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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all
Just asking for my wife what do fellow fabsters prefer ?
Skinny lasses or bbw lasses ?
Thanks Shrek "
If I had to choose between the 2, I'd go skinny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be prepared for a lot of negative posts here. Its a highly emotive topic and I think the concensus is usually that there is that all people can be sexy and variety is good."
Takes all sorts ....but i do have my popcorn handy  |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
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"Be prepared for a lot of negative posts here. Its a highly emotive topic and I think the concensus is usually that there is that all people can be sexy and variety is good."
well I made a pile of poo of that post but I hope you got my meaning.  |
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"Hello all
Just asking for my wife what do fellow fabsters prefer ?
Skinny lasses or bbw lasses ?
Thanks Shrek "
BOTH ! ...... I just love women , full stop . It's not someone's shape that is sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be prepared for a lot of negative posts here. Its a highly emotive topic and I think the concensus is usually that there is that all people can be sexy and variety is good. well I made a pile of poo of that post but I hope you got my meaning. "
Don't bring poo into this, it could get very messy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh dear...
All women are beautiful no matter their size, that's all I'm sayin on the subject.... 
Not true, some are, some are ugly on the outside, inside or both."
Not true!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So one persons diamond is anothers stone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all
Just asking for my wife what do fellow fabsters prefer ?
Skinny lasses or bbw lasses ?
Thanks Shrek "
Bbw for me more to hold more to kiss and much more fun too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes I know all are different and everyone likes different sizes and shapes. Just wife thinks no one likes her body shape but I say she is perfect to me. Very self conscious thats all |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes I know all are different and everyone likes different sizes and shapes. Just wife thinks no one likes her body shape but I say she is perfect to me. Very self conscious thats all "
its tough not to be when society mostly frowns on being overweight. I understand her insecurities but it seems that people really do make up their own minds when it comes to sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of big people on here who are having fun, i have noticed that some men who meet slim women after meeting me leave them better verifications, saying how lucky they were to meet a fit one sort of thing.
most men prefer slim or average but they cant always get what they want.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bloody hell its a vast difference people will like what they like regardless of size.
Hope you are ready for the replies there is a fat vs skinny thread weekly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha ha yeah i had a guy message me after one of these threads asking to chat....yet he had slated bigger women  "
or ones who say they dont like hairy women or pussy pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha ha yeah i had a guy message me after one of these threads asking to chat....yet he had slated bigger women
or ones who say they dont like hairy women or pussy pics. "
Exactly its not my thing so wouldnt mail them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So I'm guessing personality counts for nothing?
Attractiveness for me equates to someone I can connect with, someone who makes me smile, regardless of size.
Most of us have body hang ups.. Mine is a wobbly mummy tummy!
But it's part of who I am.
Have been fortunate to have played with a few ladies, all different shapes and sizes... But they where all beautiful in their own rights.. The main thing that shone through, for me.... they where strong confident, beautiful and comfortable in their own skins.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm guessing personality counts for nothing?
Attractiveness for me equates to someone I can connect with, someone who makes me smile, regardless of size.
Most of us have body hang ups.. Mine is a wobbly mummy tummy!
But it's part of who I am.
Have been fortunate to have played with a few ladies, all different shapes and sizes... But they where all beautiful in their own rights.. The main thing that shone through, for me.... they where strong confident, beautiful and comfortable in their own skins. "
Although have to add prefer not to meet with my hedge trimmer in my bag  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm guessing personality counts for nothing?
Attractiveness for me equates to someone I can connect with, someone who makes me smile, regardless of size.
Most of us have body hang ups.. Mine is a wobbly mummy tummy!
But it's part of who I am.
Have been fortunate to have played with a few ladies, all different shapes and sizes... But they where all beautiful in their own rights.. The main thing that shone through, for me.... they where strong confident, beautiful and comfortable in their own skins. "
I think some of the time though its false confidence, like putting on an act, if bigger women were that confident they wouldnt get so easily offended when people say they dont like them. |
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I'm guessing when these kind of questions are asked it's the aesthetic aspect which is being queried. If I'm correct why do people feel compelled to trot out the standard "It's the person inside", "Personality is more important" stock responses?
I'll give an honest answer and not the sycophantic reply quite a few guys give in the hope of increasing their chances of a meet... Presented with a choice between the same woman as a size 18+ or as a size 8-12 I'll go for the latter every time.
"It's unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same" is a Pulp Fiction quote from a female character who wants a pot belly and I think this applies to really big women in general.
I have donned my flack jacket and borrowed a cycling helmet and acknowledge that I'm am well aware there are a lot of men who genuinely prefer the larger lady. I'm simply saying based purely on aesthetics the majority of (honest) men would go for the slimmer version of the same female. |
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I have never met a man who when given the choice would not rather shag the skinny bird, it just rather pisses me off that when they don't have the choice they make it so bloody obvious I am second best, then wonder why I say no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, its the person inside I connect with not the outer layer. Ive been fortunate to have met both small and cuddly ladies and have had just as much fun with all of them |
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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago
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"I have never met a man who when given the choice would not rather shag the skinny bird, it just rather pisses me off that when they don't have the choice they make it so bloody obvious I am second best, then wonder why I say no."
maybe I am being naive but I actually believe the occasional man actually prefers larger women. To each his own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm guessing when these kind of questions are asked it's the aesthetic aspect which is being queried. If I'm correct why do people feel compelled to trot out the standard "It's the person inside", "Personality is more important" stock responses?
I'll give an honest answer and not the sycophantic reply quite a few guys give in the hope of increasing their chances of a meet... Presented with a choice between the same woman as a size 18+ or as a size 8-12 I'll go for the latter every time.
"It's unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same" is a Pulp Fiction quote from a female character who wants a pot belly and I think this applies to really big women in general.
I have donned my flack jacket and borrowed a cycling helmet and acknowledge that I'm am well aware there are a lot of men who genuinely prefer the larger lady. I'm simply saying based purely on aesthetics the majority of (honest) men would go for the slimmer version of the same female. "
Just nice to hear a honest answer !!!! Think all us ladies find that way more attractive !!!! Well I do for sure !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm guessing when these kind of questions are asked it's the aesthetic aspect which is being queried. If I'm correct why do people feel compelled to trot out the standard "It's the person inside", "Personality is more important" stock responses?
I'll give an honest answer and not the sycophantic reply quite a few guys give in the hope of increasing their chances of a meet... Presented with a choice between the same woman as a size 18+ or as a size 8-12 I'll go for the latter every time.
"It's unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same" is a Pulp Fiction quote from a female character who wants a pot belly and I think this applies to really big women in general.
I have donned my flack jacket and borrowed a cycling helmet and acknowledge that I'm am well aware there are a lot of men who genuinely prefer the larger lady. I'm simply saying based purely on aesthetics the majority of (honest) men would go for the slimmer version of the same female. "
Agree with this, there are far more men on here and so women have a choice that men don't, to a certain degree. And it's like most women would prefer a more toned guy, bigger cock etc, if they had the choice, personalities aside. No harm in the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The guy who posted above a few posts back hit the nail head.
these threads always have a few posts from men seeking a bonus point or two fishing for meets.
They have a cloud of secrecy over what they do on here.
Put them in a pub with all their mates and I'm sure their taste in women would instantly change.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The guy who posted above a few posts back hit the nail head.
these threads always have a few posts uufrom men seeking a bonus point or two fishing for meets.
They have a cloud of secrecy over what they do on here.
Put them in a pub with all their mates and I'm sure their taste in women would instantly change.
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Like my taste in food. I'll only eat a kebab if I'm pissed |
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"Oh dear...
All women are beautiful no matter their size, that's all I'm sayin on the subject.... "
Not all women are beautiful regardless of size! We won't appeal to everyone and I find these types of threads pointless.
If you've body issues some will flatter and make you feel better, some will say you're not for them and make you feel worst.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh dear...
All women are beautiful no matter their size, that's all I'm sayin on the subject....
Not all women are beautiful regardless of size! We won't appeal to everyone and I find these types of threads pointless.
If you've body issues some will flatter and make you feel better, some will say you're not for them and make you feel worst.
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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago
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I'm a curvy girl and I think if guys are not attracted to me then so be it!!!
Everyone has a choice, tell your lady to be proud of who she is and the body she has been blessed with and not to worry about the people who don't like it!
And as long as she has u as a loving partner who thinks she's sexy then it doesn't matter x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all
Just asking for my wife what do fellow fabsters prefer ?
Skinny lasses or bbw lasses ?
Thanks Shrek "
Buggar what about the non skinny, but not BBW people, we exist too you know. |
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I haven't read all of the posts as I wanted to put answer to the op untainted by the comments. I am bi and my view is, if I fancy you I will want to fuck you regardless. Everyone has a type that they are naturally attracted to (visual wise), mine In general is Italian looking people but I have found that both of my life partners (didn't work out) have been blonde and blue eyed. If you fancy someone, you just do. And for the narrow minded, slim girls can get fat and fat girls can lose weight. It's what goes on upstairs that is important! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"there are far more men on here and so women have a choice that men don't, to a certain degree. And it's like most women would prefer a more toned guy, bigger cock etc, if they had the choice, personalities aside. No harm in the truth "
Discussions about large/fat men never seem to get quite the same kind of responses!
There is an odd mix in the swinging world of young pumped up men and older larger ladies.
There's a few in between too which is my preference, but for the choice between fat and skinny I'd choose towards skinny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't read all of the posts as I wanted to put answer to the op untainted by the comments. I am bi and my view is, if I fancy you I will want to fuck you regardless. Everyone has a type that they are naturally attracted to (visual wise), mine In general is Italian looking people but I have found that both of my life partners (didn't work out) have been blonde and blue eyed. If you fancy someone, you just do. And for the narrow minded, slim girls can get fat and fat girls can lose weight. It's what goes on upstairs that is important!"
Why is it narrow minded to have a preference? You don't fancy everyone... but you're saying that other people should? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh dear...
All women are beautiful no matter their size, that's all I'm sayin on the subject....
Not all women are beautiful regardless of size! We won't appeal to everyone and I find these types of threads pointless.
If you've body issues some will flatter and make you feel better, some will say you're not for them and make you feel worst.
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As I said further down the thread... A womans beauty is in the beholder! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have never met a man who when given the choice would not rather shag the skinny bird, it just rather pisses me off that when they don't have the choice they make it so bloody obvious I am second best, then wonder why I say no."
Well you have now I love a bigger woman honestly skinny birds do nothing for me but proper ladies with curves wow so lovely. Think skinny people are stuck up to much too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello all
Just asking for my wife what do fellow fabsters prefer ?
Skinny lasses or bbw lasses ?
Thanks Shrek
Buggar what about the non skinny, but not BBW people, we exist too you know."
Sorry hopey ok then women with curves too (sexy arse) xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well you have now I love a bigger woman honestly skinny birds do nothing for me but proper ladies with curves wow so lovely. Think skinny people are stuck up to much too "
Or maybe you perceive them to be stuck up based on your own insecurities? |
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"I haven't read all of the posts as I wanted to put answer to the op untainted by the comments. I am bi and my view is, if I fancy you I will want to fuck you regardless. Everyone has a type that they are naturally attracted to (visual wise), mine In general is Italian looking people but I have found that both of my life partners (didn't work out) have been blonde and blue eyed. If you fancy someone, you just do. And for the narrow minded, slim girls can get fat and fat girls can lose weight. It's what goes on upstairs that is important!
Why is it narrow minded to have a preference? You don't fancy everyone... but you're saying that other people should? "
No what I am saying is that we all have our ideal tastes and that a skinny person shouldn't be ousted just because they are skinny, nor should a fat person because the suitor has abparticulqt fancy. This is a swinging site, not a dating agency for small minded youngst ers who couldn't grasp the context of finding someone attractive for their dirty mind over the size of their waist. Eye candy is eye candy but what is sometimes forgotten is the mind is the biggest sex organ, and someone who can stimulate that is a good 'un! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well you have now I love a bigger woman honestly skinny birds do nothing for me but proper ladies with curves wow so lovely. Think skinny people are stuck up to much too
Or maybe you perceive them to be stuck up based on your own insecurities?"
Lot of big people are stuck up as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never met a man who when given the choice would not rather shag the skinny bird, it just rather pisses me off that when they don't have the choice they make it so bloody obvious I am second best, then wonder why I say no.
Well you have now I love a bigger woman honestly skinny birds do nothing for me but proper ladies with curves wow so lovely. Think skinny people are stuck up to much too "
I love these threads, people are incapable of saying their preference without being offensive  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I have never met a man who when given the choice would not rather shag the skinny bird, it just rather pisses me off that when they don't have the choice they make it so bloody obvious I am second best, then wonder why I say no.
Well you have now I love a bigger woman honestly skinny birds do nothing for me but proper ladies with curves wow so lovely. Think skinny people are stuck up to much too "
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I guess what I would like to say is we all have a pre meditated idea of what we want in a sexual partner, but, speaking from vast experience, no one should rule out people you would ordinarily "fancy". I think that is a persons loss that could be the best shag in their life. Basically, we fancy who we fancy, each to their own etc.
I am probably screwing this up but trying to get the point across. X |
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"I have never met a man who when given the choice would not rather shag the skinny bird, it just rather pisses me off that when they don't have the choice they make it so bloody obvious I am second best, then wonder why I say no.
Well you have now I love a bigger woman honestly skinny birds do nothing for me but proper ladies with curves wow so lovely. Think skinny people are stuck up to much too "
Good Lord: really?
Is it really difficult to express a preference without insulting others? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Put them in a pub with all their mates and I'm sure their taste in women would instantly change.
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Not sure I fully agree with this comment, but I'm a realist, I know I'm not most guys cup of tea and that given the choice 95% of men would prefer to meet slim gym bunnies. However there are some guys that do genuinely like bigger girls wether in the pub with their friends or on a site like this.
These threads always end badly & OP if you'd done a forum search before posting you'd find that everyone's view is different and the subject has been discussed hundreds if times before.
There is no right or wrong answer in this...... |
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"I have never met a man who when given the choice would not rather shag the skinny bird, it just rather pisses me off that when they don't have the choice they make it so bloody obvious I am second best, then wonder why I say no.
Well you have now I love a bigger woman honestly skinny birds do nothing for me but proper ladies with curves wow so lovely. Think skinny people are stuck up to much too
I love these threads, people are incapable of saying their preference without being offensive "
I know, doesn't change does it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never met a man who when given the choice would not rather shag the skinny bird, it just rather pisses me off that when they don't have the choice they make it so bloody obvious I am second best, then wonder why I say no.
Well you have now I love a bigger woman honestly skinny birds do nothing for me but proper ladies with curves wow so lovely. Think skinny people are stuck up to much too
I love these threads, people are incapable of saying their preference without being offensive
I know, doesn't change does it?"
Beggars belief really, I wonder if they would have the guts to say that in "real life" to someone's face???!!!
*excuse me while I get my head out of my derrière*
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"Skinny but only because having been a big guy all my life I've been told being overweight is wrong so much I have trouble getting past it and seeing how beautiful and sexy larger women can be.x"
Don't understand this. |
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"I hear fat chicks are great at sucking cock  "
depends on the cock and how tasty it is. Could do a Freudian thing and say fat birds are more caring and considerate to lovers but that is a totally different kettle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love larger ladies ,more curves the better that what a real women is in my opinion anyway.
Love those curves x "
Of course because I am not real at all and nope no curves |
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I know two best mates, neither are swingers or know my kinky life but when they are at the pub the crap spewed out. One lives skinny girls and the other loves big girls. Their reasons? Skinny - "the closer the bones the sweeter the meat and fat girls don't take care of themselves". BBW lover - "Something to grab hold of that won't break and can bear your child, skinny girls are like little boys and anyone who prefers them must question their sexuality and tendancy towards young boys"
Only opinions I have heard |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all
Just asking for my wife what do fellow fabsters prefer ?
Skinny lasses or bbw lasses ?
Thanks Shrek
Buggar what about the non skinny, but not BBW people, we exist too you know."
No we dont there has to be a choice between big n little...so many threads say so
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"Love larger ladies ,more curves the better that what a real women is in my opinion anyway.
Love those curves x "
Better tell admin to close the profiles of all the fake slim women then...I despair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I actually prefer a lass in between. Too skinny and it feels like i'm shagging skeletors big sister, and bbw's just aren't my thing. Give me a size 10-14 any day of the week though. |
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"I actually prefer a lass in between. Too skinny and it feels like i'm shagging skeletors big sister, and bbw's just aren't my thing. Give me a size 10-14 any day of the week though. "
Does this mean anyone over a size 14 is a bbw and anyone under a 10 is like a skeleton then?
Jeez things get worse women at a size 8 can be curvy also i so wish people would not put sizes down when generalising things....someone the same size but with a foot in height difference will look very different
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"Skinny but only because having been a big guy all my life I've been told being overweight is wrong so much I have trouble getting past it and seeing how beautiful and sexy larger women can be.x
Don't understand this."
Because he is a big guy and has been told he isn't sexy, he can't see how big women are sexy either.. or that's how I read it. |
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"I actually prefer a lass in between. Too skinny and it feels like i'm shagging skeletors big sister, and bbw's just aren't my thing. Give me a size 10-14 any day of the week though.
Does this mean anyone over a size 14 is a bbw and anyone under a 10 is like a skeleton then?
Jeez things get worse women at a size 8 can be curvy also i so wish people would not put sizes down when generalising things....someone the same size but with a foot in height difference will look very different
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Of course not. Where did i say ANY of that in my op? Jeez, i wish people wouldn't try and read between the lines. I just said what I prefer. Nothing about who is skinny or bbw! |
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"Skinny but only because having been a big guy all my life I've been told being overweight is wrong so much I have trouble getting past it and seeing how beautiful and sexy larger women can be.x
Don't understand this.
Because he is a big guy and has been told he isn't sexy, he can't see how big women are sexy either.. or that's how I read it. "
Aah thanks, makes sense...once you explained it! |
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"I actually prefer a lass in between. Too skinny and it feels like i'm shagging skeletors big sister, and bbw's just aren't my thing. Give me a size 10-14 any day of the week though.
Does this mean anyone over a size 14 is a bbw and anyone under a 10 is like a skeleton then?
Jeez things get worse women at a size 8 can be curvy also i so wish people would not put sizes down when generalising things....someone the same size but with a foot in height difference will look very different
Of course not. Where did i say ANY of that in my op? Jeez, i wish people wouldn't try and read between the lines. I just said what I prefer. Nothing about who is skinny or bbw!"
In fairness I interpreted your post along the lines set out by 3rdperson. |
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"I actually prefer a lass in between. Too skinny and it feels like i'm shagging skeletors big sister, and bbw's just aren't my thing. Give me a size 10-14 any day of the week though.
Does this mean anyone over a size 14 is a bbw and anyone under a 10 is like a skeleton then?
Jeez things get worse women at a size 8 can be curvy also i so wish people would not put sizes down when generalising things....someone the same size but with a foot in height difference will look very different
Of course not. Where did i say ANY of that in my op? Jeez, i wish people wouldn't try and read between the lines. I just said what I prefer. Nothing about who is skinny or bbw!"
Maybe im being thick then but skinny is like skeletors sister and bbws are a no but a size 10 to 14 is ok.....im sure im not the only one who saw the potential offence in that statement...oh well |
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"I actually prefer a lass in between. Too skinny and it feels like i'm shagging skeletors big sister, and bbw's just aren't my thing. Give me a size 10-14 any day of the week though.
Does this mean anyone over a size 14 is a bbw and anyone under a 10 is like a skeleton then?
Jeez things get worse women at a size 8 can be curvy also i so wish people would not put sizes down when generalising things....someone the same size but with a foot in height difference will look very different
Of course not. Where did i say ANY of that in my op? Jeez, i wish people wouldn't try and read between the lines. I just said what I prefer. Nothing about who is skinny or bbw!
Maybe im being thick then but skinny is like skeletors sister and bbws are a no but a size 10 to 14 is ok.....im sure im not the only one who saw the potential offence in that statement...oh well "
Offence? By stating a preference? Lol. I said, TOO skinny is like shagging skeletors sister, and that bbw's weren't my thing. Where is the offence in that? Or is it an offence to prefer a certain size and shape now? Yeah, i see your point about height differenbf and size, but if i put a certain height minimum in my post i'd be getting slated from the heightists as WELL as the easily offended. |
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Lol at some of the posts. If a human Barbie doll approached me for sex and a dawn French did the same, my first question would be "how dirty are you?" If I prefered one or the other on size, surely if one didnt do oral my choice would be made up on that alone, not what they look like? |
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"I actually prefer a lass in between. Too skinny and it feels like i'm shagging skeletors big sister, and bbw's just aren't my thing. Give me a size 10-14 any day of the week though.
Does this mean anyone over a size 14 is a bbw and anyone under a 10 is like a skeleton then?
Jeez things get worse women at a size 8 can be curvy also i so wish people would not put sizes down when generalising things....someone the same size but with a foot in height difference will look very different
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Not sure which I am then, size 6 waist but a 10 on my top.
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"I actually prefer a lass in between. Too skinny and it feels like i'm shagging skeletors big sister, and bbw's just aren't my thing. Give me a size 10-14 any day of the week though.
Does this mean anyone over a size 14 is a bbw and anyone under a 10 is like a skeleton then?
Jeez things get worse women at a size 8 can be curvy also i so wish people would not put sizes down when generalising things....someone the same size but with a foot in height difference will look very different
Not sure which I am then, size 6 waist but a 10 on my top.
I am fooked "
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Lol at some of the posts. If a human Barbie doll approached me for sex and a dawn French did the same, my first question would be "how dirty are you?" If I prefered one or the other on size, surely if one didnt do oral my choice would be made up on that alone, not what they look like? "
Depends ...personally I wouldn't have any sexual contact with someone I didn't fancy.
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Depends completely on how the person holds their body some people don't suit being big as much as some don't suit being skinny I personally like someone who isn't a stick! |
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Blimey! (Peeks from behind her hands)
I'm surprised this thread has go on as long as it has.
I think it as other people have said beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
We are beautiful in our own individual way regardless of size, sex, race.
That is all. |
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"Blimey! (Peeks from behind her hands)
I'm surprised this thread has go on as long as it has.
I think it as other people have said beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
We are beautiful in our own individual way regardless of size, sex, race.
That is all. "
Neither really for I. All I say is a nice woman has to have big boobs and grabbable bum, anything else doesn't matter too much. Or am I shallow?
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Unless she's skinny with a big arse and curvy hips or has boobs at least big enough to fit in my hands, I prefer anything but skinny. Prefer. By preference. But saying that, the nature of a woman's sex drive and personality combined can easily sway a man. |
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"I haven't read all of the posts as I wanted to put answer to the op untainted by the comments. I am bi and my view is, if I fancy you I will want to fuck you regardless. Everyone has a type that they are naturally attracted to (visual wise), mine In general is Italian looking people but I have found that both of my life partners (didn't work out) have been blonde and blue eyed. If you fancy someone, you just do. And for the narrow minded, slim girls can get fat and fat girls can lose weight. It's what goes on upstairs that is important!
Why is it narrow minded to have a preference? You don't fancy everyone... but you're saying that other people should? No what I am saying is that we all have our ideal tastes and that a skinny person shouldn't be ousted just because they are skinny, nor should a fat person because the suitor has abparticulqt fancy. This is a swinging site, not a dating agency for small minded youngst ers who couldn't grasp the context of finding someone attractive for their dirty mind over the size of their waist. Eye candy is eye candy but what is sometimes forgotten is the mind is the biggest sex organ, and someone who can stimulate that is a good 'un!"
Ok I understand what you meant now. I agree that personality goes a long way (for me) but there also has to be some visual attraction too. Or the flip side, that the person doesn't turn you off.
I don't know what it is that I find attractive. I like people of all shapes, sizes, genders. And other people of all shapes, sizes and genders I don't like.
So I very much like the quote above- "if you fancy someone, you just do". |
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"I like skinny girls most but do like girls with curves too. As for out and out fatties it's got to be a pass lol"
Size-ist loooooool. Each to their own so long as you're happy healthy and comfy. X |
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"does any woman deserve to have more sex purely because of what shape or size she is ...no ..of course not ..far away more important is attitude and how much fun she is "
What does that mean a woman deserves to have sex how thoughtful of you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do we need these discussions it is called preference and choice."
Not a clue! The guys asking for his wife. My guess is, shes either going to lose or gain weight depending on her stature, and the outcome of the poll. |
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"Why do we need these discussions it is called preference and choice.
Not a clue! The guys asking for his wife. My guess is, shes either going to lose or gain weight depending on her stature, and the outcome of the poll. "
Only pop in now and again this place never changes lol xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Skinny is not great or BBW ( size 18/20 plus ) 12-16 with curves in perspective is a lovely shape - fit enough to be able to move in time but soft enough to hold onto xx |
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I'm happy for my partners weights to go up and down...altho never to the extremes..and not if they moan about it all the time!
This is when I dont understand people whjo say thety would never tell a partner what to do, because its their bodies.. If I had a partner and she met me as Iam now(skinny lol), and thats what she liked...then I started putting on lots of weight, and it caused our sex life some issues I feel she would be in her right mind to be tactful and supportive in explaining to me that I should try addressing my weight gain.
like anything, I just dont go generalizing people that much...if I've met every overweight woman I might be able to say I found none attractive or sexy!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh dear...
All women are beautiful no matter their size, that's all I'm sayin on the subject....
Not true, some are, some are ugly on the outside, inside or both.
Not true!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So one persons diamond is anothers stone!"
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"Oh dear...
All women are beautiful no matter their size, that's all I'm sayin on the subject....
Not true, some are, some are ugly on the outside, inside or both.
Not true!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So one persons diamond is anothers stone!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Saying sorry after giving your preference is like saying "i dont mean to be rude, but...." "
How is it rude? It's a person's preference. If the fat women or skinny women or average women get offended it's their problem. |
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By *ungle-FeverCouple (FF)
over a year ago
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"Saying sorry after giving your preference is like saying "i dont mean to be rude, but...."
How is it rude? It's a person's preference. If the fat women or skinny women or average women get offended it's their problem. "
I agree.. You shouldn't have to say sorry for having a reasonable preference |
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"Oh dear...
All women are beautiful no matter their size, that's all I'm sayin on the subject....
Not true, some are, some are ugly on the outside, inside or both.
Not true!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So one persons diamond is anothers stone!"
No sorry, some people see grass as blue, it is still green |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not really matters as long as there horny x
And this was dredged up why???
Not as if this thread isn't done week in week out
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Maybe he couldn't make his mind up? |
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Largeness is very attractive to me... I simply don't get turned on by smaller girls. I usually prefer to meet size 22 minimum.
However, attractiveness has nothing to do with personality and a good meet requires compatibility on both fronts. There are some lovely big girls on here, but also one or two who are just a pain in the arse |
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"So I'm guessing personality counts for nothing?
Attractiveness for me equates to someone I can connect with, someone who makes me smile, regardless of size.
Most of us have body hang ups.. Mine is a wobbly mummy tummy!
But it's part of who I am.
Have been fortunate to have played with a few ladies, all different shapes and sizes... But they where all beautiful in their own rights.. The main thing that shone through, for me.... they where strong confident, beautiful and comfortable in their own skins. "
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this sort of post appears at least twice a week always about skinny v bbw does it really matter what other people prefer ! its doesnt make us bbws any uglier than the next person on here like others im proud of who i am ...we all like different kinds of people and it would be a pretty boring place if we all liked the same type xxx |
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"this sort of post appears at least twice a week always about skinny v bbw does it really matter what other people prefer ! its doesnt make us bbws any uglier than the next person on here like others im proud of who i am ...we all like different kinds of people and it would be a pretty boring place if we all liked the same type xxx"
to be fair this thread is 12 weeks old so it got bumped.. it is a very well coveted topic though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am far from skinny ... I've had 2 kids and not lucky enough to go back to my before child size  I am not short of offers thou ,and I still think I look sexy .. And I think lots of men and women prefer curves . If we were all the same life would be boring variety is the spice if life ... It's good to have the option |
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"this sort of post appears at least twice a week always about skinny v bbw does it really matter what other people prefer ! its doesnt make us bbws any uglier than the next person on here like others im proud of who i am ...we all like different kinds of people and it would be a pretty boring place if we all liked the same type xxx
to be fair this thread is 12 weeks old so it got bumped.. it is a very well coveted topic though."
lol didnt realise it was that old xx |
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