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By *harma and Greg OP   Couple  over a year ago

Northampton

Hi want to know people's views on playing at home when you have kids we have 4 quite young and are unsure weather or not to play at home we have a quiet lounge that when they are in be the kids can't see but can it be distracting? What's your thoughts???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally I wouldnt do it and wouldnt meet at someones house where there is any chance of a child coming in ( no matter what age)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

its personally down to choice. I know some couples would not come over to play if they knew children were there.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We would not arrange a meet with anyone at their home if kids were there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we have a fair few times now,

our 2 year old is in bed and wont wake up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If the folk i were meeting at their place had young ones at house i would decline as would be off putting for me and no doubt the parents plus what effect would it have on kids if they saw owt.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We would only play when the kids are at their Dad's & likewise if at someone else's, would never take the chance of kids being around. Can't relax or let the screams out!! X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Build yourself a soundproof padded cell for them 100 feet underground with some ventilation , works for us lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would never had played when my son was home, regardless of his age.

It only takes one time for them to wake up and besides, if i knew he was around i would never have been able to relax in order to enjoy the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dnt bring anyone bk as u dnt know them that well and wot their background is so personally nt wot I would do xx

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By *ames blackMan  over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Before my wife gave up on sex (boohoo) we used to have sex & our children lived with us.

I see no reason why there is a difference. As long as doors are shut or whatever & the children are monitored for wellbeing etc then why should they be a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Build yourself a soundproof padded cell for them 100 feet underground with some ventilation , works for us lol"

PMSL!!

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Its a huge No No for us.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to meet at home a few years back, but I knew my children wouldn't interrupt and had lock on my door.

However now they are older I won't.. you know yourself if it's okay .

I actually wouldn't meet with someone's kids there.. even though I used to... As I knew mine wouldn't wake as they had sleep issues so were medicated.. not sure many could say the same.

And tend to mostly play at clubs now .x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope wouldn't meet if mine where here

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I used to meet at home a few years back, but I knew my children wouldn't interrupt and had lock on my door.

However now they are older I won't.. you know yourself if it's okay .

I actually wouldn't meet with someone's kids there.. even though I used to... As I knew mine wouldn't wake as they had sleep issues so were medicated.. not sure many could say the same.

And tend to mostly play at clubs now .x"

As a matter of interest, how did you know they WOULDN'T? Heavily medicated or not, surely they weren't all medicated?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would be a bag of nerves...just in case

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have done in the past when they were very young - and the layout of our house is that our room is away from other rooms. But wouldn't do anymore - they're far too aware - and never really asleep when they're supposed to be!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No no we would not expect to play with anyone at the home, while children were at home, far to risky and just not right

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"we have a fair few times now,

our 2 year old is in bed and wont wake up.

"

What do you know about the people that you invite over ? I mean REALLY know.

I wouldn't let a stranger anywhere near my children. Sleeping or not.

Seriously - Piss heads, crack heads, just nutters that go off their trolley ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i do no of people that dont tell there meets they have children in the home when they come to.play

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If the folk i were meeting at their place had young ones at house i would decline as would be off putting for me and no doubt the parents plus what effect would it have on kids if they saw owt."

fancy a meet at ours tonight?

little one will be asleep in bed

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never in a million years

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Met a couple a few times years ago and they had a bungalow...kids were aleep in their bedrooms as we played in the master bedroom. On the 3rd visit one of the kids walked into the room as mummy was being spit roasted....My erection was gone within seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Will not play at home due to my children .....but the same applies if i was in a relationship that my children wouldnt meet that person until i was very sure about him .....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Its a huge No No for us. "
this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Social meet (if i have meet them before) then quite possibly if i fancied some company

A 'meet' (that isn't the FB) then no, unless the house was empty!

I did it once before when he was upstairs and we were downstairs and i didn't like it at all - i know that he wouldn't suddenly come downstairs or anything, it was the fact that he was in the house while i was taking part in 'the other life'!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I meet single men while my lil ones are in bed asleep, i have lock on lounge door and never accomm over night and my children have never seen anyone, If i had a boyfriend i would be able to have sex in my home without anyone having an opinion on it so i dont see why it is so different when its someone from here, I am always upfront about them being here and asleep and in over 2 yrs have never had anyone say no thankyou to a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We won't we don't accommodate because of children at home. Off putting to us sorry

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By *irtyDee33Woman  over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"I meet single men while my lil ones are in bed asleep, i have lock on lounge door and never accomm over night and my children have never seen anyone, If i had a boyfriend i would be able to have sex in my home without anyone having an opinion on it so i dont see why it is so different when its someone from here, I am always upfront about them being here and asleep and in over 2 yrs have never had anyone say no thankyou to a meet. "

Yep I'm the same x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No way I would meet someone with a child in the house, I'd also think less of someone who'd meet me with their child present. How do you know I'm not an axe murderer or worse? It's one thing putting yourself at risk inviting strangers into your home; quite another to put your offspring at risk.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one comes to my house if she is here -

I don't like anyone knowing where I live , they have to be pretty special if I let them come here too ... she is my priority and her safety paramount

Its lonely .. ill be honest. I wish I had someone I trusted enough to be a friend/lover etc but thats how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"we have a fair few times now,

our 2 year old is in bed and wont wake up.

What do you know about the people that you invite over ? I mean REALLY know.

I wouldn't let a stranger anywhere near my children. Sleeping or not.

Seriously - Piss heads, crack heads, just nutters that go off their trolley ?

"

Tend not to let those in our home whether the kids are in or not!

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By *ancatMan  over a year ago

Norwich

No I don't play when my son at home only when he is at his mum's and,won't play at any ones if there kids are at home.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman  over a year ago

Kent

I have only had one guy here while my son was here. We had met a couple of times previously and had a bit of an FB thing going on. He had kids too so I made it clear that if he wanted to meet here and my son woke thru the night he would have to leave. That was fine. Never happened luckily. But my son is still In a cot so I knew he wouldn't just come wandering in x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

would be best not get someone to look after the kids for the night

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"we have a fair few times now,

our 2 year old is in bed and wont wake up.

What do you know about the people that you invite over ? I mean REALLY know.

I wouldn't let a stranger anywhere near my children. Sleeping or not.

Seriously - Piss heads, crack heads, just nutters that go off their trolley ?

"

because i know no one is going to do anything whilst i am there.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Hell no I would not want to subject some innocent child to seeing me naked....I don't want them to have nightmares...

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Hi want to know people's views on playing at home when you have kids we have 4 quite young and are unsure weather or not to play at home we have a quiet lounge that when they are in be the kids can't see but can it be distracting? What's your thoughts??? "

My kids are at home (21 and 25) and I don't play at home when they're around!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't EVER play at home where my kids are... Not with ppl i've had a brief few words with an maybe a social. Definately not for me and nor would I play where there are kids too!

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Before my wife gave up on sex (boohoo) we used to have sex & our children lived with us.

I see no reason why there is a difference. As long as doors are shut or whatever & the children are monitored for wellbeing etc then why should they be a problem?"

I never understand these kinds of pointless comments, it's up there with the equally dumb what's the difference in having sex with my husband when pregnant and strangers? Gee...let me think!

If you honestly can't see the difference I despair!

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"No way I would meet someone with a child in the house, I'd also think less of someone who'd meet me with their child present. How do you know I'm not an axe murderer or worse? It's one thing putting yourself at risk inviting strangers into your home; quite another to put your offspring at risk."

Doesn't matter as long as you fuck em first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief "

I know unbelievable - people having sexual urges after childbirth - shocking really.

The trouble with these threads when they come up is that nobody else can judge what the actual circumstances are - the age of children, the relationship between the adults, the layout of the house etc. etc.

But what people can do is scream righteous indignation from upon their shiny glass pedestals.

If you're not putting the safety and welfare of your children first, you're a twat. However you're still entitled to a life. And sex despite all the cultural hangups it has in this country isn't actually dirty - its the reason people have kids funnily enough!

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By *irtyDee33Woman  over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief

I know unbelievable - people having sexual urges after childbirth - shocking really.

The trouble with these threads when they come up is that nobody else can judge what the actual circumstances are - the age of children, the relationship between the adults, the layout of the house etc. etc.

But what people can do is scream righteous indignation from upon their shiny glass pedestals.

If you're not putting the safety and welfare of your children first, you're a twat. However you're still entitled to a life. And sex despite all the cultural hangups it has in this country isn't actually dirty - its the reason people have kids funnily enough!"

Well said!!!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We once refused a social meet with a couple who wanted to bring their kids to a local coffee shop And they thought we were being unreasonable.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Parents have sex with each other when the kids are in bed so what's the difference lol

I wouldn't do it on a first meet as it's never a good idea to invite a stranger to your house. I'd probably do it after a social meet though.

I'd also only do it if I knew the kids would 100% stay in bed and not walk in on anything inappropriate.

I'm single and have no kids so it's just me speculating. At the end of the day it's your kids so make the decision that feels right to you.

If in doubt get a babysitter and a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief

I know unbelievable - people having sexual urges after childbirth - shocking really.

The trouble with these threads when they come up is that nobody else can judge what the actual circumstances are - the age of children, the relationship between the adults, the layout of the house etc. etc.

But what people can do is scream righteous indignation from upon their shiny glass pedestals.

If you're not putting the safety and welfare of your children first, you're a twat. However you're still entitled to a life. And sex despite all the cultural hangups it has in this country isn't actually dirty - its the reason people have kids funnily enough!

Well said!!!!! X"

Yes everyone is entitled to a sex life and yes there is life after having children, but to bring friends or what ever you would like to call them to your house regardless if the layout is just so wrong, maybe you have a North and west wing to you house

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By *issHottieBottieWoman  over a year ago

Kent

Just out of curiosity those saying they know their kids won't wake up, how do you know 100% that they won't? Bad dreams, illness? There's lots of reasons that they could wake up even if they normally sleep thru.

Like I said I've had my ex FB round here but my son is in a cot so if he woke the FB would of had to leave straight away. He'll be in a bed soon and although he generally sleeps well I wouldn't risk it.

And for those few that have said parents have sex etc with their kids at home so what's the difference?? There's a big difference between a kids mum and dad being caught under the covers than finding mum, dad and A.N.Other in a strange situation on the living room rug!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just out of curiosity those saying they know their kids won't wake up, how do you know 100% that they won't? Bad dreams, illness? There's lots of reasons that they could wake up even if they normally sleep thru.

Like I said I've had my ex FB round here but my son is in a cot so if he woke the FB would of had to leave straight away. He'll be in a bed soon and although he generally sleeps well I wouldn't risk it.

And for those few that have said parents have sex etc with their kids at home so what's the difference?? There's a big difference between a kids mum and dad being caught under the covers than finding mum, dad and A.N.Other in a strange situation on the living room rug! "

Yes they could a Least put a spare quilt on the floor, those rugs can be expensive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We once refused a social meet with a couple who wanted to bring their kids to a local coffee shop And they thought we were being unreasonable.

"

What ever next

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi want to know people's views on playing at home when you have kids we have 4 quite young and are unsure weather or not to play at home we have a quiet lounge that when they are in be the kids can't see but can it be distracting? What's your thoughts??? "

No, Never ever. I would not play if there were kids in the house.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief

I know unbelievable - people having sexual urges after childbirth - shocking really.

The trouble with these threads when they come up is that nobody else can judge what the actual circumstances are - the age of children, the relationship between the adults, the layout of the house etc. etc.

But what people can do is scream righteous indignation from upon their shiny glass pedestals.

If you're not putting the safety and welfare of your children first, you're a twat. However you're still entitled to a life. And sex despite all the cultural hangups it has in this country isn't actually dirty - its the reason people have kids funnily enough!

Well said!!!!! X

Yes everyone is entitled to a sex life and yes there is life after having children, but to bring friends or what ever you would like to call them to your house regardless if the layout is just so wrong, maybe you have a North and west wing to you house "

In fact we do (well North and East) but as said earlier our children are too old for us to play at home.

As for friends we'll continue to invite whoever we please. From time to time we may even get a little tipsy. And when we're really daring we may watch the occasional risqué film (low volume of course).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief

I know unbelievable - people having sexual urges after childbirth - shocking really.

The trouble with these threads when they come up is that nobody else can judge what the actual circumstances are - the age of children, the relationship between the adults, the layout of the house etc. etc.

But what people can do is scream righteous indignation from upon their shiny glass pedestals.

If you're not putting the safety and welfare of your children first, you're a twat. However you're still entitled to a life. And sex despite all the cultural hangups it has in this country isn't actually dirty - its the reason people have kids funnily enough!

Well said!!!!! X

Yes everyone is entitled to a sex life and yes there is life after having children, but to bring friends or what ever you would like to call them to your house regardless if the layout is just so wrong, maybe you have a North and west wing to you house

In fact we do (well North and East) but as said earlier our children are too old for us to play at home.

As for friends we'll continue to invite whoever we please. From time to time we may even get a little tipsy. And when we're really daring we may watch the occasional risqué film (low volume of course)."

Lost me now, never said not invite friends around, and at what age do you stop having swinging meets at home when kids are at home

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's our own business. If you read your own post back you'll see that you did say friends.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i cant realy imagine doing it when my son was a kid i might have wanted to though. i was always worried about him.

i would hate to feel i was neglecting him in any way.

its up to you though, i think it all depends how often you meet people and how long they stay for.

you would have to be extra careful who you invited round.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"That's our own business. If you read your own post back you'll see that you did say friends."
yes it was friends or what ever you call them ie swinging friends

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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"Parents have sex with each other when the kids are in bed so what's the difference lol

."

The difference between a mum and dad having sex to a load of naked bodies having group sex?

A big difference.

To the OP...if our kids were young we would only be meeting in Hotels....I know people say their children will never wake up, but I would never have felt comfortable having group sex in the house where my children were sleeping.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

love how people are getting on the moral high ground on here.if you were so righteous you wouldnt be on a site looking for other people to fuck at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"love how people are getting on the moral high ground on here.if you were so righteous you wouldnt be on a site looking for other people to fuck at all. "

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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"love how people are getting on the moral high ground on here.if you were so righteous you wouldnt be on a site looking for other people to fuck at all. "

Why is saying you wouldn't have group sex while your child is in the house on the moral high ground?

Being on this site doesn't affect children, or shouldn't !

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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"love how people are getting on the moral high ground on here.if you were so righteous you wouldnt be on a site looking for other people to fuck at all.

"

Err that means you too as you said you wouldn't either

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi want to know people's views on playing at home when you have kids we have 4 quite young and are unsure weather or not to play at home we have a quiet lounge that when they are in be the kids can't see but can it be distracting? What's your thoughts??? "

Absolutely no problem, just flick playstation on, they won't look sideways for the next 5 hours (joking of course).

Never play at home, EVER !

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"love how people are getting on the moral high ground on here.if you were so righteous you wouldnt be on a site looking for other people to fuck at all. "

its not the 'moral high ground'..

its a different opinion, that's all..

just a thought...?

do you class yourself as less than 'righteous' for being on here then..?

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By *EXY50ishWoman  over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in.

No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in.

No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it. "

Im in 100% agreement to this statement

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't go to someone's home to play knowing that the kids were upstairs...I wouldn't be comfortable as I'd be worried about waking them (I'm not very quiet!) or them walking in on us playing. If people think I'm on some kind of moral high ground because I enjoy sex with strangers but don't want to involve children in my exploits then I couldn't really give a shit...it's up to me how I play and I want to enjoy myself not worry someone else's little uns

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in.

No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it. "

What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in.

No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it.

What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?"

I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in.

No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it.

What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance?"

Exactly what chance are people taking by discussing their lives on this forum?

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in.

No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it.

What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance?

Exactly what chance are people taking by discussing their lives on this forum?"

I agree, people on here give far too much personal info, but its not obligatory is it? Putting a target on your profile by stating you have children is a risky business if you ARE meeting at home with kids in situ, or are you now going to tell me it isnt?

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By *irtyDee33Woman  over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I think it's the individuals judgement, there are different circumstances and reasons!!!

Who are we to judge each other!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in.

No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it.

What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance?

Exactly what chance are people taking by discussing their lives on this forum?I agree, people on here give far too much personal info, but its not obligatory is it? Putting a target on your profile by stating you have children is a risky business if you ARE meeting at home with kids in situ, or are you now going to tell me it isnt?"

As I wrote previously, if you don't put the safety and happiness of your children first, you're a twat.

I was referencing the suggestion that people should not mention their kids in discussions on here - should the discussions on kids in restaurants therefore be deemed unsafe? People chat all manner of crap about their lives, much like they do in swingers clubs. Or maybe we shouldn't do that for the risk somebody might pass word around that there's only a babysitter supervising them while we're busy being morally corrupt?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it's the individuals judgement, there are different circumstances and reasons!!!

Who are we to judge each other!!!"

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in.

No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it.

What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance?

Exactly what chance are people taking by discussing their lives on this forum?I agree, people on here give far too much personal info, but its not obligatory is it? Putting a target on your profile by stating you have children is a risky business if you ARE meeting at home with kids in situ, or are you now going to tell me it isnt?

As I wrote previously, if you don't put the safety and happiness of your children first, you're a twat.

I was referencing the suggestion that people should not mention their kids in discussions on here - should the discussions on kids in restaurants therefore be deemed unsafe? People chat all manner of crap about their lives, much like they do in swingers clubs. Or maybe we shouldn't do that for the risk somebody might pass word around that there's only a babysitter supervising them while we're busy being morally corrupt?"

You can do what you like, I prefer to keep my private life , private.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it's the individuals judgement, there are different circumstances and reasons!!!

Who are we to judge each other!!!"

Indeed

Well the kids are finally asleep - and now we get to play dirty scrabble..

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By *EXY50ishWoman  over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere


"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in.

No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it.

What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance?

Exactly what chance are people taking by discussing their lives on this forum?I agree, people on here give far too much personal info, but its not obligatory is it? Putting a target on your profile by stating you have children is a risky business if you ARE meeting at home with kids in situ, or are you now going to tell me it isnt?

As I wrote previously, if you don't put the safety and happiness of your children first, you're a twat.

I was referencing the suggestion that people should not mention their kids in discussions on here - should the discussions on kids in restaurants therefore be deemed unsafe? People chat all manner of crap about their lives, much like they do in swingers clubs. Or maybe we shouldn't do that for the risk somebody might pass word around that there's only a babysitter supervising them while we're busy being morally corrupt?"

Its my opinion and I'm entitled to it. And I don't think swinging is morally corrupt or I wouldn't be on here. I just wouldn't discuss children with complete strangers on a site that is predominately about fucking . As for other mundane threads I don't really take part in them I have REAL live friends and Facebook for stuff like that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Indeed you are - as am I to give my opinion on it.

You're very fortunate to have REAL friends. I used to, but then I had children

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I didn't play when the kids are in bed Id never be able to have sex. However, I only invite people I have met regularly into my home.

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By *EXY50ishWoman  over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere


"Indeed you are - as am I to give my opinion on it.

You're very fortunate to have REAL friends. I used to, but then I had children "

Yes but I didn't dismiss your opinion as bollox . And you can have kids and a life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Indeed you are - as am I to give my opinion on it.

You're very fortunate to have REAL friends. I used to, but then I had children

Yes but I didn't dismiss your opinion as bollox . And you can have kids and a life."

That's good to hear. I appreciated your suggestions for games to play with kids on the earlier thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No I wouldn't, I do not think it is right.

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