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over a year ago
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i dont like noisy selfish people, like the new family who have just moved in down the road from us.
the kids are screaming and shouting all the time and so are the parents, everyone moans about them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people who get annoyed with someone because they have a different opinion to them, do they expect everyone else to think the same way they do. 
we cant all be yes people, all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like arrogant people who think they are far too important or better than anybody else on here and that their opinion is the only one that counts .intelligence is being able to take on board new information and being able to develop your opinion further .to not have the ability to be able to do that is sheer bloody mindedness and concrete thinking which makes for dull sex as far as i can see .if you don't want to develop your opinions you ain't going to want to develop your sexual techniques .thats my experience in the past .poppyxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What type of person can you not abide by? For me its arrogant self righteous know it all types who take delight in making others feel stupid.... those people test my patience most."
TV Chefs spring to mind ...on a serious note ...greed and intolerance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Narcicists wind me up. i guess that would also cover arrogance. There is nothing worse than a meet where the person is arrogant (and usually crap in bed) . Biggest turn off ever. |
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"There are good moaners too
Your review was classic 
oooooooh ive got to read it now is it in a thread ?
No it's on the club reviews but I created a thread about it as I thought it was so funny  "
missed that I am off to find it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that aggressively pry into your life so they can gossip and disapprove with the world about what you do or what kind of person you are. Though I guess I'm skimming the line being here and talking about it.
Bitter people that can't live without drama so they try to drag others down to their level and choose who they conflict with just so they can be happy in the knowledge that they chose their enemies because it makes them feel like they're in control of something in their lives.
Power trippers.
Narrow minded people that seem to have had nothing but success and the generosity of others, and seemingly havent learned anything from losing out, and so they think everyone is jealous of them and trying to take what they have, so they condescend on people that arent like them. I guess you could call that elitist, because I wouldn't judge people simply for being a higher class than myself.
Generally though, I can't decide whether all people naturally need something to hate on once in a while, like we have some sort of psychological menstrual cycle of wasteful frustrations and immobile aspirations, or if it's just a by-product of struggling to endure within modern society while keeping a clear conscience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"people who get annoyed with someone because they have a different opinion to them, do they expect everyone else to think the same way they do.
we cant all be yes people, all the time."
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why do some people pick on others.
i was abused by my father bullied at school been bullied at work and was married to a bullying controlling guy.
so how will i ever end the cycle apart from ending it all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why do some people pick on others.
i was abused by my father bullied at school been bullied at work and was married to a bullying controlling guy.
so how will i ever end the cycle apart from ending it all "
You hold your head up and remember you are way better than all those bullies. You show them they didn't win xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why do some people pick on others.
i was abused by my father bullied at school been bullied at work and was married to a bullying controlling guy.
so how will i ever end the cycle apart from ending it all "
by picking your new partners you chose to share your life with wisely .womens aid do lots of good courses .the freedom project is one thats good and aimed at people who feel like yourself .contact them by looking them up on the Internet .you can break the cycle as it is not your cycle it is theirs .poppyxx |
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did that last year after my ex filed for divorce (he committed adultery) went on a dating site ,met a guy and when he started having a go at me i dumped him.that was in
25 days a year ago ,but not sure if i'm strong enough to cope if same thing happened again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"did that last year after my ex filed for divorce (he committed adultery) went on a dating site ,met a guy and when he started having a go at me i dumped him.that was in
25 days a year ago ,but not sure if i'm strong enough to cope if same thing happened again x"
the freedom project will show you all the ealy traits of those kind of people so you can avoid them in the future .your child hood you had no choice but as an adult and survivor of domestic abuse now you have a choice.poppyxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why do some people pick on others.
i was abused by my father bullied at school been bullied at work and was married to a bullying controlling guy.
so how will i ever end the cycle apart from ending it all "
You've been through much the same as me.
You find after a certain time, especially since your dad planted that seed, that your life feels incomplete without the bully to be your master and keeper.
You literally dont feel normal unless you have an antagonist of some sort in your life, and never having the approval of your father makes you look for approval from other bullies, maybe trying to reshape the past in the hopes of an eventual positive outcome.
Abuse does, after a while, have the same effect as love does. In the fact that it makes a permanent impression on who you are and what makes you tick. You dont learn to like it, you just learn to be motivated by it.
You can change, only by wanting and needing to. It involves going back and starting from square one, with the help of a counsellor preferably.
Wont lie to you, it will be hard, depressing, something not unlike what you've already been through. You might feel that sense of being incomplete when you do try to change, but if I could ask you to remember one thing and make good of it...
We all leave loose ends behind, in some way or another, just like your dad did. You of all people can at least afford to say you deserve to leave that mess where it is and go make do with something better. |
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People who are mean. I can't stand it. Or those who feel entitled to everything and those who live lives as perpetual victims. That's not to say people don't get victimized and have a right to act accordingly but those who are always playing the victim poor me card. |
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"What type of person can you not abide by? For me its arrogant self righteous know it all types who take delight in making others feel stupid.... those people test my patience most."
Attention Seekers.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I don't care what they say about you. I love you all
Have you been eating spacedust again? 
No cos it makes you paranoid.
You're out to get me  "
I am indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those that are ugly inside. No respect for anyone and leave devastation wherever they go.
Also noisy eaters grrrrr "
God, ive got a colleague who eats like a pig!She sprayed me with ham sandwich crumbs at a recent meeting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those that are ugly inside. No respect for anyone and leave devastation wherever they go.
Also noisy eaters grrrrr
God, ive got a colleague who eats like a pig!She sprayed me with ham sandwich crumbs at a recent meeting!"
I'm so bad I can't sit @ the Breakfast table with my 4 year old Grandson |
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