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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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GRR! My Profile States Im Not Meeting At The Moment.. YET Getting Messages Saying 'Meet On Sat?' 'When Can We Meet?' Ect...
IF You Actually Read My Profile You Would See Your Wasting Both Our Times..
When I Do State Im Not Meeting They Start Arguing.. 'Time Waster..' 'Why Not?' 'Why You On The Site Then'...
Rant over.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its cause your active
when your on line they just message for the sake of it
if your aren't meeting best advise is maybe hide your profile
as i be doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been called a time-waster for deleting an unsolicited message. I think it's hilarious.
We just have to accept the majority of horny single men, who want relieving instantly, cannot read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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delete everything off your 'looking for' list so you don't appear on searches.
I read your profile and didn't see the bit about not meeting! Read it again and spotted it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"May be they are confused by the statement "I Enjoy Cum on Me & In Me..." which kind of contradicts the not meeting bit.
Come on be honest... if you got no messages at all you'd be gutted. "
I sometimes get the feeling that instead of just hiding their profile some people leave it open when not looking knowing they will get mail so they can moan about it, post on the forums thus attraction more attention and messages
I know I know call me cynical  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why Should I HAVE To Hide My Profile Because They Cant Take Time To Read..?
I Always Take Time Out To Look At Peoples Profiles.
X"
well it less hassle for you
rather than moan about it |
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"Why Should I HAVE To Hide My Profile Because They Cant Take Time To Read..?
I Always Take Time Out To Look At Peoples Profiles.
X"
If you aren't meeting, then it isn't like the content of the profile is all that important.
Change the profile content to simply say "Not meeting at present"
Change the title to "Not meeting at present"
Set your filters properly.
Easy as pie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"May be they are confused by the statement "I Enjoy Cum on Me & In Me..." which kind of contradicts the not meeting bit.
Come on be honest... if you got no messages at all you'd be gutted.
I sometimes get the feeling that instead of just hiding their profile some people leave it open when not looking knowing they will get mail so they can moan about it, post on the forums thus attraction more attention and messages
I know I know call me cynical "
I agree!!  |
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"Why Should I HAVE To Hide My Profile Because They Cant Take Time To Read..?
I Always Take Time Out To Look At Peoples Profiles.
X"
Of course you shouldn't 'have to' hide your profile....... just like you don't 'have to' rewrite it. I mean you could change the title to 'Not Meeting'... you could put 'Not Meeting' in the opening line. You could remove 'safe sex' from the 'looking for' section (which is often used as a search filter).
Or you could do fuck all and let it annoy you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a male thing....they are so desperate for a meet they never bother too read profiles, they are horny, cock in hand and desperate to meet at all costs, taking time to read just gets in the way for them, and when we turn them down they become all shitty, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"May be they are confused by the statement "I Enjoy Cum on Me & In Me..." which kind of contradicts the not meeting bit.
Come on be honest... if you got no messages at all you'd be gutted.
I sometimes get the feeling that instead of just hiding their profile some people leave it open when not looking knowing they will get mail so they can moan about it, post on the forums thus attraction more attention and messages
I know I know call me cynical "
When one hides ones profile. One can still receive messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah probably best to put not meeting as your title "
That doesn't work. My profile is quite clear. When I say have you not read my profile, I'm not meeting... They normally reply that they saw I wasn't but thought they would try their luck.
I just reply to decent messages. Delete the others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters
And there it is
Does the "it" refer to us or the filter link?
Definitely the filter link. Definitely "
Big scaredy! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a male thing....they are so desperate for a meet they never bother too read profiles, they are horny, cock in hand and desperate to meet at all costs, taking time to read just gets in the way for them, and when we turn them down they become all shitty, "
Whoa there guys I haven't touched my todger all day and I can't scroll down with the mouse when holding it anyways, that's why us horny deviant gotta shag it if it moves guys don't read profiles. On this occasion o won't get Shitty as everyone else in the thread will witness ny spoilt behaviour  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"GRR! My Profile States Im Not Meeting At The Moment.. YET Getting Messages Saying 'Meet On Sat?' 'When Can We Meet?' Ect...
IF You Actually Read My Profile You Would See Your Wasting Both Our Times..
When I Do State Im Not Meeting They Start Arguing.. 'Time Waster..' 'Why Not?' 'Why You On The Site Then'...
Rant over.. "
I have exactly the same problem and the same reaction. I have a standard stock reply for them all now and if I get any time waster nonsense of anyone I just block em.
If they want to waste their time contacting me that's their choice and one they are welcome to make. |
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"May be they are confused by the statement "I Enjoy Cum on Me & In Me..." which kind of contradicts the not meeting bit.
Come on be honest... if you got no messages at all you'd be gutted. "
I've missed you |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Its a male thing....they are so desperate for a meet they never bother too read profiles, they are horny, cock in hand and desperate to meet at all costs, taking time to read just gets in the way for them, and when we turn them down they become all shitty, "
Ahhh, :-! that ll be it,  its genetic,
Excuse me while I go and send some fancy a f**k messages,,  |
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"Why Should I HAVE To Hide My Profile Because They Cant Take Time To Read..?
I Always Take Time Out To Look At Peoples Profiles.
X
If you aren't meeting, then it isn't like the content of the profile is all that important.
Change the profile content to simply say "Not meeting at present"
Change the title to "Not meeting at present"
Set your filters properly.
Easy as pie."
Silly boy: how will she get the "unwanted" attention to moan about?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they read your profile and see Frisky Friday ..
Hey NOT meeting but always come crawling back here.. And think if she is feeling frisky there hope ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a male thing....they are so desperate for a meet they never bother too read profiles, they are horny, cock in hand and desperate to meet at all costs, taking time to read just gets in the way for them, and when we turn them down they become all shitty,
Ahhh, :-! that ll be it, its genetic,
Excuse me while I go and send some fancy a f**k messages,, "
Ok we will get ready to ignore as you obviously wont of read ours lol |
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"May be they are confused by the statement "I Enjoy Cum on Me & In Me..." which kind of contradicts the not meeting bit.
Come on be honest... if you got no messages at all you'd be gutted.
I sometimes get the feeling that instead of just hiding their profile some people leave it open when not looking knowing they will get mail so they can moan about it, post on the forums thus attraction more attention and messages
I know I know call me cynical
When one hides ones profile. One can still receive messages "
Yes, but one can either be apoplectic with rage at the chancers/idiots etc or simply delete, ignore and get on with one's life as the world turns. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the moment im not meeting new people and yes i sit on the forums and the chat-rooms and yes i have photos on my profile BUT if i get a message i choose to delete or reply
instead of moaning about " eeek im not meeting and im getting messages"
do something about it
if you DONT want messages hide profile or man up
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the moment im not meeting new people and yes i sit on the forums and the chat-rooms and yes i have photos on my profile BUT if i get a message i choose to delete or reply
instead of moaning about " eeek im not meeting and im getting messages"
do something about it
if you DONT want messages hide profile or man up
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"Its a male thing....they are so desperate for a meet they never bother too read profiles, they are horny, cock in hand and desperate to meet at all costs, taking time to read just gets in the way for them, and when we turn them down they become all shitty,
Ahhh, :-! that ll be it, its genetic,
Excuse me while I go and send some fancy a f**k messages,, Ok we will get ready to ignore as you obviously wont of read ours lol "
Sweeping generalisations suck don't they? what a surprise.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its a male thing....they are so desperate for a meet they never bother too read profiles, they are horny, cock in hand and desperate to meet at all costs, taking time to read just gets in the way for them, and when we turn them down they become all shitty,
Ahhh, :-! that ll be it, its genetic,
Excuse me while I go and send some fancy a f**k messages,, Ok we will get ready to ignore as you obviously wont of read ours lol
Sweeping generalisations suck don't they? what a surprise...."
ive noticed women and couples are just as bad x |
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"Why Should I HAVE To Hide My Profile Because They Cant Take Time To Read..?
I Always Take Time Out To Look At Peoples Profiles.
X
If you aren't meeting, then it isn't like the content of the profile is all that important.
Change the profile content to simply say "Not meeting at present"
Change the title to "Not meeting at present"
Set your filters properly.
Easy as pie.
Silly boy: how will she get the "unwanted" attention to moan about?!! "
I live in hope that the message gets through just once...  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Its a male thing....they are so desperate for a meet they never bother too read profiles, they are horny, cock in hand and desperate to meet at all costs, taking time to read just gets in the way for them, and when we turn them down they become all shitty,
Ahhh, :-! that ll be it, its genetic,
Excuse me while I go and send some fancy a f**k messages,, Ok we will get ready to ignore as you obviously wont of read ours lol "
You may have a bit of a wait,
and yep thats true I ve not read yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"May be they are confused by the statement "I Enjoy Cum on Me & In Me..." which kind of contradicts the not meeting bit.
Come on be honest... if you got no messages at all you'd be gutted.
I sometimes get the feeling that instead of just hiding their profile some people leave it open when not looking knowing they will get mail so they can moan about it, post on the forums thus attraction more attention and messages
I know I know call me cynical
When one hides ones profile. One can still receive messages
Yes, but one can either be apoplectic with rage at the chancers/idiots etc or simply delete, ignore and get on with one's life as the world turns."
Or just leave them in the box unread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"May be they are confused by the statement "I Enjoy Cum on Me & In Me..." which kind of contradicts the not meeting bit.
Come on be honest... if you got no messages at all you'd be gutted.
I sometimes get the feeling that instead of just hiding their profile some people leave it open when not looking knowing they will get mail so they can moan about it, post on the forums thus attraction more attention and messages
I know I know call me cynical
When one hides ones profile. One can still receive messages
Yes, but one can either be apoplectic with rage at the chancers/idiots etc or simply delete, ignore and get on with one's life as the world turns.
Or just leave them in the box unread "
I found if I hid it I still got new messages so I do just that , leave in box unread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters
And there it is "
Yes but if I did I would miss out on random messages from people on the forums , oh god now I'm moaning and not in a good way |
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"http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters
And there it is
Yes but if I did I would miss out on random messages from people on the forums , oh god now I'm moaning and not in a good way "
MoaningMoo BSE |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had my profile hidden and e Europe blocked via mail filters, still get messages. It's not a big inconvenience and not something I'd ever moan about on the forums.
It clearly says on my profile I'm not meeting currently only using the forums, if people want to message me, their choice......doesn't change that I'm not meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had my profile hidden and e Europe blocked via mail filters, still get messages. It's not a big inconvenience and not something I'd ever moan about on the forums.
It clearly says on my profile I'm not meeting currently only using the forums, if people want to message me, their choice......doesn't change that I'm not meeting "
E Europe = everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's easy to just ignore the messages. They are just chancing their arm as my ma would say.
Just bulk delete until you are ready to meet again. "
Exactly. And as my good auld ma used to say, "if you don't ask, you don't get". |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"It's easy to just ignore the messages. They are just chancing their arm as my ma would say.
Just bulk delete until you are ready to meet again.
Exactly. And as my good auld ma used to say, "if you don't ask, you don't get". "
Your ma sounds like my ma. Are we related? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's easy to just ignore the messages. They are just chancing their arm as my ma would say.
Just bulk delete until you are ready to meet again.
Exactly. And as my good auld ma used to say, "if you don't ask, you don't get".
Your ma sounds like my ma. Are we related?"
I'll phone Jezza Kyle and get the dna arranged. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry if you think im making big deal out of it .. Was just _iewing my opinion like may others do on other forums.. I have taken on board what some of you have suggested thank you .. Enjoy your weekend .. Whatever it maybe (: |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Sorry if you think im making big deal out of it .. Was just _iewing my opinion like may others do on other forums.. I have taken on board what some of you have suggested thank you .. Enjoy your weekend .. Whatever it maybe (: |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters
And there it is
Yes but if I did I would miss out on random messages from people on the forums , oh god now I'm moaning and not in a good way
MoaningMoo BSE "
Moaningmoodymoo BSE , now that's a name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not all single, horny guys are complete bastards. To me reading the profile is the vital bit, but that maybe because I'm not looking for anyone to just say yes. I want to know that there could be a conversation before anything!
Then again that could be why I haven't had a reply yet  as men we can't bloody win! |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"May be they are confused by the statement "I Enjoy Cum on Me & In Me..." which kind of contradicts the not meeting bit.
Come on be honest... if you got no messages at all you'd be gutted.
I sometimes get the feeling that instead of just hiding their profile some people leave it open when not looking knowing they will get mail so they can moan about it, post on the forums thus attraction more attention and messages
I know I know call me cynical "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not all single, horny guys are complete bastards. To me reading the profile is the vital bit, but that maybe because I'm not looking for anyone to just say yes. I want to know that there could be a conversation before anything!
Then again that could be why I haven't had a reply yet as men we can't bloody win!"
Snap lol Even more so for me as an "oldie" I do not want to upset anyone so a careful read of their profile is a must. I might get refused but its always a polite "No Thank You" instead of the F**k Off it could be hehehehehehehehe
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By (user no longer on site)
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"GRR! My Profile States Im Not Meeting At The Moment.. YET Getting Messages Saying 'Meet On Sat?' 'When Can We Meet?' Ect...
IF You Actually Read My Profile You Would See Your Wasting Both Our Times..
When I Do State Im Not Meeting They Start Arguing.. 'Time Waster..' 'Why Not?' 'Why You On The Site Then'...
Rant over.. "
Quite simply, they are moron's. When you respond to tell them, most of them state they were just trying their luck. As I said, (morons) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why Should I HAVE To Hide My Profile Because They Cant Take Time To Read..?
I Always Take Time Out To Look At Peoples Profiles.
X"
If you don't want to hide your profile then, change the age range to 98-99 that's what I did as that way no-one can contact you |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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yup some guys will not adhere to what is written or read it
yup some ledies can't click a filter and stop their pain because a wee public rant is the fashion
yup some, others have fun
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