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over a year ago
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"Is it reasonable if a woman requests that a man (Stranger) wears a condom whilst she gives him oral? And why should he have an issue?"
And with your luscious lips a bj with or without condom would be a marvelous thing  |
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"Is it reasonable if a woman requests that a man (Stranger) wears a condom whilst she gives him oral? And why should he have an issue?"
It is reasonable to request for anyone you're gonna have any sexual encounter with where you're at risk of contracting an infection to wear protection.
However, you have to be happy for someone to request the same of you. If someone said they were going to give you oral with dental dam would you be OK with that?
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
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Thread hijack - do latex free condoms taste better than the regular kind?
OP - your mouth, your rules. STD risk is considerably less with oral, but not eliminated.
His problem if he doesn't like it. |
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"Thread hijack - do latex free condoms taste better than the regular kind?
OP - your mouth, your rules. STD risk is considerably less with oral, but not eliminated.
His problem if he doesn't like it."
Latex free taste slightly better but the biggest issue for me is the teat at the end which makes me choke |
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over a year ago
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It is only reasonable if you know before the meet that this is the score .
If we travelled to a meet and were unaware of this prerequisite we would be most upset at wasting our time . Of course we would also be equally as much to blame for not asking , but does anyone seriously think to ask ?
It's only happened once to us and that was in a club , and the lady who insisted was told to forget it . Since my wife was five minutes into sucking her husband off unprotected it seemed reasonable !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's reasonable as long as you tell him before you meet. If I got to a meet and suddenly had it sprung on me I would not be happy.. have done it but it's awful.. so would rather not. But it's your choice.. but as someone has said... People may request the same back.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everything to do with swinging must always be about respecting others wishes, and not exceeding their boundaries. If the lady wishes use of a condom in oral sex, then use of a condom it must be, without question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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NOPE I wouldn't wear a condom for a bj NOR would I expect to wear a dental dam for cunny
The lady (or gent) wouldn't need to tell me to eff off cos I'd already b heading out the door of my own volition! |
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"Everything to do with swinging must always be about respecting others wishes, and not exceeding their boundaries. If the lady wishes use of a condom in oral sex, then use of a condom it must be, without question"
Errrr not quite ..... men can say no too and I would rather go without |
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"Is it reasonable if a woman requests that a man (Stranger) wears a condom whilst she gives him oral? And why should he have an issue?"
I agree that everyone is entitled to decide for themselves how they intend to have safe sex.
However I disagree with the underlying theme seen on this post and its replies that women have preferences while men only have 'issues'.
He has as much right to decide what he wants as you do. If your preferences aren't compatible just go your separate ways.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never been asked to wear a condom before getting a bj but think it would be comparable with going for dump while keeping your underpants on!!!!
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Not if she's that good at giving head, once had a girlfriend who hated cum and wouldn't give me a blow job without a condom, I've struggled to find a woman better at it with or without since |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everything to do with swinging must always be about respecting others wishes, and not exceeding their boundaries. If the lady wishes use of a condom in oral sex, then use of a condom it must be, without question
Errrr not quite ..... men can say no too and I would rather go without "
Your absolutely right. I stand corrected |
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"Is it reasonable if a woman requests that a man (Stranger) wears a condom whilst she gives him oral? And why should he have an issue?
I agree that everyone is entitled to decide for themselves how they intend to have safe sex.
However I disagree with the underlying theme seen on this post and its replies that women have preferences while men only have 'issues'.
He has as much right to decide what he wants as you do. If your preferences aren't compatible just go your separate ways.
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Both parties are allowed to say what they want protection wise...if they don't agree then don't play! Also agree with others that this should be stated before a meet as condoms for oral is less common due to the lower risks |
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Me.personaly dont see wot problem is at of day its about being very careful but i wonder if ya wud still b able to feel coldness of ice.cubes on the condom lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm sure if a meet was arranged then she would request before the meet so don't think it would be an issue. Sexual health is important to most so id be gone with it |
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