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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I now there are always exceptions but speaking in general here. Do you think men can engage in sexual activity without emotion easier than women? "
Some can some can't there are some extremely emotional men out there which isn't always a bad thing. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Seems the women agree.... I think its true.. I just can't get off if I think the man does not care... masturbation is better than that "
Does not care? In what way? Maybe you are meeting the wrong guys if you mean it in a meet context?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems the women agree.... I think its true.. I just can't get off if I think the man does not care... masturbation is better than that "
I think there's a difference between not caring and not being emotional |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really any difference between men and women in my experience depends on each person.
I wear my heart on my sleeve which confused my gp when i had check up  |
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No I don't think that it's inherent.
It's down to genetics/ socialization or nature and nurture if you like.
Women are no needier than men.
Men are no less callous than women.
If I was looking for sex with someone that 'cares' it wouldn't be on here. |
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It's a nature/nurture argument really, are men conditioned not to need emotional connection, or is that behavior hard wired?
Conversely, are women conditioned to require emotion sexually, or is it that behavior genetically driven.
A swingers site might not give the least biased sample, but plenty of men and women on here seem to enjoy sex without the need for an emotional connection. |
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By *eareena OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Seems the women agree.... I think its true.. I just can't get off if I think the man does not care... masturbation is better than that Does not care? In what way? Maybe you are meeting the wrong guys if you mean it in a meet context?"
yeah I used the word care for lack of a better term... but I want to be fucking people who I can at least be friends with... not in the sense of love but in the sense of repect... |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Seems the women agree.... I think its true.. I just can't get off if I think the man does not care... masturbation is better than that Does not care? In what way? Maybe you are meeting the wrong guys if you mean it in a meet context?
yeah I used the word care for lack of a better term... but I want to be fucking people who I can at least be friends with... not in the sense of love but in the sense of repect... "
Hmmmmm I guess I was lucky when meeting as a single, I never had one meet where the guy was disrespectful, so are you actually saying you want friends with benefits? Regulars? You think that those who don't wanna be friends are disrespectful? Sorry if I am asking so many questions I just want to understand what you mean. |
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By *eareena OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Seems the women agree.... I think its true.. I just can't get off if I think the man does not care... masturbation is better than that Does not care? In what way? Maybe you are meeting the wrong guys if you mean it in a meet context?
yeah I used the word care for lack of a better term... but I want to be fucking people who I can at least be friends with... not in the sense of love but in the sense of repect... Hmmmmm I guess I was lucky when meeting as a single, I never had one meet where the guy was disrespectful, so are you actually saying you want friends with benefits? Regulars? You think that those who don't wanna be friends are disrespectful? Sorry if I am asking so many questions I just want to understand what you mean."
you know I don't even know what the hell I want and therein lies the problem... I do know that fuck and move on to the next doesn't feel good. .. but hey..live and learn |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Seems the women agree.... I think its true.. I just can't get off if I think the man does not care... masturbation is better than that Does not care? In what way? Maybe you are meeting the wrong guys if you mean it in a meet context?
yeah I used the word care for lack of a better term... but I want to be fucking people who I can at least be friends with... not in the sense of love but in the sense of repect... Hmmmmm I guess I was lucky when meeting as a single, I never had one meet where the guy was disrespectful, so are you actually saying you want friends with benefits? Regulars? You think that those who don't wanna be friends are disrespectful? Sorry if I am asking so many questions I just want to understand what you mean.
you know I don't even know what the hell I want and therein lies the problem... I do know that fuck and move on to the next doesn't feel good. .. but hey..live and learn "
Its not a bad thing for people to fuck and move on, in fact a lot of times its easier, I don't think that's disrespectful. |
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By *eareena OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Seems the women agree.... I think its true.. I just can't get off if I think the man does not care... masturbation is better than that Does not care? In what way? Maybe you are meeting the wrong guys if you mean it in a meet context?
yeah I used the word care for lack of a better term... but I want to be fucking people who I can at least be friends with... not in the sense of love but in the sense of repect... Hmmmmm I guess I was lucky when meeting as a single, I never had one meet where the guy was disrespectful, so are you actually saying you want friends with benefits? Regulars? You think that those who don't wanna be friends are disrespectful? Sorry if I am asking so many questions I just want to understand what you mean.
you know I don't even know what the hell I want and therein lies the problem... I do know that fuck and move on to the next doesn't feel good. .. but hey..live and learn Its not a bad thing for people to fuck and move on, in fact a lot of times its easier, I don't think that's disrespectful."
I am in no way criticising people who do that... merely that it is not for me... as I have discovered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I now there are always exceptions but speaking in general here. Do you think men can engage in sexual activity without emotion easier than women? "
No in my personal experience. My meets are emotionless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems the women agree.... I think its true.. I just can't get off if I think the man does not care... masturbation is better than that Does not care? In what way? Maybe you are meeting the wrong guys if you mean it in a meet context?
yeah I used the word care for lack of a better term... but I want to be fucking people who I can at least be friends with... not in the sense of love but in the sense of repect... Hmmmmm I guess I was lucky when meeting as a single, I never had one meet where the guy was disrespectful, so are you actually saying you want friends with benefits? Regulars? You think that those who don't wanna be friends are disrespectful? Sorry if I am asking so many questions I just want to understand what you mean.
you know I don't even know what the hell I want and therein lies the problem... I do know that fuck and move on to the next doesn't feel good. .. but hey..live and learn Its not a bad thing for people to fuck and move on, in fact a lot of times its easier, I don't think that's disrespectful."
Yep was easier for me when I was newly single, but several years on my needs have changed. I'm not sure exactly what I want, so I won't meet until I do  |
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It depends, don't we always use some level of emotion... Could I have sex with a woman who's attitude made me defensive and bristly? No. Could I have sex with a woman whose morals abhore me? Nope.
I don't think guys need to go as far emotionally as women do, but I don't think you can say that a guy can have sex without emotion.
I have the theory that we can have sex in a wider range of emotional states though.
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By *eareena OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Seems the women agree.... I think its true.. I just can't get off if I think the man does not care... masturbation is better than that Does not care? In what way? Maybe you are meeting the wrong guys if you mean it in a meet context?
yeah I used the word care for lack of a better term... but I want to be fucking people who I can at least be friends with... not in the sense of love but in the sense of repect... Hmmmmm I guess I was lucky when meeting as a single, I never had one meet where the guy was disrespectful, so are you actually saying you want friends with benefits? Regulars? You think that those who don't wanna be friends are disrespectful? Sorry if I am asking so many questions I just want to understand what you mean.
you know I don't even know what the hell I want and therein lies the problem... I do know that fuck and move on to the next doesn't feel good. .. but hey..live and learn Its not a bad thing for people to fuck and move on, in fact a lot of times its easier, I don't think that's disrespectful.
Yep was easier for me when I was newly single, but several years on my needs have changed. I'm not sure exactly what I want, so I won't meet until I do "
yep... I have stopped meeting too.... only fair... not fair to say nsa if its not nsa |
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By (user no longer on site)
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from experience i have to say that ive had more sex with men where i have not wanted to get involved or have any hassles.
Ive had countless blokes bitch out on me or have issues where they want to start seeing you or have issues with you having other meets.
so in my opinion i think sometimes the guys are more needy than than the women...most the women on here know exactly what they want. |
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By *eareena OP Couple
over a year ago
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"from experience i have to say that ive had more sex with men where i have not wanted to get involved or have any hassles.
Ive had countless blokes bitch out on me or have issues where they want to start seeing you or have issues with you having other meets.
so in my opinion i think sometimes the guys are more needy than than the women...most the women on here know exactly what they want."
and thats good for them.. I hope I figure it out for myself soon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I now there are always exceptions but speaking in general here. Do you think men can engage in sexual activity without emotion easier than women? "
Men? You mean the ones who keep asking "Fancy a fuck?"
I used to think not, but I've been on here too long to believe that most men can even have emotions....
I wish it were different....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's more about a sense of connection. Some women I've met have been attractive but it's been purely physical act. With others there has been a connection, as if the whole thing was more of a shared experience. I prefer the latter but its difficult to know before hand how its going to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, partly biological, animals ( which includes humans ) are programmed to reproduce.
men have a million seeds to sow, women have about 7 eggs to fertilize,
men generally can separate sex from emotions, and many see it as a recreational past time.
Women have been conditioned from childhood to select a man based on his ability to provide, father and protect.
Of course there are like with everything exceptions to this, and on a swingers site, the likleyhood is most people are here for fun and knee tremblers, rather than emotional connections. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think its a male female thing ... Just some people need more of a connection than others .... I personally need to be good friends with my play mates in and out of the bedroom .... For me he may as well get a hooker if he just wants to fuck any old random pussy and then run! (Obviously that's different if playing in a club or group sex) but for people who are looking for one on one FB's As long as everyone's honest about what they want and no emotional games are played, everyone knows where they stand, then you can choose if they are on the same page and want the same thing.... Unfortunately honesty is the key and that can be the bit that's hard to find !!!! |
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