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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had a meet with a lovely guy this week who paid me some lovely compliments but the one that made me feel really happy was the fact that he said I had a lovely home. I felt really proud.
Following my divorce, I'm unable to afford my own house so I rent through a HA. Its a new build but very tiny, 2 bed terrace. I often miss my old marital home but I've taken joy in making my little house into a palace for my son and me.
What compliments have you received that made you feel really good about yourself? |
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The wife of someone I represented who hugged me after I'd won his case saying thank you, I don't know how we'd have coped without you, you're an angel.
No one has ever called me an angel, nine years on I still think about them. |
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"The wife of someone I represented who hugged me after I'd won his case saying thank you, I don't know how we'd have coped without you, you're an angel.
No one has ever called me an angel, nine years on I still think about them."
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"Someone said to me once, You're not that fat!? I felt amazing!  x"
A colleague was discussing me and said "she's a really nice person, she'd be absolutely stunning if she were slim".
Ah well, I'll just have to live with being nice!  |
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"Not being funny, but I'd take with a pinch of salt any compliment a meet said. I'm surprised all the "compliments" people are proud off appear sex related, which is a little sad.
Hey ho."
Only a pinch? Let me get you a whole bag of the stuff  |
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"Not being funny, but I'd take with a pinch of salt any compliment a meet said. I'm surprised all the "compliments" people are proud off appear sex related, which is a little sad.
Hey ho."
U have a nice cock she said to me...I dunno whats so sxual about that! |
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AS you might imagine I get a LOT of compliments.
Amongst the myriad here are a few of my favourites:
You smell like a sexy lumberjack who just spent his time beating the shit out of a log.
That orgasm you just gave me made me scream in Spanish. I don’t even know Spanish!
No man on this planet has ever understood me the way you do.
I’m beginning to get addicted to your smile.
You can fix anything: the computer, remote, and my pants. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I go to social's. And nights out. Quite a few people have said I look like " Marilyn Monroe".
Quite chuffed about that.   "
yeahh when theres a gust of wind and wearing no panties... I see the similaroties xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I go to social's. And nights out. Quite a few people have said I look like " Marilyn Monroe".
Quite chuffed about that.
yeahh when theres a gust of wind and wearing no panties... I see the similaroties xxx"
Haa haa. Knew you wld say somthing P.  |
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The ex has been up to his old tricks again trying with trying to get people to believe some pretty horrible shit about me and how I am bringing up my children,and I had a word with the school,showing them what he has said,asking them if they shared any of those concerns and the head teacher said "Mrs S, in the 4 years your kids have been in my school I have never once had any concerns about their health and wellbeing.you have been one of the more dedicated parents,giving 110% for your kids...I have met their father once..enough said. You have been doing it alone for 6 years and you should feel nothing but proud of yourself." I was almost in tears on way home...LOL |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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As a trainer presenting a quite dry subject, one of the best comments I got which I took as a huge compliment was "Kept it interesting and I didn't fall asleep"...sexually my FWB often tells me I'm easy to make love to cos I enjoy all sorts of different sex - I'll take that as a compliment too |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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The best was a surprise dinner with friends and work colleagues. I thought I was meeting an ex colleague for a drink. Just her. Then she suggested we go on for something to eat. After passing about 7 restaurants I couldn't work out why she was being so fussy as they were all good places.
We got to a restaurant I like and she let me persuade her that we should stop walking and go in. When we went in there was a table full of people I had employed and worked with all gathered to thank me for the contribution I had made to their lives and careers. The really lovely bit was the e-mails from those in America and New Zealand who couldn't be there.
That anyone would arrange that for me was very touching. When I'm feeling useless I remember that dinner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am struggling to think! In my personal life there are too many to choose just one.
Compliments from on here - that I am even better in real life than my pictures, but I would think anyone is better meeting face to face than a picture on a screen lol |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I am struggling to think! In my personal life there are too many to choose just one.
Compliments from on here - that I am even better in real life than my pictures, but I would think anyone is better meeting face to face than a picture on a screen lol"
Yes... So long as they do look like their pics... I had someone use their friends pics... Cam every time now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am struggling to think! In my personal life there are too many to choose just one.
Compliments from on here - that I am even better in real life than my pictures, but I would think anyone is better meeting face to face than a picture on a screen lol
Yes... So long as they do look like their pics... I had someone use their friends pics... Cam every time now!"
They most certainly are me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best compliment that's been given to me is I'm a fantastic mother, means the world to me and one compliment I can actually take! Lol
My son is 16 now and done so well.
He has aurisum. Aspergers syndrome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My dad telling me "I'm incredibly proud of the beautiful, smart and charming woman you've become, you are doing amazing" (he is very brass so any compliment was a complete shock let alone this one).
And in my previous job from a year 6 student "Thank you for all you have done Miss, I used to get frustrated and angry because nobody cared but you care and you understand me, you're pretty cool"
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I am struggling to think! In my personal life there are too many to choose just one.
Compliments from on here - that I am even better in real life than my pictures, but I would think anyone is better meeting face to face than a picture on a screen lol
Yes... So long as they do look like their pics... I had someone use their friends pics... Cam every time now!
They most certainly are me "
I really wasn't doubting that, just mentioning an experience I had x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just this morning a friend told me she wished she had more friends like me. Made me smile. I can't think what the best one was..... Although one of the nicest was from a random stranger complimenting me in the way I dealt with a child tantrum in the street. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not being funny, but I'd take with a pinch of salt any compliment a meet said. I'm surprised all the "compliments" people are proud off appear sex related, which is a little sad.
Hey ho."
You are so my sister by a different mother.
The only compliments I accept from the opposite gender are those I know to be true. It is not THAT easy to get into my knickers.
In the real world, professionally speaking, I have had some wonderful humbling compliments |
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something similar to Mistress, had a colleagues wife who I represented hug me and say thank you and that without the support he was given she feared he would have done something very stupid had he lost his job..
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After my Mum died, I received a letter from her Sister-in-Law, my step dads sister, who said that my mum was so proud of me, what I had achieved in life and how much she loved me. I know my Mum had told me this, but to hear it from someone else, brought tears to my eyes, then and now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a meet with a lovely guy this week who paid me some lovely compliments but the one that made me feel really happy was the fact that he said I had a lovely home. I felt really proud.
Following my divorce, I'm unable to afford my own house so I rent through a HA. Its a new build but very tiny, 2 bed terrace. I often miss my old marital home but I've taken joy in making my little house into a palace for my son and me.
What compliments have you received that made you feel really good about yourself?"
i've had the house thing, so as a bloke that lives alone most of the time, thats a real real compliment lol.
venus has compliments all the time, on meets or just people in the street.
so much so i start to feel very good about myself as i am with her lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not being funny, but I'd take with a pinch of salt any compliment a meet said. I'm surprised all the "compliments" people are proud off appear sex related, which is a little sad.
Hey ho."
Does it matter if the compliments are sex related? As long as the person receiving them felt good, surely that's what matters? |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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I was on a night out with Mrs saucy,when we met my brother.
Later A gorgeous female came over and started talking to him,I noticed they kept looking in my direction.
When she left he told me she was asking who I Was,and when he asked if she fancied me,she said,I'm getting damp just looking at him.
happy days I thought,A female with exemplary taste.
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A work colleague on monday someone I had never met before.
Told me as she left she had really enjoyed my company and humour she said she wants to come back and work again in my clinic. She then went and told my usual vet also.
Made my day as compliments in vet clinics are not very thick on ground. Sadly in customer service not many reward good service with a letter to the boss but are very quick to complain.
Here compliments are passed only to get you to meet, very shallow
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't take them too well tbh. I kinda feel uncomfortable when someone says "You're really attractive"etc. But I can't help but smile (and sometimes go red)
And interesting one was "you have piercing eyes. Like a wolf" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a kid once told me I look like Vin Diesel....had to look him up on google images...shit I look like THAT
Can't really tell from your pics, but Vin is hot: I would! "
He isn't so hot in them Coors adverts  |
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"a kid once told me I look like Vin Diesel....had to look him up on google images...shit I look like THAT
Can't really tell from your pics, but Vin is hot: I would!
He isn't so hot in them Coors adverts "
isn't that van damme..?
well known powder loving wife beater.. |
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By *obbygggMan
over a year ago
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"AS you might imagine I get a LOT of compliments.
Amongst the myriad here are a few of my favourites:
You smell like a sexy lumberjack who just spent his time beating the shit out of a log.
That orgasm you just gave me made me scream in Spanish. I don’t even know Spanish!
No man on this planet has ever understood me the way you do.
I’m beginning to get addicted to your smile.
You can fix anything: the computer, remote, and my pants."
Did they also compliment you on your modesty in this daydream as well? |
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By *obbygggMan
over a year ago
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"The ex has been up to his old tricks again trying with trying to get people to believe some pretty horrible shit about me and how I am bringing up my children,and I had a word with the school,showing them what he has said,asking them if they shared any of those concerns and the head teacher said "Mrs S, in the 4 years your kids have been in my school I have never once had any concerns about their health and wellbeing.you have been one of the more dedicated parents,giving 110% for your kids...I have met their father once..enough said. You have been doing it alone for 6 years and you should feel nothing but proud of yourself." I was almost in tears on way home...LOL"
"My" kids? yours from a previous relationship?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a kid once told me I look like Vin Diesel....had to look him up on google images...shit I look like THAT
Can't really tell from your pics, but Vin is hot: I would!
He isn't so hot in them Coors adverts
isn't that van damme..?
well known powder loving wife beater.."
Oh yeah  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a kid once told me I look like Vin Diesel....had to look him up on google images...shit I look like THAT "
talking of what MAY have been a backhanded compliment.
i was watching a sunday league footy mach once, and told this kid in fortn of me to sit the fook down.
he turned and with his face screwed up in anger shouted 'WELL AT LEAST I HAVENT GOT A BIG DICK LIKE YOU HAVE!!!'
i couldnt stop grinning til my mate said 'he is 5. his is problably tiny'
bastard! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a kid once told me I look like Vin Diesel....had to look him up on google images...shit I look like THAT "
don't worry you don't look anything like him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got told i was girlfriend material....slightly scary but a lovely compliment.
Also think one of the highest compliments i will ever have...was my niece telling me she wished her mum was like me as i was the best...quite sad but very touching from an 11 year old. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am struggling to think! In my personal life there are too many to choose just one.
Compliments from on here - that I am even better in real life than my pictures, but I would think anyone is better meeting face to face than a picture on a screen lol"
Some are, some arnt! It was my face pic he was on about. Some look better in pics than in the flesh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently met a very sexy lady on here - she said I had a lovely smile and that's what attracted her
First time anyone has said that - made me feel really good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The nicest was when someone said my kids are a credit to me and I should be proud if myself "
That is the best compliment I have ever had too & really the only one I want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a kid once told me I look like Vin Diesel....had to look him up on google images...shit I look like THAT
Can't really tell from your pics, but Vin is hot: I would! "
+1 |
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"a kid once told me I look like Vin Diesel....had to look him up on google images...shit I look like THAT
Can't really tell from your pics, but Vin is hot: I would!
He isn't so hot in them Coors adverts
isn't that van damme..?
well known powder loving wife beater..
Oh yeah "
Haahaahaa! Oh bless you! |
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"The nicest was when someone said my kids are a credit to me and I should be proud if myself "
When I go to my hairdresser and mothers let their kids run around, be general pain in the arses etc, after they've gone she says the same thing. She tells everyone about my daughter, how she'd sit with her book, a packet of crisps and a Ribena, only moving to put her rubbish in the bin. How she was a joy and a credit to me.
My daughter was five: she's 22 in three weeks! |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I am struggling to think! In my personal life there are too many to choose just one.
Compliments from on here - that I am even better in real life than my pictures, but I would think anyone is better meeting face to face than a picture on a screen lol
Some are, some arnt! It was my face pic he was on about. Some look better in pics than in the flesh "
I have that problem lol. I put a few up before and people were telling me to take them off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One that stays with me was from a friend on here ... He said "I hate you .. Because every time I kiss someone now .. I want to scream at them! Why can't you kiss like H!?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been told that I'm an inspiration a few times over the past couple of weeks.
Someone also said that they would really really miss me when I move away, cos I'm their best mate. I found that sweet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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After having my hair cut a lady told me I only looked about 37 and I had really nice eyes,well I'm a fat ugly old fart and I asked her where her white stick was-lolllllllllllllllllllll |
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"Just now when a 22 year old lady messaged this 52 year old man and said i had a great body for my age "
I had to go look at your profile when I read that you are 52, you definitely do have a good body, but not just for your age! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When a compliment comes from someone you admire it means a lot and gives you that special "lift".
A gentleman i know said my eyes and lips are beautiful...which amazed me cause i thought he couldnt get his eyes off my tits!!! |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"When a compliment comes from someone you admire it means a lot and gives you that special "lift".
A gentleman i know said my eyes and lips are beautiful...which amazed me cause i thought he couldnt get his eyes off my tits!!! "
Lol
And they say guys can't multitask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was 2 days ago and said
Is your dad an astronaut? Because someone stole the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes.. Lol
Or the other one was omg ya not putting that in there that's gonna hurt!!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ex has been up to his old tricks again trying with trying to get people to believe some pretty horrible shit about me and how I am bringing up my children,and I had a word with the school,showing them what he has said,asking them if they shared any of those concerns and the head teacher said "Mrs S, in the 4 years your kids have been in my school I have never once had any concerns about their health and wellbeing.you have been one of the more dedicated parents,giving 110% for your kids...I have met their father once..enough said. You have been doing it alone for 6 years and you should feel nothing but proud of yourself." I was almost in tears on way home...LOL"
that's lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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being told I'm a great friend is a great compliment for me! I'm really loyal and go out of my way a lot to help my friends or just do nice, thoughtful things and to know it's appreciated is lovely |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Possibly not the greatest, but I still enjoyed it.
Last night I was out clubbing and this lass walking by me just turned round and said, 'you have got MASSIVE tits.' She completely missed the fact that I was a bloke. Just a small thing, but it put a big smile on my face and the girly I was with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not swinging related but one of my friends pointed out my abs looked amazing the other day. She could see them threw my shirt. Love this, as I work out regularly.
Mrs.
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once helped daughters friends mum out a few years ago...... she was divorced and her son sadly died of cancer ages 12 yrs, he passed away quickly six weeks from being diagnosed the his death. As you can imagine the state she was in, had no family to help her out and no cash...... I organised the funeral, helped get her a grant for is and raised a £1000 for her to place a head stone at the grave, and to also return with her daughter for a holiday to a place her son loved to go. I did it because I wanted to, and our son was same age at the time. On the day of the funeral, she came up to me, hugged me and said, there truly are angels, but I never thought one would be sent to me to help me out....I had a lump in my throat, and still do if I ever think about it !!!! |
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I once spent 3 days stopping a boy getting sent back to the country of his birth against his will
When we got the result he cried and said my name out loud and said "ill never forget that name until I die , you saved my life"
I wouldn't have gone that far but it was a good result and I did feel good knowing I'd made a difference! |
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"once helped daughters friends mum out a few years ago...... she was divorced and her son sadly died of cancer ages 12 yrs, he passed away quickly six weeks from being diagnosed the his death. As you can imagine the state she was in, had no family to help her out and no cash...... I organised the funeral, helped get her a grant for is and raised a £1000 for her to place a head stone at the grave, and to also return with her daughter for a holiday to a place her son loved to go. I did it because I wanted to, and our son was same age at the time. On the day of the funeral, she came up to me, hugged me and said, there truly are angels, but I never thought one would be sent to me to help me out....I had a lump in my throat, and still do if I ever think about it !!!! "
That has made me cry x |
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Someone once said to me, "Bob you really look like of Freddie Mercury" (I was at one time a good look alike) I thanked her for the compliment, she said, "Yeah, you look dead" |
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"once helped daughters friends mum out a few years ago...... she was divorced and her son sadly died of cancer ages 12 yrs, he passed away quickly six weeks from being diagnosed the his death. As you can imagine the state she was in, had no family to help her out and no cash...... I organised the funeral, helped get her a grant for is and raised a £1000 for her to place a head stone at the grave, and to also return with her daughter for a holiday to a place her son loved to go. I did it because I wanted to, and our son was same age at the time. On the day of the funeral, she came up to me, hugged me and said, there truly are angels, but I never thought one would be sent to me to help me out....I had a lump in my throat, and still do if I ever think about it !!!! $-
That has made me cry x"
me too again !!!! |
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"once helped daughters friends mum out a few years ago...... she was divorced and her son sadly died of cancer ages 12 yrs, he passed away quickly six weeks from being diagnosed the his death. As you can imagine the state she was in, had no family to help her out and no cash...... I organised the funeral, helped get her a grant for is and raised a £1000 for her to place a head stone at the grave, and to also return with her daughter for a holiday to a place her son loved to go. I did it because I wanted to, and our son was same age at the time. On the day of the funeral, she came up to me, hugged me and said, there truly are angels, but I never thought one would be sent to me to help me out....I had a lump in my throat, and still do if I ever think about it !!!!
That has made me cry x"
Me too what a wonderful person you are x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm sure I've been told much nicer things and given lovely compliments, but there's one that is fresh in my mind (because it happened today)
Someone told me that they remember the 'fantasic' way I kissed them as if it was yesterday, when actually, it was nearly 2 years ago now. I must admit, it was pretty hot! |
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"once helped daughters friends mum out a few years ago...... she was divorced and her son sadly died of cancer ages 12 yrs, he passed away quickly six weeks from being diagnosed the his death. As you can imagine the state she was in, had no family to help her out and no cash...... I organised the funeral, helped get her a grant for is and raised a £1000 for her to place a head stone at the grave, and to also return with her daughter for a holiday to a place her son loved to go. I did it because I wanted to, and our son was same age at the time. On the day of the funeral, she came up to me, hugged me and said, there truly are angels, but I never thought one would be sent to me to help me out....I had a lump in my throat, and still do if I ever think about it !!!!
That has made me cry x
Me too what a wonderful person you are x"
ah ty what a kind thing to say...... i would do it all again in a flash if someone needed my help...... I cant stand by watching people struggle... !!! |
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