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Hi everyone just thought I'd post and see why people don't "chat" anymore it seems to just be a yes or no nowadays
I enjoy the social side just as much as the fun, if anything I think it makes the fun better if the chemistry is there
What do you all think? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Myself and my oh are probably more social swingers at the moment. We attend events when we can and tend to socialize more than we play.
I think you can tell a lot about people from chatting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out   |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out "
Hey, if I can go to an actual social on my own, anyone can!
They are just relaxed gathering in pubs/clubs, non sexual at all unless you arrange something for after, so chill and relax! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out "
Do you know anyone else thats going? I was rooted to the spot in fear at my first social,needlessly I have to add,as everyone was very welcoming and although that was 5 yrs ago im still in touch with a couple of lovely people that we met that night
Im sure you'll have a great time and realise it was nothing to be scared of,but its always nicer if you know someone to,just to take the edge off feeling like your completely alone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the social side of swinging as ive made some wonderful new friends, since joining on here. There are several that I enjoy just meeting for a coffee and a chinwag or other social activities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out
Do you know anyone else thats going? I was rooted to the spot in fear at my first social,needlessly I have to add,as everyone was very welcoming and although that was 5 yrs ago im still in touch with a couple of lovely people that we met that night
Im sure you'll have a great time and realise it was nothing to be scared of,but its always nicer if you know someone to,just to take the edge off feeling like your completely alone "
Nooooo I don't THINK I do but it's in Peterboro so if anybody turns up to read this I'd b pleased to hear from them GULP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We definitely enjoy the social side of swinging. No way could we just visit someone, do the deed then leave. A nice cosy drink and a chat before and afterwards is always good and if we can become friends then so much the better. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I enjoy the socials, but don't have a huge amount of free time for meets so I do tend to prefer meets that will end in a shag. However I do insist on a glass or two of wine and a chat first, just to settle my nerves. 
Its a bit of a hike and a hit on the wallet to get to the more patronised socials but I try and treat myself now and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the social side of things and as i havent attented anything for a cpl of yrs,i am missing out.
There are not any socials in my area at the present time 
But im hoping to attend chams again when fit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not in a rush to have sex. I love the social aspect..there have been so many I have been speaking to over 3 years and its only recently I asked them shall we meet, and we did.
I never usually ask someone if they would like to meet. Im always hoping they turn around and ask me to meet lol that may be my downfall on here though haha
..but, I love socialising, and I can chat for the whole of England if I am comfortable with someone. Sex can wait. I love the flirting and the banter in a social meet, which has not been happening lately!
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"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out "
just relax and go with the flow, you will enjoy it a lot more with no expectations |
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