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Preference shouldn't become an ist or an ism
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just because you have a preference does it necessarily follow that you become an 'ist' or have an 'ism'? Another thread regarding height got me thinking that a lot of people fear expressing a preference incase they're labelled in this way.
For example,even though I'm only 5ft 3 I do like men to be a lot taller than me simply because tall in stature equals sexy long limbs that I love being entwined and overpowered in and that feeling really turns me on. This doesn't make me heightist nor am I ageist because I tend to fancy men in my preferred age range.
I have been with a really short guy and doggy position wasn't as satisfying because he couldn't reach round and fondle my breasts at same time or reach to kiss my neck,without it interfering with the rhythm so it just resulted in frustration. I have a friend who met a really petite girl of 4ft 11 and as he is 6ft 3 he said he was almost crouching when he doggied her and it did his knees in!!
What turns you on sexually should not make you elitist to a certain group of people as you cannot help your sexual instincts and what physical attributes you find irresistable. Sexual attraction is the main thing that makes you horny and you will choose a person almost subconsciously whith those attributes you find a turn on, above anything else.
The added bonuse of a fab personality is the icing on the cake, but many of us are guilty of choosing the wrong person because you can ignore their not so nice attitude, because they have the look you like (although almost certainly doomed for failure!)
If individuals don't suit anothers ideal it should not automatically be assumed that there is prejudice. However if someone says I don't fancy you because you're a shortarse, a big fucken twat or a fat old git... thats definately the sign of someone with real issues!!
It really is ok to like some things and not others without fear of being an 'ist'. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't like the letter 'p' very much, but I feel largely sober so you must be right!  "
What did the letter p ever do to you??? I'm reporting you to Sesame Street. And I'm definately sober.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a real problem with Prisms. They're really freaky. Work that one out then!!!  "
I have a fear of confined spaces and sharing toilet facilities so I would never commit a crime to have to go into one....
Oh... PRISMS! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a friend who met a really petite girl of 4ft 11 and as he is 6ft 3 he said he was almost crouching when he doggied her and it did his knees in!!
Was he the Great Dane that stooped as low as a Corgi ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some very valid, well thought out responses to the OP's question and I am sure she now feels that the question has been adequately answered with a good variety of opionis.
Personally ism's and ist's dont bother me, if I only want to meet people aged 18-24 some will say I am ageist, well I am ageist, as our profile says we only want to meet people from 18-97.
Label me if you want it doesn't bother me, I did disagree about the height thread, I thought the opposite, that a lot of people had replied admitting thier height preferences and were not bothered at having them known.
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By (user no longer on site)
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People just get offended at the least bit of thing. They think that I only like black as been with black. Or the fact that most meets are in twenties does that mean I only will do these things. But if read or talk to me will see the reasons behind not just doing black and have done older. But do they ask? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strange concept I know but imagine if more people put what they actually want as opposed to what they are prepared to make do with  "
Would that leave you a virgin?.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strange concept I know but imagine if more people put what they actually want as opposed to what they are prepared to make do with
Would that leave you a virgin?. "
Hope it leaves us a bit more choice than that as neither of us here are looking for virgins  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strange concept I know but imagine if more people put what they actually want as opposed to what they are prepared to make do with
Would that leave you a virgin?.
Hope it leaves us a bit more choice than that as neither of us here are looking for virgins "
lol.
Would you say no though?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strange concept I know but imagine if more people put what they actually want as opposed to what they are prepared to make do with
Would that leave you a virgin?.
Hope it leaves us a bit more choice than that as neither of us here are looking for virgins
lol.
Would you say no though?."
Would say No without a doubt, unless she was a long term married virgin, chances of that?, of a similar age to us then she is not going to be of any interest to us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strange concept I know but imagine if more people put what they actually want as opposed to what they are prepared to make do with
Would that leave you a virgin?.
Hope it leaves us a bit more choice than that as neither of us here are looking for virgins
lol.
Would you say no though?.
Would say No without a doubt, unless she was a long term married virgin, chances of that?, of a similar age to us then she is not going to be of any interest to us"
That's so Virginist. |
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