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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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....been in hiding since before i started to talk to someone on here ....when we first starting talking about 5 months he hid his profile but for last 2/3 months had his open whilst mine was hidden ...i unhid mine yesterday and all of a sudden hes disbelieving what i saying to him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....been in hiding since before i started to talk to someone on here ....when we first starting talking about 5 months he hid his profile but for last 2/3 months had his open whilst mine was hidden ...i unhid mine yesterday and all of a sudden hes disbelieving what i saying to him"
depends why u hid it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....been in hiding since before i started to talk to someone on here ....when we first starting talking about 5 months he hid his profile but for last 2/3 months had his open whilst mine was hidden ...i unhid mine yesterday and all of a sudden hes disbelieving what i saying to him
depends why u hid it x"
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"we was talking before x"
I think I understand you were talking (I assume via message on here but you might mean face to face or by phone) before you opened your profile. Were you talking before you hid it? What business is it of his that you hide or open your profile? It's not exactly an all revealing profile after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we was talking before x
I think I understand you were talking (I assume via message on here but you might mean face to face or by phone) before you opened your profile. Were you talking before you hid it? What business is it of his that you hide or open your profile? It's not exactly an all revealing profile after all."
I still dont understand. In the wrong about what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we was talking before x
I think I understand you were talking (I assume via message on here but you might mean face to face or by phone) before you opened your profile. Were you talking before you hid it? What business is it of his that you hide or open your profile? It's not exactly an all revealing profile after all."
that's what I dont get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All you can do is ask him, chick.
But this place is mostly NSA. Guys talk one minute, move on the next.
Move on too and dont waste time worrying.
Plenty fellas and couples to meet here  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"we was talking before x
I think I understand you were talking (I assume via message on here but you might mean face to face or by phone) before you opened your profile. Were you talking before you hid it? What business is it of his that you hide or open your profile? It's not exactly an all revealing profile after all.
I still dont understand. In the wrong about what?"
I don't know!
I will admit when I see a title of "is it me?" and the like my instinct is just to answer yes without reading the OP. I should have just moved on to another title. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I will admit when I see a title of "is it me?" and the like my instinct is just to answer yes without reading the OP. I should have just moved on to another title."
That'll learn ya!  |
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"....been in hiding since before i started to talk to someone on here ....when we first starting talking about 5 months he hid his profile but for last 2/3 months had his open whilst mine was hidden ...i unhid mine yesterday and all of a sudden hes disbelieving what i saying to him"
Yes. You are in the wrong.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"for wat i can gather its because my profile says looking to meet single guys .."
so were you exclusive to each other
were you shagging or just chatting
this is like 20 questions and I give up
good luck to both of you, hope it works out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for wat i can gather its because my profile says looking to meet single guys ..
so were you exclusive to each other
were you shagging or just chatting
this is like 20 questions and I give up
good luck to both of you, hope it works out "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for wat i can gather its because my profile says looking to meet single guys .."
And he's not a single guy? Huh? Or he doesn't want you to meet other guys? Or you are only talking to him and not meeting because you're not looking for single guys?
I don't get it |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"for wat i can gather its because my profile says looking to meet single guys ..
And he's not a single guy? Huh? Or he doesn't want you to meet other guys? Or you are only talking to him and not meeting because you're not looking for single guys?
I don't get it"
Nobody does, not even the OP it would seem. The only person who might know is the man in question and as far as I can see he hasn't responded on this thread. |
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"....been in hiding since before i started to talk to someone on here ....when we first starting talking about 5 months he hid his profile but for last 2/3 months had his open whilst mine was hidden ...i unhid mine yesterday and all of a sudden hes disbelieving what i saying to him"
The O.P hid her profile over five months ago.
The O.P. began chatting to a male.
The male hid his profile.
The male unhid his profile 3 months ago.
The O.P said fuck all about it.
They continued to chat.
The O.P unhid her profile recently.
The male said ...... Oi .what's all this then ? unhiding your profile you property of me you.
The O.P said ..... Oh kind sir I'm a nice O.P. I'm not up to anything ....
The male said ...... Yeah Yeah ...
The O.P. turned to the forum and said ..... am I in the wrong....... |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"....been in hiding since before i started to talk to someone on here ....when we first starting talking about 5 months he hid his profile but for last 2/3 months had his open whilst mine was hidden ...i unhid mine yesterday and all of a sudden hes disbelieving what i saying to him
The O.P hid her profile over five months ago.
The O.P. began chatting to a male.
The male hid his profile.
The male unhid his profile 3 months ago.
The O.P said fuck all about it.
They continued to chat.
The O.P unhid her profile recently.
The male said ...... Oi .what's all this then ? unhiding your profile you property of me you.
The O.P said ..... Oh kind sir I'm a nice O.P. I'm not up to anything ....
The male said ...... Yeah Yeah ...
The O.P. turned to the forum and said ..... am I in the wrong......."
yeah but are they shagging: that probably will determine how HE is thinking  |
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My dear View...... Shagging is only 10% of swinging law where exclusivity is concerned......
Are they betrothed , committed, exclusive ..... ?? is there signed heavydense ? I suspect so in the latter.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like he thought u were truely only wanting him and he liked it that way bit of control and he wanted to play the field how many more did he have like this so all i can say is good on u girl move on dont worry what he says its your life your profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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sorry for misleading you all ...when.i started talking to bloke was unhidden ..due to an.incident that happened when i had my son with me hid my profile ..it was decided between us both...we try a vanilla relationship ...just find it double standards from him to vunhid his and arrange meets then go off at me basically called me a cheater for unhiding mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sorry for misleading you all ...when.i started talking to bloke was unhidden ..due to an.incident that happened when i had my son with me hid my profile ..it was decided between us both...we try a vanilla relationship ...just find it double standards from him to vunhid his and arrange meets then go off at me basically called me a cheater for unhiding mine"
Well why didn't you say that in the first place???
There seem to be trust issues with both of you so why bother with the relationship. Sorry if that sounds harsh!
Yay, I knew I wasn't mrs thicky mcthick winner of last years mrs thick competition |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i wasnt bothered about him unhiding his cus i know the nature of the site we meet on ....all i asked for was honesty ...we talked about it last night then today to get a text saying i was cheating on him ....was a blow |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"i wasnt bothered about him unhiding his cus i know the nature of the site we meet on ....all i asked for was honesty ...we talked about it last night then today to get a text saying i was cheating on him ....was a blow"
So the vanilla relationship is exclusive, and you meet in person on a regular basis. His swinging relationship with you isn't exclusive. Is that it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i wasnt bothered about him unhiding his cus i know the nature of the site we meet on ....all i asked for was honesty ...we talked about it last night then today to get a text saying i was cheating on him ....was a blow"
your doing it again chick!
Did you both agree to no longer meet people off here or not?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry for misleading you all ...when.i started talking to bloke was unhidden ..due to an.incident that happened when i had my son with me hid my profile ..it was decided between us both...we try a vanilla relationship ...just find it double standards from him to vunhid his and arrange meets then go off at me basically called me a cheater for unhiding mine"
Oh right so your in a relationship with this guy who is on here but with an open profile and he's not happy you've opened yours ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get it... 
Thank Christ I'm not the only brummy who doesn't get it. I was worrying I was starting to confirm to stereotypes!"
im confused dot com or you can call me Brian |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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sounds he had you just where he wanted, you were exclusive to him and he played the field. ( based on one side of the story and there is always 2/3 )
sorry, your choice to be treated like that or punt him
good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"sorry for misleading you all ...when.i started talking to bloke was unhidden ..due to an.incident that happened when i had my son with me hid my profile ..it was decided between us both...we try a vanilla relationship ...just find it double standards from him to vunhid his and arrange meets then go off at me basically called me a cheater for unhiding mine
Oh right so your in a relationship with this guy who is on here but with an open profile and he's not happy you've opened yours ?"
we had agreed it would be an exclusive relationship ...but we had also decided to both keep profiles hidden as we got to know each other .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sorry for misleading you all ...when.i started talking to bloke was unhidden ..due to an.incident that happened when i had my son with me hid my profile ..it was decided between us both...we try a vanilla relationship ...just find it double standards from him to vunhid his and arrange meets then go off at me basically called me a cheater for unhiding mine
Oh right so your in a relationship with this guy who is on here but with an open profile and he's not happy you've opened yours ?
we had agreed it would be an exclusive relationship ...but we had also decided to both keep profiles hidden as we got to know each other ...."
do you really need to ask us what you should do? Clearly its a relationship based on lies and mistrust.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't a CLUE wot this post is all about 
Sooooooooo could someone peel me a grape n fan me wiv a wet flannel whilst I have a lie down.
It's altogether more complicated to unravel than Barry Manilow's (who shot who) at the COPACABANA  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've called O.K. magazine and Heat but no one want's to know.
Woman's Weekly are interested if you can knit a fairisle tank top for the photo shoot ?"
how about trying loose women or even jeremy Kyle |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've called O.K. magazine and Heat but no one want's to know.
Woman's Weekly are interested if you can knit a fairisle tank top for the photo shoot ?"
lol certainly suit him better than me |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"all this happened after i was trying to arrange a weekend with him ....as a single mum i arrange my weekends around when i dont have my kids"
So you go away together for weekends when your children are elsewhere. Fair enough. If you had agreed to be exclusive and vanilla but to keep your profiles, just in case/for the forum/whatever, but hidden and he then broke that deal how are you in the wrong?
Walk away and learn from it.
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"I've called O.K. magazine and Heat but no one want's to know.
Woman's Weekly are interested if you can knit a fairisle tank top for the photo shoot ?"
Sometimes you really do laugh out loud,this was definitely one of those times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've called O.K. magazine and Heat but no one want's to know.
Woman's Weekly are interested if you can knit a fairisle tank top for the photo shoot ?"
Is there an easy to follow pattern n more importantly - is there an offer on bak page where ya can send away for 12 porcelain thimbles WITH complementary shadow box? I'm not interested if there's no shadow box thanx |
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"I've called O.K. magazine and Heat but no one want's to know.
Woman's Weekly are interested if you can knit a fairisle tank top for the photo shoot ?
Is there an easy to follow pattern n more importantly - is there an offer on bak page where ya can send away for 12 porcelain thimbles WITH complementary shadow box? I'm not interested if there's no shadow box thanx "
You drive such a hard bargain for a man with one rubber glove.....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've called O.K. magazine and Heat but no one want's to know.
Woman's Weekly are interested if you can knit a fairisle tank top for the photo shoot ?
Is there an easy to follow pattern n more importantly - is there an offer on bak page where ya can send away for 12 porcelain thimbles WITH complementary shadow box? I'm not interested if there's no shadow box thanx
You drive such a hard bargain for a man with one rubber glove.....
Life has taught me the hard way! If only I'd driven s harder bargain I coulda ended up wiv TWO rubber gloves. Sooooooooo I'm not getting short changed this time Mrs
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sorry for misleading you all ...when.i started talking to bloke was unhidden ..due to an.incident that happened when i had my son with me hid my profile ..it was decided between us both...we try a vanilla relationship ...just find it double standards from him to vunhid his and arrange meets then go off at me basically called me a cheater for unhiding mine
Oh right so your in a relationship with this guy who is on here but with an open profile and he's not happy you've opened yours ?
we had agreed it would be an exclusive relationship ...but we had also decided to both keep profiles hidden as we got to know each other ...."
Well, what did you say when he unhid his? Surely all this should have come up 3 months ago? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It really didnt bother me ...knowimg site we meet on ...even made a joke of it when i saw he was arranging meets...my life is mainly focused on .my kids so was going with flow ...but i stupidly thought was good for goose is good for gander |
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"It really didnt bother me ...knowimg site we meet on ...even made a joke of it when i saw he was arranging meets...my life is mainly focused on .my kids so was going with flow ...but i stupidly thought was good for goose is good for gander "
Well there is your answer..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It really didnt bother me ...knowimg site we meet on ...even made a joke of it when i saw he was arranging meets...my life is mainly focused on .my kids so was going with flow ...but i stupidly thought was good for goose is good for gander
Well there is your answer....."
just so glad i stood by my guns when he was talking about moving in with mevn kids after couple of months |
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