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CAN YOU RING THR POLICE IF YOUR NEIGBOURS ARE ACCUSSING YOU OF BEING A PROSTITUTE AND LEAVING BALLOOONS ON YOUR DOOR
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DIET COKE AND VODKA FOR GOOD TIME !!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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probably can call the cops for harrassment, defamation of character, slander and false accusations of major offense. if anything you can get a cease and desist order on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those crazy neighbors and their antics! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes |
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When punters come knocking tell them to try next door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everybody loves good neighbours....  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I'd definately be onto the police as I can't abide Coca Cola (diet or otherwise)...I would have the fuzz insist to the neighbours that the balloons were replaced immediately with Sprite Zero or at a push, Fanta Zero (and ice for preference) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, understand Sting is a dab hand at making balloon animals. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
Seriously though, if you're going to report them for harassment or whatever, then use 101 non emergency number rather than dialling 999 (that's the Brit version of 911 dblcheese  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not really a police matter.
Defamation of character is a civil offence, not a criminal offence. Consult a solicitor about what your options are, regarding suing them in the civil courts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Balloons on your doorstep! Quite inventive. Maybe they just watched 'UP'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How did they get the words 'Diet Coke and Vodka for a good time' on a balloon?
Big balloons....... ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd definately be onto the police as I can't abide Coca Cola (diet or otherwise)...I would have the fuzz insist to the neighbours that the balloons were replaced immediately with Sprite Zero or at a push, Fanta Zero (and ice for preference)"
Try vodka and Dr pepper mmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, if you're going to report them for harassment or whatever, then use 101 non emergency number rather than dialling 999 (that's the Brit version of 911 dblcheese )"
awww thanks for thinking of me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not just move the balloons outside their place?
After all - you're just returning their property!! |
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"Why not just move the balloons outside their place?
After all - you're just returning their property!! "
i was going to suggest that as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't help but laugh at the jeremykyleness of it....sorry
I hope you get the dispute sorted out |
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Oh id love nieghbours like that... just think of the fun, imaginative ways of getting ur own back and driving them slowly insane ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So can I ask why they have done this????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not really a police matter.
Defamation of character is a civil offence, not a criminal offence. Consult a solicitor about what your options are, regarding suing them in the civil courts."
beat me to it |
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"So can I ask why they have done this?????"
some girl knocked on my door asking if a car was mine and I said no then she said so its not a punters
im not a prostitute
this is serious not a joking matter why u all so nasty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So can I ask why they have done this?????
some girl knocked on my door asking if a car was mine and I said no then she said so its not a punters
im not a prostitute
I don't think anyone intends to be nasty, but to many outsiders it appears comical.
The best way to diffuse a situation is to talk openly and calmly.
Knock on the neighbours door say hi, you think there's a misunderstanding but you want to clear the air.
If you don't feel your great at stuff like that then write a letter or speak to your neighbourhood policing team you may have a quick word.
But face to face calm honesty showing how you feel and the desire to reconcile is best. Good luck.
this is serious not a joking matter why u all so nasty"
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"So can I ask why they have done this?????
some girl knocked on my door asking if a car was mine and I said no then she said so its not a punters
im not a prostitute
I don't think anyone intends to be nasty, but to many outsiders it appears comical.
The best way to diffuse a situation is to talk openly and calmly.
Knock on the neighbours door say hi, you think there's a misunderstanding but you want to clear the air.
If you don't feel your great at stuff like that then write a letter or speak to your neighbourhood policing team you may have a quick word.
But face to face calm honesty showing how you feel and the desire to reconcile is best. Good luck.
this is serious not a joking matter why u all so nasty"
I dont think anybody is being nasty you have had SOME good answers, personally i would of decked the bitch on my doorstep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they have done this on two or more occasions and these actions are causing you distress ( and it can be proved to be the neighbours ) speak to the local police. May be an offence under Sec 2 Protection from Harassment act. They may give them a warning to stop in the first instance. |
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all I want is some advice
I don't bother anyone
my friend was here and when he left they even threatened to smash his car up
and theres been a few good answers but mostly ppl thinking this is a joke its not its my life
im sure if it was happening to them they wouldn't be happy either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to the local police station and have a word with them and see if they can help. It's not funny at all, I bet it's scary. Hope you get it sorted. xx |
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just wish I knew who it was and where they have the idea from yes I have a lot of friends visiting for a hour or so
but one thing im not is a prostitute
just want to die right now
feel like just giving up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all I want is some advice
I don't bother anyone
my friend was here and when he left they even threatened to smash his car up
and theres been a few good answers but mostly ppl thinking this is a joke its not its my life
im sure if it was happening to them they wouldn't be happy either"
Its not funny at all and sorry this is happening to you - these things are scary and can quickly get out of control. Please do as I advise above - I know what I'm talking about x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure this issue is causing you a lot of upset, however is a swingers website forum the best place to ask serious advice?
May be best to have a chat with your local neighbourhood police team as this is more their area, good luck. |
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"all I want is some advice
I don't bother anyone
my friend was here and when he left they even threatened to smash his car up
and theres been a few good answers but mostly ppl thinking this is a joke its not its my life
im sure if it was happening to them they wouldn't be happy either
Its not funny at all and sorry this is happening to you - these things are scary and can quickly get out of control. Please do as I advise above - I know what I'm talking about x "
can u inbox me please |
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"I'm sure this issue is causing you a lot of upset, however is a swingers website forum the best place to ask serious advice?
May be best to have a chat with your local neighbourhood police team as this is more their area, good luck."
god was only asking as I thought others might have been through the same situation sorry I even asked! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure this issue is causing you a lot of upset, however is a swingers website forum the best place to ask serious advice?
May be best to have a chat with your local neighbourhood police team as this is more their area, good luck.
god was only asking as I thought others might have been through the same situation sorry I even asked!"
This is a great place to ask. I've read posts from people who have had stalkers and the police have been a great help and very understanding. |
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We suffered 'neighbours from hell' for about five years. The reason being that for five years the police did absolutely NOTHING!
Attempting to get a resolution through civil court is unlikely to be successful and will cost you a fortune.
What you need to do is collect evidence, the police will NOT do it for you, nor will they investigate the matter. You need to collect independent evidence such as audio/visual recordings of an illegal doing.
Witness statements from anyone other than a complete stranger will not be accepted.
One example... My wife was attacked by our (now ex) neighbour armed with a glass milk bottle. FIVE witnesses made official statements to the police. CPS chucked it out because the 'witnesses' were other neighbours and therefore are NOT considered to be reliable as they are known to all persons concerned.
You truly have our sympathy as you will find you are in a VERY difficult situation with very little help available to you. Now if you accept that fact and put in the time and effort to collect independent evidence you can win and resolve the matter... always have your mobile and or camcorder ready.
Best of luck to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely leaving balloons on your doorstep is a nice gesture???? Maybe the constant flow of traffic to your house is causing your neighbours a nuisance? Are they blocking thier drive or taking up parking etc.... |
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its t constant at all my friend who was visiting popped in for couple of hours got threaten also I don't know who it is or why I never cause trouble and the prkig is street parking and there is no laws on parking spaces
and tying balloons to doors is surely not nice gesture s im now scared to leave house
I feel like I now caant have friends and don't need this in my life
most ppl on this thread has took this as a joke and took the micky im sure they wouldn't find it funny if it was them in the same situation |
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Call the police !! Any excuse to have a man in uniform turn up on your doorstep ! |
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how cn they help if I don't know who it was |
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i don't think the action s of the neighbour s are amusing. its horrible and i would not like to be in your position . if you're not sure who it was maybe install cctv. there must be some sort of community officer who could deal with this situation with tact. |
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i don't think the action s of the neighbour s are amusing. its horrible and i would not like to be in your position . if you're not sure who it was maybe install cctv. there must be some sort of community officer who could deal with this situation with tact. |
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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago
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Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?"
It's because they'r implying the home owner is a prostitute x |
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?"
are you for real!!!!!
im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing
would you like it if it was happeneing to you
I think not !!!!!!! |
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
are you for real!!!!!
im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing
would you like it if it was happeneing to you
I think not !!!!!!!"
Don't let them win! Go out there, remove the balloons and go about your business with your head held high! Invite your mate over and sit outside with a cuppa and if you see neighbours snooping give them a big grin and a wave! |
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ballons got moved right after they didn't it I have problems with anxiety and this is just making me scared ive had 4 panic attacks since its happened |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not just move the balloons outside their place?
After all - you're just returning their property!! "
love this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If u live in social housing try talking to your housing officer .. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Police where it.wasn't me. I'm.saying nothing till my solicitor is present. Good cop bad cop won't work |
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i think a bit more sympathy would be helpful for the OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think a bit more sympathy would be helpful for the OP "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously I hope densol gets you sorted she sounds likes she knows what she I talking about. Me I would wait up and when I caught them the balloons would go up there asses followed by a hedgehog and my foot.
Densol your on my list for advice.
Oh there was no harm brought to hedgehogs balloons or my foot during the making of this forum post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neighbours... everybody needs good neighbours... |
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"i think a bit more sympathy would be helpful for the OP "
Yes, and if I lived in the immediate vicinity, someone would have learned a lesson by now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah sod it just put lighter fluid through their letter box and leave a box of matches on the door step with a note "with love your lovely neighbourhood prossy"
They should get the message  |
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"i think a bit more sympathy would be helpful for the OP "
thank you so much x |
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"i think a bit more sympathy would be helpful for the OP
Yes, and if I lived in the immediate vicinity, someone would have learned a lesson by now "
and thank you aswell x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
are you for real!!!!!
im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing
would you like it if it was happeneing to you
I think not !!!!!!!"
To be fair, I think that was a genuine question. I didn't know the significance of that either!
OP have you reported this to anyone yet? Have you had any help? |
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
are you for real!!!!!
im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing
would you like it if it was happeneing to you
I think not !!!!!!!
To be fair, I think that was a genuine question. I didn't know the significance of that either!
OP have you reported this to anyone yet? Have you had any help? "
no not yet don't know if police will do anything and had no help as got no one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
are you for real!!!!!
im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing
would you like it if it was happeneing to you
I think not !!!!!!!
To be fair, I think that was a genuine question. I didn't know the significance of that either!
OP have you reported this to anyone yet? Have you had any help?
no not yet don't know if police will do anything and had no help as got no one "
Well you won't know till you go and speak to them. I'm sure they'll listen and point you in the right direction if they can't do anything themselves. Don't let it go on without taking any action or it will get worse, especially if they see it's getting to you. Good luck and keep us posted |
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
are you for real!!!!!
im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing
would you like it if it was happeneing to you
I think not !!!!!!!
To be fair, I think that was a genuine question. I didn't know the significance of that either!
OP have you reported this to anyone yet? Have you had any help?
no not yet don't know if police will do anything and had no help as got no one
Well you won't know till you go and speak to them. I'm sure they'll listen and point you in the right direction if they can't do anything themselves. Don't let it go on without taking any action or it will get worse, especially if they see it's getting to you. Good luck and keep us posted "
I haven't left the house since and every noise is scaring the shite out of me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
are you for real!!!!!
im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing
would you like it if it was happeneing to you
I think not !!!!!!!
To be fair, I think that was a genuine question. I didn't know the significance of that either!
OP have you reported this to anyone yet? Have you had any help?
no not yet don't know if police will do anything and had no help as got no one
Well you won't know till you go and speak to them. I'm sure they'll listen and point you in the right direction if they can't do anything themselves. Don't let it go on without taking any action or it will get worse, especially if they see it's getting to you. Good luck and keep us posted
I haven't left the house since and every noise is scaring the shite out of me"
Ok, well you either have to call a friend to go with you or call 101 to get the police to come and help you. There is no way anyone should feel that intimidated and scared in their own home. Do it tomorrow! Be positive and stay strong |
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Sigh.. The next time you get a balloon dont touch it and call the police and report it as harassment, even if the police dont do anything they will all see the police turning up at your house and it'll scare the shit out of them.
You can also get those fake cctv camera things if you want to deter things even more. Mrs x |
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"Sigh.. The next time you get a balloon dont touch it and call the police and report it as harassment, even if the police dont do anything they will all see the police turning up at your house and it'll scare the shit out of them.
You can also get those fake cctv camera things if you want to deter things even more. Mrs x"
I took ballon off door and ie kept it its worrying what will happen next |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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intimidation only works if you feel intimidated . Go speak to the local police station and ask their advice , do not allow these people to intrude on your day to day life , carry on as normal they will soon find something else to gossip about . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now i've seen everything."
What you've actually gone round to have a look  |
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"Now i've seen everything.
What you've actually gone round to have a look "
why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now i've seen everything.
What you've actually gone round to have a look
why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!"
If its not a laughing matter and your as scared and intimidated as you say!! Then why have you not been in contact with the police or seeked legal adviice yet???
You've been given plenty of useful advice so far and yet still 'IMHO' sit here complaining when you could have got the ball rolling on putting a stop to this!! |
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"I took ballon off door and ie kept it its worrying what will happen next"
Should of left it and phoned the police but never mind keep it to show them.
"If its not a laughing matter and your as scared and intimidated as you say!! Then why have you not been in contact with the police or seeked legal adviice yet???
You've been given plenty of useful advice so far and yet still 'IMHO' sit here complaining when you could have got the ball rolling on putting a stop to this!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now i've seen everything.
What you've actually gone round to have a look
why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!"
Careful she may tie balloons to your door!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now i've seen everything.
What you've actually gone round to have a look
why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!
If its not a laughing matter and your as scared and intimidated as you say!! Then why have you not been in contact with the police or seeked legal adviice yet???
You've been given plenty of useful advice so far and yet still 'IMHO' sit here complaining when you could have got the ball rolling on putting a stop to this!!"
what Russ said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now i've seen everything.
What you've actually gone round to have a look
why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!
If its not a laughing matter and your as scared and intimidated as you say!! Then why have you not been in contact with the police or seeked legal adviice yet???
You've been given plenty of useful advice so far and yet still 'IMHO' sit here complaining when you could have got the ball rolling on putting a stop to this!!
what Russ said "
'Well' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now i've seen everything.
What you've actually gone round to have a look
why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!
If its not a laughing matter and your as scared and intimidated as you say!! Then why have you not been in contact with the police or seeked legal adviice yet???
You've been given plenty of useful advice so far and yet still 'IMHO' sit here complaining when you could have got the ball rolling on putting a stop to this!!
what Russ said
'Well' "
Well what  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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Some are being a bit harsh here. It's only developed like this because of the piss take.
Op pick out the good advice, there is a fair bit, and act on it. The quicker the better. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not just move the balloons outside their place?
After all - you're just returning their property!! "
Take pics of them at yours first though. And get another neighbour to go with you to their door so you have a witness you weren't abusive and just returning their property as good neighbours do. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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I joined in with the piss taking (I always do, it's the way I roll), I also offered some serious advice (again I try to answer the OP as well as be a smart arse). OP, you've had lots of sensible advice, it's an open forum, there'll be daft posts. Ignore them, act on the advice you've been given and contact any of the people who've been suggested. Come back and let us know how you get on - above all, try your best to not let it get to you, I do really think being frightened to leave the house because of a few balloons is an overreaction, if there's threatening behaviour then it's definitely a police matter, otherwise you may need to seek help for your anxiety problems if you're not already doing so. Best of luck to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hope you feel better this morning. Everything seems better in daylight.
You're getting annoyed at the people taking the piss- and that's good. Use that fighting energy to fire you up and give you confidence to go out today. I know what it feels like to be scared, it's shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hope you are ok, and nothing further has happened. I would personally seek legal advise, unless you think it might make the situation worse. |
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
It's because they'r implying the home owner is a prostitute x"
Why is it? Loads of people tie balloons to there front door if they are having a party. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
It's because they'r implying the home owner is a prostitute x
Why is it? Loads of people tie balloons to there front door if they are having a party."
Because of what's written on then and things that have been said x |
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
are you for real!!!!!
im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing
would you like it if it was happeneing to you
I think not !!!!!!!"
That sort of (over) reaction doesn't help and just makes you look like some kind of bunny boiler. the guy asked a reasonable question, why is tying balloons to a door so bad? |
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I've never heard of prostitutes advertising by having ballona outside their door. If I were a possible punter, I'd think it was a kiddies birthday party not the house of a prostitute and I don't think any rational normal person would think that either.
Take the advice already given: take photos, pop the balloons, phone police, take legal advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
are you for real!!!!!
im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing
would you like it if it was happeneing to you
I think not !!!!!!!
That sort of (over) reaction doesn't help and just makes you look like some kind of bunny boiler. the guy asked a reasonable question, why is tying balloons to a door so bad?"
Not exactly the most aggressive action is it. "Right I really don't like her so I'm going to tie some balloons to her door"! Surely some shit through the letter box is more likely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Geniune question ;
Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?
are you for real!!!!!
im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing
would you like it if it was happeneing to you
I think not !!!!!!!
That sort of (over) reaction doesn't help and just makes you look like some kind of bunny boiler. the guy asked a reasonable question, why is tying balloons to a door so bad?
Not exactly the most aggressive action is it. "Right I really don't like her so I'm going to tie some balloons to her door"! Surely some shit through the letter box is more likely? "
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Honestly OP, you need to play them at their own game. They think that doing this stuff is upsetting you, that raises them emotionally above you - just like any bully.
Personally I'd have taken the balloons, crossed out the drinks and replaced with something funnier, maybe added a couple more of my own, and put them back on my door.
I'd then have spent the day near a window so I could see who took the most notice of it (i.e. which neighbour looked most disappointed) and kept them on the radar.
If someone threatened to smash up someone's car then you should know who it is? In that case, as direct threatening action the police will 'ave a word' but probably not much else until the next time.
Meanwhile, don't allow them to intimidate you, but don't be directly confrontational - think of them like you would kids playing Knocky Nine Doors - a nuisance but too small minded and pathetic to care about.
Now then, if you have friends visiting for an hour at a time, surely you have enough friends for a show of force if things do get out of hand? Or are these Fab type friends?
Marcus x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP when you mention having friends over are these FAB friends?
The reason I ask is when I was very active on the site and had a lot of meets with guys that used to stay an hour or two, my neighbours got the same idea about me.....if you look at it, it's easy for them to get that view about me. However I found that amusing and I played up to it and it didn't bother me, which is clearly not the case for you. I did however stop answering the door in stockings & a basque ( which im sure you dont do) and also made my FAB meets a little more subtle & discreet.
My suggestion in addition to following all the other useful advice offered would be if you are having a FAB friend over ask them to park round the corner & be very discreet about it, until it all blows over. |
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I'd get 100 balloons delivered 'UP' style |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
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Op pick out the good advice, there is a fair bit, and act on it. The quicker the better. Good luck "
Op hope you get it all sorted out. Im closing this now. |
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