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"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know." Has anyone specifically turned you down or made a comment about you being 'too nice' and used it as a reason? | |||
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"You are very wrong in assuming that women don't like nice men,its utter rubbish Just like that ridiculous saying "nice guys finish last"" a good guy should always come second   | |||
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after every female.
just be you, if it works cool 
good luck | |||
"You are very wrong in assuming that women don't like nice men,its utter rubbish Just like that ridiculous saying "nice guys finish last"a good guy should always come second "They can come first, as I don't, so I don't mind  oops am now wondering if got the wrong end of the stick? | |||
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"Who's to say who's a nice guy and who is a dick? I'd rather not judge myself or others..that's up to other people to decide.... "I agree with this and have allowed others to decide. Being nice certainly hasn't done me any harm on the site. | |||
"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know." There are nice guys and "nice" guys. A nice guy is the sort of guy most women actually like. He can be polite and well mannered yet he isn't a wet blanket. He can be the alpha male when he needs to, but he isn't an arrogant tit either. A "nice" guy is the sad creeper who always wants to put a woman on a pedastal and be the perfect boyfriend to them but won't make the first move to ask a girl out and ends up being just friends with girls all the time. He's the guy who goes out of his way for you, yet is always staring at your bum or boobs even when he's talking to you. "Nice" guys finish last because they don't try and start anything more often than not. | |||
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"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know. There are nice guys and "nice" guys. A nice guy is the sort of guy most women actually like. He can be polite and well mannered yet he isn't a wet blanket. He can be the alpha male when he needs to, but he isn't an arrogant tit either. A "nice" guy is the sad creeper who always wants to put a woman on a pedastal and be the perfect boyfriend to them but won't make the first move to ask a girl out and ends up being just friends with girls all the time. He's the guy who goes out of his way for you, yet is always staring at your bum or boobs even when he's talking to you. "Nice" guys finish last because they don't try and start anything more often than not."
A brilliant distinction of the two types of "nice" | |||
"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know. There are nice guys and "nice" guys. A nice guy is the sort of guy most women actually like. He can be polite and well mannered yet he isn't a wet blanket. He can be the alpha male when he needs to, but he isn't an arrogant tit either. A "nice" guy is the sad creeper who always wants to put a woman on a pedastal and be the perfect boyfriend to them but won't make the first move to ask a girl out and ends up being just friends with girls all the time. He's the guy who goes out of his way for you, yet is always staring at your bum or boobs even when he's talking to you. "Nice" guys finish last because they don't try and start anything more often than not." Perfect! | |||
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" "Nice" guys finish last because they don't try and start anything more often than not." | |||
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"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know. There are nice guys and "nice" guys. A nice guy is the sort of guy most women actually like. He can be polite and well mannered yet he isn't a wet blanket. He can be the alpha male when he needs to, but he isn't an arrogant tit either. A "nice" guy is the sad creeper who always wants to put a woman on a pedastal and be the perfect boyfriend to them but won't make the first move to ask a girl out and ends up being just friends with girls all the time. He's the guy who goes out of his way for you, yet is always staring at your bum or boobs even when he's talking to you. "Nice" guys finish last because they don't try and start anything more often than not." I could hug you for this right now!! | |||
"there is a glaring difference between a nice guy and a slithering sycophant that after every female.
just be you, if it works cool
good luck"
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"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know. There are nice guys and "nice" guys. A nice guy is the sort of guy most women actually like. He can be polite and well mannered yet he isn't a wet blanket. He can be the alpha male when he needs to, but he isn't an arrogant tit either. A "nice" guy is the sad creeper who always wants to put a woman on a pedastal and be the perfect boyfriend to them but won't make the first move to ask a girl out and ends up being just friends with girls all the time. He's the guy who goes out of his way for you, yet is always staring at your bum or boobs even when he's talking to you. "Nice" guys finish last because they don't try and start anything more often than not." Best description I've read! | |||
" There are nice guys and "nice" guys. A nice guy is the sort of guy most women actually like. He can be polite and well mannered yet he isn't a wet blanket. He can be the alpha male when he needs to, but he isn't an arrogant tit either. A "nice" guy is the sad creeper who always wants to put a woman on a pedastal and be the perfect boyfriend to them but won't make the first move to ask a girl out and ends up being just friends with girls all the time. He's the guy who goes out of his way for you, yet is always staring at your bum or boobs even when he's talking to you. "Nice" guys finish last because they don't try and start anything more often than not." I thought it was "Nice guys you fancy' and 'Nice guys you don't' | |||
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"Who's to say who's a nice guy and who is a dick? I'd rather not judge myself or others..that's up to other people to decide.... " | |||
"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know. Has anyone specifically turned you down or made a comment about you being 'too nice' and used it as a reason? " yes. | |||
"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know. Has anyone specifically turned you down or made a comment about you being 'too nice' and used it as a reason? yes. " I've been told I'm too nice before by someone. | |||
"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know. Has anyone specifically turned you down or made a comment about you being 'too nice' and used it as a reason? yes. I've been told I'm too nice before by someone. " meant to say I don't let it bother me anymore. I am what I am  | |||
"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know. There are nice guys and "nice" guys. A nice guy is the sort of guy most women actually like. He can be polite and well mannered yet he isn't a wet blanket. He can be the alpha male when he needs to, but he isn't an arrogant tit either. A "nice" guy is the sad creeper who always wants to put a woman on a pedastal and be the perfect boyfriend to them but won't make the first move to ask a girl out and ends up being just friends with girls all the time. He's the guy who goes out of his way for you, yet is always staring at your bum or boobs even when he's talking to you. "Nice" guys finish last because they don't try and start anything more often than not." spot on! | |||
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"I think many women use nice when they mean boring" I don't. Nice guys can have manners and still have a naughty side. Not saying more than that | |||
"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know. There are nice guys and "nice" guys. A nice guy is the sort of guy most women actually like. He can be polite and well mannered yet he isn't a wet blanket. He can be the alpha male when he needs to, but he isn't an arrogant tit either. A "nice" guy is the sad creeper who always wants to put a woman on a pedastal and be the perfect boyfriend to them but won't make the first move to ask a girl out and ends up being just friends with girls all the time. He's the guy who goes out of his way for you, yet is always staring at your bum or boobs even when he's talking to you. "Nice" guys finish last because they don't try and start anything more often than not. spot on! "paragraph 3 | |||
"I think many women use nice when they mean boring I don't. Nice guys can have manners and still have a naughty side. Not saying more than that "I shall place you in the 'few' camp | |||
"I think many women use nice when they mean boring I don't. Nice guys can have manners and still have a naughty side. Not saying more than that
I shall place you in the 'few' camp""few camp"? is that good or bad? | |||
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"I think many women use nice when they mean boring I don't. Nice guys can have manners and still have a naughty side. Not saying more than that
I shall place you in the 'few' camp "few camp"? is that good or bad? " Neither. I said "many women". You said you don't. If you're not with the many then you're with the few | |||
"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know. Has anyone specifically turned you down or made a comment about you being 'too nice' and used it as a reason? yes. " okay just a thought.. maybe they were just being nice with that reason.. maybe you werent for them maybe they didnt have an attraction to you to want to play but didnt want to risk sounding horrid so gave a nice reply so as not to offend. Just a thought... we give guys reasons sometimes that we think kind as the honest truth jusy isnt needed really and would only cause offence and upset in many cases.. | |||
"What is it about us nice guys that turn women off. You see some many post about guys being assholes. I just want to know." I ve never understood Why people dwell on the reject messages, for whatever reason given, 
whats the difference, you re still on the reject pile, move on,
find someone that likes you for who you are,, you re never going to be anyone else,,
Good luck, | |||
"I think many women use nice when they mean boring I don't. Nice guys can have manners and still have a naughty side. Not saying more than that
I shall place you in the 'few' camp "few camp"? is that good or bad?
Neither. I said "many women". You said you don't. If you're not with the many then you're with the few "ok I understand. yes im in the few - nice does not mean boring. | |||
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