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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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First of all this isnt one of those whiny im a single guy cant get a meet posts. In my opinion i think iv done well in my time on here. I interact on forums a bit attend socials and send polite messages after reading profiles.
What im wanting to know about from people is how they get on with meets local to them. As in my experience a lot of my meets have involved putting in the miles, and travelling out of town. So how do others find the people local to them is my question. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah meets in that direction get a bit fishy lol. But being serious i find the scene around me very hard to crack. Whereas when i arrange meets out of town they are much easier to find and set up. |
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You have been on here for 5 minutes and have plenty of veris. I have been on here for 6 yrs and it took me about 2 years to accumulate roughly the same amount.
I live in Derby which is pretty much central, you are doing well my friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stick to a 5 mile radius, and works fine, found 50 people on site within my area, of course the ones 100@s of miles look attractive, that's because its a safe bet we will never meet,
the internet is about fantasy, a bit like swinging, what you cant have you desire, whats available isn't as attractive, same with cars, houses, most things in life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been licky enought to find a couple of single girls very local to me and 2 couples and i mean literallly 5 mins drive also plenty of meets in newcastle n surrounding areas which are still quite local, just luck of the draw i think m8 |
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"Ive been licky enought to find a couple of single girls very local to me and 2 couples and i mean literallly 5 mins drive also plenty of meets in newcastle n surrounding areas which are still quite local, just luck of the draw i think m8"
Good for you! ....and nice ink  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like you Rich I live on the coast so my search area is half of that compared to someone inland.
Travelling isn't an issue if you know the person / people you are meeting are genuine and as long as you don't get there and have been played the fool. Never happened to me yet but then the furthest I've travelled over the on off years I've swung is about 30miles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always amuses us when people offer to travel over 100 miles (normally single guys) surely they can find fun closer to home.
Having had one local just turn up unannounced on our door step and the kids answer the door to him we try to stick to 10-30 miles away. Keeps a healthy just in case distance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my meetings have been away from the Inverness area. Partly due to the remoteness but mainly because once I whittled out all the idiots, people I wouldn't meet and people who weren't interested in me I was left with 1 person!
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"Most of my meetings have been away from the Inverness area. Partly due to the remoteness but mainly because once I whittled out all the idiots, people I wouldn't meet and people who weren't interested in me I was left with 1 person!
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Was it yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I live an hour away from any major town so finding local meets is difficult but recently found a couple folk within 10miles that understands the meaning of text and wait to be invited haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had meets very local all been 20 min drive so not to bad, not got problem travelling and been checking out the women in Geordie land recently. Good I love there voice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of my meetings have been away from the Inverness area. Partly due to the remoteness but mainly because once I whittled out all the idiots, people I wouldn't meet and people who weren't interested in me I was left with 1 person!
Was it yourself? "
No, his name was flossy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't mind a more local meet for a change. Seems to be very little going on locally
Must be some leprechauns where you are??? Lol  "
tight as arseholes too. Miserable gits keep thinking we are only after their gold.
Is there a category for midget swinging?
Don't mean Jeanette Krankie either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wouldn't mind a more local meet for a change. Seems to be very little going on locally
Must be some leprechauns where you are??? Lol tight as arseholes too. Miserable gits keep thinking we are only after their gold.
Is there a category for midget swinging?
Don't mean Jeanette Krankie either"
Krankies!!!! Legends!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In my area theres a lot of active singles and couples but i think its the small town fear of people finding out that is the problem. Its a shame really that the lifestyle is not understood so easily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My preference is for travelling and a hotel stay as this puts a sense of occasion on the meet. I have had occasional local meets (within 10 miles) but they are few and far between ... still looking and hoping though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First of all this isnt one of those whiny im a single guy cant get a meet posts. In my opinion i think iv done well in my time on here. I interact on forums a bit attend socials and send polite messages after reading profiles.
What im wanting to know about from people is how they get on with meets local to them. As in my experience a lot of my meets have involved putting in the miles, and travelling out of town. So how do others find the people local to them is my question."
We often choose to go out of town it can be far less complicated for afterwards. |
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I'd, obviously, like to meet someone a little closer to home, but not too close