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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering does a boring, vanilla(ish) person appeal or do the more exciting among us have more fun? Not a look at me I promise, just something that popped into my head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change."
being naive now but swingers do have kinks from what I've read on here. Good for you enjoy  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change.being naive now but swingers do have kinks from what I've read on here. Good for you enjoy "
Yea but Ruby likes her butt whipped with wet kippers. Common or garden swingers don't carry those around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change.being naive now but swingers do have kinks from what I've read on here. Good for you enjoy
Yea but Ruby likes her butt whipped with wet kippers. Common or garden swingers don't carry those around. "
Floggers, flails, pinwheels and vampire glove lol! I'm not trying to play oneupmanship on this - I'm just saying that for me swinging is quite vanilla. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change."
I totally understand what you mean! I've had to remove my kinks from my profile, due to guys thinking they know what I want or even know what it means, so will just be doing vanilla meets until I find someone else that is experienced  |
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"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change.being naive now but swingers do have kinks from what I've read on here. Good for you enjoy
Yea but Ruby likes her butt whipped with wet kippers. Common or garden swingers don't carry those around.
Floggers, flails, pinwheels and vampire glove lol! I'm not trying to play oneupmanship on this - I'm just saying that for me swinging is quite vanilla. "
Define VANILLA for us please , cos what I get upto , I can't think can be defined as vanilla , but I'm all ears |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?  IM SAYING IM VANILLA, NOT EXPERIENCED IN THE OTHER STUFF"
NO NEED TO SHOUT!!! I was asking a question to clarify, that does not come across in your OP!!!!!!!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?
Don't think she knows what she is lol."
I do. Im just after some fun, some sex regardless of how it comes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?
Don't think she knows what she is lol.I do. Im just after some fun, some sex regardless of how it comes. "
So not fussy then. Phew glad we never met lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What are you describing as vanilla? "
To be honest, not really sure, I perceive It as someone who just has sex without the "kink" as they call it. I expect I am wrong though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are you describing as vanilla? To be honest, not really sure, I perceive It as someone who just has sex without the "kink" as they call it. I expect I am wrong though"
You still need to be more specific
What are you calling kinks?
One persons kink is another persons vanilla!
Why not forget the labels and just go with what your happy with!
Works for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are you describing as vanilla? To be honest, not really sure, I perceive It as someone who just has sex without the "kink" as they call it. I expect I am wrong though"
Well that clears that up then lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One persons Amazing sex...could be another's crap.
One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.
That's what I said ha ha  "
Well I ain't bending over so you can spank me Lucy 
Sorreee never saw it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One persons Amazing sex...could be another's crap.
One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.
That's what I said ha ha
Well I ain't bending over so you can spank me Lucy
Sorreee never saw it. "
Oh please Ben let me spank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One persons Amazing sex...could be another's crap.
One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.
That's what I said ha ha
Well I ain't bending over so you can spank me Lucy
Sorreee never saw it.
Oh please Ben let me spank you "
You can spank me on any day that doesn't have a Y in it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others."
And people should be respectful of this. I recently did my sex map, there were some things on there that were things I found seriously weird.... but other people may have found them kinky. I know my some of my kinks would scare the crap out of some people, but they are mine and something I like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others."
Ha ha Ryan I have already said that!!
Can I spank you now? Ben won't let me spank him |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.
Ha ha Ryan I have already said that!!
Can I spank you now? Ben won't let me spank him "
Did you ? Wow great minds
Anything for you Lucy. Over your knee? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?
Don't think she knows what she is lol.I do. Im just after some fun, some sex regardless of how it comes.
So not fussy then. Phew glad we never met lol."
I am fussy, just didn't feel the need to say it. ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.
Ha ha Ryan I have already said that!!
Can I spank you now? Ben won't let me spank him
Did you ? Wow great minds
Anything for you Lucy. Over your knee?"
Oh Ryan!! With waders on ( that's my kink) please I will be gentle |
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"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change.being naive now but swingers do have kinks from what I've read on here. Good for you enjoy
Yea but Ruby likes her butt whipped with wet kippers. Common or garden swingers don't carry those around.
Floggers, flails, pinwheels and vampire glove lol! I'm not trying to play oneupmanship on this - I'm just saying that for me swinging is quite vanilla. "
so are you saying just because someone does boost about being into this stuff that they are not. Lots of people don't give intimate details of there sex life are they any different to those that do. I know plenty of swingers into kinks as many as I know sent, they just don't brag about it |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.
Ha ha Ryan I have already said that!!
Can I spank you now? Ben won't let me spank him
Did you ? Wow great minds
Anything for you Lucy. Over your knee?
Oh Ryan!! With waders on ( that's my kink) please I will be gentle "
I am definitely gonna get some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering does a boring, vanilla(ish) person appeal or do the more exciting among us have more fun? Not a look at me I promise, just something that popped into my head"
At the moment coming out of an 11 year relationship which was mainly vanilla and me far from vanilla as you could go!
i like the mix of them both x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you are only vanilla if you aren't aware of the swinging lifestyle...most guys on here seem to use this site as a way of getting a one nighter without knowing what the site is all about....I would class a lot of ppl on here as vanilla tbh |
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In 1990, I met an Aberdonian lady 13 yrs my senior. We were in bed within 2 hrs of meeting 
We were together for 5 yrs and the last 3 of them were what we described as an open relationship.
Was I swinging then or just pulling in the real vanilla world |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.
Ha ha Ryan I have already said that!!
Can I spank you now? Ben won't let me spank him
Did you ? Wow great minds
Anything for you Lucy. Over your knee?
Oh Ryan!! With waders on ( that's my kink) please I will be gentle
I am definitely gonna get some "
Haha and I have |
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