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over a year ago
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Please someone help why do guys cross dress . I am not in any way having a go xx I have met a guy I like but he's confessed to wanting to cross dress . I got slated for asking if this ment he was bi ( witch I have found out he's not ) but I just understand xx |
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"Why do you get dressed up in heels, nice dress etc? ..... "
So he or the guy I am with will find me attractive . So he thinks I will find him sexyer in girls undes ? |
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"Why do you get dressed up in heels, nice dress etc? .....
So he or the guy I am with will find me attractive . So he thinks I will find him sexyer in girls undes ? "
No, I was meaning 'because it makes you feel good'. It doesn't make a guy gay or bi. It's just clothes and he likes it. x |
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"Why do you get dressed up in heels, nice dress etc? .....
So he or the guy I am with will find me attractive . So he thinks I will find him sexyer in girls undes ? "
It's because HE feels good in them. I like getting dressed up in stockings, suspenders and sexy undies but not all women do. I don't get totally naked when I meet to play because I have a problem with someone seeing me naked, other women take everything off and don't mind. It's just a choice and lets face it, sexy undies do feel good against the skin  |
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"Why do you get dressed up in heels, nice dress etc? .....
So he or the guy I am with will find me attractive . So he thinks I will find him sexyer in girls undes ?
No, I was meaning 'because it makes you feel good'. It doesn't make a guy gay or bi. It's just clothes and he likes it. x"
I do get that he's not in any way bi x we went out for dinner the other day and I had a red lace dress on , he asked if he could put it on witch I was ok with . But I am strat and if he wants to wear makeup and wigs and look REALLY girly I am worried I will not find him sexually attractive  |
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if you are really not into it and yo are seeing other people then just ask him to leave that with other people and just meet you dressed as a man.
as much as should accept that people like to do these things they need to accept that not everyone will find it sexually appealing |
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People of all genders who use some of the opposite gender's clothing may do so for all kind of reasons.
Often guys find female clothing very horny, and it can feel very different to the kind of gear they normally wear. Otherwise, it may inspire some inner feelings of a little femininity etc, or just some other sexual stirrings.
There are of course others who have gender identity disorder, in which case they may be transitioning to become fully whole, to match the person that they are on the inside etc. This guy doesn't sound like this.
Overall, most guys who wear a small no. of items of female clothing are straight, and it doesn't hint at bi or gay sexualities.
There's no one answer, just like we're all on fab for differing reasons. |
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"if you are really not into it and yo are seeing other people then just ask him to leave that with other people and just meet you dressed as a man.
as much as should accept that people like to do these things they need to accept that not everyone will find it sexually appealing"
Respect has to be both ways. |
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For me it started out as a sexual fetish. Many years ago I met a dom woman and she got me to wear some undies for sessions. A switch flipped in my head that was obviously overlooked and further down the line I'm where I am today. Theres still a strong sexual component, but I also have a feminine side to starkly contrast the macho world of my male side. I actually like the clothing. Have you seen mens choice of clothing?? Logo'd tshirts, check drinking shirts, jeans and suits. THATS IT!
Women have so much more choice and I love shopping now. Even in guy mode.
But I wouldn't force my lifestyle choice on a woman at a meet. I have a guy profile and If I meet through that then that's how I stay. I do let meets know the first night that I am a TV in case they find out some other way and are pissed off. Most have been impressed by the change though when they've looked me up. |
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"Please someone help why do guys cross dress . I am not in any way having a go xx I have met a guy I like but he's confessed to wanting to cross dress . I got slated for asking if this ment he was bi ( witch I have found out he's not ) but I just understand xx "
OP - it sounds like this is the first time you have encountered a cross-dresser or TV on a personal level. Would I be right?
If it is, it's likely YOU are feeling emotions about it which, like the vast majority of us, you never had to face when you were growing up. If you like this guy that much, then just be 100% honest with him about how you are feeling and don't worry about seeming naive. We are not born knowing everything there is to know about straight guys enjoying cross-dressing, are we?
I think the key word which you missed out of your OP was 'need'. You 'need' to understand, don't you? You'll only do that by asking questions - and as many as YOU need to ask.
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