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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello again!
Has anyone had many bad experiences and has this put you off?
I've only had good and worried my luck will run out! Wondered if it's put anyone off or just brush it off x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Not bad as in scary, but I have met some men who just didn't really click with me. Been stood up a couple of times. Met guys who were 20 years older and 100 lbs fatter than their pics. But with the number of meets I've had I would be surprised if I'd had a perfect record. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Yes, I did a few weeks ago! Still not totally sure what it was etc, but it really did put me off and left me a bit shaken, hopefully, I'm now back in the saddle so to speak and looking.....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None on meets, one in a club a few weeks back but thanks to some very lovely (and gorgeous) people i wasn't worried on my next club visit
Not completely over it as i haven't tried to do what i was doing at the time again, but hopefully I'll be able to again soon!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only one. Guy claimed to be my age but was more like 70-80. Agreed to meet him at his place. "A bag of bones" was the thought that came to mind. I just said "Thanks but no thanks" and left.
Had one guy show up after we'd messaged quite a bit and say "I've only got one leg. That's not a problem is it?" which was bloody cheeky, but on the other hand had a really horny time with him and have met him several times again since where if he'd told me upfront I'd probably not have agreed to meet.
But overall, my meets have been great. If they're not then you leave or tell the other person to leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not had any bad experiences as such this time round. Disappointments maybe and took a few days to reflect and re-think matters, but that's not always a bad thing!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ermmm I done meeting people for a while. And most have all been good.
Worse was banging a girl when her house mate come back. Who was her ex did not like fact she was having fun and all kicked off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ermmm I done meeting people for a while. And most have all been good.
Worse was banging a girl when her house mate come back. Who was her ex did not like fact she was having fun and all kicked off. "
Yeah see I worry about stuff like that or couples and one getting jealous and kicking off.
Makes me even more worried knowing people have and it's shaken them or put them off. Hate thinking people have gone through that.
I guess we'll just see what the future holds and try to be sensible what with verifications and meeting in public first etc.
Hope you all have his experiences in the future! Well I hope everyone does. This is supposed to be fun after all xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not had any bad experiences as such this time round. Disappointments maybe and took a few days to reflect and re-think matters, but that's not always a bad thing! "
My philosophy is not to trust what people say but to be open to them telling the truth. Time will tell either way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello again!
Has anyone had many bad experiences and has this put you off?
I've only had good and worried my luck will run out! Wondered if it's put anyone off or just brush it off x"
Nope, been very lucky with my choices so far but if i did have a bad un! then i would put it down to experience and move on...best way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one last night. Invited a regular FB over and he brought three friends - all seemed very nice and we had a great time...... Till I checked my phone and found one of them had routed down my phone from my handbag and texted to numbers unknown my private sexual vids !!! Grrrr x phone lock on and trust severely dented  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had one last night. Invited a regular FB over and he brought three friends - all seemed very nice and we had a great time...... Till I checked my phone and found one of them had routed down my phone from my handbag and texted to numbers unknown my private sexual vids !!! Grrrr x phone lock on and trust severely dented "
bang out of order that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had one last night. Invited a regular FB over and he brought three friends - all seemed very nice and we had a great time...... Till I checked my phone and found one of them had routed down my phone from my handbag and texted to numbers unknown my private sexual vids !!! Grrrr x phone lock on and trust severely dented
bang out of order that"
^^^^ this!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ermmm I done meeting people for a while. And most have all been good.
Worse was banging a girl when her house mate come back. Who was her ex did not like fact she was having fun and all kicked off.
Yeah see I worry about stuff like that or couples and one getting jealous and kicking off.
Makes me even more worried knowing people have and it's shaken them or put them off. Hate thinking people have gone through that.
I guess we'll just see what the future holds and try to be sensible what with verifications and meeting in public first etc.
Hope you all have his experiences in the future! Well I hope everyone does. This is supposed to be fun after all xx"
Yup has put me off slightly I dont often like going to peoples house who I dont no. Would rather fun else where.
But id still meet people just have be more careful who you meet I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had one last night. Invited a regular FB over and he brought three friends - all seemed very nice and we had a great time...... Till I checked my phone and found one of them had routed down my phone from my handbag and texted to numbers unknown my private sexual vids !!! Grrrr x phone lock on and trust severely dented "
I always keep fone close to hand during a meet or turn it off. Never can trust any one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes had a fairly dangerous one .. hense i now won't go straight to a guys house .. had some rubbish meets and a couple of horendous ones .. but also had a few nice ones |
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By *-BelleWoman
over a year ago
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Had a few bad ones over the years. From people who look nothing like their pics to men who don't take no for an answer.
Only once have I been in a situation where I really thought I could be in trouble. I put myself there, so go along with it and get out quick was my answer.
Not nice but I learnt from it and moved on. |
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my first ever meet off here was bad and scary. I have learned from it and never made the mistake again. Had 2 no shows and one or two couples getting jealous and arguing, so only meet in clubs now. |
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