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Are you a diplomat or a straight talker?

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By *UNCHBOX OP   Man  over a year ago

folkestone

If there is a difficult subject you have to deal with someone , do you use your diplomatic skills, or do you cut to the chase and dispense with the bullshit?.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I try to be diplomatic but if someone won't listen I can then be a bit abrupt x

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

Unfortunately, being diplomatic goes over the head of some so you have to be straight. Personally I can't be arsed with pussy footing around.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Unfortunately, being diplomatic goes over the head of some so you have to be straight. Personally I can't be arsed with pussy footing around."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd say I was a bit of both. Straight-spoken, but not deliberately in a hurtful way (unless it's needed).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Agree with the other comments on here as well!

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich

I wanted to join the Diplomatic Corps when I was younger

The cunts wouldn't have me!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

both ...depends on who it is and situation

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are both M Diplomatic F Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

But in the case of the last posting, straight to the point. Obviously we can discuss any issues this posting may have caused. We can all rest assured that the best possible outcome will be achieved by honest, forthright and vigorous debate. If this mediating fails to correct said issues we can refer back to the original statement for clarification and a resolution.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being diplomatic does not come naturally to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What's diplomacy ?

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By *livia_KWoman  over a year ago

South London

It depends on the situation. At work, as a manager, I have to be diplomatic. But I do try to be straight to the point in a diplomatic way. But yes, some people are so thick that being diplomatic just doesn't work sometimes.

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By *reelove1969Couple  over a year ago

bristol

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"Unfortunately, being diplomatic goes over the head of some so you have to be straight. Personally I can't be arsed with pussy footing around."

I am amazed .. I love your banter !!

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich


"What's diplomacy ? "

Telling someone to fuck off in such a way that they actually look forward to the journey.

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I try to address things diplomatically first and if that does not work I become less diplomatic. Of course it depends on circumstances, whether it is at work or private business including family.

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"What's diplomacy ?

Telling someone to fuck off in such a way that they actually look forward to the journey."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's diplomacy ?

Telling someone to fuck off in such a way that they actually look forward to the journey. "

Love it!

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I can't be arsed with the smoozing around.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"some people are so thick that being diplomatic just doesn't work sometimes."

Very true......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont mince my words they get both barrels no pussy footing about

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I am diplomatic, only those with poor communication skills wouldnt be.

In my professional life it is essential that I am diplomatic but I always ensure that the information I am giving is clear.

On an Internet forum debate and difference of opinions and the written word can be interpreted differently. I don't sugar coat my words but I hope that I'm not rude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes I am diplomatic, only those with poor communication skills wouldnt be. "

Bollocks

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By *UNCHBOX OP   Man  over a year ago

folkestone


"Yes I am diplomatic, only those with poor communication skills wouldnt be.

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That rules out Maggie Thatcher, Bernard Ingram, Alistar Campbell and Malcolm Tucker then.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

probe The situation first with a little diplomacy , judge The feedback ....either debate gracefully or fire at will , lifes too short to suffer fools

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