Is that really unreasonable? You don't have any pictures of yourselves so I wouldn't have a clue what you look like. Surely that makes it difficult to judge whether one should pursue a possible meet or not? We all accept that visual appearance plays a part in any form of attraction. Why should you be any different??? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
But clearly states send a first pic IF you make first contact. Then get arsey if we don't send one first.
Eg you have to send a pic first even though they've messaged us |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Is that really unreasonable? You don't have any pictures of yourselves so I wouldn't have a clue what you look like. Surely that makes it difficult to judge whether one should pursue a possible meet or not? We all accept that visual appearance plays a part in any form of attraction. Why should you be any different???"
We've only just put pics private hence our status. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
Nr Chester |
Just concentrate on conducting yourself in the right manner, those that don't adhere to to the right etiquette, well room 101 them in the knowledge that 'that form' often proves a waste of everyones time and nothing will become of chatting to them, be it couples or singles. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Just concentrate on conducting yourself in the right manner, those that don't adhere to to the right etiquette, well room 101 them in the knowledge that 'that form' often proves a waste of everyones time and nothing will become of chatting to them, be it couples or singles."
Finally someone who sees it from our point of view. Had nothing but abuse from single guys this week. Fed up now |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
Nr Chester |
We,ve been very fortunate to meet some fantastic people, some not so, hairy muff, they had us kidded but it all came out in the wash and the closure justifies our own way we left it be. Move on move forward, trust your instinct. It's a crazy world out there.
And in all honesty we swing, single guys nor girls for that matter alone in our view are doing that. They enable a threesome. Our understanding is 2 or more couples if groups included and not an orgy. We wouldn,t know.
We don,t allow guys through the filters, far too many twats that ruin it for the decent ones, there are definately some decent guys out there though for sure, find them out and it,ll be worth it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If I'm interested I always attach a pic, my dazzling wit will only get me so far...... I need to show my stunning countenance to seal the deal!
No pic, you're just not serious. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
In life I have found like attracts like, what we give out we tend to get back. so far I haven't encountered rude people, time wasters or negative people. Mind you I have only been around for 57 years, so still time.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"But clearly states send a first pic IF you make first contact. Then get arsey if we don't send one first.
Eg you have to send a pic first even though they've messaged us "
Many people will chance it on here, it's just the way it is. I have never encountered rudeness on here from anyone if they send a pic I will reply politely. Agree with the visual though its nice to see who is interested.
You can't be doing that bad you have had meets, albeit for me your profile is rather caustic.
Had you considered blocking single men and approaching the ones you like the look of from profile/public pictures? Might save you from unwanted messages?
Best of luck |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've said it before, this game should be about a meeting of minds, not 'MY way or the highway'.
I would be highly dubious of anyone who just plays it whatever way the other party wants and whose agenda is suddenly completely to your agenda - more that likely these are the ones who will do whatever it takes to get to the prize. Neither would I be interested in people who lay out the fifteen step programme to meets in their profiles and shoot you down at the first sign of deviation from their plan because you may do things slightly differently.
But what do I know, I'm the oddball round here  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've said it before, this game should be about a meeting of minds, not 'MY way or the highway'.
I would be highly dubious of anyone who just plays it whatever way the other party wants and whose agenda is suddenly completely to your agenda - more that likely these are the ones who will do whatever it takes to get to the prize. Neither would I be interested in people who lay out the fifteen step programme to meets in their profiles and shoot you down at the first sign of deviation from their plan because you may do things slightly differently.
But what do I know, I'm the oddball round here "
I'm an oddball too then, because I agree with you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If I'm interested I always attach a pic, my dazzling wit will only get me so far...... I need to show my stunning countenance to seal the deal!
No pic, you're just not serious. "
oh sweet Jesus ..... dazzling wit  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
The thing is people are free to and will run there profile how they want, so if you dont want to do it there way and send a face pic when contacting, then just dont contact them and move on to someone that does it more like you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've said it before, this game should be about a meeting of minds, not 'MY way or the highway'.
I would be highly dubious of anyone who just plays it whatever way the other party wants and whose agenda is suddenly completely to your agenda - more that likely these are the ones who will do whatever it takes to get to the prize. Neither would I be interested in people who lay out the fifteen step programme to meets in their profiles and shoot you down at the first sign of deviation from their plan because you may do things slightly differently.
But what do I know, I'm the oddball round here
I'm an oddball too then, because I agree with you. "
Certifiable loon here then too!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If I'm interested I always attach a pic, my dazzling wit will only get me so far...... I need to show my stunning countenance to seal the deal!
No pic, you're just not serious.
oh sweet Jesus ..... dazzling wit "
Yes, or is it more sparkling? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If I'm interested I always attach a pic, my dazzling wit will only get me so far...... I need to show my stunning countenance to seal the deal!
No pic, you're just not serious.
oh sweet Jesus ..... dazzling wit
Yes, or is it more sparkling?"
Oh you sparkle all right |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"But clearly states send a first pic IF you make first contact. Then get arsey if we don't send one first.
Eg you have to send a pic first even though they've messaged us "
Wait..... So it's ok for you to DEMAND face pics first but not ok for a guy to ask for your pics first? How very odd.
Just because you write something in your profile doesn't mean every guy HAS to jump through your hoops does it??
I would never send my face pic on first message regardless of if I madecontact first or not. I have no idea if I want to meet a person until we have chatted a bit and then when I am comfortable I will send a pic. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Why do single guys contact couples and expect to see their face pics?
They made first contact and expect to join in with out showing face "
And, if a single guy sends you a face pic with his intro message OP, do you ALWAYS immediately send back YOUR face pics..????
ted. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I prefer to see a face pic before I start chatting to a guy. Shallow? Yes,probably it is but that is how I prefer to do things on here. My profile does request a face pic to be attached to the first message. If they dont attach one, I just delete it because they clearly haven't read my profile. If I think there will be a mutual attraction then i will respond with my face pic. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
At the end of the day there is no right or wrong way of doing this. If you feel the responsibility is all on the guy to show his face without the guarantee of getting yours in return then fin however don't cry when people don't agree with you and want to do things their way as well. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
