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over a year ago
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my eldest was 12 pound 10, born just after 1pm
I had twins with the middle pregnancy the girl was 11 pound 5 the boy was 2 pound 10 born between 1.30 and 2.00pm
my third was 6 pound 10 just after 6pm |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"my eldest was 12 pound 10, born just after 1pm
I had twins with the middle pregnancy the girl was 11 pound 5 the boy was 2 pound 10 born between 1.30 and 2.00pm
my third was 6 pound 10 just after 6pm"
Double wow!!! Do you mind me with your twins, did you have that condition where one twin takes all the nourishment. Sorry, I'm not sure what its called x |
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First 8lb 10.. 6.33am at 36weeks.
7lb 7. 3.33pm at 41weeks
7lb 10, at 11.34 at 37 weeks
8lb 8 at 8.33pm at 37 weeks
7lb 9 at 2.32pm at 36 weeks
7lb 10 at 1.36pm at 37 weeks..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"my eldest was 12 pound 10, born just after 1pm
I had twins with the middle pregnancy the girl was 11 pound 5 the boy was 2 pound 10 born between 1.30 and 2.00pm
my third was 6 pound 10 just after 6pm
Double wow!!! Do you mind me with your twins, did you have that condition where one twin takes all the nourishment. Sorry, I'm not sure what its called x"
no because being male and female they wasn't sharing the same placenta that only works if they are identical and feeding off the same placenta, he was born with disabilities and had problems all his life and I lost him at 20 months old, being a twin had nothing to do with his condition tho |
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"All 3 weighed around 3.2kg.
All born at 38 weeks elective c secs. All sometime in the morning (around 10am)."
I had sections with all of mine, I bloody needed one trying to part with a 12 pound 10 baby lol |
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Sorry to hear that. I also lost one at 9 weeks. Was ectopic. Had she/he been born they would have been 8 this month. I often wonder what would have been but consider myself they lucky that I have three wonderful girls xx |
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"Sorry to hear that. I also lost one at 9 weeks. Was ectopic. Had she/he been born they would have been 8 this month. I often wonder what would have been but consider myself they lucky that I have three wonderful girls xx"
Mine would of been 2 and I think about it every single day |
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"All 3 weighed around 3.2kg.
All born at 38 weeks elective c secs. All sometime in the morning (around 10am).
I had sections with all of mine, I bloody needed one trying to part with a 12 pound 10 baby lol"
I only had a c section with my first as I had severe SPD. And I have to say recovery after natural was so much easier!! But I was blessed with small babies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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1st 8lb 10 - one week early, 2nd 9lb 1.5 - two weeks late.
"So precious all your posts. I lost my baby when I was 9 weeks pregnant...."
So sorry to hear that Cheeky, I've had miscarriages too - hugs! xx |
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"Sorry to hear that. I also lost one at 9 weeks. Was ectopic. Had she/he been born they would have been 8 this month. I often wonder what would have been but consider myself they lucky that I have three wonderful girls xx
Mine would of been 2 and I think about it every single day "
Of course, and you always will xx (((hugs))) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry to hear that. I also lost one at 9 weeks. Was ectopic. Had she/he been born they would have been 8 this month. I often wonder what would have been but consider myself they lucky that I have three wonderful girls xx
Mine would of been 2 and I think about it every single day "
Am so sorry to hear xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry to hear that. I also lost one at 9 weeks. Was ectopic. Had she/he been born they would have been 8 this month. I often wonder what would have been but consider myself they lucky that I have three wonderful girls xx
Mine would of been 2 and I think about it every single day "
I remember all the little ones who never made it home out of SCBU  when mine were there, I take 5 minutes each birthday to remember  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"my eldest was 12 pound 10, born just after 1pm
I had twins with the middle pregnancy the girl was 11 pound 5 the boy was 2 pound 10 born between 1.30 and 2.00pm
my third was 6 pound 10 just after 6pm
Double wow!!! Do you mind me with your twins, did you have that condition where one twin takes all the nourishment. Sorry, I'm not sure what its called x
no because being male and female they wasn't sharing the same placenta that only works if they are identical and feeding off the same placenta, he was born with disabilities and had problems all his life and I lost him at 20 months old, being a twin had nothing to do with his condition tho "
Bless you. I am very sorry for your very tragic loss. Xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry to hear that. I also lost one at 9 weeks. Was ectopic. Had she/he been born they would have been 8 this month. I often wonder what would have been but consider myself they lucky that I have three wonderful girls xx
Mine would of been 2 and I think about it every single day
I remember all the little ones who never made it home out of SCBU when mine were there, I take 5 minutes each birthday to remember "
That is so kind and thoughtful xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry to hear that. I also lost one at 9 weeks. Was ectopic. Had she/he been born they would have been 8 this month. I often wonder what would have been but consider myself they lucky that I have three wonderful girls xx"
Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"8lb 2oz - 8.30pm ish (girl)
9lb 14oz - 2pm ish (girl)
8lb 2oz - 1.30pm ish (boy - stillborn )
7lb 9oz - 2pm ish (girl)
7lb 9oz - 1pm ish (girl)
PHEW!  "
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By (user no longer on site)
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1st 8lb 5.5 oz .....2.02am 2 weeks over by my dates and 6 weeks prem by docs
2nd 7lb 13 oz....10.45 pm 3 days over
3rd 6lb 10oz ....10.47am ...10 days late
4th 8lb 14oz ....10.32.....2 weeks over
5th 7lb 11oz ...02.27pm and 4 days over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx"
I've suffered a few and don't list them as I try not to think about what wasn't To be. Xxx |
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"So precious all your posts. I lost my baby when I was 9 weeks pregnant...."
Same for me in October 2009. A day doesn't pass without me thinking about what if xxxxx never got the opportunity of being a mum. |
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First: 6lb 4 6.32am I said New Years Day, doctor said 7th, I was right. Girl
Second: 7lb 5 10.10 elective caesarean at 37 weeks. Girl
Third: 3lb 11.57pm emergency caesarean at 30 weeks. Boy, died eight weeks later.
Fourth: 6lb 14 2.14pm elective caesarean at 38 weeks. Girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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5lbs 4 oz at 9.49 am and 7lbs 12 oz at 9.59 am so glad one got pushed for room i was beginning to look like an elephant that was a couple of weeks early.
And the hobbit was 8lbs 10 oz at 2 weeks and 4 days early i actually chose my due date  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx"
Well said its the hardest thing in the world for a woman x |
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"First: 6lb 4 6.32am I said New Years Day, doctor said 7th, I was right. Girl
Second: 7lb 5 10.10 elective caesarean at 37 weeks. Girl
Third: 3lb 11.57pm emergency caesarean at 30 weeks. Boy, died eight weeks later.
Fourth: 6lb 14 2.14pm elective caesarean at 38 weeks. Girl"
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx
Well said its the hardest thing in the world for a woman x"
Can't remember what I had for breakfast but could give you chapter and verse of what happened the day my son died in 1990: you never forget or feel whole. |
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx
Well said its the hardest thing in the world for a woman x"
Yes, I can't think of anything more painful than a loss of a child. My sister and her son were the victims of clinical negligence during his birth sadly and although he survived (thank god) he is severely disabled through being starved of oxygen. |
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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago
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1st ...7lb 1oz...=3 days late girl
Miscarriage at 8 weeks
2nd...7lb 5 oz ..2 weeks late boy
3rd....7lb 7oz ...10 days late girl
4th ...6lb 5oz...2 weeks late girl
Miscarriage
5th ..8lb 12oz ...3 weeks late ..boy
6th 7lb 4oz 9 says late emergency section girl
Now sterilized |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx
Well said its the hardest thing in the world for a woman x
Can't remember what I had for breakfast but could give you chapter and verse of what happened the day my son died in 1990: you never forget or feel whole."
My brothers girl died at 2 years and although she was my niece not mine its the same there and crazy how much of an impact the death of a child has on everyone even the children in the family i cant imagine what its like as a parent x |
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx
Well said its the hardest thing in the world for a woman x
Can't remember what I had for breakfast but could give you chapter and verse of what happened the day my son died in 1990: you never forget or feel whole."
My baby brother died at 2 days old in 1989 and I can remember every second. Seeing the pain and sadness my mom had to suffer was horrendous. I remember her telling me that her arms actually physically ached to hold him xx |
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx
Well said its the hardest thing in the world for a woman x
Can't remember what I had for breakfast but could give you chapter and verse of what happened the day my son died in 1990: you never forget or feel whole.
My brothers girl died at 2 years and although she was my niece not mine its the same there and crazy how much of an impact the death of a child has on everyone even the children in the family i cant imagine what its like as a parent x"
My daughter had her brothers name tattooed on her arm ahead of her marriage so he'd be part of the celebrations. Sadly, our son's death ended the marriage: we didn't grieve together. |
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx
Well said its the hardest thing in the world for a woman x
Can't remember what I had for breakfast but could give you chapter and verse of what happened the day my son died in 1990: you never forget or feel whole.
My baby brother died at 2 days old in 1989 and I can remember every second. Seeing the pain and sadness my mom had to suffer was horrendous. I remember her telling me that her arms actually physically ached to hold him xx"
Oh my, can I relate to that. That's exactly how I felt. Five weeks I spent looking at him in an incubator. Finally had him home, only really had him to myself for two weeks when I discovered him dead in his cot.
22 years is a long time to be sad, but there you go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx
Well said its the hardest thing in the world for a woman x
Can't remember what I had for breakfast but could give you chapter and verse of what happened the day my son died in 1990: you never forget or feel whole.
My brothers girl died at 2 years and although she was my niece not mine its the same there and crazy how much of an impact the death of a child has on everyone even the children in the family i cant imagine what its like as a parent x
My daughter had her brothers name tattooed on her arm ahead of her marriage so he'd be part of the celebrations. Sadly, our son's death ended the marriage: we didn't grieve together. "
I worried about my brothers sanity and how they would cope but they are so strong its unreal i never thought id see them smile again.
Even when she was being nursed as she was very sick and we knew she was dying he had a rule noone was allowed to cry or be sad infront of her.
Reading some of these posts makes me feel very honoured indeed to have my healthy boys and my little hobbit.
Much respect to you all for sharing x |
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7lb 3oz 0310 Girl 2 weeks overdue
Miscarriage at 15 weeks
10lb 4oz 2213 Boy 3 weeks overdue
7lb 1oz 2320 Boy 1 week overdue
I obviously didn't want to part with mine!!! And I don't know why my middle baby was so big!? But, when he was four he had Leukaemia. Still with us and 22 now  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx
Well said its the hardest thing in the world for a woman x
Can't remember what I had for breakfast but could give you chapter and verse of what happened the day my son died in 1990: you never forget or feel whole.
My baby brother died at 2 days old in 1989 and I can remember every second. Seeing the pain and sadness my mom had to suffer was horrendous. I remember her telling me that her arms actually physically ached to hold him xx
Oh my, can I relate to that. That's exactly how I felt. Five weeks I spent looking at him in an incubator. Finally had him home, only really had him to myself for two weeks when I discovered him dead in his cot.
22 years is a long time to be sad, but there you go. "
Did you keep anything of his? My mom kept the tiny bonnet, bootees, blanket he wore in his incubator as well as a lock of his hair. We still look at them now and whenever I am back in Somerset I always visit his grave. I remember his birthday and death every year and always buy flowers for home.
Big hug for you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Son....6lb 5oz's 12.31pm
Daughter 6lb 5oz's 3.30am
Daughter 7lb 12oz's 12.31pm
My children all have something in common as you can see, and you couldn't predict that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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1, 40 weeks 8lb 12oz 4.18am
2+3 twins 36 weeks 5lb 6oz, 7lb 3oz 10.18 10.21 am
4+5 twins 36 weeks 6lb 11oz, 8lb 11.27 11.30am
6 36 weeks 11lb 13oz 10.35am
cant believe i actually remember and held record for heaviest baby in our hospital for 3 yrs..  |
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"1, 40 weeks 8lb 12oz 4.18am
2+3 twins 36 weeks 5lb 6oz, 7lb 3oz 10.18 10.21 am
4+5 twins 36 weeks 6lb 11oz, 8lb 11.27 11.30am
6 36 weeks 11lb 13oz 10.35am
cant believe i actually remember and held record for heaviest baby in our hospital for 3 yrs.. "
I can't believe you had 2 sets of twins  |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"1, 40 weeks 8lb 12oz 4.18am
2+3 twins 36 weeks 5lb 6oz, 7lb 3oz 10.18 10.21 am
4+5 twins 36 weeks 6lb 11oz, 8lb 11.27 11.30am
6 36 weeks 11lb 13oz 10.35am
cant believe i actually remember and held record for heaviest baby in our hospital for 3 yrs.. "
you hVE 6 Children and two lots of twins wow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1, 40 weeks 8lb 12oz 4.18am
2+3 twins 36 weeks 5lb 6oz, 7lb 3oz 10.18 10.21 am
4+5 twins 36 weeks 6lb 11oz, 8lb 11.27 11.30am
6 36 weeks 11lb 13oz 10.35am
cant believe i actually remember and held record for heaviest baby in our hospital for 3 yrs.. you hVE 6 Children and two lots of twins wow "
yep sure have, 18yrs, 15yrs x2 8 yrs x2, and 7yrs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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First born 8 weeks early at 3lb 13
Second born 4 weeks early at 5lb 5
Youngest born 15 weeks weeks early at 1lb 13
Vasectomy came shortly after ... no way we were going through that again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Three all lost together at 6 weeks
Daughter 15.6 lb - 8 months late
8 months late????
Lol yeah I adopted her at 8 months old "
What a lucky kittle girl xx |
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"First born 8 weeks early at 3lb 13
Second born 4 weeks early at 5lb 5
Youngest born 15 weeks weeks early at 1lb 13
Vasectomy came shortly after ... no way we were going through that again. "
Wow 1lb 13 that's teeny tiny |
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"Three all lost together at 6 weeks
Daughter 15.6 lb - 8 months late
8 months late????
Lol yeah I adopted her at 8 months old
What a lucky kittle girl xx"
Thanks . Not so little anymore it was 12 years ago. Best thing I ever did and if I'm totally honest a damn sight easier than it would have been with the triplets!! |
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"First born 8 weeks early at 3lb 13
Second born 4 weeks early at 5lb 5
Youngest born 15 weeks weeks early at 1lb 13
Vasectomy came shortly after ... no way we were going through that again.
Wow 1lb 13 that's teeny tiny "
He was ... but he started secondary school this week |
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"Lots of love to all of you who have suffered miscarriages and deaths of precious babies. They will always be in your hearts xxx
Well said its the hardest thing in the world for a woman x
Can't remember what I had for breakfast but could give you chapter and verse of what happened the day my son died in 1990: you never forget or feel whole.
My baby brother died at 2 days old in 1989 and I can remember every second. Seeing the pain and sadness my mom had to suffer was horrendous. I remember her telling me that her arms actually physically ached to hold him xx
Oh my, can I relate to that. That's exactly how I felt. Five weeks I spent looking at him in an incubator. Finally had him home, only really had him to myself for two weeks when I discovered him dead in his cot.
22 years is a long time to be sad, but there you go.
Did you keep anything of his? My mom kept the tiny bonnet, bootees, blanket he wore in his incubator as well as a lock of his hair. We still look at them now and whenever I am back in Somerset I always visit his grave. I remember his birthday and death every year and always buy flowers for home.
Big hug for you xx"
A lock of his hair and his hospital ankle bracelet. I keep it in a small chest in my wardrobe. When I was burgled nine years ago the first thing I asked my daughter to check for (after asking if she was ok) was the box.
She said it was still there: I was so relieved. Things can and were replaced, my little box is my most treasured possession. |
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to this day a piece of my heart is missing I gave it away when my bambino was no longer and i am ok with that....I experienced heart break when relationships ended but i have never ever experienced the most heart wa
wrenching heart break then when i lost my baby...anyway that is my deep moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1, 40 weeks 8lb 12oz 4.18am
2+3 twins 36 weeks 5lb 6oz, 7lb 3oz 10.18 10.21 am
4+5 twins 36 weeks 6lb 11oz, 8lb 11.27 11.30am
6 36 weeks 11lb 13oz 10.35am
cant believe i actually remember and held record for heaviest baby in our hospital for 3 yrs.. you hVE 6 Children and two lots of twins wow
yep sure have, 18yrs, 15yrs x2 8 yrs x2, and 7yrs. "
You must be a saint i have 16 x2 and and 8 year old and they run me ragged you must never stop cooking lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Three all lost together at 6 weeks
Daughter 15.6 lb - 8 months late
8 months late????
Lol yeah I adopted her at 8 months old "
good for you. I'm adopted. |
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"to this day a piece of my heart is missing I gave it away when my bambino was no longer and i am ok with that....I experienced heart break when relationships ended but i have never ever experienced the most heart wa
wrenching heart break then when i lost my baby...anyway that is my deep moment "
I'm so sorry to read this. Have a friend who lost babies and had one healthy daughter, then had ectopic in her 40's. Hug to you even though I don't know you |
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Unfortunately I've never got past 12 weeks gestation.
1st miscarried at 9+3
2nd miscarried at 7+6
3rd I had a silent miscarriage, was detected at my 12 week scan but the baby had stopped growing at 10 weeks.
4th I had a pregnancy of unknown origin, my hcg levels suggested 7-8 weeks gestation. Although my uterus was empty. Had methotrexate treatment to end the pregnancy for my health as it was a non viable pregnancy.
My miscarriage bloods were inconclusive although I know now I have PCOS. I've partially come to terms with the fact I'll probably never carry to term, although it still hurts when i think of my losses.
I've had a coil put in to give myself some breathing space and a rest from the quest of motherhood for awhile. Am considering fostering in the future although not just yet. I strongly believe it must not be in my plan to be a mum but everything happens for a reason...
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"to this day a piece of my heart is missing I gave it away when my bambino was no longer and i am ok with that....I experienced heart break when relationships ended but i have never ever experienced the most heart wa
wrenching heart break then when i lost my baby...anyway that is my deep moment I'm so sorry to read this. Have a friend who lost babies and had one healthy daughter, then had ectopic in her 40's. Hug to you even though I don't know you"
Thank you to be fair I am suffering with it at the moment...my life seems to have no meaning and it's difficult as usually I am such a happy go lucky type of girl. I am sure tomorrow will be a brighter day..I guess I just hear the tick tock of my biological clock... |
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"Unfortunately I've never got past 12 weeks gestation.
1st miscarried at 9+3
2nd miscarried at 7+6
3rd I had a silent miscarriage, was detected at my 12 week scan but the baby had stopped growing at 10 weeks.
4th I had a pregnancy of unknown origin, my hcg levels suggested 7-8 weeks gestation. Although my uterus was empty. Had methotrexate treatment to end the pregnancy for my health as it was a non viable pregnancy.
My miscarriage bloods were inconclusive although I know now I have PCOS. I've partially come to terms with the fact I'll probably never carry to term, although it still hurts when i think of my losses.
I've had a coil put in to give myself some breathing space and a rest from the quest of motherhood for awhile. Am considering fostering in the future although not just yet. I strongly believe it must not be in my plan to be a mum but everything happens for a reason...
Oh blimey, have just tried to pm you, but cant because I haven't any pic, please do not give up hope xxxx
xxx"
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"This thread made for some sad reading "
Yes it did but also a lot of happiness too.
Thank you to all who posted.
I've just lost my patience big tine with my child. Sick of his back chat but I've come back and read this thread and although I stll dislike his behaviour immensely, I realise that I am so very lucky to have him and to be a mother when so many women don't have that opportunity. its just so hard doing it on your own.
Xxxxxxxx |
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"Unfortunately I've never got past 12 weeks gestation.
1st miscarried at 9+3
2nd miscarried at 7+6
3rd I had a silent miscarriage, was detected at my 12 week scan but the baby had stopped growing at 10 weeks.
4th I had a pregnancy of unknown origin, my hcg levels suggested 7-8 weeks gestation. Although my uterus was empty. Had methotrexate treatment to end the pregnancy for my health as it was a non viable pregnancy.
My miscarriage bloods were inconclusive although I know now I have PCOS. I've partially come to terms with the fact I'll probably never carry to term, although it still hurts when i think of my losses.
I've had a coil put in to give myself some breathing space and a rest from the quest of motherhood for awhile. Am considering fostering in the future although not just yet. I strongly believe it must not be in my plan to be a mum but everything happens for a reason...
xxx"
Can i just say i have suffered with PCOS and have lost but discovered out the blue when i stopped worrying that i was expecting my hobbit and at an early scan got told i had placenta previa and was suggested i have a termination....spent my last 3 months before she was born in bed on total rest most of it in hospital....she was brought early with some help but was perfect so there is hope x |
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"First born 8 weeks early at 3lb 13
Second born 4 weeks early at 5lb 5
Youngest born 15 weeks weeks early at 1lb 13
Vasectomy came shortly after ... no way we were going through that again.
Wow 1lb 13 that's teeny tiny
He was ... but he started secondary school this week "
I admit I didn't like to ask but thats fabulous |
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"Unfortunately I've never got past 12 weeks gestation.
1st miscarried at 9+3
2nd miscarried at 7+6
3rd I had a silent miscarriage, was detected at my 12 week scan but the baby had stopped growing at 10 weeks.
4th I had a pregnancy of unknown origin, my hcg levels suggested 7-8 weeks gestation. Although my uterus was empty. Had methotrexate treatment to end the pregnancy for my health as it was a non viable pregnancy.
My miscarriage bloods were inconclusive although I know now I have PCOS. I've partially come to terms with the fact I'll probably never carry to term, although it still hurts when i think of my losses.
I've had a coil put in to give myself some breathing space and a rest from the quest of motherhood for awhile. Am considering fostering in the future although not just yet. I strongly believe it must not be in my plan to be a mum but everything happens for a reason...
xxx"
Your right everything does happen for a reason. I can't understand the pain you must have gone through with each subsequent miscarriage as I only had one albeit losing three together was a triple whammy but I knew I couldn't put myself through it again and gave up then and adopted instead. There are many ways of becoming a mum not just the conventional way it takes a special kind of person to do that as adopting or fostering isn't always an easy route either but the joy it brings is priceless.
Love to all those mums who have, who have lost and who are still wanting. Keep believing |
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My first son....6lbs 2oz at 5.30am
4 weeks early( he sadly died at the age of 4 following life long chronic illness and surgery at gosh)
My second son...9lbs 13oz at 2am almost 3 weeks overcooked!!
Now a 6ft 4in 23 yr old beer monster!!
Life truly is SO precious......xx |
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"to this day a piece of my heart is missing I gave it away when my bambino was no longer and i am ok with that....I experienced heart break when relationships ended but i have never ever experienced the most heart wa
wrenching heart break then when i lost my baby...anyway that is my deep moment "
My son was dead when I found him. I can't describe the sinking feeling and fear that hit me like a physical blow. I managed to get his heart started whilst my husband called 999. I lived less than a mile from Kings: they were there in seconds and took over, but I knew if he survived he would be brain damaged.
Twelve hours later, listening to a priest give him the Last Rites while the doctors unplugged his life support and watch him die in my husbands arms was the moment a part of me died permanently.
I've never been genuinely happy since. Neither have I been so wretched either. No matter what shit has come my way: and boy there's been plenty, NOTHING has been allowed to overwhelm me the way my son's death did.
My four children fill the four chambers of my heart, but one is gone, that chamber can never be filled so I don't work right, I know it but I breath, I live, the world continues to turn with me on it.
...too early to be melancholy...caffeine is needed I think. |
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My heart goes out to all who have lost their little angels .
7lb 3 , 11.35am , due date (girl)
7lb 6 , 5.26am , due date (girl)
6lb 10 , 4.30am , due date (girl)
6lb 10, 11.24pm , 5 days early (boy)
6lb 5 , 5.25am , 5 days late (girl)
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"This thread made for some sad reading
Yes it did but also a lot of happiness too.
Thank you to all who posted.
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The sad stories stood out for me, I would have hated to go through anything that these women have gone through |
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Eldest was 10 days early in labour 11 hours weight 7lb 13 1/2 oz
Wee one was a day over due weight 8lb 5oz & hit the ground running after an hour and 59 minutes labour!
Did lose 3 babies, my first 2 and my 4th pregnancy. They would have been 18 17 & 9 now! I am blessed to have 2 beautiful girls with me though! |
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6lb 12oz 11:12- 2wks late girl
7lb 14oz. 00:32 - 2 was late boy
So envious of those whose babies were on time or just a week early. Those 2 extra weeks make life hell. Xx |
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"6lb 12oz 11:12- 2wks late girl
7lb 14oz. 00:32 - 2 was late boy
So envious of those whose babies were on time or just a week early. Those 2 extra weeks make life hell. Xx"
But were they born safely and healthy?x |
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"6lb 12oz 11:12- 2wks late girl
7lb 14oz. 00:32 - 2 was late boy
So envious of those whose babies were on time or just a week early. Those 2 extra weeks make life hell. Xx"
Alive and well I'm assuming, unlike some of the ladies here delivery still born babies!  |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"6lb 12oz 11:12- 2wks late girl
7lb 14oz. 00:32 - 2 was late boy
So envious of those whose babies were on time or just a week early. Those 2 extra weeks make life hell. Xx
Alive and well I'm assuming, unlike some of the ladies here delivery still born babies! "
and those that have lost in other circumstances!! |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"This thread made for some sad reading
Yes it did but also a lot of happiness too.
Thank you to all who posted.
The sad stories stood out for me, I would have hated to go through anything that these women have gone through "
Not just women Ruggers, I know my ex hub went through hell when I lost our boys |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"This thread made for some sad reading
Yes it did but also a lot of happiness too.
Thank you to all who posted.
The sad stories stood out for me, I would have hated to go through anything that these women have gone through
Not just women Ruggers, I know my ex hub went through hell when I lost our boys "
I imagine they do Fmuma yes...but I was just going on what the women said on this thread and thinking of it from a mothers point of view. |
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