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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Most guys would love to play with a "babe" and most girls would love to play with a "hunk"
When we choose a playmate, ie another couple or person to swing with, are we sub-consiously choosing our ideal through some primeaval instinct?  |
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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago
northampton |
When I play I am not looking for my ideal partner.... I am married to him! In a playmate I am looking for someone that I am compatable with mentally and sexually and that I can have a damn good time with!! There has to be a spark... some thing that attracts me to them... they don't have to be Brad Pitt but if they give me a look that tells me they find me irresistable or touch me and I want more...kiss me and I want to drag them to bed.... THEN I know I have found what I am looking for... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im sure we would all choose someone we feel comfortable with.......how do people feel about playing with people that have a fitter body than they or their partner does?? does that help or hinder the action???  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"im sure we would all choose someone we feel comfortable with.......how do people feel about playing with people that have a fitter body than they or their partner does?? does that help or hinder the action??? "
Kate likes tall, "chunky" guys. I'm 6ft, and 16 stone, but she likes guys taller and bigger than me 
I like "leggy" ladies, whereas Kate bumps her arse on the gutter when she steps off the pavement
So I suppose our ideal couple would be a big guy with a leggy wife  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I worried about people with fitter bodies than me I would wear a burka and only play with myself under it -  !!
I like "alpha males"...the type of men that when out on a meet before playing you see other women looking at. There is something very, VERY alluring playing with a fit man, seeing his erection, hearing him beg and moan when all your bits have sagged, your spare tyres have spare tyres etc.
It's all about fun and enjoyment - I personally find it off putting if men start putting themselves down - if they don't think they're worth it then why should I put up with it?!! Guys that make me laugh - who go pale when they see the contents of my toy box, question my sanity but still let me - tee hee |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"a pulse is an optional extra "
seriously we have to be able to be friends as well as shag buddies - we're meeting up again this weekend with the first couple we ever swapped with in the dim and distant past and it will be like we have never been apart - Brilliant! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most guys would love to play with a "babe" and most girls would love to play with a "hunk"
When we choose a playmate, ie another couple or person to swing with, are we sub-consiously choosing our ideal through some primeaval instinct? "
Awww jack ya sweetie, didnt think you thought of me as a 'leggy babe' or is this mental foreplay for when my legs are wrapped round your neck tomorrow lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most guys would love to play with a "babe" and most girls would love to play with a "hunk"
When we choose a playmate, ie another couple or person to swing with, are we sub-consiously choosing our ideal through some primeaval instinct? "
Ideally someone who looks good and turns me on. Primeval instinct? Yep I want to get my end away but I wouldn’t fuck anything like some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to admit that when i first started this hobby, i was soooooo fussy i hardly had any meets, but as my confidence has soared ( I am a social butterfly) i find that looks dont matter as much although i still have a few pointers i like to stick too, but i have even found myself playing with guys older than me and its something i would never have contemplated before. but as someone once told me its only dancing with a different dance partner.
but a sense of humour is a prerequisite after all its meant to be fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most guys would love to play with a "babe" and most girls would love to play with a "hunk"
When we choose a playmate, ie another couple or person to swing with, are we sub-consiously choosing our ideal through some primeaval instinct?
Awww jack ya sweetie, didnt think you thought of me as a 'leggy babe' or is this mental foreplay for when my legs are wrapped round your neck tomorrow lol "
Mental foreplay? C'mon now Betty, you know I'm far too thick for mind games....I just want to shag ya brains out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im looking for the male equivelent of myself... just a friend with priveleges but with freedom to do who they choose!! if they can make me laugh and i feel comfortable with them then its usually systems go!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmm good question , dont think ill ever get a "babe" so for me its just about finding folk who are open and honest with a good sense of humour . everything else is negotiable . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol im too busy to interview lol after all i did them last week
Busy seeing flamin hearts here for this party on sat hundreds of the buggers on the walls, you better watch out jack you should see your room, you are gonna wake up either a romantic or gay. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lol im too busy to interview lol after all i did them last week
Busy seeing flamin hearts here for this party on sat hundreds of the buggers on the walls, you better watch out jack you should see your room, you are gonna wake up either a romantic or gay."
My room....fook....you didn't tell me I was movin in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you got no option hun shackles are already being welded into place, think the land lord might have something to say but oh well im sure i can take one for the team lol |
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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago
northampton |
"you got no option hun shackles are already being welded into place, think the land lord might have something to say but oh well im sure i can take one for the team lol"
Sod this lol, I wanna see hehe!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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_aycee i will take pics tomorrow and post them on my profile lol
jenny and her bitch lol
Oh and jack notice you didnt comment on the romantic or gay comment,
Im starting a book!!!!!! Odds on |
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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago
northampton |
"_aycee i will take pics tomorrow and post them on my profile lol
jenny and her bitch lol
Oh and jack notice you didnt comment on the romantic or gay comment,
Im starting a book!!!!!! Odds on"
Lol, wish we were closer would come and help you shackle him hehe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cornwall is a damn long way from here - I drive it often enough ........ do stay in a hotel that has two very large double beds in each room though "
Just let us know, the next time you're down this way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What am I looking for ?
6 lucky feckin numbers so I don't have to worry where next week's rent is coming from.
Anything after that, be it a hunk or a babe is a bonus |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"Cornwall is a damn long way from here - I drive it often enough ........ do stay in a hotel that has two very large double beds in each room though
Just let us know, the next time you're down this way "
I'll probably be down 1st week in March but Karen won't be with me |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"Perfect timing then as we have a social in plymouth on the 6th march.
xx "
hmmm maybe I can persuade Karen to meet me down there as I was intending to be there 1/2 march then up to Scotland but could fly exeter/edinburgh/exeter I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im looking for the male equivelent of myself... just a friend with priveleges but with freedom to do who they choose!! if they can make me laugh and i feel comfortable with them then its usually systems go!! xx"
Couldn't put it better myself!! or maybe I would say "special friend" lol |
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"When I play I am not looking for my ideal partner.... I am married to him! In a playmate I am looking for someone that I am compatable with mentally and sexually and that I can have a damn good time with!! There has to be a spark... some thing that attracts me to them... they don't have to be Brad Pitt but if they give me a look that tells me they find me irresistable or touch me and I want more...kiss me and I want to drag them to bed.... THEN I know I have found what I am looking for... "
Think you summed it up perfectly for the majority there Jem |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im looking for the male equivelent of myself... just a friend with priveleges but with freedom to do who they choose!! if they can make me laugh and i feel comfortable with them then its usually systems go!! xx"
Same here and throw in honesty and less ignorance then im ok with it.
Mind....think ive found him already so quite happy with my lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to make me laugh, hold a converstation not about sex with me. Then be presentable in all ways. Tracks suits if clean and neat look well on fit guys. Nice smile and sexy bedroom eyes.
Oh nice bum too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've noticed,when looking at profiles and the varifications on them,that like seems to attract and meet like.
Its maybe a case of staying in the comfort zone,whether conscious or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am lumpy everywhere and do not consider myself as a babe. However, gentlemen seem to like me as I am, so who am I to argue?!
I don't go for just "hunks", as I have always believed there has got to be more to physical attributes to a person.
If a gent builds like a Greek God, and can make me laugh, and is a good cook and a good lover, then I am not going to say no! |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I am lumpy everywhere and do not consider myself as a babe. However, gentlemen seem to like me as I am, so who am I to argue?!
I don't go for just "hunks", as I have always believed there has got to be more to physical attributes to a person.
If a gent builds like a Greek God, and can make me laugh, and is a good cook and a good lover, then I am not going to say no! "
yes but what if he was all those things and had minging feet ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a gent builds like a Greek God, and can make me laugh, and is a good cook and a good lover, then I am not going to say no! yes but what if he was all those things and had minging feet ?"
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Very small things can put me off a gent, like dirty finger nail or rough hands, badly capped teeth, bad table manners, etc...
Bad feet I am just about put up with by insisting on him wearing socks! |
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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago
northampton |
"If a gent builds like a Greek God, and can make me laugh, and is a good cook and a good lover, then I am not going to say no! yes but what if he was all those things and had minging feet ?
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Very small things can put me off a gent, like dirty finger nail or rough hands, badly capped teeth, bad table manners, etc...
Bad feet I am just about put up with by insisting on him wearing socks! "
No!! Not sex with socks on lol. It's actually illegal.. (well in my rules hehe)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very small things can put me off a gent, like dirty finger nail or rough hands, badly capped teeth, bad table manners, etc...
Bad feet I am just about put up with by insisting on him wearing socks!
No!! Not sex with socks on lol. It's actually illegal.. (well in my rules hehe) "
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I rather play with a gent wearing socks, than to see his ugly feet, sorry!  |
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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago
northampton |
"Very small things can put me off a gent, like dirty finger nail or rough hands, badly capped teeth, bad table manners, etc...
Bad feet I am just about put up with by insisting on him wearing socks!
No!! Not sex with socks on lol. It's actually illegal.. (well in my rules hehe)
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I rather play with a gent wearing socks, than to see his ugly feet, sorry! "
Lol, if his feet were that manky he would be off... I would be worried about where he was gonna be rubbing them and I would freak |
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