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over a year ago
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There isn't a right for this site everyone has different taste ect, I'm a BBw not everyone taste but also there is alot of people on here which loves it & take me for who I am  |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I don't know?off here I don't find it hard to get messages back on here tho it's very rarely get a message even to chat ? "
Use the quote button so people know who you are replying to.
Firstly, you have been on a week, patience is the key.
Not everyone will reply to your messages.
There are a lot of single men, so you need to try and stick out in your messages. Tailor each message to each profile.
Get involved in the forums by joining in on subjects you like.
I haven't read your profile or looked at your pics, I only looked at how long you have been on.
Try doing a forum search for profile advice.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I don't know?off here I don't find it hard to get messages back on here tho it's very rarely get a message even to chat ?
Use the quote button so people know who you are replying to.
Firstly, you have been on a week, patience is the key.
Not everyone will reply to your messages.
There are a lot of single men, so you need to try and stick out in your messages. Tailor each message to each profile.
Get involved in the forums by joining in on subjects you like.
I haven't read your profile or looked at your pics, I only looked at how long you have been on.
Try doing a forum search for profile advice.
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thank you for the advice it has helped a lot I realise I haven't been on here for long maybe I should wait abit then may find the experience different |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I don't know?off here I don't find it hard to get messages back on here tho it's very rarely get a message even to chat ? "
For me anyone who joins a site like this should ask themselves if their efforts are being met with sufficient reward to warrant sticking at aspect of a scene where we’ve all been responsible for setting our own expectations ......  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What is the right look for the site?
It is entirely up to you and what and how you feel in regards to if you think the site is for you.
Good luck."
I really don't know suppose it's just your everyday person with a swinging side ? Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I don't know?off here I don't find it hard to get messages back on here tho it's very rarely get a message even to chat ?
For me anyone who joins a site like this should ask themselves if their efforts are being met with sufficient reward to warrant sticking at aspect of a scene where we’ve all been responsible for setting our own expectations ...... "
maybe I'm expecting to much to early ? |
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"Well I don't know?off here I don't find it hard to get messages back on here tho it's very rarely get a message even to chat ?
Use the quote button so people know who you are replying to.
Firstly, you have been on a week, patience is the key.
Not everyone will reply to your messages.
aaaaahhhhh squirell lol
There are a lot of single men, so you need to try and stick out in your messages. Tailor each message to each profile.
Get involved in the forums by joining in on subjects you like.
I haven't read your profile or looked at your pics, I only looked at how long you have been on.
Try doing a forum search for profile advice.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do I look like I'm right for the site ?
May I ask what your expectations were when you joined? Be honest."
I was told to come on by a female friend and was pretty open minded,maybe I expected it to be easy |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I don't know?off here I don't find it hard to get messages back on here tho it's very rarely get a message even to chat ?
Use the quote button so people know who you are replying to.
Firstly, you have been on a week, patience is the key.
Not everyone will reply to your messages.
aaaaahhhhh squirell lol
There are a lot of single men, so you need to try and stick out in your messages. Tailor each message to each profile.
Get involved in the forums by joining in on subjects you like.
I haven't read your profile or looked at your pics, I only looked at how long you have been on.
Try doing a forum search for profile advice.
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See! Them squirrels get everywhere! |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc |
"Well I don't know?off here I don't find it hard to get messages back on here tho it's very rarely get a message even to chat ?
Use the quote button so people know who you are replying to.
Firstly, you have been on a week, patience is the key.
Not everyone will reply to your messages.
There are a lot of single men, so you need to try and stick out in your messages. Tailor each message to each profile.
Get involved in the forums by joining in on subjects you like.
I haven't read your profile or looked at your pics, I only looked at how long you have been on.
Try doing a forum search for profile advice.
thank you for the advice it has helped a lot I realise I haven't been on here for long maybe I should wait abit then may find the experience different "
Just find your feet, get a feel for the site and browse the forums. There are a lot in your position who have been here a while.
Maybe look in the meets and parties for any socials near you, if that is something you'd like 
Socials are a good way of meeting new people.
Be yourself, be patient, and decide yourself whether this is for you. Remember though, this is not a site for an easy lay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I don't know?off here I don't find it hard to get messages back on here tho it's very rarely get a message even to chat ?
For me anyone who joins a site like this should ask themselves if their efforts are being met with sufficient reward to warrant sticking at aspect of a scene where we’ve all been responsible for setting our own expectations ...... maybe I'm expecting to much to early ? "
Rather than expecting too much to soon!....It may well be you've set you expectations to high altogether.....
But only you know the answer to what those expectations are!
Only you know how much effort you’re putting in....!
Its all subjective to the value each individual places on their motives and intentions..
I would say as you seem genuine enough to ask for advice , so for me you should stick around and enjoy the learning curve we all went though,,,, and if by doing so, you find some success the way, at least your time would not have been wasted,,,,
But if you leave you'll never know!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well I don't know?off here I don't find it hard to get messages back on here tho it's very rarely get a message even to chat ?
For me anyone who joins a site like this should ask themselves if their efforts are being met with sufficient reward to warrant sticking at aspect of a scene where we’ve all been responsible for setting our own expectations ...... maybe I'm expecting to much to early ?
Rather than expecting too much to soon!....It may well be you've set you expectations to high altogether.....
But only you know the answer to what those expectations are!
Only you know how much effort you’re putting in....!
Its all subjective to the value each individual places on their motives and intentions..
I would say as you seem genuine enough to ask for advice , so for me you should stick around and enjoy the learning curve we all went though,,,, and if by doing so, you find some success the way, at least your time would not have been wasted,,,,
But if you leave you'll never know!
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thanks I think I'm going to take your advice you seem very I telliegent thanks helped me out |
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