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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easy too blend in if you can add too the chat, many times ive joined in from this profile and felt like a part of the room, most guys just seem too treat chat as a place they can just wank tbh |
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You just need to take your time to get to know people that's all. Many people have been chatting in here for some time and have met and become friends with those they are chatting to. If you just sit back and join in the chat normally without making stupid comments (unless of course it is joke etc) then you'll be fine. It may take a few weeks of regular chatting but it will be worth it. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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it can appear so at times, it can be at times but on the whole... if people persevere, they can quickly become established in both chat & the forums.
we just need to always remember, we were new once and be welcoming.
the forum regulars change all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there really was a clique, would you want to be a part of it?
Like others have said, just join in.
Join in with who though ?
Which side ? "
Neither be on your own |
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My ex was on about this as he is single and well says on here straight but fab guys bi.I think he thinks by saying both that he will get into the clicky sense that goes on.
it's not about that it's all about how comfortable you are around others. Having been to a very well attended social many years ago. I hardly or even spoken to most there it simply wasn't because being rude there was no connection.
When swinging don't or not toi get attacted or think that the person should only talk to you an a selection of a few. People circlet constantly. |
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