"do pregant women swing? turn on or turn off opinions please...x "
don't think there is a yes or no answer some do and some don't although I would guess the majority don't
do like the idea as something sexy about a women with a baby bump |
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Some do, most don't publicly announce it as it brings out the moral police...
You do what's right for you as a couple.
Search pregnant and you will see how many find it a turn on... I personally think it's sexy |
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Not a turn off but i wouldnt do it a baby is something very special and being intimate for me would only be with the father....and tbh when i was pregnant i didnt even wanna have sex with him tbf i felt like a whale |
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"Not a turn off but i wouldnt do it a baby is something very special and being intimate for me would only be with the father....and tbh when i was pregnant i didnt even wanna have sex with him tbf i felt like a whale "
My sons mum was Hornier than a horny thing when she was pregnant. |
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over a year ago
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"im not comfortable going to a club so only doing house meets but I prefer to be honest rather than lie
May I Ask if you are currently pregnant?"
Sox too tired I see ya r pregnant. I do have a few fems I play with regularly if interested. Pics within my profile. |
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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago
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"Turn off. The health and safety of the child is more important to me than shagging. I wouldn't take a child to a meet whether it had been born or not."
Best quote I've ever read on this subject. Couldn't agree more. |
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We both love pregnant women and look forward to playing with one.
See the 'elf and safety' brigade is in. Are you seriously saying you can't see the difference between a woman 20 weeks pregnant and a child. A pregnancy is not at risk during sex unless the persons cock is huge, or you partake in some more extreme play in BDSM.
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"We both love pregnant women and look forward to playing with one.
See the 'elf and safety' brigade is in. Are you seriously saying you can't see the difference between a woman 20 weeks pregnant and a child. A pregnancy is not at risk during sex unless the persons cock is huge, or you partake in some more extreme play in BDSM.
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Sorry bit it is. STI's can affect a babies development or even cause death of the foetus in some cases. We all know that safe sex isn't 100% safe and people can still catch things even though condoms have been worn.
Also I don't think the size of the cock matters  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"We both love pregnant women and look forward to playing with one.
See the 'elf and safety' brigade is in. Are you seriously saying you can't see the difference between a woman 20 weeks pregnant and a child. A pregnancy is not at risk during sex unless the persons cock is huge, or you partake in some more extreme play in BDSM.
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good for you, you seem to enjoy it and long may you continue to...
of course, it goes without saying that you carry no risk to the child, the mum to be does.
but you have had your fun 
it is choice, theirs and theirs only.
just not for me. |
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When I was pregnant it was a special, magical moment for my husband and I. My husband even gave away our cat as he'd heard there was something in cat faeces that could be harmful to pregnant women.
OTT? Perhaps, but we wanted to ensure our precious one had the very best start possible. No soft cheeses, no undercooked meats, no alcohol: my body really was a temple.
There are couples on here who don't kiss or do anal etc with meets: they keep something back just for them. For me, the thought of sharing my body with a stranger I've met off a sex site who is also meeting other strangers for sex would be totally abhorrent and a risk I wouldn't contemplate.
If sex with my partner was not enough at such a special time and the thrill of sex with strangers more important than the wellbeing of my unborn child, I'd have a serious look at my lifes priorities. |
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I don't find it a turn on or off, what others do is upto them, I wouldn't have had sex with others when I was pregnant tho for me its not worth the risk, I was at a swingers club once and a very heavily pregnant woman was there dressed up in all her sexy underwear, I don't know why but it juts looked wrong to me |
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Well I adore seeing a baby bump and have soft played with a lady that was 7 months gone with her husband. Lots of gentle stroking and kissing. Nothing extreme but was amazing and very erotic. Loved the moment she said to me as I was kissing and sucking her swollen breasts. ' you might get milk' !!!
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"We both love pregnant women and look forward to playing with one.
See the 'elf and safety' brigade is in. Are you seriously saying you can't see the difference between a woman 20 weeks pregnant and a child. A pregnancy is not at risk during sex unless the persons cock is huge, or you partake in some more extreme play in BDSM.
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Why is it when people express THEIR opinion when asked on an OPEN forum people get their panties in a bunch?
Why do people get all hot under the collar on bareback threads? Answer: because the "elf and safety brigade" think it irresponsible what consenting adults do and they want no part of it as it may impact on THEIR health.
Yet they see nothing wrong with a pregnant woman taking on all comers putting her unborn child at risk: go figure.  |
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"We both love pregnant women and look forward to playing with one.
See the 'elf and safety' brigade is in. Are you seriously saying you can't see the difference between a woman 20 weeks pregnant and a child. A pregnancy is not at risk during sex unless the persons cock is huge, or you partake in some more extreme play in BDSM.
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what about if you play with someone who has gonorrhoea and the condom comes off mid play, gonorrhoea can cause blindness to early foetuses, its a two week course of antibiotics for the mother the child could live with the affects of that night for the rest of its life
you have no way of knowing what people you play with have, or if condoms will 100% protect you, its a risk we all take when meeting, taking such risks for ourselves is upto us when a childs involved surely we should think twice? |
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Threads on this subject have always ended so well in the past. Not.
Its another emotive subject in which healthy debate will go out of the window by post 50.
Im out.
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"Turn off. The health and safety of the child is more important to me than shagging. I wouldn't take a child to a meet whether it had been born or not.
Best quote I've ever read on this subject. Couldn't agree more."
But u would go dogging n suck of a stranger without a condom. Get of ya moral high horse FFS.
Having your opinion is one thing. Commenting with a weak pathetic message is another.
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It's not something I would consider, there are too many health risks, even if condoms are used, so from me it's a. O. I support that other people think differently but I would see swinging when pregnant as somewhat irresponsible. |
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"When I was pregnant it was a special, magical moment for my husband and I. My husband even gave away our cat as he'd heard there was something in cat faeces that could be harmful to pregnant women.
OTT? Perhaps, but we wanted to ensure our precious one had the very best start possible. No soft cheeses, no undercooked meats, no alcohol: my body really was a temple.
There are couples on here who don't kiss or do anal etc with meets: they keep something back just for them. For me, the thought of sharing my body with a stranger I've met off a sex site who is also meeting other strangers for sex would be totally abhorrent and a risk I wouldn't contemplate.
If sex with my partner was not enough at such a special time and the thrill of sex with strangers more important than the wellbeing of my unborn child, I'd have a serious look at my lifes priorities."
You was doing so well until the last paragraph.
So many issues in the world. So many things you can do for yourself n the baby. Just because a pregnant women wants some additional fun while she is pregnant does not mean she would not take extra special care in arranging a meet.
I've now spoken to plenty of pregnant women on here. Most get put off by these sort of posts. Most also give up on the idea before it happens. But all n I mean all, instantly say the same thing. Which is safe sex a must. Extensive chatting continues and often fizzles out as the lady just becomes put off for whatever reason. That's here decision and it wouldn't surprise me if its the judgemental freaks who think they are perfect on this site chucking in the bad penny opinion.
I'm totally sick of pregnant posts getting slammed. So now gonna jump in the throats of all the so called perfect people. Grrrr. |
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"Turn off. The health and safety of the child is more important to me than shagging. I wouldn't take a child to a meet whether it had been born or not.
Best quote I've ever read on this subject. Couldn't agree more.
But u would go dogging n suck of a stranger without a condom. Get of ya moral high horse FFS.
Having your opinion is one thing. Commenting with a weak pathetic message is another.
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Going dogging and sucking off a stranger without a condom would be personal and if you ended up with an STI as a result then it would be your own fault.
Risking STI with various people when you are pregnant isn't really the same at all is it? It's not like you can ask your unborn baby if they mind. |
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Being currently 5 months pregnant with twins i can assure you some people both male and female find it a huge turnon and i can also state that we are not doing fun meets as it is a special bond between partners. |
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"When I was pregnant it was a special, magical moment for my husband and I. My husband even gave away our cat as he'd heard there was something in cat faeces that could be harmful to pregnant women.
OTT? Perhaps, but we wanted to ensure our precious one had the very best start possible. No soft cheeses, no undercooked meats, no alcohol: my body really was a temple.
There are couples on here who don't kiss or do anal etc with meets: they keep something back just for them. For me, the thought of sharing my body with a stranger I've met off a sex site who is also meeting other strangers for sex would be totally abhorrent and a risk I wouldn't contemplate.
If sex with my partner was not enough at such a special time and the thrill of sex with strangers more important than the wellbeing of my unborn child, I'd have a serious look at my lifes priorities.
You was doing so well until the last paragraph.
So many issues in the world. So many things you can do for yourself n the baby. Just because a pregnant women wants some additional fun while she is pregnant does not mean she would not take extra special care in arranging a meet.
I've now spoken to plenty of pregnant women on here. Most get put off by these sort of posts. Most also give up on the idea before it happens. But all n I mean all, instantly say the same thing. Which is safe sex a must. Extensive chatting continues and often fizzles out as the lady just becomes put off for whatever reason. That's here decision and it wouldn't surprise me if its the judgemental freaks who think they are perfect on this site chucking in the bad penny opinion.
I'm totally sick of pregnant posts getting slammed. So now gonna jump in the throats of all the so called perfect people. Grrrr. "
Just because your opinion differs from other peoples on this subject does it make it right. I'm far from perfect, but as no sex is 100% safe (apart from no sex) my opinion is having full penetrative sex with strangers whilst pregnant is irresponsible. As someone pointed out sexually transmitted infections can cause amongst other things blindness and death to unborn babies. Why would someone want to take that risk?
I also thing drinking alcohol and smoking whilst pregnant is irresponsible. |
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"When I was pregnant it was a special, magical moment for my husband and I. My husband even gave away our cat as he'd heard there was something in cat faeces that could be harmful to pregnant women.
OTT? Perhaps, but we wanted to ensure our precious one had the very best start possible. No soft cheeses, no undercooked meats, no alcohol: my body really was a temple.
There are couples on here who don't kiss or do anal etc with meets: they keep something back just for them. For me, the thought of sharing my body with a stranger I've met off a sex site who is also meeting other strangers for sex would be totally abhorrent and a risk I wouldn't contemplate.
If sex with my partner was not enough at such a special time and the thrill of sex with strangers more important than the wellbeing of my unborn child, I'd have a serious look at my lifes priorities.
You was doing so well until the last paragraph.
So many issues in the world. So many things you can do for yourself n the baby. Just because a pregnant women wants some additional fun while she is pregnant does not mean she would not take extra special care in arranging a meet.
I've now spoken to plenty of pregnant women on here. Most get put off by these sort of posts. Most also give up on the idea before it happens. But all n I mean all, instantly say the same thing. Which is safe sex a must. Extensive chatting continues and often fizzles out as the lady just becomes put off for whatever reason. That's here decision and it wouldn't surprise me if its the judgemental freaks who think they are perfect on this site chucking in the bad penny opinion.
I'm totally sick of pregnant posts getting slammed. So now gonna jump in the throats of all the so called perfect people. Grrrr. "
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perhaps.....perhaps....the people you have been talking about then it goes cold have realised that it isn't for them after all. i mean how can the anti pregnant swingers know you are talking to them in order to mess with your potential meet?
maybe they have realised they don't like you after all and fuck someone else?
maybe they feel like people who actively seek out pregnant people are only after it because its a fetish and they don't want to be considered a fetish?
there are many reason why some people go off the idea of a meet, blaming other people when the conversation has been private has been clutching at straws really
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"perhaps.....perhaps....the people you have been talking about then it goes cold have realised that it isn't for them after all. i mean how can the anti pregnant swingers know you are talking to them in order to mess with your potential meet?
maybe they have realised they don't like you after all and fuck someone else?
maybe they feel like people who actively seek out pregnant people are only after it because its a fetish and they don't want to be considered a fetish?
there are many reason why some people go off the idea of a meet, blaming other people when the conversation has been private has been clutching at straws really
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"When I was pregnant it was a special, magical moment for my husband and I. My husband even gave away our cat as he'd heard there was something in cat faeces that could be harmful to pregnant women.
OTT? Perhaps, but we wanted to ensure our precious one had the very best start possible. No soft cheeses, no undercooked meats, no alcohol: my body really was a temple.
There are couples on here who don't kiss or do anal etc with meets: they keep something back just for them. For me, the thought of sharing my body with a stranger I've met off a sex site who is also meeting other strangers for sex would be totally abhorrent and a risk I wouldn't contemplate.
If sex with my partner was not enough at such a special time and the thrill of sex with strangers more important than the wellbeing of my unborn child, I'd have a serious look at my lifes priorities.
You was doing so well until the last paragraph.
So many issues in the world. So many things you can do for yourself n the baby. Just because a pregnant women wants some additional fun while she is pregnant does not mean she would not take extra special care in arranging a meet.
I've now spoken to plenty of pregnant women on here. Most get put off by these sort of posts. Most also give up on the idea before it happens. But all n I mean all, instantly say the same thing. Which is safe sex a must. Extensive chatting continues and often fizzles out as the lady just becomes put off for whatever reason. That's here decision and it wouldn't surprise me if its the judgemental freaks who think they are perfect on this site chucking in the bad penny opinion.
I'm totally sick of pregnant posts getting slammed. So now gonna jump in the throats of all the so called perfect people. Grrrr. "
Turn off. The health and safety of the child is more important to me than shagging. I wouldn't take a child to a meet whether it had been born or not.
There you go. My opinion again, just in case you missed it above. It is MY opinion. I'm not telling other people what they should do. |
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"If sex with my partner was not enough at such a special time and the thrill of sex with strangers more important than the wellbeing of my unborn child, I'd have a serious look at my lifes priorities.
You was doing so well until the last paragraph. "
i have to be honest i totally agree with her, 9 month's is such a sorts time out of your life to put your own needs on hold and put your child first, imagine how you would feel if you did catch something and you child got some kind of deformity as a result of this? this isn't an opinion its fact that some STI's can cause deformity's to unborn children, why would you take the risk? is having sex with strangers more important that the risks to your child?
ok the chances of you meeting someone with a STI and the condom coming off and you contracting something is a slim one but even a 1 in a million chance is to high for me in such circumstances
but then you walk round the streets and see pregnant women smoking and sat outside pubs drinks, i think some don't see the risks they are putting on their unborn child |
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"We both love pregnant women and look forward to playing with one.
See the 'elf and safety' brigade is in. Are you seriously saying you can't see the difference between a woman 20 weeks pregnant and a child. A pregnancy is not at risk during sex unless the persons cock is huge, or you partake in some more extreme play in BDSM.
Sorry bit it is. STI's can affect a babies development or even cause death of the foetus in some cases. We all know that safe sex isn't 100% safe and people can still catch things even though condoms have been worn.
Also I don't think the size of the cock matters "
Dear god give us strength. The huge cick was a joke! The reference to STIs is the usual moralising bullshit. Nothing is 100% safe, are you going to stop pregnant woman from driving or being a passenger in a car? How about them working late on? They all carry risk, nearly everything in life can be seen as a risk. As I said, "elf and safety" brigade once again. |
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"When I was pregnant it was a special, magical moment for my husband and I. My husband even gave away our cat as he'd heard there was something in cat faeces that could be harmful to pregnant women.
OTT? Perhaps, but we wanted to ensure our precious one had the very best start possible. No soft cheeses, no undercooked meats, no alcohol: my body really was a temple.
There are couples on here who don't kiss or do anal etc with meets: they keep something back just for them. For me, the thought of sharing my body with a stranger I've met off a sex site who is also meeting other strangers for sex would be totally abhorrent and a risk I wouldn't contemplate.
If sex with my partner was not enough at such a special time and the thrill of sex with strangers more important than the wellbeing of my unborn child, I'd have a serious look at my lifes priorities.
You was doing so well until the last paragraph.
So many issues in the world. So many things you can do for yourself n the baby. Just because a pregnant women wants some additional fun while she is pregnant does not mean she would not take extra special care in arranging a meet.
I've now spoken to plenty of pregnant women on here. Most get put off by these sort of posts. Most also give up on the idea before it happens. But all n I mean all, instantly say the same thing. Which is safe sex a must. Extensive chatting continues and often fizzles out as the lady just becomes put off for whatever reason. That's here decision and it wouldn't surprise me if its the judgemental freaks who think they are perfect on this site chucking in the bad penny opinion.
I'm totally sick of pregnant posts getting slammed. So now gonna jump in the throats of all the so called perfect people. Grrrr. "
MY opinion is just that: MINE. I have not made any personal comment about other members on this thread. I repeat, if *I* thought sex with strangers was more important than my unborn child *I* would take a serious look at my priorities!
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"The reference to STIs is the usual moralising bullshit. Nothing is 100% safe, are you going to stop pregnant woman from driving or being a passenger in a car? How about them working late on? They all carry risk, nearly everything in life can be seen as a risk. As I said, "elf and safety" brigade once again. "
Unnessarily exposing your unborn child to a potential life threatening STI is certainly not in the same bracket as driving a car or working up to your due date. It is also not moralising bullshit, it's simply stating a fact.
If you lead a swinging or sexually promisquise lifestyle, even if you use condoms, you are at a higher risk of coming into contact with an STI, that's a fact.
Some STIs can cause deformities, blindness and death to unborn babies, again that's a fact.
Everything in life does carry a risk, but as an adult you can make decisions too minimise that risk. It's nothing to do with the moralising health & safety brigade, it's just common sense.
Try and justify doing it, but if you have multiply sexual partners you are putting the Health of your unborn child at a higher risk then if you didn't. It's your choice if you decide the risk is worth it.
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