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"Hiya, just after some opinions really. Pulling in pubs/clubs, difficult or not? does this happen a lot or not? Is it sucessful? If you look on the internet, some guys say you can, etc but you don't know if they're trying to act like a number one, etc. Ive only ever tried it three times myself. I'm social, so I don't have a problem talking to poople. When I tried, I'd usually have great chats but not leading to sex as women don't seem to want NSA (which ofcourse is understandable - I'm not criticizing that). Either that or something else like she's staying with her friends or friends are keeping an eye on her or whatever. One time, a woman asked me directly but she wasn't my type at all. Obviously, I know that in general the amount of men wanting NSA outnumbers the amount of women wanting NSA by a lot. Anyway, was just wondering... Is imagine you'd have to dance and all that? Lol. Guys, do you/have you done this? Ladies, have you/do you get pulled by men? Does it work? Just curious... Cheers, xxx" How did you pull your current gf | |||
"where Granny plays bingo on a Thursday then yes I would say I would struggle" Makes sense, too many balls to compete with. | |||
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"where Granny plays bingo on a Thursday then yes I would say I would struggle Makes sense, too many balls to compete with." SB I draw the line at the granny's up there! I have no intention of competing for them lol | |||
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"Be honest if I'm out looking for it very rare but there again if I'm out shopping say in a supermarket and not looking bingo what the fuck???" Hahaha!!! | |||
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"When alcohol is involved it's much easier " It is easier but find thar is called taking advantage not pulling | |||
"I don't get the George Clooney thing, he's nowt special " I'm glad a woman has finally said it..cos I don't get it either. If he wasn't in ER/hollywood and hecwalked down the street, he ain't getting lookedcat twice. Same with Johnny Depp. I don't get that either. | |||
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"I don't get the George Clooney thing, he's nowt special I'm glad a woman has finally said it..cos I don't get it either. If he wasn't in ER/hollywood and hecwalked down the street, he ain't getting lookedcat twice. Same with Johnny Depp. I don't get that either. " I don't fancy Johnny Depp, George Clooney or Brad Pitt!! Now, Jason Statham | |||
"I don't get the George Clooney thing, he's nowt special I'm glad a woman has finally said it..cos I don't get it either. If he wasn't in ER/hollywood and hecwalked down the street, he ain't getting lookedcat twice. Same with Johnny Depp. I don't get that either. I don't fancy Johnny Depp, George Clooney or Brad Pitt!! Now, Jason Statham " Jason statham I kinda get that. | |||
"Be honest if I'm out looking for it very rare but there again if I'm out shopping say in a supermarket and not looking bingo what the fuck???" People always say this to me, that I will meet someone in Tesco. Never have!! | |||
"Be honest if I'm out looking for it very rare but there again if I'm out shopping say in a supermarket and not looking bingo what the fuck??? People always say this to me, that I will meet someone in Tesco. Never have!! " you should try sainsburys | |||
"Be honest if I'm out looking for it very rare but there again if I'm out shopping say in a supermarket and not looking bingo what the fuck??? People always say this to me, that I will meet someone in Tesco. Never have!! " Come to Waitrose..you can meet meee (have i pulled?) | |||
"Hiya, just after some opinions really. Pulling in pubs/clubs, difficult or not? does this happen a lot or not? Is it sucessful? If you look on the internet, some guys say you can, etc but you don't know if they're trying to act like a number one, etc. Ive only ever tried it three times myself. I'm social, so I don't have a problem talking to poople. When I tried, I'd usually have great chats but not leading to sex as women don't seem to want NSA (which ofcourse is understandable - I'm not criticizing that). Either that or something else like she's staying with her friends or friends are keeping an eye on her or whatever. One time, a woman asked me directly but she wasn't my type at all. Obviously, I know that in general the amount of men wanting NSA outnumbers the amount of women wanting NSA by a lot. Anyway, was just wondering... Is imagine you'd have to dance and all that? Lol. Guys, do you/have you done this? Ladies, have you/do you get pulled by men? Does it work? Just curious... Cheers, xxx" You live in Chester fella, you know it's got a great nightlife. I think it's great for meeting women, whether they're from Chester or have travelled in for the night. I find a lot of women are looking for either a boyfriend or nsa depending on their personal circumstances and I guess it comes down to whether you actually enjoy 'the chase', breaking the ice, the whole chatting up process. I must confess, I do. Most women will have a conversation if you approach them in the right way, most are hoping to be approahed or at least complimented or flirted with in some way even if sex is not (initially) on the agenda. | |||
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"I don't get the George Clooney thing, he's nowt special " He's an inspiration to greying men everywhere. | |||
"I watched some of Neil Strauss' 'The Game' once (after someone mentioned they though I'd gotten my flirting technique from it?) and whilst it was quite interesting to watch, in some ways the methods they used felt rather forced, almost like making a sales pitch. Personally I've always preferred to take my time when it comes to initiating relationships with women, I've never been the type to approach with a specific attempt at getting a girl into bed, that feeling I usually get after knowing her over a length of time (obviously I'm far more direct on here)." Really? You've never approached a women with sex being the primary reason? | |||
"I don't get the George Clooney thing, he's nowt special I'm glad a woman has finally said it..cos I don't get it either. If he wasn't in ER/hollywood and hecwalked down the street, he ain't getting lookedcat twice. Same with Johnny Depp. I don't get that either. " I like Depp with long hair so as a pirate and in Chocolat he was yummy | |||
"I don't fancy Johnny Depp, George Clooney or Brad Pitt!! Now, Jason Statham " I thought Brad was cute in Thelma & Louise but not since. Statham's not my type either. Maybe I just prefer men I can meet? | |||
"Hiya, just after some opinions really. Pulling in pubs/clubs, difficult or not? does this happen a lot or not? Is it sucessful? " Haha depends where you go in my city! Some you kinda places you kinda get jumped on ...ya those places are boarded up now | |||
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"I watched some of Neil Strauss' 'The Game' once (after someone mentioned they though I'd gotten my flirting technique from it?) and whilst it was quite interesting to watch, in some ways the methods they used felt rather forced, almost like making a sales pitch. Personally I've always preferred to take my time when it comes to initiating relationships with women, I've never been the type to approach with a specific attempt at getting a girl into bed, that feeling I usually get after knowing her over a length of time (obviously I'm far more direct on here). Really? You've never approached a women with sex being the primary reason?" Well...I have done, but I find that whilst I do see attractive women when I'm out and about, its quite rare for me to see someone with the little extra sparkle that that means I HAVE to go over and say hello, and when I do, they're typically either married or in relationships, this is pretty much a constant in the woman I'm attracted to (and no, the revelation that they're spoken for doesn't come as gentle 'no thankyou' when I express my interest, it comes about in general conversation). | |||