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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have 19 unread messages at mo and all from guys who can't read profile. How do I know, because I ask for a face pic with first message and there is no pic attached. |
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Stop looking at your outbox. People get too hung up on read/unread/deleted messages, you don't know if someone has read an email or text message and you don't get obsessed by that so why do people act differently on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 19 unread messages at mo and all from guys who can't read profile. How do I know, because I ask for a face pic with first message and there is no pic attached. "
Will any face pic do you?
Marilyn Monroe, that pirate chappie, etc |
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By *ustJake OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester/north east |
"I have 19 unread messages at mo and all from guys who can't read profile. How do I know, because I ask for a face pic with first message and there is no pic attached. "
Do you simply not delete then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 19 unread messages at mo and all from guys who can't read profile. How do I know, because I ask for a face pic with first message and there is no pic attached.
Will any face pic do you?
Marilyn Monroe, that pirate chappie, etc"
What do you think  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 19 unread messages at mo and all from guys who can't read profile. How do I know, because I ask for a face pic with first message and there is no pic attached.
Do you simply not delete then?"
I do a mass delete when I can be bothered  |
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"Stop looking at your outbox. People get too hung up on read/unread/deleted messages, you don't know if someone has read an email or text message and you don't get obsessed by that so why do people act differently on here. "
Oooh this!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 19 unread messages at mo and all from guys who can't read profile. How do I know, because I ask for a face pic with first message and there is no pic attached.
Will any face pic do you?
Marilyn Monroe, that pirate chappie, etc
What do you think "
Hang on, i'll have a butchers at yer profile see if it gives any clues. |
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By *ustJake OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester/north east |
"Op why are you tying yourself in knots worrying about how other members conduct their business! "
Who is op? Or what is op?
And I just think that if you send a message and its deleted that speaks volumes... Would you not agree? |
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"Op why are you tying yourself in knots worrying about how other members conduct their business!
Who is op? Or what is op?
And I just think that if you send a message and its deleted that speaks volumes... Would you not agree?"
OP = original poster/post ie you!
I don't answer messages straight away as I'm usually enjoying the forums and when you answer the other person replies and I'm not in the mood to chat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I delete/answer/ignore/comeback to later depending on how chatty/interested/tired/not tired I feel. I also put some that really interest me into saved mail ........... hope that answers all OP (opening poster) |
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"Op why are you tying yourself in knots worrying about how other members conduct their business!
Who is op? Or what is op?
And I just think that if you send a message and its deleted that speaks volumes... Would you not agree?"
OP is YOU (original poster).
I have loads of messages left unread. I presume its mainly an inbox overload, as women say on here they get hundreds of messages. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
D - I checked out their profile in stealth mode, realised they hadn't read MY profile, and don't want to delete because then I'll get a snotty message asking why I deleted without replying. |
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By *ustJake OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester/north east |
"D - I checked out their profile in stealth mode, realised they hadn't read MY profile, and don't want to delete because then I'll get a snotty message asking why I deleted without replying."
I suppose this hasn't entered my thoughts as I'd struggle to understand the reasons for this second message... If you send a message and its deleted for me then it's a complete NO THANKS! But I guess there are some strange characters on here |
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By *ustJake OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester/north east |
"D - I checked out their profile in stealth mode, realised they hadn't read MY profile, and don't want to delete because then I'll get a snotty message asking why I deleted without replying."
D wouldn't apply to me, but thanks |
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By *ustJake OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester/north east |
"C - I can see the first line and am not appealed by it.
So why not delete?
Is it a site rule? "
I never said it was!? Just presumed if your not interested why not delete? Makes perfect sense to me.. But hey everyone's different |
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"D - I checked out their profile in stealth mode, realised they hadn't read MY profile, and don't want to delete because then I'll get a snotty message asking why I deleted without replying.
D wouldn't apply to me, but thanks "
Unfortunately there's no way of knowing what fruit loop you're going to encounter so most tend to err on the side of caution to enjoy the site how they wish! |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"C - I can see the first line and am not appealed by it.
So why not delete?
Is it a site rule?
I never said it was!? Just presumed if your not interested why not delete? Makes perfect sense to me.. But hey everyone's different "
That's right. We are. |
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By *ustJake OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester/north east |
"D - I checked out their profile in stealth mode, realised they hadn't read MY profile, and don't want to delete because then I'll get a snotty message asking why I deleted without replying.
D wouldn't apply to me, but thanks
Unfortunately there's no way of knowing what fruit loop you're going to encounter so most tend to err on the side of caution to enjoy the site how they wish! "
Fair point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a friend a couple of weeks ago who had 1057 unread messages in her inbox.
She works full time and there are only so many hours in a day!!
Look on the positive side - unread means they may well read it. Deleted means not!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our inbox is usually looked at as an afterthought when I've been on the forums or Morrigan has been in chat, so some messages can go several days without being answered. Also when a message is clearly written to Morrigan only we will only look at it when we can be bothered as it's a pet hate for both of us.  |
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"Stop looking at your outbox. People get too hung up on read/unread/deleted messages, you don't know if someone has read an email or text message and you don't get obsessed by that so why do people act differently on here.
Erm....... Probably because they can see if it's been read or not! Or worse still deleted!! "
And why should that bother you? If you send someone a normal email you've got no idea whether they've read it or deleted it and you wouldn't get worked up about not getting a reply. I think that fab should get rid of the read/unread/deleted bit on the outbox, it just seems to be a source of compliant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you take this as:
a) No thanks not interested...
Or
b) inbox on overtime?
Confuses me!
Opinions please "
Just do what I do.. send your message then immediately pop into your 'Sent Inbox' and delete it so you'll never know whether it was opened or not unless the person chooses to reply. It saves your vanity aswell as your sanity by not having to worry about it afterwards. Not that I'm vain or slightly insane or anything
But then again I rarely send messages out about anything I'd consider very important anyway.
All guys should give it a go.. it might even help to tone down things on here after a while? Ya never know!
Regards,
Irish Gent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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E... I've got too much else to get on with, at the moment.... I may not have been on here, or I just popped on and didnt have time to read my mail...
F... My other half of a couple is away, and I want to talk it through with them, before I / we make a considered decision....
Either way, if I haven't responded or deleted there is yet hope.... Wait and see....
This lifestyle is all about Patience.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single fems get fucking ridiculously smashed with messages on here.
I know someone who got 17 messages in less than 5 minutes when she logged on.
Most read them then bulk delete.
Or read them and/or respond at a later time.
See what happens chap. Most likely get a response later.
I once sent a message and it was 2 days before she responded.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single fems get fucking ridiculously smashed with messages on here.
I know someone who got 17 messages in less than 5 minutes when she logged on.
Most read them then bulk delete.
Or read them and/or respond at a later time.
See what happens chap. Most likely get a response later.
I once sent a message and it was 2 days before she responded.
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I am getting better though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single fems get fucking ridiculously smashed with messages on here.
I know someone who got 17 messages in less than 5 minutes when she logged on.
Most read them then bulk delete.
Or read them and/or respond at a later time.
See what happens chap. Most likely get a response later.
I once sent a message and it was 2 days before she responded.
I am getting better though "
Pfft! Your the worst there is for that! 
You I just go straight to your phone..fucking pointless through here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single fems get fucking ridiculously smashed with messages on here.
I know someone who got 17 messages in less than 5 minutes when she logged on.
Most read them then bulk delete.
Or read them and/or respond at a later time.
See what happens chap. Most likely get a response later.
I once sent a message and it was 2 days before she responded.
I am getting better though
Pfft! Your the worst there is for that!
You I just go straight to your phone..fucking pointless through here. "
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By *ustJake OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester/north east |
"Single fems get fucking ridiculously smashed with messages on here.
I know someone who got 17 messages in less than 5 minutes when she logged on.
Most read them then bulk delete.
Or read them and/or respond at a later time.
See what happens chap. Most likely get a response later.
I once sent a message and it was 2 days before she responded.
I am getting better though
Pfft! Your the worst there is for that!
You I just go straight to your phone..fucking pointless through here. "
I bet you do... Wow! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not even going to say how many unread messages I have for fear of being called a cock teaser
But many things stop me from opening them.
1) I'm not in the mood
2) I read the profile first and it is crap and doesn't really say anything, so I don't expect the message to be much better.
3) I can see the first line, and think Nah feck it!
4) I'm sure I can give you more reasons if you really want me to. |
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