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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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before i met J i had never even thought about swinging......I LOVE it now!!
But if we split up i don't think i would swing as a single fem and if i got into another relationship i could give or take swinging.
so my question is if your circumstances changed would you still swing?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was in a loving relationship I would not have sex with anyone else, its called monogamy, and is what I want."
Yet you on swingers site would you not have more success on dating site not a criticism just an observation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and no ... depends on the dynamics of the relationship. I'd be happy either way "
I agree as well. Although I can't imagine having another relationship as open, honest & trusting as we have now, and without all of that swinging isn't possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was in a loving relationship I would not have sex with anyone else, its called monogamy, and is what I want.
Yet you on swingers site would you not have more success on dating site not a criticism just an observation."
I am not looking for a relationship at the present time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was part of a couple on here for overfive years now here as a single fem it is a bit daunting at first as you havr always had someone to protect you x if I met someone I would give it up immediately |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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so my question is if your circumstances changed would you still swing?? "
I honestly don't know....
If I did, it wouldn't be until after I had sorted myself out and got my head straight.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"before i met J i had never even thought about swinging......I LOVE it now!!
But if we split up i don't think i would swing as a single fem and if i got into another relationship i could give or take swinging.
so my question is if your circumstances changed would you still swing?? "
No I wouldn't on my own. It is something we started together and would stop if neither of us were happy doing swinging.
If I was on my own, I probably would still post but definitely not actively swing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not looking for anyone but if someone cane along and it was serious I would give fabs up but I've been single a long time so can't ever see it happening lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Although I can't imagine having another relationship as open, honest & trusting as we have now, and without all of that swinging isn't possible."
This plus I know from my own experience that I would never have the same sexual/intimate relationship with anyone else regardless of swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't do it as a single guy, I'm not confident enough.  "
I don't class myself as being very confident but I do have a great sense of adventure!
I have swung as a couple in two long term relationships and it just seemed natural to stay on as a single. Interestingly I have made lot more friends as a single than i ever did as a couple. Maybe it's because I have to try a bit harder than I did as a couple or maybe I'm just a nicer guy without those partners  |
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