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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'ts only happened to me once when i met up with a lady years ago, we were chatting online for a while and she sent my a pic of herself, she looked nice and seemed very pleasant and good to chat too, so we decided to meet up socially for a drink, well when i met her i didn't spot her at first! because she looked completely different from her pic, i know the camera can be deceiving at times but it was like it was someone completely different, I didn't say anything during the meet! I just chatted away to her and had a nice time, but decided not to go any further and didn't meet her again after that, but i was wondering if anybody else has had a similar experience?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chatted to a cpl but did not see any pics.The guy kept telling me how hot his wife was.I am sure the guy did think his wife was hot and was proud of her but when we all met up I thought he had brought his mother !!! |
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Twice....
I once went to meet a slim bloke and could only see this fat grey haired fella in the corner ..... you guessed it ..
I also once went to meet a bubbly cuddly blonde woman in her late forties...... I was speechless..... She was blonde. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When people meet me in the flesh I don't usually have the brown blob over my face that can be seen on most of my pictures ...  "
I thought that was..... Oh, never mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to me a few years ago. I turned up for a social meet after chatting on line for a long long time. My first thought when he drove into the car park was 'OMG he's sent his dad'  His pics were at least 10 years out of date and he must have lied about his age!
On top of that, he then refused to go for a drink as we'd agreed but wanted to go somewhere quiet. I proceeded to take him to a very busy beauty spot and showed 'true surprise' when it turned out to be crowded. Got in his car for a chat and out the corner of my eye I saw that the back seat had been reclined and there happened to be a duvet and pillows on there too! 
His definition of a social was obviously very different to mine. One wasted journey and one very frustrated man lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been told that my face pic doesn't do me justice, which I'll take as a compliment but it was taken with a mobile phone when I wasn't expecting it. It is only 6 months old so is definitely me. When going to a social I always make sure to shower & shampoo. So hair and make up look good. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had it happen a few times. First it was a guy 10 years prior and 5 stone heavier he actually got aggressive and called me a time waster, I think it was other way round!
The last time, I had only seen pics of the wife but he did a lot of the banter on the phone. I was stupid really, why I didn't ask for his pic I don't know! He turned out to be bald, super obese and must have been at least 15 years older than his profile stated or he'd had a long paper round. It was really awkward, but it was my fault for never following up his face pic.
Am wiser now! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That is the other problem people lying about there age! i maybe understand saying they're a couple of years younger! but 10 even 15 years younger now thats taking the piss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually people r ALWAYS shocked wen they meet me cos in reality I'm a dead ringer for Johnny Depp but I stick up on here pictures of some old fart otherwise I wouldn't b able to cope wiv the mad rush of people clamouring to get their sweaty mitts on me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I show myself on cam ... I have pictures but I do make sure people know the camera shows me in a very favourable light
Its happened to me ... So I like to warn people  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...
And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are! |
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"Yes its happened. It was either his son or him 20 years ago. I have no idea why people choose to do it, unless they're hoping for a pity shag."
A pity shag........................
That's it , that's what its called ............
A Pity Shag,
I once met a bitch in London , she looked fuck all like her pictures, but I still fucked her out of sympathy ..............and a long journey home.  |
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"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...
And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are! "
I could easily recognise you ..................
From behind |
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"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...
And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!
I could easily recognise you ..................
From behind "
Medieval indeed!  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...
And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!
I could easily recognise you ..................
From behind "
Lol, I do have face pics for people I choose to meet and talk to a lot. |
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"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...
And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!
I could easily recognise you ..................
From behind
Medieval indeed! "
Didn't mean you , I was replying to ladybee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I chatted to a cpl but did not see any pics.The guy kept telling me how hot his wife was.I am sure the guy did think his wife was hot and was proud of her but when we all met up I thought he had brought his mother !!!"
why meet someone without first seeing a pic of them?? To me thats on the Boarder of desperate |
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"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...
And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!
I could easily recognise you ..................
From behind
Lol, I do have face pics for people I choose to meet and talk to a lot."
I'd love to see a face pic ......... |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
Met a few for social meets but they were, as others have said on here, a lot older in the flesh than their pictures led me to believe. One actually admitted that the pic he showed me was around 15 years out of date. But he said it WAS him so couldn't actually understand what my problem was. Another had dentures - I swear!
Mostly though, guys I have met have been what they showed themselves to be. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I've met someone who whilst they did look like their pics had fibbed about their age. Working back from what they'd said in conversation, I came to the conclusion that they must have joined the army when they were 7.
Didn't make any difference to the meet, but did make me wonder what else they might have been fibbing about  |
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"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...
And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!
I could easily recognise you ..................
From behind
Medieval indeed!
Didn't mean you , I was replying to ladybee "
I know! And I maintain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oops froggydisneyfawn
MAINTAIN? - Is that like plantain but wiv mince? NOT that I'm suggesting YOU mince (even in dem heels - altho I am known to mince a bit in me flat stout man shoes!  ) |
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"Oops froggydisneyfawn
MAINTAIN? - Is that like plantain but wiv mince? NOT that I'm suggesting YOU mince (even in dem heels - altho I am known to mince a bit in me flat stout man shoes! )"
You mince, I mince...heels or not lol!! |
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I won't meet without them having seen pictures of me. I'd be mortified if they turned up and then weren't interested so i'd rather people were upfront at the beginning.
Why lie - you're going to be found out soon enough lol!
Ruby x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oops froggydisneyfawn
MAINTAIN? - Is that like plantain but wiv mince? NOT that I'm suggesting YOU mince (even in dem heels - altho I am known to mince a bit in me flat stout man shoes! )
You mince, I mince...heels or not lol!! "
Yes - we are the veritable 'dish of the day Hahahahahaha  |
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"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...
And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!
I could easily recognise you ..................
From behind
Medieval indeed!
Didn't mean you , I was replying to ladybee
I know! And I maintain"
I too , am able to maintain........:......
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I've not yet been disappointed. Mostly I find that pics do not do people justice so if I have that 'gut' feel, I will not make up my mind until I've seen the person in the flesh. Hence why I prefer and try (well almost always) to meet socially first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All my pictures are recent but the camera angle is taken from above to eliminate double chins 
from now on will only be meeting men over 8ft who have to look down on me lol |
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we have had it twice, both times with women,the first time we were msning with her and she sent us a few pics, compleatly different to the ones on her profile, think fit as - saggy and fat. we didnt go any further.
the next we met for a social expecting a mid 40s but in shape lady, a mid 50s very over weight lady turned up, her pics were atleast 10 years old,and they hadnt been a good 10 years, we had a few drinks with her and chatted, she was lovely tochat with,but neither of us fancied her, so we never met her again, this is why we always have a social first |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All my pictures are recent but the camera angle is taken from above to eliminate double chins
from now on will only be meeting men over 8ft who have to look down on me lol"
I'm 9ft with an afro and stilettos cute fancy a meet lol!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All my pictures are recent but the camera angle is taken from above to eliminate double chins
from now on will only be meeting men over 8ft who have to look down on me lol
I'm 9ft with an afro and stilettos cute fancy a meet lol!! "
o0o0o my ideal man.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All my pictures are recent but the camera angle is taken from above to eliminate double chins
from now on will only be meeting men over 8ft who have to look down on me lol
I'm 9ft with an afro and stilettos cute fancy a meet lol!!
o0o0o my ideal man.. "
Woohoo just gotta get a big enough afro and some stilettos! then i'll be right at your door cute!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ms Lovepuppies here
Im going to go off the track a bit here so be warned lol
I think this is why I jumped straight into the deep end with the 'lifestyle' and started with dogging! Im a BBW and to my boob pics are gennuine, as is my face pick if I choose to send it. However, as much as I am a naughty minx I have body issues (BBW tummy yuk) and I dont want to send that now do I?
Dogging was the way to go for me (brave or stupid as a single girl at that time), and it meant I made the rules. I was never short of offers (funny that lol), and to be honest I could pick and chose my playmates. It give me bags of confidence which seemed to make me even more appealing. I could be the sexy dirty cow I wanted to be,men didnt have to approach me if they didnt like what they saw, and I never made any promises on what I did or didnt look like. Having said that I always dressed to impress, lucky to be a leggy and busty 5'7 BBW. SO short skrirt, high heels, black fishnet hold ups and a low cut top.
In our hobby (sexy funtimes) there will always be those who feel the need to lie, send other pics, knock years of their age and all in the hope of a meet. I have in the past had several meets where the guys are a lot older, shorter and aheeem not that blinking hung to be honest. The worst crime as I see it is the blatent lie. I say I am a BBW, its out there because I wanted to meet folk. People are not blind and we can see you!!! lol.
Oh and another thing SMELLS!!! What the ef is that all about you guys!!! Why oh why do some guys turn up for a meet and not aheeeem freshened up! Gags
Oh heck, told you. . . .what was this post about now??
Ms Lp xx |
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Three in one day!
A social meet prior to a play meet helps to screen the fibbers out. Though they are often the ones who try to persuade me to meet at their homes or hotel rooms, I assume they hope I'll opt for the pity shag instead of the socially awkward "your pics are fake/ancient aren't they?" conversation. Unfortunately for them I'm not shy and have no problem straight talking.
The irony is that due to health issues I currently look nothing like my pics, but a lot of guys don't seem to care when I try to tell them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep changing my hair style/ length/colour so try to have a picture of all the different styles and colours and just add a comment in messages which one I am at the moment.
I am currently long/blonde |
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