I go to a club most sat nights alone which i dont mind, but was always put off going with a bloke, unless it was my ex fb, as i always thought people would think bad of me going to a club with different blokes, is it me or would people not really care or give it any thought!!!
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"I don't understand why anyone would think badly of you. After all, it's a swingers club and everyone else is there for the same reason"
Thanks, maybe i need to not be bothered wht people think too much!! |
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Surely you will be hooking up with different men every time if you go alone? So no difference in turning up with a different guy or chatting up a new one at the club?
If they think it's bad that you're having fun they are in the wrong club.   x |
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"Surely you will be hooking up with different men every time if you go alone? So no difference in turning up with a different guy or chatting up a new one at the club?
If they think it's bad that you're having fun they are in the wrong club. x"
I agree with this, what's the difference going into a club with a different guy to meeting different guys once in there.
I shouldn't imagine anyone would pay the slightest bit of notice |
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Its totally cool in my eyes, been with a few different ladies and had great fun everytime,its also nice to think someone is there to lookout for ya and also when you approach people you have soneone there to back up ya conversation, I like going with others as find you have good banta and a more relaxed evening,
Like others have already stated people are in the wrong place if they think bad of ya for turning up each week time different man, I think lucky you as you have it going on  |
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My local club owner once sidled up to me and asked me quietly if I wanted him to pretend I'dnever been before when I came in with new men!
That gave me a good giggle 
As I told him "if the guys can't cope with who I am then that's the end of them"  |
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"My local club owner once sidled up to me and asked me quietly if I wanted him to pretend I'dnever been before when I came in with new men!
That gave me a good giggle
As I told him "if the guys can't cope with who I am then that's the end of them" "
thanks and hi again, we did meet socially at my usual club cupids |
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My only thought would be that if you were regularly going to a couples only night and not sticking with your companion of the evening you might be seen as not observing the "couples as couples" spirit of the night. |
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"My only thought would be that if you were regularly going to a couples only night and not sticking with your companion of the evening you might be seen as not observing the "couples as couples" spirit of the night."
no i dont do couples night, did when i was in a relationship, but not now im single!! |
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I have been to clubs with different men I don't think people notice you would get all the attention anyway. I have a habit of walking around and getting up to mishief even when I have gone with some because we are buddies and its not a big deal. |
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