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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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God that's terrible ! I always think very carefully !! I have a close freind who knows what I'm upto with fab etc , her rule ... I must always tell her when I
Meeting where and times x |
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"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?"
Her body was found in a forest in the Dublin mountains, a year after she went missing, but the restraints (handcuffs, apparently) were found at a location about ten miles away, close to a keyring that belonged to her, and there may be a connection, but nothing is certain as yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive said it before on here, someone should always know when you're on a meet - even if you keep you lifestyle secret from your friends and family, someone should always know and you should have a contact system.
I floated the idea a while back of running a buddy system through this site (for those who need it) to ensure that all us singles are safe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?
Her body was found in a forest in the Dublin mountains, a year after she went missing, but the restraints (handcuffs, apparently) were found at a location about ten miles away, close to a keyring that belonged to her, and there may be a connection, but nothing is certain as yet. "
thanks for that. i read it quick and didn't realize that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?"
To be totally fucking honest, I would expect the presence of common sense to exist BEFORE something like this has to happen, BEFORE people think "doh...better make sure this fooker ain't nuts".
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Ive said it before on here, someone should always know when you're on a meet - even if you keep you lifestyle secret from your friends and family, someone should always know and you should have a contact system.
I floated the idea a while back of running a buddy system through this site (for those who need it) to ensure that all us singles are safe"
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"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?"
Nothing new, so no. If you think about it, stranger murder is rare. I'm more likely to be killed by my ex-husband than one of my meets! |
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"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?
To be totally fucking honest, I would expect the presence of common sense to exist BEFORE something like this has to happen, BEFORE people think "doh...better make sure this fooker ain't nuts".
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No way you can ever be sure really, we are all taking risks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I floated the idea a while back of running a buddy system through this site (for those who need it) to ensure that all us singles are safe"
Good idea. Did it ever take off? |
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"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?
To be totally fucking honest, I would expect the presence of common sense to exist BEFORE something like this has to happen, BEFORE people think "doh...better make sure this fooker ain't nuts".
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You read the forums right?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmmm people are murdered and attacked all the time, do we stop walking the streets or going on nights out because it MIGHT happen.
Just take usual precautions and common sense.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?
To be totally fucking honest, I would expect the presence of common sense to exist BEFORE something like this has to happen, BEFORE people think "doh...better make sure this fooker ain't nuts".
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That greedy bloke is a right nutter, avoid him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I spend ages getting to know someone first before I even have a social meet. Even then my best friend knows where I am, who with and I text her to let her know I'm ok within the first five mins. Might not work for everyone, but upto now its been perfect. Touch wood  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I floated the idea a while back of running a buddy system through this site (for those who need it) to ensure that all us singles are safe
Good idea. Did it ever take off?"
No, it was a suggestion on a forum thread months ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"with the news of a poor womans body along side a bag with restraints in being found in ireland. which from what i have heard so far is suspected to be linked with someone she was meant to be meeting from a "dating" site.....is this going to change the way that you meet or make you think twice?
To be totally fucking honest, I would expect the presence of common sense to exist BEFORE something like this has to happen, BEFORE people think "doh...better make sure this fooker ain't nuts".
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That greedy bloke is a right nutter, avoid him "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thats very sad but common sense should prevail when meeting anyone,whether its from a site or someone you've met elsewhere
Even one of my male friends has a buddy he lets know where he is if hes gone to a meet incase anything happens |
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"I spend ages getting to know someone first before I even have a social meet. Even then my best friend knows where I am, who with and I text her to let her know I'm ok within the first five mins. Might not work for everyone, but upto now its been perfect. Touch wood "
Till you meet me .......................  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"God that's terrible ! I always think very carefully !! I have a close freind who knows what I'm upto with fab etc , her rule ... I must always tell her when I
Meeting where and times x"
i have a good friend on here aswell we text each other when and where we r going on a meet and thepersons reg plate number x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Could happen at any time eg meeting in a bar eg and as said stranger murder is quite uncommon.
Always have a back up plan and a method of a quick escape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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..especially for women. They have to be really careful who they meet and not let their guard down. Any stranger can be a nutter, even if you have spoken to him for a while.
If anything he does makes you uncomfortable, then you should just tell him to stop or inform someone he is making you uncomfortable and try ending the meet.
Yes. I am a sensitive caring bugger. These things bother me greatly. Many on fab have told me some stories. And you just go
...we may all be strangers on fab. But let's look out for each other shall we?
Okay. Now that was an awkward and random reply. |
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"..especially for women. They have to be really careful who they meet and not let their guard down. Any stranger can be a nutter, even if you have spoken to him for a while.
If anything he does makes you uncomfortable, then you should just tell him to stop or inform someone he is making you uncomfortable and try ending the meet.
Yes. I am a sensitive caring bugger. These things bother me greatly. Many on fab have told me some stories. And you just go
...we may all be strangers on fab. But let's look out for each other shall we?
Okay. Now that was an awkward and random reply. "
Not just women! Men have to be careful too but for some, they relish the thought of meeting strangers in hotels for sex. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"..especially for women. They have to be really careful who they meet and not let their guard down. Any stranger can be a nutter, even if you have spoken to him for a while.
If anything he does makes you uncomfortable, then you should just tell him to stop or inform someone he is making you uncomfortable and try ending the meet.
Yes. I am a sensitive caring bugger. These things bother me greatly. Many on fab have told me some stories. And you just go
...we may all be strangers on fab. But let's look out for each other shall we?
Okay. Now that was an awkward and random reply.
Not just women! Men have to be careful too but for some, they relish the thought of meeting strangers in hotels for sex. "
Then there's those who meet complete strangers ........ in the dead of night ......... in the middle of nowhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always let someone know when I'm on a meet (my friendly).. If the person I meet isnt happy with me contacting my "friendly" then I leave or end the meet. Simple as that!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Letting someone know where you're going is a great idea. At least there's a better chance of your killer getting convicted."
Not a very cheery thought! It is rare, not a regular occurrence. |
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"Letting someone know where you're going is a great idea. At least there's a better chance of your killer getting convicted.
Not a very cheery thought! It is rare, not a regular occurrence. "
Yes, I'm well aware of that. My point is telling a confidante what you are up to doesn't make you safe, it only means if something did happen there's more of a chance that your attacker will get caught.
Telling the person you are meeting that you have given a third party details of the meet and of them would be advisable.
Of course staying at home and not meeting strangers for sex is probably the safest option |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I am a sensitive caring bugger. These things bother me greatly. Many on fab have told me some stories. And you just go
...we may all be strangers on fab. But let's look out for each other shall we?
Okay. Now that was an awkward and random reply. "
I thought it was very thoughtful. And nice. *appreciative hug from The Sticks* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was in the Royal Navy in the late eighties there was a case of a Royal Marine that went to a womans flat and was more than happy to oblige as she asked could I cuff and tie you face down on the bed? Thinking all his Christmas's had come at once he agreed . Then she left the room with him blindfolded to only to be buggered by some bloke !! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Letting someone know where you're going is a great idea. At least there's a better chance of your killer getting convicted."
Yep, I always tell a text buddy who I'm meeting and leave my lappy/iPad open on profile with a yellow sticky saying "It was him/her/them" just in case
My text buddy bollocked me last weekend cos I didn't text til the next morning on both the Saturday and Sunday - I said to her that she'd have murdered me if I'd texted her so late at night so I left it til first thing in morning |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Not just women! Men have to be careful too but for some, they relish the thought of meeting strangers in hotels for sex. "
I like meeting strangers in hotels for sex too! My safety procedure is mentioned in my previous post |
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