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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right advice needed. I really like guy from work,I work in a call centre I know guys full name He was experience agent helping when I was training. We're on same floor different teams but do chat eg walkin up stairs. I wana try take further but don't know how. It's his birthday tmoro though duno if he's working. What should I do. Help please!! |
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"Right advice needed. I really like guy from work,I work in a call centre I know guys full name He was experience agent helping when I was training. We're on same floor different teams but do chat eg walkin up stairs. I wana try take further but don't know how. It's his birthday tmoro though duno if he's working. What should I do. Help please!! "
well give a birthday kiss and see how he takes it |
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Has he given any signs he likes you? I ask as how would you feel seeing him every day if he didn't feel the same? It's wise not to mix business with pleasure, lost count of the number of grievance/disciplinary cases I've had to deal with when things go tits up, but only you can decide if it's worth the risk: good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Has he given any signs he likes you? I ask as how would you feel seeing him every day if he didn't feel the same? It's wise not to mix business with pleasure, lost count of the number of grievance/disciplinary cases I've had to deal with when things go tits up, but only you can decide if it's worth the risk: good luck! "
He does chat to me and did kinda get sense poss liked me but duno. Yeah have work email. One of girls suggested email him but duno wgat say so can't find out if he's interested/single without makin idiot of myself and bein awkward In work xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Next time you see him wish him happy birthday & ask what his wife got him or took him for his birthday. If he says he doesn't have one that's your que 2 get your flirt on!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Next time you see him wish him happy birthday & ask what his wife got him or took him for his birthday. If he says he doesn't have one that's your que 2 get your flirt on!!! "
Haha good plan. He's only 28(29 tmoro) he's not on Facebook to find out. I duno if email say hey happy bday but then he might think bit odd as only really chat face to face x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Next time you see him wish him happy birthday & ask what his wife got him or took him for his birthday. If he says he doesn't have one that's your que 2 get your flirt on!!!
Haha good plan. He's only 28(29 tmoro) he's not on Facebook to find out. I duno if email say hey happy bday but then he might think bit odd as only really chat face to face x"
Why not ask him if he's gay first? He may be offended if your sniffing around over a possible wife. |
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"Has he given any signs he likes you? I ask as how would you feel seeing him every day if he didn't feel the same? It's wise not to mix business with pleasure, lost count of the number of grievance/disciplinary cases I've had to deal with when things go tits up, but only you can decide if it's worth the risk: good luck! "
Every word of THIS...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even worse if you get on for a while then fall out ...
...as they invariably do: I've been privy to some doozies! "
Better off looking for love on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Even worse if you get on for a while then fall out ...
...as they invariably do: I've been privy to some doozies!
Better off looking for love on here. "
Haha fab boyfriend hmm I can't see it somehow lol |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Glasgow is great for work drinks on a Friday nights, do you guys fo it... See him there if you do and approach.
If he was floor walking when you were new, great opportunity to buy a drink and say thanks for the support
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Glasgow is great for work drinks on a Friday nights, do you guys fo it... See him there if you do and approach.
If he was floor walking when you were new, great opportunity to buy a drink and say thanks for the support
Good luck"
Was 4-5 months ago tho lol. We're different teams duno if would socialise. Just gotta hope he takes email right way rather than thinkin I'm weird xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Write it down. He will never understand your accent. Even if he's Glaswegian  "
Write down what? And didn't u see I emailed him.
And I work in a call centre I get told everything u can think of about my accent |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I emailed sayin happy bday. Got reply thnx v much n was quiete bday. I made quick reply then thought better things shud have said but not had reply. Think got my answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe adopt the usual call centre approach and bombard him with calls (particularly at tea time or when a big footie match has just kicked off) and don't give in until he signs on the dotted line. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe adopt the usual call centre approach and bombard him with calls (particularly at tea time or when a big footie match has just kicked off) and don't give in until he signs on the dotted line."
I'm inbound only so he would need to call me :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there's a saying in the US, "don't shit where ya eat". basically it is a warning about getting it on with a coworker. if things go belly up you still have to work with the fellow. maybe a one nighter would be fine but you really don't want anything long term with somebody you work with. it will cause problems in the long run if you both stay working there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe adopt the usual call centre approach and bombard him with calls (particularly at tea time or when a big footie match has just kicked off) and don't give in until he signs on the dotted line.
I'm inbound only so he would need to call me :p "
Oh you recieve not give lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd hate it if a woman I only knew in passing made me a cake. My 'psycho' alarm would go off! Just laugh at some of his jokes and flutter your eye lashes; if he's keen he'll ask you.
Having said that, I know people meet at work all the time. But I always think it's best not to shit on your own doorstep. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd hate it if a woman I only knew in passing made me a cake. My 'psycho' alarm would go off! Just laugh at some of his jokes and flutter your eye lashes; if he's keen he'll ask you.
Having said that, I know people meet at work all the time. But I always think it's best not to shit on your own doorstep."
who/when was making him a cake suggested? I do wana get talkin more to him duno how tho without being pushy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has he given any signs he likes you? I ask as how would you feel seeing him every day if he didn't feel the same? It's wise not to mix business with pleasure, lost count of the number of grievance/disciplinary cases I've had to deal with when things go tits up, but only you can decide if it's worth the risk: good luck!
You would/could only make yourself look foolish if it was totally inappropriate to approach him on another level. Only you know the answer to that one. Personally I would find it really refreshing for a woman to make the first move. We are in the 21st century after all.
He does chat to me and did kinda get sense poss liked me but duno. Yeah have work email. One of girls suggested email him but duno wgat say so can't find out if he's interested/single without makin idiot of myself and bein awkward In work xx"
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The exact same thing happened on the reality tv show the call centre too, although I'm sure the OP is not a complete fruitcake like the girl on the telly was lol.
There are loads of couples where I work, including manager/subordinate relationships, which I find weird  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Na I hadn't planned the wedding yet. Just friends but fancy him. Gutted.
Yeah that's bit odd. Fair enough big office where couples don't actually work together but in same team eye defo weird x |
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