind up??

More a look at me and tell me I'm hot...but I could be wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally like lots of different boy types, but in a women the sexiest thing is confidence. She might not be Kate Moss but if she's got a sexy smile and is comfortable in her skin, its the biggest turn on!

Different people obviously like different things!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this a wind up??

More a look at me and tell me I'm hot...but I could be wrong!

you very rarely are

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By *ucy and CarlCouple over a year ago

Broadstairs

Yeah I would if I was you. Carl.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well you know joan collins said you can never be too thin or too rich.

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

"I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs."

Yes.....

....BUT only if YOU want to and it makes you happier and NOT because of what anyone else thinks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't become bitter and twisted now you are putting on weight though....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see an awful lot of profiles where guys are looking for 'curvy' women, to the point where it seems to be the norm.

Not that I think size 10 is 'curvy' in this context, but I really wouldn't worry. It's up to you to decide how healthy/fit/happy/slim/fat/big/small/pink/blue you want to be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

op puts on weight, post in 6 months time

are slim people bitter and twisted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Size 12 is, in my opinion the perfect size for a curvy lady. you have all the naturally beautiful curves that women should have. Not that i'm saying both other ends of the spectrum are not beautiful, mine and many other men would say that 10-12 is the best

So stop that paranoia and just be happy with what you have :P And even if you were to gain more weight, as is inevitable the older we get, it's already been stated previously that many larger guys and gals have very healthy sex lives as there is always someone for everyone out there.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

I'm not even gonna comment...

(Oops)

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've been chatting to a bird on the Internet who told me that she's a size 10.,,

I can't help thinking that she used to be a bloke with feet like that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Only your attitude is going to stop you having fun

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By *eareenaCouple over a year ago

Rockford

Sorry but aren't you the poster who thinks larger ladies are bitter? Maybe that is whats really bothering you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Attention seeking at its worst!!!

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Confidence is the biggest turn on, fat, skinny, small, tall.........confidence! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not even gonna comment...

(Oops)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Forum trolls

Green arrow

That is all

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By *RYBBWCouple over a year ago

Leeds.

Sadly a lot of men look upon larger ladies as the great unwashed. Not fit for purose etc.

That's why I (Jackie) made it clear on our profile that I don't fit into the "perfect" requirements some men on fab seem to demand (despite being far from perfect themselves might I add).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think people forget clothing sizes are very misleading...size 10 on a woman who's 6ft looks totally different on someone who's 5ft

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Size 12 ? How awful! You really should step away from the doughnuts...

I've stiched together two pairs of my size 6 jeans so that you don't have to wear bed sheets.

bless xxx my heart goes out to you xxx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Think people forget clothing sizes are very misleading...size 10 on a woman who's 6ft looks totally different on someone who's 5ft"

Yeah .... the tall woman can't get sleeves to fit her

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs."

just buy lycra

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What? I'm a size 18 struggled to lose 15 pounds. Don't worry about it I say

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Forum trolls

Green arrow

That is all"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs."

No be happy as you are as foxy lady xx

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Forum trolls

Green arrow

That is all"

Gotta love the green arrow eh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Treacle you look good enough for me.Remember men (and women) love their women in all different sizes.Look at me,Im no Adonis but still get people attracted to my photos.So don't worry about it,just enjoy your life and people will accept you as you are.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I know it's presented in female clothes sizes but the OP is a couple account. It may be the male half who cross-dresses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't become bitter and twisted now you are putting on weight though....

Nice one cheeky xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Forum trolls

Green arrow

That is all

Gotta love the green arrow eh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs."

Have you ever actually been to a swingers club?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Is this a wind up??"

Yes. After the thread yesterday about how nasty and bitter larger ladies are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Beginning to look like a trilogy of Self Help Books

Book 1 Are Bigger Women Bitter

Book 2 Should I Shave

Book 3 Should I Loose Weigh

......

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By *adyA01Woman over a year ago

Wellington

Karma

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this a wind up??

Yes. After the thread yesterday about how nasty and bitter larger ladies are. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this a wind up??

Yes. After the thread yesterday about how nasty and bitter larger ladies are. "

I missed that One were at eurekas for 14hrs yesterday sat in a corner reading a book

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wheres that fecking cake

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Is this a wind up??

More a look at me and tell me I'm hot...but I could be wrong!

hot perhaps to some..

but a bit of an troll like attitude..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Although now we have all taken the whatsit we''ll get accused of being over sensitive and probably jealous as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wheres that fecking cake

I'm just baking a chocolate cake.. off to go get some icing sugar xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this a wind up??

Yes. After the thread yesterday about how nasty and bitter larger ladies are. "
I missed that one. I think. Larger lady here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this a wind up??

Yes. After the thread yesterday about how nasty and bitter larger ladies are. I missed that one. I think. Larger lady here

Follow the green arrow trail on op..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Forum trolls

Green arrow

That is all"

I remember a while back a mod once saying “If you don’t like a thread topic don’t post on it” its amusing to see words are hollow and people don’t have the conviction to follow their own advice.

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By *ig cock and big tits OP Couple over a year ago

Barnstaple

Mmm...some very nasty comments here! Just proves that we were right yesterday, all the bitchy remarks coming from bigger women...jealousy i think they call it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mmm...some very nasty comments here! Just proves that we were right yesterday, all the bitchy remarks coming from bigger women...jealousy i think they call it."

Do you really think you are doing yourself any favours by your post. ? I would place money on more men wanting to meet a larger lady who is confident and has personality than a slimmer woman with a really bad attitude.

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By *herry and DennisCouple over a year ago

exeter

Very very clicky on here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mmm...some very nasty comments here! Just proves that we were right yesterday, all the bitchy remarks coming from bigger women...jealousy i think they call it."

Jealous of what exactly.. talk about trying to make facts fit...

Sweetie... I can easily be a size ten... But luckily for me my personality and confidence means that I don't need to be to be a nice person, or have amazing fun...

Jealous of someone that feels the need to belittle others... I think not... Lose weight if your not happy, don't if you are... But don't try to make your posts seem like innocent questions.

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By *ove bi guysWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

"Mmm...some very nasty comments here! Just proves that we were right yesterday, all the bitchy remarks coming from bigger women...jealousy i think they call it."

Actually shows bigger women have humour and aren't as daft as you and your posts appear

.... Much love from the big birds lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Mmm...some very nasty comments here! Just proves that we were right yesterday, all the bitchy remarks coming from bigger women...jealousy i think they call it."

Bingo bango!!! What did I tell ya!!!!

Grow up ffs. Jealous of someone as insecure as you, I don't think so!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mmm...some very nasty comments here! Just proves that we were right yesterday, all the bitchy remarks coming from bigger women...jealousy i think they call it."

What did you expect? You should know by now some love to jump in and bitch.

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By *illwill69uMan over a year ago

moston

"I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs."
The bigger the cushion the better the pushin

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"You should know by now some love to jump in and bitch. "

Oh the delicious irony!

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By *exxifun5Couple over a year ago

NORWICH

A big girl and im bittersweet .... bitter to horrid people and sweet to nice people ...

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

oh dearie dearie me.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You should know by now some love to jump in and bitch.

Oh the delicious irony!

Didn't you get a permanent ban for bitching and abusing others before?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"You should know by now some love to jump in and bitch.

Oh the delicious irony!

Didn't you get a permanent ban for bitching and abusing others before? "

No, I didn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs."

My _iew is what ever your happy with, size 10 is still pretty lovely.

I think its natural to put on weight in autumn/winter and to loose it in spring summer... speaking as one of these types...

I would say its important to keep track of weight for both men and women especially after 35 when its harder to shift...

Oh and there is no science behind these "opinions".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs."

In answer to your question.. it won't stop you having fun.. I've had fun at clubs at all sizes.. from a trim size 10 to a size 30... And pretty much every size between..

see the great thing about clubs is that sexy isn't size related... As my verifications show.. I'm a big girl who has Lots of fun at clubs.. so lose weight if you want.. but you knew that anyway...

I suggest you have a think about why you feel so threatened by the bigger ladies on here... Just because some guys say big women are better. You will notice most of us don't let that go to our heads.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You should know by now some love to jump in and bitch.

Oh the delicious irony!

Didn't you get a permanent ban for bitching and abusing others before?

No, I didn't. "

So what was your user name? I can't quite remember but the style is obvious. Someone will know I am sure.

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By *ngelbiTVTV/TS over a year ago

Dyserth, North Wales

"Forum trolls

Green arrow

That is all"

Reminds me of that child at school who was the best at drawing but always said they never liked what they drew lol

In my opinion size 14-18 is absolutely perfect .

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"You should know by now some love to jump in and bitch.

Oh the delicious irony!

Didn't you get a permanent ban for bitching and abusing others before?

No, I didn't.

So what was your user name? I can't quite remember but the style is obvious. Someone will know I am sure. "

I'm not sure what you think you know, but apparently you don't know as much as you think you do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wheres that fecking cake

I'm just baking a chocolate cake.. off to go get some icing sugar xxx"

Can it have sprinkles too please cali. Xx

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Although now we have all taken the whatsit we''ll get accused of being over sensitive and probably jealous as well

I missed the previous thread but as a happy contented bunny, they weren't talking about me so I could cocoa.

Hmmmn...cocoa...chocolate...drools...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wheres that fecking cake

I'm just baking a chocolate cake.. off to go get some icing sugar xxx

Can it have sprinkles too please cali. Xx"

It's got grated white chocolate curls on top x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wheres that fecking cake

I'm just baking a chocolate cake.. off to go get some icing sugar xxx

Can it have sprinkles too please cali. Xx

It's got grated white chocolate curls on top x"

Even better. Now how long will it take me to drive to you xx

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By *eareenaCouple over a year ago

Rockford

Wobble wobble wobble. ...anyone fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you would like to lose weight, then that is the answer to your question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well that's been amusing to read so many bite when if they had ignored the thread would have disappeared. What I don't get is why people get nasty do people really enjoy it if so that's so sad.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well that's been amusing to read so many bite when if they had ignored the thread would have disappeared. What I don't get is why people get nasty do people really enjoy it if so that's so sad. "

I hope you don't mean me. I only mean that the OP should trust their own instinct rather than seek approval

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't become bitter and twisted now you are putting on weight though....

Maybe the OP is "sensitive"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well that's been amusing to read so many bite when if they had ignored the thread would have disappeared. What I don't get is why people get nasty do people really enjoy it if so that's so sad.

I hope you don't mean me. I only mean that the OP should trust their own instinct rather than seek approval"

No no no I wasn't on about you just comments far above I mean who wants to meet aggressive people god knows.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well im four sizes bigger than you and it never ! Stops me having fun i love who i am

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have started to put a bit of weight on and im having to buy size 10-12 clothes...im worried that it will stop me having fun at swing clubs.

In answer to your question.. it won't stop you having fun.. I've had fun at clubs at all sizes.. from a trim size 10 to a size 30... And pretty much every size between..

see the great thing about clubs is that sexy isn't size related... As my verifications show.. I'm a big girl who has Lots of fun at clubs.. so lose weight if you want.. but you knew that anyway...

I suggest you have a think about why you feel so threatened by the bigger ladies on here... Just because some guys say big women are better. You will notice most of us don't let that go to our heads.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well that's been amusing to read so many bite when if they had ignored the thread would have disappeared. What I don't get is why people get nasty do people really enjoy it if so that's so sad.

I hope you don't mean me. I only mean that the OP should trust their own instinct rather than seek approval

No no no I wasn't on about you just comments far above I mean who wants to meet aggressive people god knows. "

I dunno. Submissives?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Forum trolls

Green arrow

That is all

Oh I agree totally

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"Forum trolls

Green arrow

That is all

There hasn't been any mod posting on this thread until me to quote this confusing post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dunno. Submissives?

No....we like assertive not aggressive lol x

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

To the OP....

I am not sure what beef you have with bigger women, but please keep it away from the forum. Thanks.

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