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How many of you actually like spending time alone?
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Since my sons left the family home and we downsized dramatically, added to the fact that my other half works away Five or Six days a week for most of the year....I get to spend a lot of time in my own company, and I love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having spent much of my adult life entrapped in the confines of an offshore drilling rig where privacy and solitude were almost unknown commodities….!.
So now I’m retired I don’t struggle with my own company at all, although there are times when I miss the companionship that forced environment provided…
As for my personal life…
I’d much rather not be alone but that’s not how things turned out…! ,,,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I quite enjoy "me" time.  "
I normally enjoy i but have to admit to wanting company at the moment....trouble is....im to impatient and want it all yesterday   |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Yes I enjoy it, I live alone for the most part - daughter gets home on leave about 6/7 weeks of the year. I am not lonely as have a fulfilled work, social life and friends  "
I think friends and a decent social life are quite important.  |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Me time is great when you know that at the end of it, someone is there for you. When your alone its not the great feeling that people think  "
Being lonely and having time on your own are not necessarily one and the same though. |
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"Me time is great when you know that at the end of it, someone is there for you. When your alone its not the great feeling that people think Being lonely and having time on your own are not necessarily one and the same though. "
No its not you can live with someone and be lonely...I cherish the time I have when its just me in the house.. I can do that for a period of time then I get bored...However I have never lived on my own for long periods of time.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate my own company, I work alone most of the time, so like to have company. My other half has been at a music festival since fri and I've never felt so alone! More so because of the extra day off  |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I hate my own company, I work alone most of the time, so like to have company. My other half has been at a music festival since fri and I've never felt so alone! More so because of the extra day off "
Awwww when is he back? |
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"I like to spend time on my own but I do end up getting bored of my own company...I also don't like living by myself for long periods of time...I am weirdo lol "
id say thats pritty much me to. been on my own for a while now maybe its time I found some1 again but really don't trust my own judgment any more where wemen are concerned |
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I like it... More than happy to potter, chill, catch up with friends, cook for myself etc.
I totally love it when the boy is here and ache for him when he's not.
However, comfortable in my own skin too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do enjoy me time but I miss someone to talk and cuddle up to at night Yeah but you dont talk you just get pissed and sleep.lmao. X
Haha says you x "
yeah but one of us is up early .. Just saying |
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I love alone time. My housemate has been away for the whole summer so I've had the house to myself for over a month, it's been awesome! He gets back at the end of the week though, so I'm going to have to get used to sharing again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like it... More than happy to potter, chill, catch up with friends, cook for myself etc.
I totally love it when the boy is here and ache for him when he's not.
However, comfortable in my own skin too. "
This |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"bloody hate living alone .hated it before
i was married and hate it now ,leave work
friday night and no one to talk to till monday morning .supposed to be good is it ?? "
Not if you dislike being alone....they say life is what you make it,with respect... being negative about stuff doesn't help, do you have any hobbies etc??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once saw a postcard, it said:
It's like this. When I'm with people I want to be alone and when I'm alone I want to be with people.
I wonder for how many people that's a truism? |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"The best Me time is in the car I guess. No worries open road and you can chill out if its not too busy. Can't beet me time in my book. "
I love driving on my own - driven across Europe alone. Loved every second of it. |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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I love spending time by myself. I actually think I am a solitary person by nature and feel quite content in my own company. I need a lot more personal space than a lot of people I think, and if I don't get it I get really grumpy and agitated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The best Me time is in the car I guess. No worries open road and you can chill out if its not too busy. Can't beet me time in my book.
I love driving on my own - driven across Europe alone. Loved every second of it."
I love driving in the continent Italy being a real favourite on the shear drop road in the mountains. Something magical about driving over there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate my own company, I work alone most of the time, so like to have company. My other half has been at a music festival since fri and I've never felt so alone! More so because of the extra day off Awwww when is he back?"
He got back yesterday(mon), but I get to see him tonight, after he's sorted out his washing had a good scrub etc lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After rugby training or a match I like to be alone and have a bath for about 30 mins then some dinner listening to nice music and then call of duty time !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I live alone. I work from home.
If I didn't enjoy my own company I can honestly say they would have found me hanging from the rafters by now.
Still gets lonely though. |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I live alone. I work from home.
If I didn't enjoy my own company I can honestly say they would have found me hanging from the rafters by now.
Still gets lonely though. "
I can appreciate that....I don't know anyone, that doesn't get lonely at one time or another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it! I can take a hot bath, light some scented candles, maybe enjoy a glass of ice cold white wine. wear a nice roomy nightshirt, do my nails in peace, give myself a relaxing facial whilst listening to music, make myself some nice food.. Watch what I like on the tv, catch up on fab, just generally enjoy the peace and quiet! |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Rear even when I am alone I have my 5 dogs around so I never feel alone ."
I wasn't counting pets as lots of people have them, I have my dog, but his conversation is less than stimulating. Lol. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Rear even when I am alone I have my 5 dogs around so I never feel alone .I wasn't counting pets as lots of people have them, I have my dog, but his conversation is less than stimulating. Lol. "
I was a single parent for a long while - so not truly alone. But have been completely alone now for some years. Never bothered me at all - love it when someone comes to stay but always nice to get my space back when they go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rear even when I am alone I have my 5 dogs around so I never feel alone .I wasn't counting pets as lots of people have them, I have my dog, but his conversation is less than stimulating. Lol. "
well I chat to them and they drive me mad at times .. |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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"I actually kind of prefer my own company! And like being able to choose when I have company (except during work hours, obviously )"
This is me too. I suppose I'm lucky that I don't get lonely really. Being alone and being lonely can be two totally different things though. You can live in a house full of people and still feel lonely. |
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I love me time...I have a large circle of friends and lots of interests so people see me as very sociable.
But there is nothing better than some down time to sit around in my jimjams and do..nothing
I live on my own and won;t ever change that
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"bloody hate living alone .hated it before
i was married and hate it now ,leave work
friday night and no one to talk to till monday morning .supposed to be good is it ?? Not if you dislike being alone....they say life is what you make it,with respect... being negative about stuff doesn't help, do you have any hobbies etc???"
not got any hobbies apart from been on here lol as i work in the eve its hard to do things but i have 2 dogs to take out,just so hard adjusting to the fact i was married one minute and divorced the next ,i wasnt even seperated ,as my ex hadnt even moved out of the home we had before divorcing me |
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