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over a year ago
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Why do some men message couples, but only address the female? I've just had a message, calling me babe, and askin if I want dirty chat. I messaged back simply that we are a couple and expect to be addressed as one. The reply I got was 'well do you'. It's just plain rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men message couples, but only address the female? I've just had a message, calling me babe, and askin if I want dirty chat. I messaged back simply that we are a couple and expect to be addressed as one. The reply I got was 'well do you'. It's just plain rude "
Well do you?...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Out of curiosity then what is the correct way address to a married couple
Hi couple
Hey you two
Hello marrieds
Could do something silly like use the names on the profile, but who reads them,
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Out of curiosity then what is the correct way address to a married couple
Hi couple
Hey you two
Hello marrieds
Could do something silly like use the names on the profile, but who reads them,
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Anything that addresses the both of us is fine, and i do not appreciate being called 'babe' by some random man. No hello, or how are you. It just doesn't wash with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As its my pictures all over the profile I generally expect messages to be aimed at me,Its nice when both of us are addressed but neither if us take offence if its just me
What I do find annoying are messages to my OH addressing me as "she"
Shes hot
Does she want to play with my cock
Does she like blah blah blah ............. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men message couples, but only address the female? I've just had a message, calling me babe, and askin if I want dirty chat. I messaged back simply that we are a couple and expect to be addressed as one. The reply I got was 'well do you'. It's just plain rude "
Probably because on your profile it reads as 'I'm' (by the lady) and then 'he' about the man.
Would seem a fair assumption that it would be the lady to address. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do couples profiles generally only shoe pics of the female half?"
For us its because we're only looking for single men on here
Other couples have other reasons |
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What I find funny is you'll receive an email with the mrs name as the title and then when I say its the male online. I'll get a reply like " ok mate when can I shag your mrs then." No attempt at any conversation or introduction, kinda makes you wonder why you bother answering.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Out of curiosity then what is the correct way address to a married couple
Hi couple
Hey you two
Hello marrieds
Could do something silly like use the names on the profile, but who reads them,
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In the first mail we always use the names on their profile. After that we just assume both are reading/ replying to mail and chat to them as though it's both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do couples profiles generally only shoe pics of the female half?
Yea bloody shoes ! Always plastered all over their profiles. It will be handbags next. "
Good idea  any excuse to get them out x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do couples profiles generally only shoe pics of the female half?
Yea bloody shoes ! Always plastered all over their profiles. It will be handbags next. "
Maccy D bags are soooo last year.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A single man sent us a message asking if I could sit on his face!! :O sent a message back saying his profile says he's straight so I'm sure he wouldn't want my hairy arse in his face. Lmao xx |
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Yeah this does annoy us slightly as most of our messages were aimed just at the mrs. When we get them saying your sexy or would love to shag you sort of thing I normally just reply back thanks mate glad you think so and really appreciate you telling me but I don't think your my type as I'm straight. |
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Lol, I think you know we do
I agree with the sad state of men only messaging the me and it clearly states we are looking for a couple or a woman. Maybe holding something and reading is difficult lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It does say in your profile that ....it will usually be me that you are speaking to(female)......?"
Usually yes, he still goes on and usually isn't all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol, I think you know we do
I agree with the sad state of men only messaging the me and it clearly states we are looking for a couple or a woman. Maybe holding something and reading is difficult lol x"
Please don't ask a man to multi task!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If it happens to us and I the male get the message g will always reply very nicely thanking them for their kind comments about how sexy my body is etc before deleting their drivel and blocking . Gets right on my tits  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men message couples, but only address the female? I've just had a message, calling me babe, and askin if I want dirty chat. I messaged back simply that we are a couple and expect to be addressed as one. The reply I got was 'well do you'. It's just plain rude "
They don't want the male half to think its him who he is after as there are so many couples with bi males who want a single guy to play with both of them. There and again there are 101 other alternatives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are some fragile personalities on here!When did the penny drop ? lol
More like a bloody cascade of them. Like being in an arcade You gonna be pacman? "
I was better at space invaders - and pong |
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