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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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when a woman nags a man about silly insignificant things is the man entitled to be angry back
my mrs gave me a right nagging on friday over something so sill and despite me asking her to shut up and stop nagging she kept on and on and on for a long long time.
i would like some kind of admission she was out of line and an apology but she is so stubborn and reckons i should be the one who apologises
i cant get my head round this, its seriously not helping our relationship, ignoring these arguments like they never happened is not helping but i just cant understand why she is to stubborn to admit that a nagging session is bound to end up in a big argument and she instigated the barney.
i hope everyone can feel my pain  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i only nag, ie ask and ask for something to be done, when my hubby has just ignored what ever it was he was to do. Ie he has been a lazy we shit. If i ask for something to be done, like the bin to be taken out, wash the dishes and he says ok. And hours later hes still watching tv and the jobs not done then i have every right to nag. If men just did as they were told then the world would be a a peaceful place.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When my daughter moved out, i moved into her room and my son into mine. I said i didnt want to as it was just a bigger room for him to wreck, oh no i wont says he, rubbish, i do the ironing, put washing in his room and it sits on the floor and ends up screwed up so i think im entitled to nag him as i cant hoover without putting stuff out the way, totally pointless exercise lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you tell a woman she's nagging its guaranteed to infuriate her even more. If she is nagging because something is bothering her be grateful that she cares enough to voice it. Try listening sometimes instead of saying 'oh no here we go again' which is the attitude of a lot of blokes.
If its constructive nagging,meant to improve your living standards or arrangements for all concerned, come halfway to solve it. If it's nitpicking nagging that sounds whining in general, wait till a quiet time and ask her whats the matter - then listen patiently and act on the information. With constant cuddles and support. Just do it don't you be the stubborn one. She will melt if she feels she's being listened to.
Most of we women hate the way men argue(debate)as they lack the vocals to respond in the way we would like.i.e they sit saying nothing for fear of saying the wrong thing!!!!! Negative comment like 'you're always nagging' serve to only inflame but if she's always nagging - perhaps it's time to ask yourself why?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When my daughter moved out, i moved into her room and my son into mine. I said i didnt want to as it was just a bigger room for him to wreck, oh no i wont says he, rubbish, i do the ironing, put washing in his room and it sits on the floor and ends up screwed up so i think im entitled to nag him as i cant hoover without putting stuff out the way, totally pointless exercise lol "
This is how I tackled my sons when they abused/didn't appreciate the work I did for them... go to their room and empty every single cupboard, drawer and shelf of everything they own and pile it on and around their bed. Yes it creates a mess but flatly refuse to clean it for them. When they can't find their stuff and have to clear it all up and put it back they will soon learn the lesson and welcome their clean clothes with open arms. I had to do this about three times before it struck home.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well i was getting nagged for something silly, i told her it did not matter and i did not care, she continued to nag, i continued to tell her i did not give a f###, this went on for ages, except she got more pissed off and i got more angry that she would not let up. I have a problem controlling my anger and this sort of situation does not help.
i would like some sort of admission and apology but she is too stubborn, these arguments happen often and its not healthy just not talking about them and ignoring them.
I was in a marraige before where my ex wife was really nuts and i really have had enough nagging to last me a lifetime so now i just want a more peaceful life  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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obviously someone who has lost a loved one feels this way and i cant sympathise with you on that
should i still be grateful i have a nagging partner (tongue n cheek) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As i always say.....
'If women never had fanny's they would be useless'
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I divorced the one I was married to... life is so much better with only one fanny to care about. |
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"As i always say.....
'If women never had fanny's they would be useless'
I divorced the one I was married to... life is so much better with only one fanny to care about. "
So your ex had a fanny??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As i always say.....
'If women never had fanny's they would be useless'
I divorced the one I was married to... life is so much better with only one fanny to care about.
So your ex had a fanny?? "
Nope, he was one, total fanny |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mrs NAG here, If the total and utter neanderthal had given VALID reasons for is actions instead of shouting and swearing at me then perhaps the "NAGGING" might have stopped but when you shout at me like i'm some idiot who does not deserve a reasonable answer then you had it comming mr !! |
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