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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you were chatting to someone and you really got on well, loads in common... and you offered to send them a face pic but they said it doesn't matter what people look like as long as they get their kit off......!
Would you still meet them?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope! There has to be an attraction.
I gotta see a face pic to even chat.
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I wouldn't go quite that far. I'm happy to chat without a pic but I'd definitely need one before considering a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean that they are happy to send you a face pic.
But that they are saying they will fuck anyone no matter what they look like...."
Not the sort of person I'd personally want to meet, you could imagine their attitude towards safety and sexual health. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I mean that they are happy to send you a face pic.
But that they are saying they will fuck anyone no matter what they look like...."
Are they or are they saying that they have got to know you through your message exchange and now the attraction is about that communication and not what you look like?
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"I mean that they are happy to send you a face pic.
But that they are saying they will fuck anyone no matter what they look like...."
Or they are saying that they like you enough from just chatting that they don't want to see a pic. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I mean that they are happy to send you a face pic.
But that they are saying they will fuck anyone no matter what they look like....
Are they or are they saying that they have got to know you through your message exchange and now the attraction is about that communication and not what you look like?
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No they are definitely saying that they aren't bothered what people look like as long as they get their kit off.
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Not a chance.
I get very little play time as it is so wouldn't even consider meeting someone for a social without seeing a pic first. And I'd think it a little weird if someone wouldn't want to see one of me. In fact I'd insist on it before arranging anything. Avoid the 'oh er, sorry but your not my type!' And if they really meant it as in 'I don't give a toss as long as you've got a pulse' I wouldn't meet them at all lol x |
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"If you were chatting to someone and you really got on well, loads in common... and you offered to send them a face pic but they said it doesn't matter what people look like as long as they get their kit off......!
Would you still meet them? "
Well, having met you, I would say it might end up in both of us losing some articles of clothing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when i was on a dating site a few years ago i met a man in a pub, neither of us had any pics on our profile.
he said he thought it was more fun not knowing who you were meeting.
luckily we both liked each other, he bought me scampi and chips and we had fun in his car afterwards.
he had recently split up with his partner and i think he was glad of my company. trouble is i also met a couple of realy awful men too. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"yeah, if he has a big knob"
Welcome back View, missed those trenchant observations
To be honest, I've probably been a shag for the any hole's a goal brigade in the past; and if I'm brutally honest, I've even occasionally done the "any cock'll rock" thing meself too (before I discovered swinging)
If someone said it didn't matter what I looked like (assuming I'd removed my face pics), depending on the level of messaging we'd been having, and reliant on him letting me see his face then I probably would agree to a social and take it from there - after all, there's probably a few people who would shag anything but aren't so honest about it. I don't believe that would make him or her any less careful about their sexual health as implied by another poster though, some of the most careless folk I've come across are the fussy ones who only play with folk they "can tell are clean"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yeah, if he has a big knob
Welcome back View, missed those trenchant observations
To be honest, I've probably been a shag for the any hole's a goal brigade in the past; and if I'm brutally honest, I've even occasionally done the "any cock'll rock" thing meself too (before I discovered swinging)
If someone said it didn't matter what I looked like (assuming I'd removed my face pics), depending on the level of messaging we'd been having, and reliant on him letting me see his face then I probably would agree to a social and take it from there - after all, there's probably a few people who would shag anything but aren't so honest about it. I don't believe that would make him or her any less careful about their sexual health as implied by another poster though, some of the most careless folk I've come across are the fussy ones who only play with folk they "can tell are clean" "
Good points Caz, thank you.
I know I've met people that didn't fancy me. I think it bothers me more knowing that he's admitted it. You can convince yourself a guy fancies you if he doesn't say otherwise.
Well... unless he's retching into a bucket with every thrust.  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"yeah, if he has a big knob
Welcome back View, missed those trenchant observations
To be honest, I've probably been a shag for the any hole's a goal brigade in the past; and if I'm brutally honest, I've even occasionally done the "any cock'll rock" thing meself too (before I discovered swinging)
If someone said it didn't matter what I looked like (assuming I'd removed my face pics), depending on the level of messaging we'd been having, and reliant on him letting me see his face then I probably would agree to a social and take it from there - after all, there's probably a few people who would shag anything but aren't so honest about it. I don't believe that would make him or her any less careful about their sexual health as implied by another poster though, some of the most careless folk I've come across are the fussy ones who only play with folk they "can tell are clean"
Good points Caz, thank you.
I know I've met people that didn't fancy me. I think it bothers me more knowing that he's admitted it. You can convince yourself a guy fancies you if he doesn't say otherwise.
Well... unless he's retching into a bucket with every thrust. "
I would mention the fish batter hair though Steel, I mean there's shag anything that moves and there's gingers  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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Good points Caz, thank you.
I know I've met people that didn't fancy me. I think it bothers me more knowing that he's admitted it. You can convince yourself a guy fancies you if he doesn't say otherwise.
Well... unless he's retching into a bucket with every thrust. "
I had one running away pulling his pants on and grabbing his clothes. He liked my face it was just the rest of me that he found too scary. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yeah, if he has a big knob
Welcome back View, missed those trenchant observations
To be honest, I've probably been a shag for the any hole's a goal brigade in the past; and if I'm brutally honest, I've even occasionally done the "any cock'll rock" thing meself too (before I discovered swinging)
If someone said it didn't matter what I looked like (assuming I'd removed my face pics), depending on the level of messaging we'd been having, and reliant on him letting me see his face then I probably would agree to a social and take it from there - after all, there's probably a few people who would shag anything but aren't so honest about it. I don't believe that would make him or her any less careful about their sexual health as implied by another poster though, some of the most careless folk I've come across are the fussy ones who only play with folk they "can tell are clean"
Good points Caz, thank you.
I know I've met people that didn't fancy me. I think it bothers me more knowing that he's admitted it. You can convince yourself a guy fancies you if he doesn't say otherwise.
Well... unless he's retching into a bucket with every thrust.
I would mention the fish batter hair though Steel, I mean there's shag anything that moves and there's gingers "
Just be glad you're not one too. It's the next most awful thing to being a single male.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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I would mention the fish batter hair though Steel, I mean there's shag anything that moves and there's gingers
Just be glad you're not one too. It's the next most awful thing to being a single male. "
Ssshhh, don't tell anyone but she made me look at her Fanuary pictures and she wasn't blonde. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
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I would mention the fish batter hair though Steel, I mean there's shag anything that moves and there's gingers
Just be glad you're not one too. It's the next most awful thing to being a single male.
Ssshhh, don't tell anyone but she made me look at her Fanuary pictures and she wasn't blonde."
Aaaargggghhhhh! Lies and calumny... Admin any chance of removing this post and banning this woman for life for this heinous libel  |
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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
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Hell no. If I was going to shag someone I would need to find them attractive and would need for them to find me attractive! I would actually find it insulting if someone essentially said that "I don't care what you look like I'll fuck you anyway"" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there any correlation at all between this thread and the "I'm not shallow, it's all about personality" thread?
But then i would ask that wouldn't i?
as advised by Ms M R-Davies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would mention the fish batter hair though Steel, I mean there's shag anything that moves and there's gingers
Just be glad you're not one too. It's the next most awful thing to being a single male.
Ssshhh, don't tell anyone but she made me look at her Fanuary pictures and she wasn't blonde."
Blue pubes you say?! She's a dirrrty biatch. I bet you're not the first person that's seen her fanny.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few weeks ago, I posed the question 'if swinging created an increase in the objectification of people', given the photos, meeting criteria etc.
The original thread didn't garner many replies, but a thread like this is very interesting, because it goes, in some part, to contributing to the answer.
Interesting..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A few weeks ago, I posed the question 'if swinging created an increase in the objectification of people', given the photos, meeting criteria etc.
The original thread didn't garner many replies, but a thread like this is very interesting, because it goes, in some part, to contributing to the answer.
Interesting....."
I didn't see your thread. I would say yes though, very much so. It makes people fit into boxes of 'wants' and not humans anymore. In my opinion... |
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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago
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"If you were chatting to someone and you really got on well, loads in common... and you offered to send them a face pic but they said it doesn't matter what people look like as long as they get their kit off......!
Would you still meet them? " you can still meet but u don't have to play if ure ure not happy with the way they look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not...I'd hate to be the first he turned up to and realised he couldn't fuck just anything!!!
In all seriousness though I think it would put me off a bit. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I'd like to know there was some attraction on his part |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"If you were chatting to someone and you really got on well, loads in common... and you offered to send them a face pic but they said it doesn't matter what people look like as long as they get their kit off......!
Would you still meet them? " no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were chatting to someone and you really got on well, loads in common... and you offered to send them a face pic but they said it doesn't matter what people look like as long as they get their kit off......!
Would you still meet them? "
I would still chat if I liked their company but that's as fas as it goes. Nobody expects everyone to want toplay once seeing a pic so I wouldn't see that as an issue either way. |
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